FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Meet Requests and Parties

The Lancashire / Preston Social part 2

Jump to newest
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Following on from the first thread!

The Lancashire / Preston social will take place on Saturday the 28th of July 2018 in Preston City centre.

The venue is a city centre late bar that we have exclusive use of from approximately 7.30pm until around 11pm.

After this time it will be open to the general public.

We're hoping to get as many people together to enjoy a drink and a laugh and fully embrace the social side of swinging. After the social there is a local club called Entice, where you can get to know your new found friends a little better this is a very short taxi ride away from the venue with taxi ranks next to the venue.

We have managed to secure the venue free of charge on the proviso that we have a minimum of 45 guests so please do your best to spread the word and get as many people to the social, if we can make the first one work and a great night then we are more likely to secure usage of the venue and make it a regular event on the swinging calendar.

While we want to encourage as many people to attend as possible we are sadly limiting the amount of single gentleman attending, gents this isn't personal but we want to keep the ratio's comfortable for all attending. We are going to base the amount against the amount of couples and single females attending to keep a happy ratio for all so please don't be offended if you are placed on a reserve list until numbers increase.

This is our first social and we're doing this purely for the love of swinging and all you great fabbers, we're going to do our best to make it perfect but if anyone spots anything we've missed feel free to let us know and the more that we get to attend the better it will be!

So in short :-

28th July 2018

Preston City Centre venue

Approx 7.30pm to 11pm

Free Entry (please make it worthwhile for the venue by buying a few drinks :D )

Add your name in the forum or contact us directly if you wish to be added but remain private (please specify you wish to remain private).

Chimp and Kitten xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

The current guest list is as follows :-

1. Chimp_kitten (hosts)

2. fitbirdkyylie

3. Tarzanandjane400

4. JandS4fun

5. Yeah Baby

6. Cute Manchester Swingers

7. fipeter

8. zaneio

9. Good Life x x

10. blondie8399

11. hornycouple94888

12. funtimesinthenorth

13. SexyNix

14. canda07

15. SeventhHeaven

16. Club Entice

17. Teasenrave

18. pandj2011

19. Trent and Trudy

20. nwsecrets

21. Stockingswifeandhubby62

22. Sheminx69

23. bandit12002017 +1

24. _anutd2006

25. couplesforfun29

26. LouiseandLeon

27. carl and Sue

28. HK4play

29. African gent + sf

30. Mjaneb

31. xtinax (sf)

32. MrsMac (sf)

33. Naughtycumbriagirl (sf)

34. broadmind (sm)

35. Hashy419 (sm)

36. bigcol2906 + 2 (sm)

37. HeyK (sm)

38. chorleymale997 (sm)

39. free69 (sm)

40. ant32man (sm)

41. lancsman2018 (sm)

If we've missed you off, or you're still on the list but can no longer make it give us a gentle nudge and we will make sure it's amended and up to date. It's a fantastic turn out so far and we're really grateful to you all for making the effort to join us and get the social going xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *1rty Des1resCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Could you add us to the list please

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Could you add us to the list please "

Hey

We most certainly can, thanks for joining us x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *anutd2006Couple
over a year ago

bolton

Hi thank you for the invite. But Family party has come up and can not make it. HOPE YOU ALL HAVE FUN Ian Julie xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nnthistle1Woman
over a year ago

Knutsford

Could you add me please? Look forward to meeting everyone. Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Looking forward to this

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Hi thank you for the invite. But Family party has come up and can not make it. HOPE YOU ALL HAVE FUN Ian Julie xxx "

Awwww nooooo, but family is definitely a priority. Hope you have a fantastic evening and thanks for letting us know x xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Could you add me please? Look forward to meeting everyone. Xx"

No, you're not allowed to come... we're keeping you for ourselves

We'd love to have you there if you can make it xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nnthistle1Woman
over a year ago

Knutsford

[Removed by poster at 13/07/18 12:14:20]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nnthistle1Woman
over a year ago

Knutsford


"Could you add me please? Look forward to meeting everyone. Xx

No, you're not allowed to come... we're keeping you for ourselves

We'd love to have you there if you can make it xx "

Hehe. I’ll just have to gatecrash then. look forward to seeing you there. Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *exybumsCouple
over a year ago

aboyne

We'd like to be on the guest list please. Sounds good xxxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"We'd like to be on the guest list please. Sounds good xxxx"

You're on it, looking forward to meeting you both and thanks for coming xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Few more additions to the nicely growing list. Still plenty of time for some more couples and single females.

Sorry gents but the list / reserve list is rather long so if you're not already on it you will likely not make it this time round.

1. Chimp_kitten (hosts)

2. fitbirdkyylie

3. Tarzanandjane400

4. JandS4fun

5. Yeah Baby

6. Cute Manchester Swingers

7. fipeter

8. zaneio

9. Good Life x x

10. blondie8399

11. hornycouple94888

12. funtimesinthenorth

13. SexyNix

14. canda07

15. SeventhHeaven

16. Club Entice

17. Teasenrave

18. pandj2011

19. Trent and Trudy

20. nwsecrets

21. Stockingswifeandhubby62

22. Sheminx69

23. bandit12002017 +1

24. _exybums

25. couplesforfun29

26. LouiseandLeon

27. carl and Sue

28. HK4play

29. African gent + sf

30. Mjaneb

31. Kat n Stu

32. Dirty Desires

33. lifesabeach

34. xtinax (sf)

35. MrsMac (sf)

36. Naughtycumbriagirl (sf)

37. broadmind (sm)

38. Hashy419 (sm)

39. bigcol2906 + 2 (sm)

40. HeyK (sm)

41. chorleymale997 (sm)

42. free69 (sm)

43. ant32man (sm)

44. lancsman2018 (sm)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies.. but xtinax and MrsMac can't make it xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Apologies.. but xtinax and MrsMac can't make it xxx"

Sorry to hear that but thanks very much for letting us know xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ecandsteCouple
over a year ago

Penrith

Hope this is a success and you do another. About as close as anything gets for us but unfortunately playing cricket Saturday and Sunday and waaaay too old to be burning the candle at both ends

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Hope this is a success and you do another. About as close as anything gets for us but unfortunately playing cricket Saturday and Sunday and waaaay too old to be burning the candle at both ends "

Ha ha don't worry we're sure there'll be another down the line, we can't promise an early night for you though!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Getting closer

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to the club as well afterwards !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Getting closer "

Again a massive thank you to all who are making the effort to join us for our first attempt at a social. We're sure everyone will have a great night be it purely for the social side of things or a little naughtiness later on in the evening xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Adding - Little extra , lifesabeach

xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry chimp can’t make ie have to go Ireland for work have a good social and I will be there at the next one ;( xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Sorry chimp can’t make ie have to go Ireland for work have a good social and I will be there at the next one ;( xx"

Sorry to hear that but real life comes first, thanks for letting us know chimp & kitten x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Don't think we will be going on to the club after the social as we are racing the next day but looking forward to it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Don't think we will be going on to the club after the social as we are racing the next day but looking forward to it."

