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" name down please"But of course. Thank you xx | |||
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"Kindly add me to the attendees, hopefully this will be in Chester city centre. "Hi. It isn't in the centre I'm afraid. It's on the outskirts. | |||
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" Hi. It isn't in the centre I'm afraid. It's on the outskirts." Do you mind if I ask where? Will it be revealed as the date gets nearer? Or only to be revealed to the attendees privately? | |||
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" Hi. It isn't in the centre I'm afraid. It's on the outskirts. Do you mind if I ask where? Will it be revealed as the date gets nearer? Or only to be revealed to the attendees privately?" We'll message you nearer the time with that. | |||
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"Damn why couldnt you have had a social when im free....like this saturday "You're NEVER free | |||
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"Hello If there is room can i be added?" Of course. | |||
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"Sadly have to work, the joy of 12hr nights????" Tell me about it ! | |||
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"Sorry can't make it on the 8th, got a non swing function that night. Im sure you will have a fantastic night. " Aw that's a shame. You've become a regular guest now. | |||
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"Hey guys I'm off that weekend so I'd like to go xx" Thanks thingy Yeay!! | |||
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"See you all there xxx" Will be good to see you again stranger. Will be fun | |||
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"I would like to come to another one of your fantastic nights please xxx "Ace. Will be good to see you again | |||
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"I'd like to come to another social please I'm off that weekend " You're more than welcome. Your name is down x | |||
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"How many women are going? :D" How many men, women, singles or couples is irrelevant. This is all about meeting new people regardless of who they are. It's about the friendships that can be developed in the swinging world. Plus it's about trust, confidentiality and the integrity of the guests that attwmd hence why we don't reveal attendance details. You're more than welcome to come and find out for yourself bowever. | |||
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"All being well we shall be there x" Brilliant. Tha k you so much for the support xx | |||
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"How many women are going? :D How many men, women, singles or couples is irrelevant. This is all about meeting new people regardless of who they are. It's about the friendships that can be developed in the swinging world. Plus it's about trust, confidentiality and the integrity of the guests that attwmd hence why we don't reveal attendance details. You're more than welcome to come and find out for yourself bowever." Perfect response!  x | |||
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"All being well we shall be there x" You're always welcome. Thank you xx | |||
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"How many women are going? :D How many men, women, singles or couples is irrelevant. This is all about meeting new people regardless of who they are. It's about the friendships that can be developed in the swinging world. Plus it's about trust, confidentiality and the integrity of the guests that attwmd hence why we don't reveal attendance details. You're more than welcome to come and find out for yourself bowever. Perfect response! x"It's true though isn't it. It's not just a sex site | |||
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"We 2nd that. May we go on the list please xx" Most definitely we shall see you there  | |||
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"How many women are going? :D How many men, women, singles or couples is irrelevant. This is all about meeting new people regardless of who they are. It's about the friendships that can be developed in the swinging world. Plus it's about trust, confidentiality and the integrity of the guests that attwmd hence why we don't reveal attendance details. You're more than welcome to come and find out for yourself bowever." So true, it's just a nice relaxed night out, enjoying a few drinks, some like-minded company, a chat and a few laughs, well maybe more than a few drinks and laughs lol Just wish I could make it.....damn you work, but looking at my shift pattern the end of August is my next possible one  | |||
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"Add us please if there’s room for two little ones. Xx. " Yea sure there is, it be great to see you two again | |||
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"Anyone that wants to attend the social and is lacking in transport from the Ellesmere port area then please message as there is a taxi coming from Ellesmere port with room for two." I’m struggling with getting there and back this time round so would be up for taxi sharing Ms Lilly x | |||
