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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wakefield Social is back with new organisers this coming Saturday 1st June.

List is now closed to single males unless I have met you previously.

Still open to couples and single females and is set to be a good one.

Entry is £5pp to cover costs and we will be having a dj, party games and a free raffle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wakefield Social is back with new organisers this coming Saturday 1st June.

List is now closed to single males unless I have met you previously.

Still open to couples and single females and is set to be a good one.

Entry is £5pp to cover costs and we will be having a dj, party

games and a free raffle. "

If it's a public venue how can you stop people just walking in?

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Wakefield Social is back with new organisers this coming Saturday 1st June.

List is now closed to single males unless I have met you previously.

Still open to couples and single females and is set to be a good one.

Entry is £5pp to cover costs and we will be having a dj, party

games and a free raffle.

If it's a public venue how can you stop people just walking in?"

Think she said its closed to public for refurbishment? But I cant be 100% on that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wakefield Social is back with new organisers this coming Saturday 1st June.

List is now closed to single males unless I have met you previously.

Still open to couples and single females and is set to be a good one.

Entry is £5pp to cover costs and we will be having a dj, party

games and a free raffle.

If it's a public venue how can you stop people just walking in?

Think she said its closed to public for refurbishment? But I cant be 100% on that x "

It's not x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have sole use of the function room upstairs but I'm informed that the regulars have said they'll choose to drink elsewhere to give us privacy and have complete access of the bar.

I can't understand what the big issue is here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have sole use of the function room upstairs but I'm informed that the regulars have said they'll choose to drink elsewhere to give us privacy and have complete access of the bar.

I can't understand what the big issue is here. "

The issue is first you said it was a private venue, then it was closed for refurbishment to public,now it's that the regulars will drink elsewhere.

That function room is small and stuffy, its gonna be warm and the locals will want to come for a nosey which means no privacy or discretion for people who are paying in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'll find that the people who go out of their way to organise and put together these socials (wherever they are being held) to do for OUR sake. Usually, and this isn't said lightly, there is usually room hire, cleaning of the room afterwards (even if the room is free of charge), nibbles and/or snacks, raffle prizes, dj expenses etc. Maybe Wet n Wild, you ought to try and organise one on your "free" and "no admittance charges theory......

Well done Cherry and thank you for all your hard work ;o)

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you'll find that the people who go out of their way to organise and put together these socials (wherever they are being held) to do for OUR sake. Usually, and this isn't said lightly, there is usually room hire, cleaning of the room afterwards (even if the room is free of charge), nibbles and/or snacks, raffle prizes, dj expenses etc. Maybe Wet n Wild, you ought to try and organise one on your "free" and "no admittance charges theory......

Well done Cherry and thank you for all your hard work ;o)

xxx"

Used to do it regularly,ask around. Wasn't a business to me, did it for peoples enjoyment.

If it's a private event fair enough but shouldn't be a charge for a public house that any Tom,Dick or Harry to turn upto for a nosey.

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By *bwitchedwarlock69Couple
over a year ago

Batley, West Yorkshire


"I think you'll find that the people who go out of their way to organise and put together these socials (wherever they are being held) to do for OUR sake. Usually, and this isn't said lightly, there is usually room hire, cleaning of the room afterwards (even if the room is free of charge), nibbles and/or snacks, raffle prizes, dj expenses etc. Maybe Wet n Wild, you ought to try and organise one on your "free" and "no admittance charges theory......

Well done Cherry and thank you for all your hard work ;o)

xxx"

She did organise the wakey free social for many years of which thousands of people have attended.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"I think you'll find that the people who go out of their way to organise and put together these socials (wherever they are being held) to do for OUR sake. Usually, and this isn't said lightly, there is usually room hire, cleaning of the room afterwards (even if the room is free of charge), nibbles and/or snacks, raffle prizes, dj expenses etc. Maybe Wet n Wild, you ought to try and organise one on your "free" and "no admittance charges theory......

Well done Cherry and thank you for all your hard work ;o)

xxx

She did organise the wakey free social for many years of which thousands of people have attended."

So how come no longer doing them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you'll find that the people who go out of their way to organise and put together these socials (wherever they are being held) to do for OUR sake. Usually, and this isn't said lightly, there is usually room hire, cleaning of the room afterwards (even if the room is free of charge), nibbles and/or snacks, raffle prizes, dj expenses etc. Maybe Wet n Wild, you ought to try and organise one on your "free" and "no admittance charges theory......

Well done Cherry and thank you for all your hard work ;o)

xxx

She did organise the wakey free social for many years of which thousands of people have attended.