Well we're extra honoured you're making the effort to come to the social given the commitments the day after. A don't think isn't a definite no.. a little encouragement may work wonders

xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"Don't think we will be going on to the club after the social as we are racing the next day but looking forward to it.

Well we're extra honoured you're making the effort to come to the social given the commitments the day after. A don't think isn't a definite no.. a little encouragement may work wonders

xx"

Well thank you, that's a lovely thing to say

And I suppose you are right, sometimes we are easily led astray xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi im looking to attend my first social are all spaces now taken? Could i be added if possible?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Hi im looking to attend my first social are all spaces now taken? Could i be added if possible?"

Hey, thanks for the interest but sorry to say we're full up single gents wise. Hopefully we can get you on the next one when we organise it x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay thanks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

We will be posting the latest list later this evening, for info of all guests we will be messaging you all individually with details of the venue etc a little nearer the weekend. x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would like to join your list please xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"We would like to join your list please xx"

Hey

Just spotted your PM, we've added you on to the list. Fingers crossed for your work commitments x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Current list, please note if you've requested to remain private we have left you off the list for obvious reasons however rest assured we have noted your attendance.

If we have missed you off or you can no longer make it and we haven't removed you please let us know and we will rectify it asap!

1. Chimp_kitten (hosts)

2. fitbirdkyylie

3. Tarzanandjane400

4. JandS4fun

5. Yeah Baby

6. Cute Manchester Swingers

7. fipeter

8. zaneio

9. Good Life x x

10. blondie8399

11. hornycouple94888

12. funtimesinthenorth

13. SexyNix

14. canda07

15. SeventhHeaven

16. Club Entice

17. Teasenrave

18. pandj2011

19. Trent and Trudy

20. nwsecrets

21. Stockingswifeandhubby62

22. Sheminx69

23. _exybums

24. couplesforfun29

25. LouiseandLeon

26. carl and Sue

27. HK4play

28. African gent + sf

29. Mjaneb

30. Kat n Stu

31. Dirty Desires

32. lifesabeach

33. little extra

34. Easygoing 2016

35. Naughtycumbriagirl (sf)

36. _nnthistle1 (sf)

37. _atie_xxx + 1 (sf)

38. broadmind (sm)

39. Hashy419 (sm)

40. bigcol2906 + 2 (sm)

41. HeyK (sm)

42. chorleymale997 (sm)

43. free69 (sm)

44. ant32man (sm)

45. lancsman2018 (sm)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would like to join your list please xx

Hey

Just spotted your PM, we've added you on to the list. Fingers crossed for your work commitments x "

Thanks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eyKMan
over a year ago

North

I am now on holiday and unable to attend. My apologies and have a great night.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to go - PLEASE add me as a single fem....

Travelling from Accrington, so if anyone is nearby, please get in touch... We can chat on here and get to know.. Hopefully travel to the venue together I'll buy you a drink

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Looking forward to venue info & meeting new peeps

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"I am now on holiday and unable to attend. My apologies and have a great night."

Thanks for letting us know we will offer up the spot to the next in line x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"I would love to go - PLEASE add me as a single fem....

Travelling from Accrington, so if anyone is nearby, please get in touch... We can chat on here and get to know.. Hopefully travel to the venue together I'll buy you a drink "

While we can't offer you a lift we can definitely add you to the guest list. Thanks for joining us x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to go - PLEASE add me as a single fem....

Travelling from Accrington, so if anyone is nearby, please get in touch... We can chat on here and get to know.. Hopefully travel to the venue together I'll buy you a drink

While we can't offer you a lift we can definitely add you to the guest list. Thanks for joining us x "

Thank you, I'll still be going anyway x

Looking forward to meeting peeps. Will be my first visit to a social and club on my own x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi seen a sm now say they cant go does that mean there is now a space available for myself?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *4tCouple
over a year ago

warrington

could you book us in and PM the details please

K xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"could you book us in and PM the details please

K xx"

Sorry just seen your message before checking the forum. Will add you on the list xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Hi seen a sm now say they cant go does that mean there is now a space available for myself?"

Really sorry but there's a reserve list that was filled up from the first forum post, we have to offer it up on the list order.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atie_xxxWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Hello,

Afraid my sf +1 can’t attend now so I’m just sf!

Just hope my nerves don’t get the better of me now!!

Hand-holder required...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Hello,

Afraid my sf +1 can’t attend now so I’m just sf!

Just hope my nerves don’t get the better of me now!!

Hand-holder required... "

Come chat have drink hun you'll be fine its a social xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Hello,

Afraid my sf +1 can’t attend now so I’m just sf!

Just hope my nerves don’t get the better of me now!!

Hand-holder required... "

We're sure you'll have a great time regardless. There'll be plenty of smiley faces around and one or two other single ladies attending too so you'll be in good company x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello,

Afraid my sf +1 can’t attend now so I’m just sf!

Just hope my nerves don’t get the better of me now!!

Hand-holder required...

We're sure you'll have a great time regardless. There'll be plenty of smiley faces around and one or two other single ladies attending too so you'll be in good company x"

And don’t forget the smiley single guys.. you’ll be just fine

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *exyNixCouple
over a year ago

Preston

Really looking forward to it and meeting old and new friends xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello,

Afraid my sf +1 can’t attend now so I’m just sf!

Just hope my nerves don’t get the better of me now!!

Hand-holder required...

