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"Dont take it personally we are having the same trouble on here. So hard to find a single man that takes my fancy. " I'm up for bring your long haired lover from london | |||
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"Seems we seek the impossible. Yes i knwo im picky but then why shouldn't i be? SO any chaps up for regular meet with hotwif e and her cuck? You need to be able to accomodate as we don t meet near home, you ar epobably based south coast And you need to be tall as im over 6 ft in my heels I have age preferences but they arent strict if the chap is exceptional. Oh and i like hair to be the right way round. Hair on your head , not to beardy and smooth below. Any takers? " 9 meets on your veris ....that's not bad ? | |||
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"Most of the singles on here are fantasists and use it for wank material, we have arranged to meet up with a few and they always get cold feet either the night before or on the day and come up with some shite excuse. We are still trying to find a couple that would be happy to meet as a 3 (in all scenarios as it says on our profile) as well as a 4 but that appears to be impossible as well lol. Oh well, stick to the clubs and meeting up with couples for a 4. Xx " Maybe the got scared... I'm good with the husband watching or joining as long as we understand that we are straight. | |||
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"Dont take it personally we are having the same trouble on here. So hard to find a single man that takes my fancy. " I have been trying to get your attention for ages. Honestly speaking as we are discussing on the forum, do I really have a bad profile? | |||
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"Interesting to hear the debate from both sides. I'm a massive couples fan mmf is my fav, but of course there has to be an attraction from both parties. As to why single guys have a habit of no shows, I'd always pick one that's well verified and you can get a general feel by exchanging messages in build up to meet. To the guy above me in the thread, if you want some advice on your profile:1) put up a profile pic 2) take down one of you with another women (trust me this seems to be a big turn off for women) 3) take down the one comparing your cock to an object...it's not a good look X hope this helps " Thanks for you feedback | |||
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"Seems we seek the impossible. Yes i knwo im picky but then why shouldn't i be? SO any chaps up for regular meet with hotwif e and her cuck? You need to be able to accomodate as we don t meet near home, you ar epobably based south coast And you need to be tall as im over 6 ft in my heels I have age preferences but they arent strict if the chap is exceptional. Oh and i like hair to be the right way round. Hair on your head , not to beardy and smooth below. Any takers? " If you don't already ..Search for the guys yourselves... Guys are allowed to be picky just as much as the next person. Exceptional.. whatever that means. If a guy had. Posted this he'd be asked what were his expectations .. there may be a large number of guys in relation to couples and females that doesn't always mean it's easier.. you may need to lower your expectations . | |||
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"Interesting to hear the debate from both sides. I'm a massive couples fan mmf is my fav, but of course there has to be an attraction from both parties. As to why single guys have a habit of no shows, I'd always pick one that's well verified and you can get a general feel by exchanging messages in build up to meet. To the guy above me in the thread, if you want some advice on your profile:1) put up a profile pic 2) take down one of you with another women (trust me this seems to be a big turn off for women) 3) take down the one comparing your cock to an object...it's not a good look X hope this helps " Great advice! Even those with veris often let you down | |||
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"Seems we seek the impossible. Yes i knwo im picky but then why shouldn't i be? SO any chaps up for regular meet with hotwif e and her cuck? You need to be able to accomodate as we don t meet near home, you ar epobably based south coast And you need to be tall as im over 6 ft in my heels I have age preferences but they arent strict if the chap is exceptional. Oh and i like hair to be the right way round. Hair on your head , not to beardy and smooth below. Any takers? If you don't already ..Search for the guys yourselves... Guys are allowed to be picky just as much as the next person. Exceptional.. whatever that means. If a guy had. Posted this he'd be asked what were his expectations .. there may be a large number of guys in relation to couples and females that doesn't always mean it's easier.. you may need to lower your expectations ." Oh we do reach out to guys regularly. And lower our expectations? Not a chance. Were here for our reasons, not to fit into others needs | |||
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"I tend to agree, it's not particularly easy finding single guys and its going to be difficult as there would need to be 2 way attraction. For an elderly and out of shape couple to get say a younger W/E attractive guy is bound to take a he'll of a lot of luck and searching " We seem to have very few issues at clubs and events. As our veris show And lol at elderly kiddo | |||