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"Anyone that wants to attend the social and is lacking in transport from the Ellesmere port area then please message as there is a taxi coming from Ellesmere port with room for two. I’m struggling with getting there and back this time round so would be up for taxi sharing Ms Lilly x" Lilly if you contact curvy sweet lady. | |||
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"I am getting train to Elle port then getting taxi from curvy sweet lady's " Messaged curvy with regards to Lilly coming with you. | |||
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"How many women are going? :D How many men, women, singles or couples is irrelevant. This is all about meeting new people regardless of who they are. It's about the friendships that can be developed in the swinging world. Plus it's about trust, confidentiality and the integrity of the guests that attwmd hence why we don't reveal attendance details. You're more than welcome to come and find out for yourself bowever. Perfect response! x
It's true though isn't it. It's not just a sex site "It's awesome that you guys are putting effort into making socials, it really is. You appear to be the only ones making an effort in here for our area. The only reason I asked about women though is that, we know the mechanics of swinging. We know who is in supply and who is in demand. For whatever reason, when I written that comment, I envisioned a night with 10 guys sat around a table, drinking beer. :D | |||
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"How many women are going? :D How many men, women, singles or couples is irrelevant. This is all about meeting new people regardless of who they are. It's about the friendships that can be developed in the swinging world. Plus it's about trust, confidentiality and the integrity of the guests that attwmd hence why we don't reveal attendance details. You're more than welcome to come and find out for yourself bowever. Perfect response! x
It's true though isn't it. It's not just a sex site
It's awesome that you guys are putting effort into making socials, it really is. You appear to be the only ones making an effort in here for our area.
The only reason I asked about women though is that, we know the mechanics of swinging. We know who is in supply and who is in demand.
For whatever reason, when I written that comment, I envisioned a night with 10 guys sat around a table, drinking beer. :D "Hopefully not lol. It's great getting out and about and meeting new people in a safe chilled out environment. X | |||
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"How many women are going? :D How many men, women, singles or couples is irrelevant. This is all about meeting new people regardless of who they are. It's about the friendships that can be developed in the swinging world. Plus it's about trust, confidentiality and the integrity of the guests that attwmd hence why we don't reveal attendance details. You're more than welcome to come and find out for yourself bowever. Perfect response! x
It's true though isn't it. It's not just a sex site
It's awesome that you guys are putting effort into making socials, it really is. You appear to be the only ones making an effort in here for our area.
The only reason I asked about women though is that, we know the mechanics of swinging. We know who is in supply and who is in demand.
For whatever reason, when I written that comment, I envisioned a night with 10 guys sat around a table, drinking beer. :D
Hopefully not lol. It's great getting out and about and meeting new people in a safe chilled out environment.
X"That's what it's about. Even 10 guys around a table is 10 that someone wouldn't have known before. People always have the option of bringing someone along. Unfortunately I can't out a gun to people's heads and force someone to come along. What I do know is that those that do come tend to enjoy the evening. It's a case of I can't please everyone all of the time so I've stopped trying to do that. So it's open to everyone regardless of who they are. | |||
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"How many women are going? :D How many men, women, singles or couples is irrelevant. This is all about meeting new people regardless of who they are. It's about the friendships that can be developed in the swinging world. Plus it's about trust, confidentiality and the integrity of the guests that attwmd hence why we don't reveal attendance details. You're more than welcome to come and find out for yourself bowever. Perfect response! x
It's true though isn't it. It's not just a sex site
It's awesome that you guys are putting effort into making socials, it really is. You appear to be the only ones making an effort in here for our area.
The only reason I asked about women though is that, we know the mechanics of swinging. We know who is in supply and who is in demand.
For whatever reason, when I written that comment, I envisioned a night with 10 guys sat around a table, drinking beer. :D
Hopefully not lol. It's great getting out and about and meeting new people in a safe chilled out environment.