So how come no longer doing them ? "

Family and work commitments....not that its anyone's business.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

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"I think you'll find that the people who go out of their way to organise and put together these socials (wherever they are being held) to do for OUR sake. Usually, and this isn't said lightly, there is usually room hire, cleaning of the room afterwards (even if the room is free of charge), nibbles and/or snacks, raffle prizes, dj expenses etc. Maybe Wet n Wild, you ought to try and organise one on your "free" and "no admittance charges theory......

Well done Cherry and thank you for all your hard work ;o)

xxx

She did organise the wakey free social for many years of which thousands of people have attended.

So how come no longer doing them ?

Family and work commitments....not that its anyone's business."

Excuse me ! You put it on here and it's none of your business how she runs her event you dont like it dont go !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The charge for social was clearly stated in the opening of other forum thread so why there's an issue now I really can't understand why you put your name down.

Secondly the function room upstairs is privately hired out to us so for people who don't want to be seen with 'swingers' can hide up there. A public house cannot officially give out the title of 'private party' due to licensing laws however I am assured by the NEW OWNERS that it will be just us. Can't divulge anymore than that. So no there won't be people just wandering in for a nosey.

Thirdly, and sorry if this sounds rude or disrespectful, but if this 'free wakey social' was so successful and great then why aren't you still hosting them? Probably because of the class of people who attended them made it so that you were banned from holding them.

You are welcome to attend but please don't moan about it.

This is my way of doing it so if you don't like it......... "

I stopped doing the Wakey Social way before it ended so not sure quite what you mean, as for slagging the class of people that attended off.....well done that's 3/4 of your guest list.

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By *ack annieCouple
over a year ago

york

Hi can you put our name down please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi can you put our name down please "

Of course xx

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By *bwitchedwarlock69Couple
over a year ago

Batley, West Yorkshire

We know how big the pub is upstairs and downstairs...no one will want to stay upstairs when the bar,dancefloor,toilets and smoking area are downstairs...upstairs will hold about 30 people comfortably.

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By *rambedCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We're looking forward to it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not getting into an argument about it but I know that's not the case.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We know how big the pub is upstairs and downstairs...no one will want to stay upstairs when the bar,dancefloor,toilets and smoking area are downstairs...upstairs will hold about 30 people comfortably."

It holds 50 and part of the refurbishment is to put a small bar up there too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is supposed to be a nice social event for meet new potential playmates however this silliness is actually making some individuals look very undesirable.

I'm looking forward to it and certainly gonna have a great time so whoever is on the guest list wants to actually embrace it and enjoy themselves is welcome. Any miserable ones may as well stay at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is supposed to be a nice social event for meet new potential playmates however this silliness is actually making some individuals look very undesirable.

I'm looking forward to it and certainly gonna have a great time so whoever is on the guest list wants to actually embrace it and enjoy themselves is welcome. Any miserable ones may as well stay at home "

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By *bwitchedwarlock69Couple
over a year ago

Batley, West Yorkshire


"This is supposed to be a nice social event for meet new potential playmates however this silliness is actually making some individuals look very undesirable.

I'm looking forward to it and certainly gonna have a great time so whoever is on the guest list wants to actually embrace it and enjoy themselves is welcome. Any miserable ones may as well stay at home "

But you can't stop people walking in because it's a public house and the music is gonna attract walk ins...we know this...and you've only got the use of a tiny function room...we might pop in for a beer or 2 and see some old friends

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By *iolet2016Couple
over a year ago

consett

Really looking forward to this and thank you to the organisers for putting themselves out on a sat night so we can enjoy ourselves. The more the merrier spot the vanillas n see how many we can turn lol just lightening the mood Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really looking forward to this and thank you to the organisers for putting themselves out on a sat night so we can enjoy ourselves. The more the merrier spot the vanillas n see how many we can turn lol just lightening the mood Xx "

Abso-bloody-lutely.

Any regulars that push their luck and come along after being told what type of event it is are clearly closet swingers and will be getting charged an entrance fee.

As the person who has hired the venue for a party I reserve the right to refuse someone entry and don't think I don't because I will

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By *iolet2016Couple
over a year ago

consett

Can i frisk them lol Xx

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By *inkybabe1109Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Can wait this will be a brilliant night

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By *heffcouple77Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Best get there early

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By *inkybabe1109Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Looking forward to it

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Looking forward to it"

Me too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really looking forward to it now....