Come chat have drink hun you'll be fine its a social xx"

I'm going on my own, we'll be fine x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Details will be sent out tomorrow for all those confirmed as attending x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Details will be sent out tomorrow for all those confirmed as attending x "

Will there be an updated guest list to? Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting excited now, not long left

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Details will be sent out tomorrow for all those confirmed as attending x

Will there be an updated guest list to? Xx"

There certainly will, we're just adding a few more on and making sure it's up to date then we will post it shortly xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Details will be sent out tomorrow for all those confirmed as attending x

Will there be an updated guest list to? Xx

There certainly will, we're just adding a few more on and making sure it's up to date then we will post it shortly xx "

?? xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *1rty Des1resCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Central Preston Hotel booked. looks like a good day and night

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Current list

1. Chimp_kitten (hosts)

2. fitbirdkyylie

3. Tarzanandjane400

4. JandS4fun

5. Yeah Baby

6. Cute Manchester Swingers

7. fipeter

8. zaneio

9. Good Life x x

10. blondie8399

11. hornycouple94888

12. SexyNix

13. canda07

14. SeventhHeaven

15. Club Entice

16. Teasenrave

17. pandj2011

18. Trent and Trudy

19. nwsecrets

20. Stockingswifeandhubby62

21. Sheminx69

22. _exybums

23. couplesforfun29

24. LouiseandLeon

25. carl and Sue

26. HK4play

27. African gent + sf

28. Mjaneb

29. Kat n Stu

30. Dirty Desires

31. lifesabeach

32. little extra

33. NOTOTT

34. _4t

35. Naughtycumbriagirl (sf)

36. _nnthistle1 (sf)

37. _atie_xxx (sf)

38. x.whisper.x (sf)

39. broadmind (sm)

40. Hashy419 (sm)

41. bigcol2906 + 2 (sm)

42. chorleymale997 (sm)

43. free69 (sm)

44. ant32man (sm)

45. lancsman2018 (sm)

46. xbaddaddyx (sm)

47. hornylad 2017 (sm)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nnthistle1Woman
over a year ago

Knutsford


"Current list

1. Chimp_kitten (hosts)

2. fitbirdkyylie

3. Tarzanandjane400

4. JandS4fun

5. Yeah Baby

6. Cute Manchester Swingers

7. fipeter

8. zaneio

9. Good Life x x

10. blondie8399

11. hornycouple94888

12. SexyNix

13. canda07

14. SeventhHeaven

15. Club Entice

16. Teasenrave

17. pandj2011

18. Trent and Trudy

19. nwsecrets

20. Stockingswifeandhubby62

21. Sheminx69

22. _exybums

23. couplesforfun29

24. LouiseandLeon

25. carl and Sue

26. HK4play

27. African gent + sf

28. Mjaneb

29. Kat n Stu

30. Dirty Desires

31. lifesabeach

32. little extra

33. NOTOTT

34. _4t

35. Naughtycumbriagirl (sf)

36. _nnthistle1 (sf)

37. _atie_xxx (sf)

38. x.whisper.x (sf)

39. broadmind (sm)

40. Hashy419 (sm)

41. bigcol2906 + 2 (sm)

42. chorleymale997 (sm)

43. free69 (sm)

44. ant32man (sm)

45. lancsman2018 (sm)

46. xbaddaddyx (sm)

47. hornylad 2017 (sm)"

Really looking forward to meeting everyone. Thanks chimpkitten for all your work for this event. xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andsome4uMan
over a year ago

cheshire

Hi guys long time no speak , hope you both are well can you inbox me please .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Not long now We're looking forward to Saturday xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

x.whisper.x

If you get this send us a message as we can't mail you due to our sex being blocked...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Majority of details sent out. Single gents we're sending yours out in a little bit as we have to nip out... sit tight we will get them to you by the end of the night x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andsome4uMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"Majority of details sent out. Single gents we're sending yours out in a little bit as we have to nip out... sit tight we will get them to you by the end of the night x"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Majority of details sent out. Single gents we're sending yours out in a little bit as we have to nip out... sit tight we will get them to you by the end of the night x"

Got ours thank you see you Sat xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And ours, see everyone on sat xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *1rty Des1resCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Got ours. Hotel booked . Just need 24hrs whilst she decides what to wear

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *easenRaveCouple
over a year ago

cap d’agde france

Looking forward to meeting peeps. Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting excited and nervous

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *milySteve2015Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Hey, please could you add us. This sounds fantastic. Thanks E&S.x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Hey, please could you add us. This sounds fantastic. Thanks E&S.x"

Hey

We certainly can, we will message you details in a couple of hours once we're back from work x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something has Happened and entice is now shut trying to get info at the moment

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Something has Happened and entice is now shut trying to get info at the moment "

We've just spotted this.. trying to find out what's going on! x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Something has Happened and entice is now shut trying to get info at the moment

We've just spotted this.. trying to find out what's going on! x "

Yes this is their update 20mins ago

Due to circumstances beyond our control we will be shut until further notice, xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Something has Happened and entice is now shut trying to get info at the moment

We've just spotted this.. trying to find out what's going on! x

Yes this is their update 20mins ago

Due to circumstances beyond our control we will be shut until further notice, xx"

We haven't been given any info as of yet, and annoyingly this element of the evening is completely out of our control. We were running the social with the ability for people to head to Entice post party. Hopefully we can get some idea if they will be open tomorrow but we're guessing this isn't a one day closure xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Something has Happened and entice is now shut trying to get info at the moment

We've just spotted this.. trying to find out what's going on! x

Yes this is their update 20mins ago

Due to circumstances beyond our control we will be shut until further notice, xx

We haven't been given any info as of yet, and annoyingly this element of the evening is completely out of our control. We were running the social with the ability for people to head to Entice post party. Hopefully we can get some idea if they will be open tomorrow but we're guessing this isn't a one day closure xx "

Post says until further notice which is gutting as no other club near, think No3 be to far not sure

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Something has Happened and entice is now shut trying to get info at the moment

We've just spotted this.. trying to find out what's going on! x

Yes this is their update 20mins ago

Due to circumstances beyond our control we will be shut until further notice, xx

We haven't been given any info as of yet, and annoyingly this element of the evening is completely out of our control. We were running the social with the ability for people to head to Entice post party. Hopefully we can get some idea if they will be open tomorrow but we're guessing this isn't a one day closure xx

Post says until further notice which is gutting as no other club near, think No3 be to far not sure"

No3 is a great club but as you say it may be a little far in terms of travel for those who have accommodation booked in Preston. It's safe to say we're a little more than miffed as we haven't been given any info from Entice or a courtesy message to let us know what's going on.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Something has Happened and entice is now shut trying to get info at the moment

We've just spotted this.. trying to find out what's going on! x

Yes this is their update 20mins ago

Due to circumstances beyond our control we will be shut until further notice, xx

We haven't been given any info as of yet, and annoyingly this element of the evening is completely out of our control. We were running the social with the ability for people to head to Entice post party. Hopefully we can get some idea if they will be open tomorrow but we're guessing this isn't a one day closure xx

Post says until further notice which is gutting as no other club near, think No3 be to far not sure