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That's what it's about. Even 10 guys around a table is 10 that someone wouldn't have known before. People always have the option of bringing someone along. Unfortunately I can't out a gun to people's heads and force someone to come along. What I do know is that those that do come tend to enjoy the evening. It's a case of I can't please everyone all of the time so I've stopped trying to do that. So it's open to everyone regardless of who they are."Yes, I can see how you feel about it, that's why I think it's admirable. You really can't win whatever you do. Clubs for example have the same issue: Left unregulated and fair; I imagine 15 men would turn up per 1 woman. I imagine some women would love that, and some would hate it. As for the men, I guess 13 or so men would hate it and 2 probably be ok with it. Regulated, we have men who probably find that they have to pay a premium for entry, whereas women get in free. We have men vetted by looks, etc. Not only is it demeaning in a way, it's also obviously more expensive. Regarding and chats or action, I guess women would feel as though there could be more choice. I guess men will feel the need to chase value for money. Whatever you do can't win, so yes, enjoy yourself, and everyone else can do whatever they like! | |||
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"How many women are going? :D How many men, women, singles or couples is irrelevant. This is all about meeting new people regardless of who they are. It's about the friendships that can be developed in the swinging world. Plus it's about trust, confidentiality and the integrity of the guests that attwmd hence why we don't reveal attendance details. You're more than welcome to come and find out for yourself bowever. Perfect response! x
It's true though isn't it. It's not just a sex site
It's awesome that you guys are putting effort into making socials, it really is. You appear to be the only ones making an effort in here for our area.
The only reason I asked about women though is that, we know the mechanics of swinging. We know who is in supply and who is in demand.
For whatever reason, when I written that comment, I envisioned a night with 10 guys sat around a table, drinking beer. :D
Hopefully not lol. It's great getting out and about and meeting new people in a safe chilled out environment.
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That's what it's about. Even 10 guys around a table is 10 that someone wouldn't have known before. People always have the option of bringing someone along. Unfortunately I can't out a gun to people's heads and force someone to come along. What I do know is that those that do come tend to enjoy the evening. It's a case of I can't please everyone all of the time so I've stopped trying to do that. So it's open to everyone regardless of who they are.
Yes, I can see how you feel about it, that's why I think it's admirable. You really can't win whatever you do.
Clubs for example have the same issue: Left unregulated and fair; I imagine 15 men would turn up per 1 woman. I imagine some women would love that, and some would hate it. As for the men, I guess 13 or so men would hate it and 2 probably be ok with it.
Regulated, we have men who probably find that they have to pay a premium for entry, whereas women get in free. We have men vetted by looks, etc. Not only is it demeaning in a way, it's also obviously more expensive. Regarding and chats or action, I guess women would feel as though there could be more choice. I guess men will feel the need to chase value for money.
Whatever you do can't win, so yes, enjoy yourself, and everyone else can do whatever they like!"15 guys to one woman means plenty to choose from sounds ok to us lol. Socials are good though | |||
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"How many women are going? :D How many men, women, singles or couples is irrelevant. This is all about meeting new people regardless of who they are. It's about the friendships that can be developed in the swinging world. Plus it's about trust, confidentiality and the integrity of the guests that attwmd hence why we don't reveal attendance details. You're more than welcome to come and find out for yourself bowever. Perfect response! x
It's true though isn't it. It's not just a sex site
It's awesome that you guys are putting effort into making socials, it really is. You appear to be the only ones making an effort in here for our area.
The only reason I asked about women though is that, we know the mechanics of swinging. We know who is in supply and who is in demand.
For whatever reason, when I written that comment, I envisioned a night with 10 guys sat around a table, drinking beer. :D
Hopefully not lol. It's great getting out and about and meeting new people in a safe chilled out environment.
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That's what it's about. Even 10 guys around a table is 10 that someone wouldn't have known before. People always have the option of bringing someone along. Unfortunately I can't out a gun to people's heads and force someone to come along. What I do know is that those that do come tend to enjoy the evening. It's a case of I can't please everyone all of the time so I've stopped trying to do that. So it's open to everyone regardless of who they are.
Yes, I can see how you feel about it, that's why I think it's admirable. You really can't win whatever you do.
Clubs for example have the same issue: Left unregulated and fair; I imagine 15 men would turn up per 1 woman. I imagine some women would love that, and some would hate it. As for the men, I guess 13 or so men would hate it and 2 probably be ok with it.