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over a year ago

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

Can I bring a plus 1 xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I bring a plus 1 xx "

Inbox me their fab name

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Can I bring a plus 1 xx

Inbox me their fab name "

Sent x

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By *ulnade70sCouple
over a year ago

Up north

We're looking forward to it not been to a social yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guest list is typed up now and I'm getting very excited xx

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By *inkybabe1109Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"We're looking forward to it not been to a social yet. "
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It will be nice to meet new friends

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Looming forward to meeting new and old friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going be a great night can’t wait. Like a kid in a sweet shop now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheryl’s just mentioned there’s 164 on guest list now. Definitely the place to be Saturday night that’s for sure

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Cheryl’s just mentioned there’s 164 on guest list now. Definitely the place to be Saturday night that’s for sure "

A list of those names would be nice and will we all fit in there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think after the green eyed monsters surfaced yesterday on forum post a list would be best keeping private till the event. Won’t be any issue with room at all. Still places available if anyone fancies coming just message the O/P. Looking forward to seeing everyone tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure it’s going to be a cracking social xx

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Really looking forward to it, it will be a fun packed night with the chance of meeting new friends

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Think after the green eyed monsters surfaced yesterday on forum post a list would be best keeping private till the event. Won’t be any issue with room at all. Still places available if anyone fancies coming just message the O/P. Looking forward to seeing everyone tomorrow "

Why? Always like to see who is going.

Can’t see the difference if it is published or not.

Didn’t see a green eyed monster, someone who might be a tad peeved, don’t understand the reason, and the posts might be a little negative. However we are who we are.

Just wish someone with experience would do a Hudds one.

Sick of travelling 15 miles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O yes today’s the day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm very excited.

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yippppppeeee its Saturday, its gorgeous and its wakefield social!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yippppppeeee its Saturday, its gorgeous and its wakefield social!!!! "

Bring on the bbq

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yippppppeeee its Saturday, its gorgeous and its wakefield social!!!!

Bring on the bbq "

And the snogs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yippppppeeee its Saturday, its gorgeous and its wakefield social!!!!

Bring on the bbq

And the snogs "

Well that goes without saying lol

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By *rincess007Woman
over a year ago

Barnsley/Rotherham

Unfortunately didn’t receive any details but I hope you all have a fantastic night as I know you will. Hope it goes well for you Cheryl

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By *he Genie xMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Anymore spaces can I be added

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Unfortunately didn’t receive any details but I hope you all have a fantastic night as I know you will. Hope it goes well for you Cheryl "
thought you took your name off list ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately didn’t receive any details but I hope you all have a fantastic night as I know you will. Hope it goes well for you Cheryl "

You took your name off the list hun

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m sure this is going to be a great night. My home town social. Sadly I can’t make it. Have a great night.

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By *he Genie xMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Can i be added

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure this is going to be a great night. My home town social. Sadly I can’t make it. Have a great night. "

Thanks hun

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By *each bumCouple
over a year ago

west yorks

Hey Hun sorry can not make it ,Been called into work and on till 12 tonight, was looking forward to it and seeing you all, hopefully next one I won’t be working have fun babe xx

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By *rincess007Woman
over a year ago

Barnsley/Rotherham


"Unfortunately didn’t receive any details but I hope you all have a fantastic night as I know you will. Hope it goes well for you Cheryl

You took your name off the list hun"

Asked you to add it back when we were at the Barnsley Social. But no bother

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately didn’t receive any details but I hope you all have a fantastic night as I know you will. Hope it goes well for you Cheryl

You took your name off the list hun

Asked you to add it back when we were at the Barnsley Social. But no bother "

You asked to be taken off the list on 6th May so clearly wires have been crossed. I'm sorry you have felt the need to block me so that I can't send you the venue details.

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By * and RoxCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool/Leeds

Sorry could you take us off tge list this eve last minute decision off to Blackpool for the weekend x

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By *iolet2016Couple
over a year ago

consett

On our way Xx

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By *ll 4 SocialsWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

Pre drinks before social with a few friends !

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By *orkshirecpl39Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We stuck at work

Hopefully still getting there might be 8 30

Have fun

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

Hi sorry me and sugarmuffin cant make it can you take us off list .. have a great night xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See everyone soon x

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By *iolet2016Couple
over a year ago

consett

PM us if going anywhere for pre drinks x

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi sorry me and sugarmuffin cant make it can you take us off list .. have a great night xx"

You lightweights

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Hi sorry me and sugarmuffin cant make it can you take us off list .. have a great night xx

You lightweights "

Lol we are aching all over and not had any sleep, wonder whose idea it was to have party back at house x

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi sorry me and sugarmuffin cant make it can you take us off list .. have a great night xx

You lightweights

Lol we are aching all over and not had any sleep, wonder whose idea it was to have party back at house x "

I can guess!