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"Seems we seek the impossible. Yes i knwo im picky but then why shouldn't i be? SO any chaps up for regular meet with hotwif e and her cuck? You need to be able to accomodate as we don t meet near home, you ar epobably based south coast And you need to be tall as im over 6 ft in my heels I have age preferences but they arent strict if the chap is exceptional. Oh and i like hair to be the right way round. Hair on your head , not to beardy and smooth below. Any takers? If you don't already ..Search for the guys yourselves... Guys are allowed to be picky just as much as the next person. Exceptional.. whatever that means. If a guy had. Posted this he'd be asked what were his expectations .. there may be a large number of guys in relation to couples and females that doesn't always mean it's easier.. you may need to lower your expectations . Oh we do reach out to guys regularly. And lower our expectations? Not a chance. Were here for our reasons, not to fit into others needs" I didn't say standards.. I said expectation.. quantity doesn't necessarily equate to ease of finding what you seek | |||
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"Seems we seek the impossible. Yes i knwo im picky but then why shouldn't i be? SO any chaps up for regular meet with hotwif e and her cuck? You need to be able to accomodate as we don t meet near home, you ar epobably based south coast And you need to be tall as im over 6 ft in my heels I have age preferences but they arent strict if the chap is exceptional. Oh and i like hair to be the right way round. Hair on your head , not to beardy and smooth below. Any takers? " We totally agree, its such hard work. most guys want to get off quick. not what we want at all. im sure other hotwife couples find it the same. Patience is required | |||
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"Seems we seek the impossible. Yes i knwo im picky but then why shouldn't i be? SO any chaps up for regular meet with hotwif e and her cuck? You need to be able to accomodate as we don t meet near home, you ar epobably based south coast And you need to be tall as im over 6 ft in my heels I have age preferences but they arent strict if the chap is exceptional. Oh and i like hair to be the right way round. Hair on your head , not to beardy and smooth below. Any takers? We totally agree, its such hard work. most guys want to get off quick. not what we want at all. im sure other hotwife couples find it the same. Patience is required" agree patience is needed, but it surely is being tested x | |||
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"It's hard for single guys to be trusted too x Location and distance has to be right too. " | |||
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"I would be up for it if your interested " Lol, whoever that was didn't last long enough to look at lol, it amazes us how useless some people are | |||
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"We have the same trouble unfortunately not many guys understand hotwife lifestyle " When I look at the forums, I sometimes wonder why many are on here. Single males, females and couples. So many comments show how few actually understand swinging, let alone hotwifing! | |||
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"We have the same trouble unfortunately not many guys understand hotwife lifestyle " | |||
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"I would be up for it if your interested Lol, whoever that was didn't last long enough to look at lol, it amazes us how useless some people are " yep, probably shot his load after a couple of minutes then got embarrased lol | |||
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"often think we shoudl hav eoutr own"club" where likeminded couples can join and see which of the guys are genuine We have the same trouble unfortunately not many guys understand hotwife lifestyle " | |||
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"Great idea we will be first to attend the club party often think we shoudl hav eoutr own"club" where likeminded couples can join and see which of the guys are genuine We have the same trouble unfortunately not many guys understand hotwife lifestyle " | |||
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"no takers? really? wow!" If you were the other side of the Solent I'd certainly be interested. | |||
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"We have the same trouble unfortunately not many guys understand hotwife lifestyle " Hi there.. There are a few serious guys on here.. I can tell you that I have personally messaged you before but no response (even with my picture attached). I'm sure you get a lot of messages which always makes it difficult to get to real guys.. | |||
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"We found it near impossible when directly looking for a male for reg play with hot wife. We did , well mrs did, find a guy who is fairly local that has turned out to be a reg fb but not through a specific search for a fb. He was a meet off here that has become the one that fits what we want" | |||
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"We have the same trouble unfortunately not many guys understand hotwife lifestyle Hi there.. There are a few serious guys on here.. I can tell you that I have personally messaged you before but no response (even with my picture attached). I'm sure you get a lot of messages which always makes it difficult to get to real guys.. " | |||
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"Yes we do get a lot of responses but most are unrealistic or they don't fit our criteria. All it takes is to read our profile! So while it may seem rude not to get a response , it's not intentional, just practical to focus in more likely prospects. We do try to answer if we can x We have the same trouble unfortunately not many guys understand hotwife lifestyle Hi there.. There are a few serious guys on here.. I can tell you that I have personally messaged you before but no response (even with my picture attached). I'm sure you get a lot of messages which always makes it difficult to get to real guys.. " | |||