Regulated, we have men who probably find that they have to pay a premium for entry, whereas women get in free. We have men vetted by looks, etc. Not only is it demeaning in a way, it's also obviously more expensive. Regarding and chats or action, I guess women would feel as though there could be more choice. I guess men will feel the need to chase value for money.
Whatever you do can't win, so yes, enjoy yourself, and everyone else can do whatever they like!
15 guys to one woman means plenty to choose from sounds ok to us lol. Socials are good though "Yeah, it's great if you're looking for men! | |||
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"Michelle and I have a lot of respect for the single guys who attend the socials. A lot of them appear to get a hard time on the forums because of the supply and demand situation so to turn up and meet other swingers is great. I know it can be “ awkward” to engage with couples at the socials but we really don’t bite. I did think of suggesting discrete name badges for the socials ( as an ice breaker for eg ) but when someone has a profile name like “ monster cock fanny smasher” it may not be a good idea. " True guys. We have thought about name tags but we've decided against it for 2 reasons. Well 3 but I'll mention 2 of them. Firstly part and parcel is discression and secondly, finding out who people are is in itself an ice breaker | |||
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"How many women are going? :D How many men, women, singles or couples is irrelevant. This is all about meeting new people regardless of who they are. It's about the friendships that can be developed in the swinging world. Plus it's about trust, confidentiality and the integrity of the guests that attwmd hence why we don't reveal attendance details. You're more than welcome to come and find out for yourself bowever. Perfect response! x
It's true though isn't it. It's not just a sex site
It's awesome that you guys are putting effort into making socials, it really is. You appear to be the only ones making an effort in here for our area.
The only reason I asked about women though is that, we know the mechanics of swinging. We know who is in supply and who is in demand.
For whatever reason, when I written that comment, I envisioned a night with 10 guys sat around a table, drinking beer. :D
Hopefully not lol. It's great getting out and about and meeting new people in a safe chilled out environment.
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That's what it's about. Even 10 guys around a table is 10 that someone wouldn't have known before. People always have the option of bringing someone along. Unfortunately I can't out a gun to people's heads and force someone to come along. What I do know is that those that do come tend to enjoy the evening. It's a case of I can't please everyone all of the time so I've stopped trying to do that. So it's open to everyone regardless of who they are.
Yes, I can see how you feel about it, that's why I think it's admirable. You really can't win whatever you do.
Clubs for example have the same issue: Left unregulated and fair; I imagine 15 men would turn up per 1 woman. I imagine some women would love that, and some would hate it. As for the men, I guess 13 or so men would hate it and 2 probably be ok with it.
Regulated, we have men who probably find that they have to pay a premium for entry, whereas women get in free. We have men vetted by looks, etc. Not only is it demeaning in a way, it's also obviously more expensive. Regarding and chats or action, I guess women would feel as though there could be more choice. I guess men will feel the need to chase value for money.
Whatever you do can't win, so yes, enjoy yourself, and everyone else can do whatever they like!"This is different to clubs as it's not sex based. Whatever happens after the social ends is up to the individuals. There is no charge as it's not about money either. This is simply about people getting together for a night out. So 100 guys and 19 fems is totally irrelevant to those attending for the right reasons. | |||
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"How many women are going? :D How many men, women, singles or couples is irrelevant. This is all about meeting new people regardless of who they are. It's about the friendships that can be developed in the swinging world. Plus it's about trust, confidentiality and the integrity of the guests that attwmd hence why we don't reveal attendance details. You're more than welcome to come and find out for yourself bowever. Perfect response! x
It's true though isn't it. It's not just a sex site
It's awesome that you guys are putting effort into making socials, it really is. You appear to be the only ones making an effort in here for our area.
The only reason I asked about women though is that, we know the mechanics of swinging. We know who is in supply and who is in demand.