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Hi sorry me and sugarmuffin cant make it can you take us off list .. have a great night xx

You lightweights

Lol we are aching all over and not had any sleep, wonder whose idea it was to have party back at house x

I can guess!"

Lol shes got me as bad as her lmao but dam it's fun xxx

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By *exy bum xWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

So how the hell are you ment to know who’s who in a pub full of locals??

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By *r n mrs swingCouple
over a year ago

pontefract

That was my thought too and the upstairs is tiny it's put us off to be fair. We don't mind paying for socials etc but not when locals can just walk in for free X

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By *heffcouple77Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Is that you sexy bum sat at that table on the right with the pink panther sat with you lol

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By *exy bum xWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Yes it is, we are playing a game it’s called guess the swingers! You want to join in?

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By *heffcouple77Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Go on then

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By *ll 4 SocialsWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

Only table you got right is the one we are sat on lol !

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By *exy bum xWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Right all swingers stand on one leg and wave your hand in the air like you just don’t care

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By *ll 4 SocialsWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

Tip toes don't count when waving arm mate lol!

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By *exy bum xWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

What a great venue and a great event, well done C.....

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

From what I have heard glad I never went x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for a great night

For sombody who often can't find time to mingle and meet people the thought of being the outsider is quite of putting. Not the case here welcomed at the door and intraduced.to others all on a great night.. Hope to make the next one . And special thanks to two ladies honour guard

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By *inkybabe1109Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"From what I have heard glad I never went x "

Why that everybody had a good night

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"From what I have heard glad I never went x

Why that everybody had a good night "

I had a blast! And great venue too

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"From what I have heard glad I never went x

Why that everybody had a good night

I had a blast! And great venue too"

Too many of my daughters friends gonin that pub lol xx

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"From what I have heard glad I never went x

Why that everybody had a good night

I had a blast! And great venue too

Too many of my daughters friends gonin that pub lol xx"

Maybe your daughters friends are swingers as well

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By *exy bum xWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

As I said last night it was guess the swingers as there’s was public just walking in, lovely pub but in my eyes not the best venue for a swingers party

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

However without people putting their hand up like the organiser these things would never happen so well done to her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The regular drinkers were clearly intrigued to stay around given the nature of the event but they all joined in with dancing etc and had a giggle too.

Sorry if anyone is in pain from the limbo lol

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"As I said last night it was guess the swingers as there’s was public just walking in, lovely pub but in my eyes not the best venue for a swingers party"

The socials are everything but a " swingers party " , it's about socialising and chatting to people with similar interests and having a friendly night, as with any event you can't please everyone all of the time. Some people don't want to attend private events as they aren't sure it's for them , having an open event gives those unsure the excuse " we just popped to a pub and unbeknown to us it was a swinging social " without the fear of being judged .

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By *exy bum xWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I agree it’s not easy but then again it’s not easy to spot a fellow swinger in a pub full of people, at least if it’s a private party you know everyone is there for the same thing and not just out for a quite drink with there wife, not all women would be happy with another lady chatting to there husbands or boyfriends

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"I agree it’s not easy but then again it’s not easy to spot a fellow swinger in a pub full of people, at least if it’s a private party you know everyone is there for the same thing and not just out for a quite drink with there wife, not all women would be happy with another lady chatting to there husbands or boyfriends "

Can't beat a spot of guess the kinky buggers

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I agree it’s not easy but then again it’s not easy to spot a fellow swinger in a pub full of people, at least if it’s a private party you know everyone is there for the same thing and not just out for a quite drink with there wife, not all women would be happy with another lady chatting to there husbands or boyfriends

Can't beat a spot of guess the kinky buggers "

I think I had it slapped on my forehead last night

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By *rambedCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Really enjoyed last night. Thank you. X

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By *inkybabe1109Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"I agree it’s not easy but then again it’s not easy to spot a fellow swinger in a pub full of people, at least if it’s a private party you know everyone is there for the same thing and not just out for a quite drink with there wife, not all women would be happy with another lady chatting to there husbands or boyfriends

Can't beat a spot of guess the kinky buggers

I think I had it slapped on my forehead last night "
don't forget you won an hours of simons time in the raffle. He was looking forward to it

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I agree it’s not easy but then again it’s not easy to spot a fellow swinger in a pub full of people, at least if it’s a private party you know everyone is there for the same thing and not just out for a quite drink with there wife, not all women would be happy with another lady chatting to there husbands or boyfriends "

Wasn’t we all bystanders not into the lifestyle once..