No3 is a great club but as you say it may be a little far in terms of travel for those who have accommodation booked in Preston. It's safe to say we're a little more than miffed as we haven't been given any info from Entice or a courtesy message to let us know what's going on. "

Miffed is understatement - the effort you've put in & not a word personally from them!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

As you may or may not be aware Entice has closed without notice. We have had no information from them regarding this and no indication this was going to happen! The social was organised with Entice in mind but not in company with Entice. So the social will go on regardless. We appreciate this may change plans for some of you, if you decide you no longer wish to attend then please let us know. We are genuinely gutted as we appreciate peoples weekends are precious but we hope you understand that this is completely out of out control.

xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"As you may or may not be aware Entice has closed without notice. We have had no information from them regarding this and no indication this was going to happen! The social was organised with Entice in mind but not in company with Entice. So the social will go on regardless. We appreciate this may change plans for some of you, if you decide you no longer wish to attend then please let us know. We are genuinely gutted as we appreciate peoples weekends are precious but we hope you understand that this is completely out of out control.

xx"
You have done a great job getting this social together , dont worry about the club been closed . We do a social in york and dont go on to a club , most people just enjoy a social . They may get together later if they have booked a hotel , but if not they have got to meet new friends , have a great night x Jayne

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *umbriancplCouple
over a year ago

barrow

that didntt last long

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"that didntt last long"

Do you mean the club?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"As you may or may not be aware Entice has closed without notice. We have had no information from them regarding this and no indication this was going to happen! The social was organised with Entice in mind but not in company with Entice. So the social will go on regardless. We appreciate this may change plans for some of you, if you decide you no longer wish to attend then please let us know. We are genuinely gutted as we appreciate peoples weekends are precious but we hope you understand that this is completely out of out control.

xx You have done a great job getting this social together , dont worry about the club been closed . We do a social in york and dont go on to a club , most people just enjoy a social . They may get together later if they have booked a hotel , but if not they have got to meet new friends , have a great night x Jayne"

Thanks for the support, we know the club isn't the end of the world it's just frustrating they haven't had the decency to inform us of the closure. Especially after messaging us yesterday saying how much they were looking forward to it. We have tried to support a new club by working with them. Just gutted for people who had planned on the social and the club xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andsome4uMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"As you may or may not be aware Entice has closed without notice. We have had no information from them regarding this and no indication this was going to happen! The social was organised with Entice in mind but not in company with Entice. So the social will go on regardless. We appreciate this may change plans for some of you, if you decide you no longer wish to attend then please let us know. We are genuinely gutted as we appreciate peoples weekends are precious but we hope you understand that this is completely out of out control.

xx You have done a great job getting this social together , dont worry about the club been closed . We do a social in york and dont go on to a club , most people just enjoy a social . They may get together later if they have booked a hotel , but if not they have got to meet new friends , have a great night x Jayne

Thanks for the support, we know the club isn't the end of the world it's just frustrating they haven't had the decency to inform us of the closure. Especially after messaging us yesterday saying how much they were looking forward to it. We have tried to support a new club by working with them. Just gutted for people who had planned on the social and the club xx"

It’s not the first time entice has let people down so not fair , wow what I way to run a business .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *umbriancplCouple
over a year ago

barrow

yeah

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"yeah "

Sadly so, as others have commented it's not the first time. Hopefully we can still make it a great night despite the club situation

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *umbriancplCouple
over a year ago

barrow

was thinking of trying it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"was thinking of trying it "

Think it may be a little to late for that one...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *umbriancplCouple
over a year ago

barrow

like ryanair lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *1rty Des1resCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

It’s quite distance to no3 if you’re staying in a Preston hotel.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"It’s quite distance to no3 if you’re staying in a Preston hotel. "

We're a little annoyed to say the least by the clubs actions. They have ripped an integral part of the social out without the courtesy of even messaging. We're just so sorry for people who have made plans with the intention of going to the club.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Everyone, we're really sorry but we're going to have to pull the plug on this social.

We didn't listen to people when they said you can't hold a successful social in Preston... we thought we managed to pull this off but it's collapsed.

We've had 15 couples cancel due to travelling distances with more expected, people wanted an evening where play may be involved. We can completely understand this, we would have tried to continue the social but we have an agreement with the venue of a minimum 60 guests in order to make it financially viable for them to open early.

We expect there are others who will change their plans once they hear the news that Entice has closed without warning or explanation.

Due to this, with much frustration, anger, and disappointment we have made the decision to cancel this now.

We have spent weeks doing admin for this social, "A" spent days trying to source a venue, and Entice couldn't wait to get involved at the prospect of money be sent their way.

We didn't want to leave it any longer and risk people ruining their weekend completely.

Again please accept our sincere apologies, this decision has not been taken lightly and it's safe to say Entice will never see us set foot through their doors should they ever open again.

We will try to email you all individually to ensure this information gets to you. Again we're very sorry we have had to take this decision but we hope you understand our rational in doing so.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Everyone, we're really sorry but we're going to have to pull the plug on this social.

We didn't listen to people when they said you can't hold a successful social in Preston... we thought we managed to pull this off but it's collapsed.

We've had 15 couples cancel due to travelling distances with more expected, people wanted an evening where play may be involved. We can completely understand this, we would have tried to continue the social but we have an agreement with the venue of a minimum 60 guests in order to make it financially viable for them to open early.

We expect there are others who will change their plans once they hear the news that Entice has closed without warning or explanation.

Due to this, with much frustration, anger, and disappointment we have made the decision to cancel this now.

We have spent weeks doing admin for this social, "A" spent days trying to source a venue, and Entice couldn't wait to get involved at the prospect of money be sent their way.

We didn't want to leave it any longer and risk people ruining their weekend completely.

Again please accept our sincere apologies, this decision has not been taken lightly and it's safe to say Entice will never see us set foot through their doors should they ever open again.

We will try to email you all individually to ensure this information gets to you. Again we're very sorry we have had to take this decision but we hope you understand our rational in doing so. "

We've cancelled our room at Travelodge so thanks for update. Hopefully others can cancel their hotels. Thank you guys for all you've done & are gutted you've been so badly let down by the Club being totally out of your control xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andsome4uMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"Everyone, we're really sorry but we're going to have to pull the plug on this social.

We didn't listen to people when they said you can't hold a successful social in Preston... we thought we managed to pull this off but it's collapsed.

We've had 15 couples cancel due to travelling distances with more expected, people wanted an evening where play may be involved. We can completely understand this, we would have tried to continue the social but we have an agreement with the venue of a minimum 60 guests in order to make it financially viable for them to open early.