For whatever reason, when I written that comment, I envisioned a night with 10 guys sat around a table, drinking beer. :D
Hopefully not lol. It's great getting out and about and meeting new people in a safe chilled out environment.
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That's what it's about. Even 10 guys around a table is 10 that someone wouldn't have known before. People always have the option of bringing someone along. Unfortunately I can't out a gun to people's heads and force someone to come along. What I do know is that those that do come tend to enjoy the evening. It's a case of I can't please everyone all of the time so I've stopped trying to do that. So it's open to everyone regardless of who they are.
Yes, I can see how you feel about it, that's why I think it's admirable. You really can't win whatever you do.
Clubs for example have the same issue: Left unregulated and fair; I imagine 15 men would turn up per 1 woman. I imagine some women would love that, and some would hate it. As for the men, I guess 13 or so men would hate it and 2 probably be ok with it.
Regulated, we have men who probably find that they have to pay a premium for entry, whereas women get in free. We have men vetted by looks, etc. Not only is it demeaning in a way, it's also obviously more expensive. Regarding and chats or action, I guess women would feel as though there could be more choice. I guess men will feel the need to chase value for money.
Whatever you do can't win, so yes, enjoy yourself, and everyone else can do whatever they like!
15 guys to one woman means plenty to choose from sounds ok to us lol. Socials are good though "Are you still coming guys ?? | |||
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"Hi, sorry cant make this one. Not just because my partner in crime is otherwise engaged! Hopefully see you next time xx" Awwww yes I know he said he couldn't. Gutted as you guys are fast becoming part of it now to be fair xx | |||
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"How many women are going? :D How many men, women, singles or couples is irrelevant. This is all about meeting new people regardless of who they are. It's about the friendships that can be developed in the swinging world. Plus it's about trust, confidentiality and the integrity of the guests that attwmd hence why we don't reveal attendance details. You're more than welcome to come and find out for yourself bowever. Perfect response! x
It's true though isn't it. It's not just a sex site
It's awesome that you guys are putting effort into making socials, it really is. You appear to be the only ones making an effort in here for our area.
The only reason I asked about women though is that, we know the mechanics of swinging. We know who is in supply and who is in demand.
For whatever reason, when I written that comment, I envisioned a night with 10 guys sat around a table, drinking beer. :D
Hopefully not lol. It's great getting out and about and meeting new people in a safe chilled out environment.
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That's what it's about. Even 10 guys around a table is 10 that someone wouldn't have known before. People always have the option of bringing someone along. Unfortunately I can't out a gun to people's heads and force someone to come along. What I do know is that those that do come tend to enjoy the evening. It's a case of I can't please everyone all of the time so I've stopped trying to do that. So it's open to everyone regardless of who they are.
Yes, I can see how you feel about it, that's why I think it's admirable. You really can't win whatever you do.
Clubs for example have the same issue: Left unregulated and fair; I imagine 15 men would turn up per 1 woman. I imagine some women would love that, and some would hate it. As for the men, I guess 13 or so men would hate it and 2 probably be ok with it.
Regulated, we have men who probably find that they have to pay a premium for entry, whereas women get in free. We have men vetted by looks, etc. Not only is it demeaning in a way, it's also obviously more expensive. Regarding and chats or action, I guess women would feel as though there could be more choice. I guess men will feel the need to chase value for money.
Whatever you do can't win, so yes, enjoy yourself, and everyone else can do whatever they like!