Been to a number of socials in pubs, not one of them didn’t have regulars about.

Go into a club, there will be people off the street.

I struggle to see the problem.

Yes I suspect there might have been some to perv.

Not as many as there is on fab thought.

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I agree it’s not easy but then again it’s not easy to spot a fellow swinger in a pub full of people, at least if it’s a private party you know everyone is there for the same thing and not just out for a quite drink with there wife, not all women would be happy with another lady chatting to there husbands or boyfriends

Can't beat a spot of guess the kinky buggers

I think I had it slapped on my forehead last night don't forget you won an hours of simons time in the raffle. He was looking forward to it"

Not forgotten

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I agree it’s not easy but then again it’s not easy to spot a fellow swinger in a pub full of people, at least if it’s a private party you know everyone is there for the same thing and not just out for a quite drink with there wife, not all women would be happy with another lady chatting to there husbands or boyfriends

Wasn’t we all bystanders not into the lifestyle once..

Been to a number of socials in pubs, not one of them didn’t have regulars about.

Go into a club, there will be people off the street.

I struggle to see the problem.

Yes I suspect there might have been some to perv.

Not as many as there is on fab thought."

I just hate sneaky “t’s”

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By *iolet2016Couple
over a year ago

consett

Great night guys thanks very much met some lovely people who we sure we will meet again Xx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next one issue a coloured sticker. Or something at the sign in and any outsiders will be non the wiser perhaps then you just have to guess the name from those in the know. Just a suggestion ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Next one issue a coloured sticker. Or something at the sign in and any outsiders will be non the wiser perhaps then you just have to guess the name from those in the know. Just a suggestion ???"

I've had coloured wristbands etc before but nobody wanted to wear them.

I doubt there'll be a next time, I'll just stick to hosting the Halifax social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a nice little pub for a free social as you cnt really get away from the public with a small function room upstairs. So really its ideal for a social for free people shouldn't need nibbles or a raffle in there unlike such as the Barnsley social where its a private function room with a bar you can charge and have raffles and nibbles. But well done to New Beginnings for organizing the social even tho we didn't go as we couldn't post in here until tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was a amazing night and definitely seemed like everyone loved it. Think everyone could see amount of hard work and planning Cheryl had done at this social. Does make me laugh people moan and complain about a £5 to pay. I’d love to see these people organise a social themselves to be fair. Got to be perfectly honest I didn’t know the expense of sorting a social out or the hard work that goes into doing them. Maybe people could appreciate the people that do organise these socials. I for one love the events and always have great nights there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That is a nice little pub for a free social as you cnt really get away from the public with a small function room upstairs. So really its ideal for a social for free people shouldn't need nibbles or a raffle in there unlike such as the Barnsley social where its a private function room with a bar you can charge and have raffles and nibbles. But well done to New Beginnings for organizing the social even tho we didn't go as we couldn't post in here until tonight "

Not quite sure how you even know where the social was held because venue details are meant to be kept confidential and only sent out to people on the guest list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the posts we have read in here about it its the same place where it used to be. As we have been to it a fair few times and we never gave any details out of where it was anyway we dnt do that as we have been to lots of socials aswell as run our own before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everyone is so quick to have an opinion and I have never experienced such negativity for what should be a fun night.

I am never organising a social in Wakefield again, I'll stick to my own neck of the woods as people tend to be more polite and appreciative of my efforts.

I just don't know what gives people the right to say 'you should do it like this,' or 'you don't need food and free raffle etc'. I will run my events how I feel fit and how I want to run them. The people who appreciate my efforts will come along and enjoy themselves, the ones that don't should keep their opinions to themselves. I'm getting quite annoyed now that this is all still going on..... I wouldn't go to someone's dinner party for Instance and start dictating who they should or shouldn't allow in their house, or how to host their evening!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WOW sorry for speaking we did say well done to you for doing it but if you take that as having a go at you then fine. People are allowed in a open forum we was only adding some insight into the venue you held it at. Good night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"WOW sorry for speaking we did say well done to you for doing it but if you take that as having a go at you then fine. People are allowed in a open forum we was only adding some insight into the venue you held it at. Good night "

Yes I know you said well done and I thank you for that, but it was on the back of you telling me I didn't need nibbles or free raffle and function room is too small! The pub and the function room has been done out and most certainly is large enough to hold around 50 people but people chose not to use it and put themselves amongst members of the public.

It might be a public forum but such comments (not just from you) are the equivalent of posting negative comments on someone's Facebook status. I've seriously been in tears over the last few days over it all. I should have just cancelled it

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