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"maybe well meet one at hellfire on saturday? Yes we do get a lot of responses but most are unrealistic or they don't fit our criteria. All it takes is to read our profile! So while it may seem rude not to get a response , it's not intentional, just practical to focus in more likely prospects. We do try to answer if we can x We have the same trouble unfortunately not many guys understand hotwife lifestyle Hi there.. There are a few serious guys on here.. I can tell you that I have personally messaged you before but no response (even with my picture attached). I'm sure you get a lot of messages which always makes it difficult to get to real guys.. " | |||
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"It sure can be hatd woek at times...but don't give up, if it's what you both want you'll find it...Good luck.." | |||
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"No good moaning when i cannot even read your profile." | |||
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"we'll keep this going till the year end- if no takers we'll drop it and try another route" Still no luck at all? | |||
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"we'll keep this going till the year end- if no takers we'll drop it and try another routeStill no luck at all? " No nothing at all | |||
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"Well I'm single and live alone Can meet daytimes or evenings as I'm self employed Happy to book hotel near you Xx" Thanks but too far away | |||
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"I find it annoying but not surprising you can't find a regular guy. Enjoy Dublin by the way. Have you plans sorted or where did you decide on for socialising? " annoying is the least of it | |||
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"will be abandoning this thread at new year- still no reasonable offers!!!" OP our parameters are slightly narrower than yours as we will only meet in clubs, in 4 years on here we are still no closer, most seem to think they can sit at home have a woman dropped off to them and job done or as mentioned shoot their load and get embarrassed and leave. We suspect the good/genuine ones have carved themselves out a niche and can probably take their pick due to the dross the rest serve up, when we do find one they seem to hedge their bets and don't commit until last minute, if at all. Good luck keep trying. | |||
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"Dont take it personally we are having the same trouble on here. So hard to find a single man that takes my fancy. " most of the ones I'm attracted to are just to far from me xx | |||
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"Without blowing my own 110% get the hotwife Cple here Give me a whirl and will do my very best to get all concerned off " Like most single males a lot of the basics in how to do that are missing. Reading a profile will give a clue as to your suitability, winking us when our profile clearly states Mrs has no interest in bald men is a clear indication of how little value there is in that 110%, when your effort doesn't stretch as far as reading a paragraph or 2. | |||
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"Without blowing my own 110% get the hotwife Cple here Give me a whirl and will do my very best to get all concerned off Like most single males a lot of the basics in how to do that are missing. Reading a profile will give a clue as to your suitability, winking us when our profile clearly states Mrs has no interest in bald men is a clear indication of how little value there is in that 110%, when your effort doesn't stretch as far as reading a paragraph or 2." My godfather works in a wig factory | |||
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"From experience, single guys have the same problem if not worse so. We're not all bad and come across a fair few time wasters on the couples and single woman fronts too. It's not saying you should go with guys your not interested in, but give us a decent chance. Most messages don't even get read let alone replied to and most of the people I have spoke to send the odd short message then vanish - conversation is a two way street. I've also come across some many couples that claim to hotwife/cuckold couples but don't actually have a clue what it means or really entails. " Some of what you say is true but some basic research will show if the people are compatible Worth thinking it throigh | |||
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"Without blowing my own 110% get the hotwife Cple here Give me a whirl and will do my very best to get all concerned off Like most single males a lot of the basics in how to do that are missing. Reading a profile will give a clue as to your suitability, winking us when our profile clearly states Mrs has no interest in bald men is a clear indication of how little value there is in that 110%, when your effort doesn't stretch as far as reading a paragraph or 2." Yes so accurate. It's so frustrating when guys think we'll forget why we like this lifestyle just cos they think they are irresistable | |||
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"will be abandoning this thread at new year- still no reasonable offers!!! OP our parameters are slightly narrower than yours as we will only meet in clubs, in 4 years on here we are still no closer, most seem to think they can sit at home have a woman dropped off to them and job done or as mentioned shoot their load and get embarrassed and leave. We suspect the good/genuine ones have carved themselves out a niche and can probably take their pick due to the dross the rest serve up, when we do find one they seem to hedge their bets and don't commit until last minute, if at all. Good luck keep trying." Oh well keep trying of course xx | |||