15 guys to one woman means plenty to choose from sounds ok to us lol. Socials are good though
Are you still coming guys ??"Depends on how many single guys are going  Lol just joking we will let you Know for definite tomorrow | |||
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"This is a social (a damn fine one in our opinions) . The organisers put a lot of effort in to arrange it. Most of the people complaining about ratios, etc. are the ones that won't turn up or if they do turn up, not make an effort to speak to anyone and then proclaim that it was crap anyway... You get out of life what you put in. If you make no effort then why would you expect anyone to put an effort in with you? "You're so right there. This is something I try my best to explain to people. Takes guts to take those first steps through the door but it take a more to mix with people. Put in the effort and you'll reap the rewards. Quite simple really. This site doesn't have to be hard for anyone. If it's not working then change how you operate. Logic dictates. | |||
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"Hi can I be added onto the list please I really enjoyed the last one " Hell of course you can !!!! We'll be pleased to have you there. Enjoyed your company the last time  | |||
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"How many women are going? :D How many men, women, singles or couples is irrelevant. This is all about meeting new people regardless of who they are. It's about the friendships that can be developed in the swinging world. Plus it's about trust, confidentiality and the integrity of the guests that attwmd hence why we don't reveal attendance details. You're more than welcome to come and find out for yourself bowever. Perfect response! x
It's true though isn't it. It's not just a sex site
It's awesome that you guys are putting effort into making socials, it really is. You appear to be the only ones making an effort in here for our area.
The only reason I asked about women though is that, we know the mechanics of swinging. We know who is in supply and who is in demand.
For whatever reason, when I written that comment, I envisioned a night with 10 guys sat around a table, drinking beer. :D
Hopefully not lol. It's great getting out and about and meeting new people in a safe chilled out environment.
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That's what it's about. Even 10 guys around a table is 10 that someone wouldn't have known before. People always have the option of bringing someone along. Unfortunately I can't out a gun to people's heads and force someone to come along. What I do know is that those that do come tend to enjoy the evening. It's a case of I can't please everyone all of the time so I've stopped trying to do that. So it's open to everyone regardless of who they are.
Yes, I can see how you feel about it, that's why I think it's admirable. You really can't win whatever you do.
Clubs for example have the same issue: Left unregulated and fair; I imagine 15 men would turn up per 1 woman. I imagine some women would love that, and some would hate it. As for the men, I guess 13 or so men would hate it and 2 probably be ok with it.
Regulated, we have men who probably find that they have to pay a premium for entry, whereas women get in free. We have men vetted by looks, etc. Not only is it demeaning in a way, it's also obviously more expensive. Regarding and chats or action, I guess women would feel as though there could be more choice. I guess men will feel the need to chase value for money.
Whatever you do can't win, so yes, enjoy yourself, and everyone else can do whatever they like!
This is different to clubs as it's not sex based. Whatever happens after the social ends is up to the individuals. There is no charge as it's not about money either. This is simply about people getting together for a night out. So 100 guys and 19 fems is totally irrelevant to those attending for the right reasons."Then, you're really doing an excellent thing for us all. Planning and putting effort in, that others can benefit from. I really admire you for that. Judging from the comments too, people have really enjoyed your previous nights out. | |||
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"This is a social (a damn fine one in our opinions) . The organisers put a lot of effort in to arrange it. Most of the people complaining about ratios, etc. are the ones that won't turn up or if they do turn up, not make an effort to speak to anyone and then proclaim that it was crap anyway... You get out of life what you put in. If you make no effort then why would you expect anyone to put an effort in with you? "But you can see in the thread that nobody has complained about ratios! It was only me who simply asked about it - nobody has been complaining. Nobody is expecting undue attention or anything like that. I'm actually very social myself, I'd happily talk to others, it was literally just a question! I've only come across this social recently, and to start with, I just assumed it would be some guys drinking beer together! I was wrong, and I'm sorry! Ha! | |||
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"This is a social (a damn fine one in our opinions) . The organisers put a lot of effort in to arrange it. Most of the people complaining about ratios, etc. are the ones that won't turn up or if they do turn up, not make an effort to speak to anyone and then proclaim that it was crap anyway... You get out of life what you put in. If you make no effort then why would you expect anyone to put an effort in with you?
But you can see in the thread that nobody has complained about ratios! It was only me who simply asked about it - nobody has been complaining. Nobody is expecting undue attention or anything like that. I'm actually very social myself, I'd happily talk to others, it was literally just a question!