We expect there are others who will change their plans once they hear the news that Entice has closed without warning or explanation.

Due to this, with much frustration, anger, and disappointment we have made the decision to cancel this now.

We have spent weeks doing admin for this social, "A" spent days trying to source a venue, and Entice couldn't wait to get involved at the prospect of money be sent their way.

We didn't want to leave it any longer and risk people ruining their weekend completely.

Again please accept our sincere apologies, this decision has not been taken lightly and it's safe to say Entice will never see us set foot through their doors should they ever open again.

We will try to email you all individually to ensure this information gets to you. Again we're very sorry we have had to take this decision but we hope you understand our rational in doing so. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andsome4uMan
over a year ago

cheshire

So gutted but it’s not your fault guys

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *esterLilacCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Everyone, we're really sorry but we're going to have to pull the plug on this social.

We didn't listen to people when they said you can't hold a successful social in Preston... we thought we managed to pull this off but it's collapsed.

We've had 15 couples cancel due to travelling distances with more expected, people wanted an evening where play may be involved. We can completely understand this, we would have tried to continue the social but we have an agreement with the venue of a minimum 60 guests in order to make it financially viable for them to open early.

We expect there are others who will change their plans once they hear the news that Entice has closed without warning or explanation.

Due to this, with much frustration, anger, and disappointment we have made the decision to cancel this now.

We have spent weeks doing admin for this social, "A" spent days trying to source a venue, and Entice couldn't wait to get involved at the prospect of money be sent their way.

We didn't want to leave it any longer and risk people ruining their weekend completely.

Again please accept our sincere apologies, this decision has not been taken lightly and it's safe to say Entice will never see us set foot through their doors should they ever open again.

We will try to email you all individually to ensure this information gets to you. Again we're very sorry we have had to take this decision but we hope you understand our rational in doing so. "

Gutted for you guys. As fellow hosts we know how much hard work goes into organising and communicating with a large group of people. Such a shame that you’ve had to pull the plug but never feel guilty as I’m sure its a decision you’ve made in the best interests of everyone.

Sad for you x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inxaliciousWoman
over a year ago

bolton

As we have stated on profiles and other threads minx has been taken back into hospital and hence why we have had to close the club tonight we are to open tomorrow evening hopefully xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"As we have stated on profiles and other threads minx has been taken back into hospital and hence why we have had to close the club tonight we are to open tomorrow evening hopefully xx"

Unfortunately due to the clubs initial status of being closed without indication of reopening this has caused the majority of couples to cancel attending the social.

We genuinely hope Minx is ok but the clubs handling of the situation and the information posted has in our opinion been poor and led to weeks of planning going down the drain.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Really sorry to read you have had to cancel the social after all your hard work, I thought majority of people were going for just that and not for the club afterwards, that was our intention anyway but I suppose people may get horny and want to make the night go on a little longer. There are not enough social events which is a pity as can often be a good night to meet people for future meets and a night with like minded people is always a good laugh.

Hope you get to enjoy your weekend anyway and I'm sure it's appreciated by a lot of people that you tried to make this work. Take care and stay happy xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Thank you to all of you who have messaged, and thank you for your understanding of the situation. We are not being rude but we've run out of messages so waiting for the block to be lifted.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gutted for everyone on here, was shaping up for a good night.

Obviously no fault of yours, the organisation and communication has been perfect in getting this together.

Count me in next time

Now, what to do Saturday...?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it too late to get on the guest list?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

Would say so as it's cancelled

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proper laughing!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Absolutely gutted for you chimpkitten, thankyou for the time and effort you put in. It's disappointing but people will understand you've made the right decision and is out of your control.

We're now thinking what to do.......

J&S xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *tockingscouple69Couple
over a year ago

Pontefract

Gutted about this we was looking forward to meeting new people x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *milySteve2015Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Really sorry to read you have had to cancel the social after all your hard work, I thought majority of people were going for just that and not for the club afterwards, that was our intention anyway but I suppose people may get horny and want to make the night go on a little longer. There are not enough social events which is a pity as can often be a good night to meet people for future meets and a night with like minded people is always a good laugh.

Hope you get to enjoy your weekend anyway and I'm sure it's appreciated by a lot of people that you tried to make this work. Take care and stay happy xx"

Here, here!! Was a great idea to have a social event,there definitely aren't enough! Might still head out into Preston if anyone fancies a drink with us....you never know, Entice might be open???

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *milySteve2015Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Absolutely gutted for you chimpkitten, thankyou for the time and effort you put in. It's disappointing but people will understand you've made the right decision and is out of your control.

We're now thinking what to do.......

J&S xxx"

Us too! We have a babysitter which is not going to waste.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

We have a babysitter which is a rarity so it won't be going to waste!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *exybumsCouple
over a year ago

aboyne

Don't want to be cheeky, but if anyone still wants to have a bit of a mini social tomorrow in Preston, let us know we'd be up for it.

Someone else would have to decide where though, as we have never been out in Preston before. Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really sorry to read you have had to cancel the social after all your hard work, I thought majority of people were going for just that and not for the club afterwards, that was our intention anyway but I suppose people may get horny and want to make the night go on a little longer. There are not enough social events which is a pity as can often be a good night to meet people for future meets and a night with like minded people is always a good laugh.

Hope you get to enjoy your weekend anyway and I'm sure it's appreciated by a lot of people that you tried to make this work. Take care and stay happy xx"

Couldn't agree with you more. Such a pity, but thank you so much for all your efforts xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd be up for joining others for a mini social, but also don't know Preston to suggest where xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *milySteve2015Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"We'd be up for joining others for a mini social, but also don't know Preston to suggest where xx"

Chatting to Sexybums and we've been told  Forum, Hartley's or 1842 are good for drinks. Can anyone recommend which one would be good?x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a rare Saturday afternoon and night free... Are there any gorgeous guys free in the Lancs region?

Please message me x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"We'd be up for joining others for a mini social, but also don't know Preston to suggest where xx

Chatting to Sexybums and we've been told  Forum, Hartley's or 1842 are good for drinks. Can anyone recommend which one would be good?x "

We'd suggest hartleys, that was our second choice for the social. Staff are great and drinks reasonable. It was only due to capacity we didn't choose it x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *restonBigOzMan
over a year ago

Preston

Hey all if you are still out for social and fancy a curry in town centre drop me a message an il look after you, hope you all have a great evening x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iganflirt1Man
over a year ago

wigan

Gutted for you guys! you have obviously put a lot of effort into arranging this social only to be let down by things out of you’re control.

