FabSwingers.com forum: Organising a gang bang

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Every now and again there is a version of a chat on here about gang bangs that did not go well due to no shows. On some occasions the show up rate as low as 1 in ten and disappointing non events as a result. The issue being the time wasters and day dreamers and that even the one ones that stress and say they will def come don't.

A few years ago we hit upon a scheme almost by accident when another fab user offered to send us half a hotel booking cost by paypal.

Since then we have organised gang bangs from time to time and to avoid no shows and let downs we request a paypal chip in toward the costs of the night. This confirms their place.

It is never much, typically 35/40 quid depending how much the hotel apartment we use is on the night and an even split between us and approx 5 guys. Once apartment (always the biggest chunk, we spend around 200 as it is lovely suite with no reception after 6 and access via intercom) and big bag of condoms sorted any left over goes on food and drinks for a buffet. The venue is nice and we put on food and drinks. Since we have been doing that we always get the right number of guys and everyone always shows. It throws off the time wasters, the genuine guys are happy with the way we organise and no one ever fails to turn up. Some one who has been to a couple of our gang bangs suggested we share the idea as he went to an event recently where he was the only guy that showed up when 4 had said they would....