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Mingles 3rd August. First club! Help!

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By *man321 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

So, been about on the scene for a while... but this Friday I'm attending my first ever club night at Mingles (Colchester).

I'm generally speaking confident, able to hold a conversation etc... but find myself really nervous!

Any tips? Anybody going that night?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top tip...

Be YOURSELF, don't act like a moron and follow the ladies about with your cock in hand... and try to make friends within the dance floor/bar area

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By *man321 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Cool, thank you are you heading there this Friday?

I'm travelling down for the first visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly I will not be there this weekend, I'm away on holiday.

We (myself and Mrs marmite) will be returning the following Friday and Saturday night

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By *man321 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Oh okay! Hope you enjoy

Hopefully I'll get on just fine... I've read great things about the hosts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh okay! Hope you enjoy

Hopefully I'll get on just fine... I've read great things about the hosts"

It's all true... they are fantastic hosts, always helpful and welcoming towards their members old and new

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By *ORNY_DEVIL_SEEKERSCouple
over a year ago

Basildon Essex

The Hosts are great and will look after u and show u around the club , everyone is friendly so it’s the perfect club to get to know people and make new friends x

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By *man321 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"The Hosts are great and will look after u and show u around the club , everyone is friendly so it’s the perfect club to get to know people and make new friends x "

Great thank you excited but nervous! X

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By *ORNY_DEVIL_SEEKERSCouple
over a year ago

Basildon Essex


"The Hosts are great and will look after u and show u around the club , everyone is friendly so it’s the perfect club to get to know people and make new friends x

Great thank you excited but nervous! X"

Everyone is nervous first of all but soon as u entered the club that’s the hardest part out of the way and inside the club u will see everyone is friendly and easy to chat with and u will enjoy yourself and no doubt will want to come back again so relax and have a good night x

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By *man321 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"The Hosts are great and will look after u and show u around the club , everyone is friendly so it’s the perfect club to get to know people and make new friends x

Great thank you excited but nervous! X

Everyone is nervous first of all but soon as u entered the club that’s the hardest part out of the way and inside the club u will see everyone is friendly and easy to chat with and u will enjoy yourself and no doubt will want to come back again so relax and have a good night x "

Aww thanks!! I'm hoping you're right. To be honest I was hoping to arrange to meet somebody there on Friday night, but arranged through here.. so I don't feel like such a nervous nelly haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Hosts are great and will look after u and show u around the club , everyone is friendly so it’s the perfect club to get to know people and make new friends x

Great thank you excited but nervous! X

Everyone is nervous first of all but soon as u entered the club that’s the hardest part out of the way and inside the club u will see everyone is friendly and easy to chat with and u will enjoy yourself and no doubt will want to come back again so relax and have a good night x

Aww thanks!! I'm hoping you're right. To be honest I was hoping to arrange to meet somebody there on Friday night, but arranged through here.. so I don't feel like such a nervous nelly haha x"

Be brave

Im back next week haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking of going there one weekend night. I did some research on their site and the place sounds great.

However, I've never been to anywhere like that before, never done anything at all swinger like before, so the advice given is well received, thanks

Did I see that you have to be a member unless you get taken by a member as a guest?

The code of conduct seems sensible and reasonable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your going as a guest then it's down to the people that invite you in to make sure you behave in a civilised manner as far as I am aware.

Only one guest visit though, tbh the member fee is zero anyway, just ask the club direct to become a member

The only cost is a platinum membership, again discuss with owners if you wish to take advantage of this membership.

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By *ORNY_DEVIL_SEEKERSCouple
over a year ago

Basildon Essex


"If your going as a guest then it's down to the people that invite you in to make sure you behave in a civilised manner as far as I am aware.

Only one guest visit though, tbh the member fee is zero anyway, just ask the club direct to become a member

The only cost is a platinum membership, again discuss with owners if you wish to take advantage of this membership."
well worth going u can make some great friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So did you make it to the club then? (The posters above)

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By *ORNY_DEVIL_SEEKERSCouple
over a year ago

Basildon Essex


"So did you make it to the club then? (The posters above) "
yes we did thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So did you make it to the club then? (The posters above) yes we did thank you "

Not you two, your always bloody there! Haha

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By *ORNY_DEVIL_SEEKERSCouple
over a year ago

Basildon Essex


"So did you make it to the club then? (The posters above) yes we did thank you

Not you two, your always bloody there! Haha"

Not as much as you 1000 times u must be on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol close.... another milestone before Christmas I recon

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By *ORNY_DEVIL_SEEKERSCouple
over a year ago

Basildon Essex


"lol close.... another milestone before Christmas I recon "

Yay Xmas.

time for u to stuff a few turkeys

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By *ORNY_DEVIL_SEEKERSCouple
over a year ago

Basildon Essex


"lol close.... another milestone before Christmas I recon "

Maybe pull a few crackers lol

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By *ORNY_DEVIL_SEEKERSCouple
over a year ago

Basildon Essex


"lol close.... another milestone before Christmas I recon "

Or pull that wishbone lol

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