I wasn’t on the guest list but my jollies in Tenerife have been cut short so I will be enjoying a few drinks in Preston this afternoon/evening if anyone fancies meeting up.

Phil

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iganflirt1Man
over a year ago

wigan

For those not familiar with Preston ..... as you come out of the train station there are 2 nice traditional pubs within 10 yards.

(The vic & the railway)

Then just stroll up fishergate and there are plenty of nice little bars mostly on the right hand side with some tucked away in little side streets.

Personally I love the place and find it a lot friendlier & more relaxed than Wigan......which is a complete shithole full of beds & steds.

Phil

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

We think we'll be popping into Hartleys this evening before catching a short train journey to Chorley onto no3 for the night. We'll post later when we know for sure if any wishes to join us xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *se me when you wantMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Hi can me and my brother come along please

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

We're not sure if we're going for drinks yet or where. Think we'll message a few people off the original guest list that are coming to Preston still rather than post here as it could get silly.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ny-Way-U-Like-TwoCouple
over a year ago

Chorley

Entice updated their status 19 hours ago saying hopefully Minx would be out of hospital today so they'd be able to open tonight!

We'll be there if they are!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ny-Way-U-Like-TwoCouple
over a year ago

Chorley


"As we have stated on profiles and other threads minx has been taken back into hospital and hence why we have had to close the club tonight we are to open tomorrow evening hopefully xx

Unfortunately due to the clubs initial status of being closed without indication of reopening this has caused the majority of couples to cancel attending the social.

We genuinely hope Minx is ok but the clubs handling of the situation and the information posted has in our opinion been poor and led to weeks of planning going down the drain. "

Why cancel the social? Carl has said the club should be open tonight.

Spitting your dummy out at them when Minx had been rushed into hospital is disgusting.

After all it was mainly supposed to be a social in town... with the club after for those that wanted it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"As we have stated on profiles and other threads minx has been taken back into hospital and hence why we have had to close the club tonight we are to open tomorrow evening hopefully xx

Unfortunately due to the clubs initial status of being closed without indication of reopening this has caused the majority of couples to cancel attending the social.

We genuinely hope Minx is ok but the clubs handling of the situation and the information posted has in our opinion been poor and led to weeks of planning going down the drain.

Why cancel the social? Carl has said the club should be open tonight.

Spitting your dummy out at them when Minx had been rushed into hospital is disgusting.

After all it was mainly supposed to be a social in town... with the club after for those that wanted it."

That's harsh, the organisers had to have a minimum of 60 people to have exclusive use of the bar for the social as 15 couples cancelled the social (with more to follow) due to no notice from Entice if they were opening or not the numbers didn't stack up. I know it was a health problem which obviously I hope they are fine but if they were posts from Entice on fab then they should have been in contact with Chimp Kitten first they were left in limbo to what was going on.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iganflirt1Man
over a year ago

wigan


"As we have stated on profiles and other threads minx has been taken back into hospital and hence why we have had to close the club tonight we are to open tomorrow evening hopefully xx

Unfortunately due to the clubs initial status of being closed without indication of reopening this has caused the majority of couples to cancel attending the social.

We genuinely hope Minx is ok but the clubs handling of the situation and the information posted has in our opinion been poor and led to weeks of planning going down the drain.

Why cancel the social? Carl has said the club should be open tonight.

Spitting your dummy out at them when Minx had been rushed into hospital is disgusting.

After all it was mainly supposed to be a social in town... with the club after for those that wanted it.

That's harsh, the organisers had to have a minimum of 60 people to have exclusive use of the bar for the social as 15 couples cancelled the social (with more to follow) due to no notice from Entice if they were opening or not the numbers didn't stack up. I know it was a health problem which obviously I hope they are fine but if they were posts from Entice on fab then they should have been in contact with Chimp Kitten first they were left in limbo to what was going on."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"As we have stated on profiles and other threads minx has been taken back into hospital and hence why we have had to close the club tonight we are to open tomorrow evening hopefully xx

Unfortunately due to the clubs initial status of being closed without indication of reopening this has caused the majority of couples to cancel attending the social.

We genuinely hope Minx is ok but the clubs handling of the situation and the information posted has in our opinion been poor and led to weeks of planning going down the drain.

Why cancel the social? Carl has said the club should be open tonight.

Spitting your dummy out at them when Minx had been rushed into hospital is disgusting.

After all it was mainly supposed to be a social in town... with the club after for those that wanted it."

Without wishing to get into a massive debate if you had taken the time to read our explanation above you'd realise why the social was cancelled.

However as you appear to be un willing to do so allow us to sum it up.

We arranged the social, we agreed with the venue that we would have 60 guests in order to provide the social for free.

Entice wanted to get involved with the social so we promoted the social on the basis people could go to a club afterwards in order to play if they wish.

Over 80 guests signed up to the social

Then without warning, without a courtesy message and with no indication of what was going on club entice "CARL" posted a status to say the club is closed until further notice.

A number of our guests who had joined us based on going to the club afterwards read the status contacted me and apologised but they no longer wanted to attend purely a social evening. People wanted the option to play at a club at the end of the night.

So as the numbers fell the ability to hold the social in a free venue also collapsed.

After this entice "carl" then puts up a status saying they are hoping to open tomorrow. Well that's just lovely and all but firstly the damage was already done... secondly there is no guarantee to people that the club is going to open. As you've already said it's a social with a club for those who wanted it.. well people wanted it.

Please note the club is free to do what ever it wants in terms of opening and closing, however when you're working with someone to promote an evening having common courtesy to message them when you're not opening is usually the done thing instead of posting an ambiguous status.

So we're not spitting our dummy out, we spent weeks and weeks trying to organise the social and the last thing we wanted to do was cancel it. However since the numbers dropped and understandably so, we couldn't source another venue the day before, nor do we want to ruin peoples weekends who wanted to play. We actually care about the swinging community and want to keep them fully informed about the situation and not just post a status saying "social cancelled until further notice"

So yes it was mainly a social, but a social with limited numbers in a venue that's to big for the remaining numbers attending which would have left the venue out of pocket for isn't really fair on anyone. Hope that answers your question fully, and in future please take the time to scroll up and read the rationale that was given instead of accusing people of "spitting your dummy out"

Oh and also for reference despite all this we did message Entice to say regardless of what has happened we hope that Minx is ok... why... because of common decency and courtesy!