I've only come across this social recently, and to start with, I just assumed it would be some guys drinking beer together! I was wrong, and I'm sorry! Ha!"The easy way to find out what it is like is to turn up. Hell I'll even get your first drink in an introduce you to people. | |||
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"This is a social (a damn fine one in our opinions) . The organisers put a lot of effort in to arrange it. Most of the people complaining about ratios, etc. are the ones that won't turn up or if they do turn up, not make an effort to speak to anyone and then proclaim that it was crap anyway... You get out of life what you put in. If you make no effort then why would you expect anyone to put an effort in with you?
But you can see in the thread that nobody has complained about ratios! It was only me who simply asked about it - nobody has been complaining. Nobody is expecting undue attention or anything like that. I'm actually very social myself, I'd happily talk to others, it was literally just a question!
I've only come across this social recently, and to start with, I just assumed it would be some guys drinking beer together! I was wrong, and I'm sorry! Ha!
The easy way to find out what it is like is to turn up. Hell I'll even get your first drink in an introduce you to people. "Unfortunately, I can't go tomorrow (unless it's very late) but I am interested in the whole thing. I'll watch this thread and look for the next one too. Thanks though x | |||
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"How many women are going? :D How many men, women, singles or couples is irrelevant. This is all about meeting new people regardless of who they are. It's about the friendships that can be developed in the swinging world. Plus it's about trust, confidentiality and the integrity of the guests that attwmd hence why we don't reveal attendance details. You're more than welcome to come and find out for yourself bowever. Perfect response! x
It's true though isn't it. It's not just a sex site
It's awesome that you guys are putting effort into making socials, it really is. You appear to be the only ones making an effort in here for our area.
The only reason I asked about women though is that, we know the mechanics of swinging. We know who is in supply and who is in demand.
For whatever reason, when I written that comment, I envisioned a night with 10 guys sat around a table, drinking beer. :D
Hopefully not lol. It's great getting out and about and meeting new people in a safe chilled out environment.
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That's what it's about. Even 10 guys around a table is 10 that someone wouldn't have known before. People always have the option of bringing someone along. Unfortunately I can't out a gun to people's heads and force someone to come along. What I do know is that those that do come tend to enjoy the evening. It's a case of I can't please everyone all of the time so I've stopped trying to do that. So it's open to everyone regardless of who they are.
Yes, I can see how you feel about it, that's why I think it's admirable. You really can't win whatever you do.
Clubs for example have the same issue: Left unregulated and fair; I imagine 15 men would turn up per 1 woman. I imagine some women would love that, and some would hate it. As for the men, I guess 13 or so men would hate it and 2 probably be ok with it.
Regulated, we have men who probably find that they have to pay a premium for entry, whereas women get in free. We have men vetted by looks, etc. Not only is it demeaning in a way, it's also obviously more expensive. Regarding and chats or action, I guess women would feel as though there could be more choice. I guess men will feel the need to chase value for money.
Whatever you do can't win, so yes, enjoy yourself, and everyone else can do whatever they like!
This is different to clubs as it's not sex based. Whatever happens after the social ends is up to the individuals. There is no charge as it's not about money either. This is simply about people getting together for a night out. So 100 guys and 19 fems is totally irrelevant to those attending for the right reasons." | |||
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"Unfortunately we only just found out about this so can't attend. It's great to see there's a social scene in Chester though. We'd love to be part of the next one though!" Not a problem. I'll out your names down to message x | |||
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"Change of plan , I'm coming "Ace. Nice one. I'll pop you back on the list. Confirm the Ellesmere port taxi is now full | |||
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"Have messaged but have not recieved message back with details?" Hi. I've just now read your message but unfortunately it was a bit too late to be received by us last night as we were well into the evening. I don't tend to be on my phone whilst I have guests that need my attention as that would be extremely rude. You are however welcome to attend the next one if you so wish. If this is the case then you'll need to message us preferably before I leave home as I have to travel early afternoon for my hotel in Chester. | |||
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