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"Also hotwife I'm only 5 10 But do have Cuban heels So aswell as being just your cup of naughtiness I could also take you for a twirl " yes, and do the 400 mile round trip every week? unlikely | |||
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"A one off thrilling and sex filled weekend could be amazing x" see th e idiotic things we have to put up with? | |||
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"A one off thrilling and sex filled weekend could be amazing x see th e idiotic things we have to put up with?" There's not a space between the isle of Wight hot one And please lighten up a little | |||
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"From experience, single guys have the same problem if not worse so. We're not all bad and come across a fair few time wasters on the couples and single woman fronts too. It's not saying you should go with guys your not interested in, but give us a decent chance. Most messages don't even get read let alone replied to and most of the people I have spoke to send the odd short message then vanish - conversation is a two way street. I've also come across some many couples that claim to hotwife/cuckold couples but don't actually have a clue what it means or really entails. " Well put chap; if its fake couple, or single profiles they spoil it for the majority. I understand that a connection must be established, but if I you expect someone to read a length profile meet your filters and send you a length message. I don't think its to much to send a message back stating ' your not my type, or sorry no thanks ' its just respect. I feel like fab has become a market and a lot of good produce ( single guys ) get over look. Who are both gen realiable & experienced | |||
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"From experience, single guys have the same problem if not worse so. We're not all bad and come across a fair few time wasters on the couples and single woman fronts too. It's not saying you should go with guys your not interested in, but give us a decent chance. Most messages don't even get read let alone replied to and most of the people I have spoke to send the odd short message then vanish - conversation is a two way street. I've also come across some many couples that claim to hotwife/cuckold couples but don't actually have a clue what it means or really entails. Well put chap; if its fake couple, or single profiles they spoil it for the majority. I understand that a connection must be established, but if I you expect someone to read a length profile meet your filters and send you a length message. I don't think its to much to send a message back stating ' your not my type, or sorry no thanks ' its just respect. I feel like fab has become a market and a lot of good produce ( single guys ) get over look. Who are both gen realiable & experienced" politeness costs nothing of course and we do reply if its a sensible message but you just need to look at the posts on this thread to see the idiots out there who spoil it for everyone else. | |||
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"Stick to your tv's And your webcam veris (cool btw not) Leave the hotwifes to the specialists Case closed " note statement on forum: Don't Badmouth other members. Keep it cool please | |||
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"Stick to your tv's And your webcam veris (cool btw not) Leave the hotwifes to the specialists Case closed note statement on forum: Don't Badmouth other members. Keep it cool please" The best policy is to ignore in these cases. | |||
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"Drives me crazy local ladies posting that they are stood u or let down yet won’t chat or reply when I make comments happy to travel or meet local. Just give this guy a chance and see how we get on " Lol not that local at all But thanks for the comment | |||
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"A one off thrilling and sex filled weekend could be amazing x see th e idiotic things we have to put up with? There's not a space between the isle of Wight hot one And please lighten up a little " He was only being nice! | |||
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"A one off thrilling and sex filled weekend could be amazing x see th e idiotic things we have to put up with? There's not a space between the isle of Wight hot one And please lighten up a little He was only being nice! " ThankYou Mrs c x Think isle of Wight hotwife is taking fab far too seriously tbh It's a bit of fun and naughtiness combined And also lots of big o's thrown in too if your lucky | |||
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"It seems such a shame that so many guys spoil the fun for the genuine guys and couples amongst us that seriously seek a true hotwife couple or cuckold couple but the trust is so damaged that many couples strike guys from even being able to contact them as they are so fed up with the liars that haunt this site. When I was living down in NW London up until about 7 months ago, and on previous profiles over the numerous years, I used to have a few couples that I would see and all enjoy as I’d known them for 5 plus years and was always asked back to play as I was what I said and ensured all of us would be included in the fun ! We would all class ourselves as more than friends in the night but it was far more of a relationship with each couple and worked so well as trust was built all round and they would tell other couples of myself, which was always nice to hear. I’d love a couple up here but my London accent I think puts people off as a wide guy to be wary of when I’m a decent person ! Well if anyone wishes to contact me via private message as no one is barred from contacting me please by all means chat without any expectations as no one can be what everyone wants ! Have fun all and mind out for those WANNABE GUYS ! " ^^^This^^^ | |||
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