If things are that urgent why is the club posting status updates, if you can afford the time to post that as a status then change it later in the evening why not post something like "Minx in hospital, club can't open tonight however should be open Saturday" And since you've decided to poke the fire lets face it, this isn't the first time the club has let a lot of people down, opening night ring any bells when the club cancelled the same day leaving a lot of people out of pocket with hotels?!

Chimp and Kitten x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

[Removed by poster at 28/07/18 13:52:16]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"As we have stated on profiles and other threads minx has been taken back into hospital and hence why we have had to close the club tonight we are to open tomorrow evening hopefully xx

Unfortunately due to the clubs initial status of being closed without indication of reopening this has caused the majority of couples to cancel attending the social.

We genuinely hope Minx is ok but the clubs handling of the situation and the information posted has in our opinion been poor and led to weeks of planning going down the drain.

Why cancel the social? Carl has said the club should be open tonight.

Spitting your dummy out at them when Minx had been rushed into hospital is disgusting.

After all it was mainly supposed to be a social in town... with the club after for those that wanted it.

Without wishing to get into a massive debate if you had taken the time to read our explanation above you'd realise why the social was cancelled.

However as you appear to be un willing to do so allow us to sum it up.

We arranged the social, we agreed with the venue that we would have 60 guests in order to provide the social for free.

Entice wanted to get involved with the social so we promoted the social on the basis people could go to a club afterwards in order to play if they wish.

Over 80 guests signed up to the social

Then without warning, without a courtesy message and with no indication of what was going on club entice "CARL" posted a status to say the club is closed until further notice.

A number of our guests who had joined us based on going to the club afterwards read the status contacted me and apologised but they no longer wanted to attend purely a social evening. People wanted the option to play at a club at the end of the night.

So as the numbers fell the ability to hold the social in a free venue also collapsed.

After this entice "carl" then puts up a status saying they are hoping to open tomorrow. Well that's just lovely and all but firstly the damage was already done... secondly there is no guarantee to people that the club is going to open. As you've already said it's a social with a club for those who wanted it.. well people wanted it.

Please note the club is free to do what ever it wants in terms of opening and closing, however when you're working with someone to promote an evening having common courtesy to message them when you're not opening is usually the done thing instead of posting an ambiguous status.

So we're not spitting our dummy out, we spent weeks and weeks trying to organise the social and the last thing we wanted to do was cancel it. However since the numbers dropped and understandably so, we couldn't source another venue the day before, nor do we want to ruin peoples weekends who wanted to play. We actually care about the swinging community and want to keep them fully informed about the situation and not just post a status saying "social cancelled until further notice"

So yes it was mainly a social, but a social with limited numbers in a venue that's to big for the remaining numbers attending which would have left the venue out of pocket for isn't really fair on anyone. Hope that answers your question fully, and in future please take the time to scroll up and read the rationale that was given instead of accusing people of "spitting your dummy out"

Oh and also for reference despite all this we did message Entice to say regardless of what has happened we hope that Minx is ok... why... because of common decency and courtesy!

If things are that urgent why is the club posting status updates, if you can afford the time to post that as a status then change it later in the evening why not post something like "Minx in hospital, club can't open tonight however should be open Saturday" And since you've decided to poke the fire lets face it, this isn't the first time the club has let a lot of people down, opening night ring any bells when the club cancelled the same day leaving a lot of people out of pocket with hotels?!

Chimp and Kitten x "

Agree with chimpkitten on this one.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 28/07/18 13:58:15]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *himp_Kitten OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

For any persons who we have let down with the social again our sincere apology.

Infusions in Blackpool has kindly offered discounted entry tonight for couples and single fems that were on our list. If you're looking for a club contact them directly for details.

Massive thank you to Infusions.

Also a massive thank you to No3 in Chorley for offering to host future socials, and Town House for positive support regarding the social being cancelled.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"As we have stated on profiles and other threads minx has been taken back into hospital and hence why we have had to close the club tonight we are to open tomorrow evening hopefully xx

Unfortunately due to the clubs initial status of being closed without indication of reopening this has caused the majority of couples to cancel attending the social.

We genuinely hope Minx is ok but the clubs handling of the situation and the information posted has in our opinion been poor and led to weeks of planning going down the drain.

Why cancel the social? Carl has said the club should be open tonight.

Spitting your dummy out at them when Minx had been rushed into hospital is disgusting.

After all it was mainly supposed to be a social in town... with the club after for those that wanted it.

Without wishing to get into a massive debate if you had taken the time to read our explanation above you'd realise why the social was cancelled.

However as you appear to be un willing to do so allow us to sum it up.

We arranged the social, we agreed with the venue that we would have 60 guests in order to provide the social for free.

Entice wanted to get involved with the social so we promoted the social on the basis people could go to a club afterwards in order to play if they wish.

Over 80 guests signed up to the social

Then without warning, without a courtesy message and with no indication of what was going on club entice "CARL" posted a status to say the club is closed until further notice.

A number of our guests who had joined us based on going to the club afterwards read the status contacted me and apologised but they no longer wanted to attend purely a social evening. People wanted the option to play at a club at the end of the night.

So as the numbers fell the ability to hold the social in a free venue also collapsed.

After this entice "carl" then puts up a status saying they are hoping to open tomorrow. Well that's just lovely and all but firstly the damage was already done... secondly there is no guarantee to people that the club is going to open. As you've already said it's a social with a club for those who wanted it.. well people wanted it.

Please note the club is free to do what ever it wants in terms of opening and closing, however when you're working with someone to promote an evening having common courtesy to message them when you're not opening is usually the done thing instead of posting an ambiguous status.

So we're not spitting our dummy out, we spent weeks and weeks trying to organise the social and the last thing we wanted to do was cancel it. However since the numbers dropped and understandably so, we couldn't source another venue the day before, nor do we want to ruin peoples weekends who wanted to play. We actually care about the swinging community and want to keep them fully informed about the situation and not just post a status saying "social cancelled until further notice"

So yes it was mainly a social, but a social with limited numbers in a venue that's to big for the remaining numbers attending which would have left the venue out of pocket for isn't really fair on anyone. Hope that answers your question fully, and in future please take the time to scroll up and read the rationale that was given instead of accusing people of "spitting your dummy out"

Oh and also for reference despite all this we did message Entice to say regardless of what has happened we hope that Minx is ok... why... because of common decency and courtesy!

If things are that urgent why is the club posting status updates, if you can afford the time to post that as a status then change it later in the evening why not post something like "Minx in hospital, club can't open tonight however should be open Saturday" And since you've decided to poke the fire lets face it, this isn't the first time the club has let a lot of people down, opening night ring any bells when the club cancelled the same day leaving a lot of people out of pocket with hotels?!

Chimp and Kitten x "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"As we have stated on profiles and other threads minx has been taken back into hospital and hence why we have had to close the club tonight we are to open tomorrow evening hopefully xx

Unfortunately due to the clubs initial status of being closed without indication of reopening this has caused the majority of couples to cancel attending the social.

We genuinely hope Minx is ok but the clubs handling of the situation and the information posted has in our opinion been poor and led to weeks of planning going down the drain.

Why cancel the social? Carl has said the club should be open tonight.

Spitting your dummy out at them when Minx had been rushed into hospital is disgusting.

After all it was mainly supposed to be a social in town... with the club after for those that wanted it.

Without wishing to get into a massive debate if you had taken the time to read our explanation above you'd realise why the social was cancelled.

However as you appear to be un willing to do so allow us to sum it up.

We arranged the social, we agreed with the venue that we would have 60 guests in order to provide the social for free.

Entice wanted to get involved with the social so we promoted the social on the basis people could go to a club afterwards in order to play if they wish.

Over 80 guests signed up to the social

Then without warning, without a courtesy message and with no indication of what was going on club entice "CARL" posted a status to say the club is closed until further notice.

A number of our guests who had joined us based on going to the club afterwards read the status contacted me and apologised but they no longer wanted to attend purely a social evening. People wanted the option to play at a club at the end of the night.

So as the numbers fell the ability to hold the social in a free venue also collapsed.

After this entice "carl" then puts up a status saying they are hoping to open tomorrow. Well that's just lovely and all but firstly the damage was already done... secondly there is no guarantee to people that the club is going to open. As you've already said it's a social with a club for those who wanted it.. well people wanted it.

Please note the club is free to do what ever it wants in terms of opening and closing, however when you're working with someone to promote an evening having common courtesy to message them when you're not opening is usually the done thing instead of posting an ambiguous status.

So we're not spitting our dummy out, we spent weeks and weeks trying to organise the social and the last thing we wanted to do was cancel it. However since the numbers dropped and understandably so, we couldn't source another venue the day before, nor do we want to ruin peoples weekends who wanted to play. We actually care about the swinging community and want to keep them fully informed about the situation and not just post a status saying "social cancelled until further notice"

So yes it was mainly a social, but a social with limited numbers in a venue that's to big for the remaining numbers attending which would have left the venue out of pocket for isn't really fair on anyone. Hope that answers your question fully, and in future please take the time to scroll up and read the rationale that was given instead of accusing people of "spitting your dummy out"

Oh and also for reference despite all this we did message Entice to say regardless of what has happened we hope that Minx is ok... why... because of common decency and courtesy!

If things are that urgent why is the club posting status updates, if you can afford the time to post that as a status then change it later in the evening why not post something like "Minx in hospital, club can't open tonight however should be open Saturday" And since you've decided to poke the fire lets face it, this isn't the first time the club has let a lot of people down, opening night ring any bells when the club cancelled the same day leaving a lot of people out of pocket with hotels?!

Chimp and Kitten x

Agree with chimpkitten on this one.

"

And us x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *se me when you wantMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Could add me and my brother to the list please

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *milySteve2015Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"We think we'll be popping into Hartleys this evening before catching a short train journey to Chorley onto no3 for the night. We'll post later when we know for sure if any wishes to join us xx"

Give us a shout when you're there that's probably where we'll head too.x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for forming us and letting all who were going know!

I shall look forward to Entices' explanation and apology to ALL X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *restonBigOzMan
over a year ago

Preston

Anyone still out in preston

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we have stated on profiles and other threads minx has been taken back into hospital and hence why we have had to close the club tonight we are to open tomorrow evening hopefully xx

Unfortunately due to the clubs initial status of being closed without indication of reopening this has caused the majority of couples to cancel attending the social.

We genuinely hope Minx is ok but the clubs handling of the situation and the information posted has in our opinion been poor and led to weeks of planning going down the drain.

Why cancel the social? Carl has said the club should be open tonight.

Spitting your dummy out at them when Minx had been rushed into hospital is disgusting.

After all it was mainly supposed to be a social in town... with the club after for those that wanted it.

Without wishing to get into a massive debate if you had taken the time to read our explanation above you'd realise why the social was cancelled.

However as you appear to be un willing to do so allow us to sum it up.

We arranged the social, we agreed with the venue that we would have 60 guests in order to provide the social for free.

Entice wanted to get involved with the social so we promoted the social on the basis people could go to a club afterwards in order to play if they wish.

Over 80 guests signed up to the social

Then without warning, without a courtesy message and with no indication of what was going on club entice "CARL" posted a status to say the club is closed until further notice.

A number of our guests who had joined us based on going to the club afterwards read the status contacted me and apologised but they no longer wanted to attend purely a social evening. People wanted the option to play at a club at the end of the night.

So as the numbers fell the ability to hold the social in a free venue also collapsed.

After this entice "carl" then puts up a status saying they are hoping to open tomorrow. Well that's just lovely and all but firstly the damage was already done... secondly there is no guarantee to people that the club is going to open. As you've already said it's a social with a club for those who wanted it.. well people wanted it.

Please note the club is free to do what ever it wants in terms of opening and closing, however when you're working with someone to promote an evening having common courtesy to message them when you're not opening is usually the done thing instead of posting an ambiguous status.

So we're not spitting our dummy out, we spent weeks and weeks trying to organise the social and the last thing we wanted to do was cancel it. However since the numbers dropped and understandably so, we couldn't source another venue the day before, nor do we want to ruin peoples weekends who wanted to play. We actually care about the swinging community and want to keep them fully informed about the situation and not just post a status saying "social cancelled until further notice"

So yes it was mainly a social, but a social with limited numbers in a venue that's to big for the remaining numbers attending which would have left the venue out of pocket for isn't really fair on anyone. Hope that answers your question fully, and in future please take the time to scroll up and read the rationale that was given instead of accusing people of "spitting your dummy out"

Oh and also for reference despite all this we did message Entice to say regardless of what has happened we hope that Minx is ok... why... because of common decency and courtesy!

If things are that urgent why is the club posting status updates, if you can afford the time to post that as a status then change it later in the evening why not post something like "Minx in hospital, club can't open tonight however should be open Saturday" And since you've decided to poke the fire lets face it, this isn't the first time the club has let a lot of people down, opening night ring any bells when the club cancelled the same day leaving a lot of people out of pocket with hotels?!

Chimp and Kitten x

Agree with chimpkitten on this one.

And us x"

With you here Chimp x Kitten

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top