FabSwingers.com forum: All Invlusive Holiday

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Afternoon all

I have an all inclusive holiday booked for August 8th to Paphos Cyprus. But due to circumstance am looking for a companion!

All expenses paid and would obviously meet first to find compatibility!

Looking for a female aged 30-40 to accompany me in a 4* adult only hotel!

If you feel you may be interested. Please send me a message!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Would you be looking for just a companion to go on the trip or expecting more?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would you be looking for just a companion to go on the trip or expecting more? "

No expectations of anything other than somebody fun to spend a quality week in the sun with

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

You could ask the people that have verified you as you have already met them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You could ask the people that have verified you as you have already met them

Thanks for your advice.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"You could ask the people that have verified you as you have already met them

Thanks for your advice.

To be honest, I can't see you having much luck. Most women will feel that whatever a man says, if he is in paying for a holiday for them he going to want something in return. Especially if you, as I assume you are, planning to share a room.

Very few women will want that sort of pressure.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Would you be looking for just a companion to go on the trip or expecting more?

No expectations of anything other than somebody fun to spend a quality week in the sun with "

That you’re quite specific in looking for a female aged 30-40 might suggest otherwise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You could ask the people that have verified you as you have already met them

Thanks for your advice.

To be honest, I can't see you having much luck. Most women will feel that whatever a man says, if he is in paying for a holiday for them he going to want something in return.

Especially if you, as I assume you are, planning to share a room.

Absolut

Very few women will want that sort of pressure. "

Again thank you. It is a long shot, and if people are not interested then they don’t need to worry. If anyone would like to get to know more, they can.

Nobody is being harmed in any way!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a bit strange to be offering the holiday which is 6 months away yet. Why not just get to know someone, see if you both fancy each other, then invite her on holiday with you?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"You could ask the people that have verified you as you have already met them

Thanks for your advice.

To be honest, I can't see you having much luck. Most women will feel that whatever a man says, if he is in paying for a holiday for them he going to want something in return.

Especially if you, as I assume you are, planning to share a room.

Absolut

Very few women will want that sort of pressure.

Again thank you. It is a long shot, and if people are not interested then they don’t need to worry. If anyone would like to get to know more, they can.

Nobody is being harmed in any way!!!!"

Indeed they aren't, but it seems to me you are going about this the wrong way. Most women will feel you are essentially trying to bribe them into having sex with you. Not a good look

It seems to me the best suggestion is that made above, that you concentrate on meeting someone without mentioning the holiday and. If you like them, you can then invite them.

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By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london

"Seems a bit strange to be offering the holiday which is 6 months away yet. Why not just get to know someone, see if you both fancy each other, then invite her on holiday with you?"

To be fair I think 6 months sounds good. Plenty of time for both parties. Especially the girls to get to know more about the fella.

I’m sure it’s not everyone’s cup of tea and the Bloke would probably be looking for more then someone to rub cream in his back but hey. If your up for a free holiday. Fantastic and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Totally understand. Reason for 6 months is to get to know someone. Meet a few times to see connection on both parties etc etc.

No, there really is no expectation other than someone to enjoy the experience with. And the person would understand that through any meetings!!!

Each to their own. And if nobody is interested, then other avenues will be explored!!!!!

It’s an opportunity if anybody would like to see. If not, nobody is any worse off!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the 30-40 age range?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Totally understand. Reason for 6 months is to get to know someone. Meet a few times to see connection on both parties etc etc.

No, there really is no expectation other than someone to enjoy the experience with. And the person would understand that through any meetings!!!

Each to their own. And if nobody is interested, then other avenues will be explored!!!!!

It’s an opportunity if anybody would like to see. If not, nobody is any worse off!!!"

But why mention the holiday? Do you really want people only interested in you because you can offer them a free holiday?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why the 30-40 age range?"

Because that is my age bracket and would prefer It to be someone of similar age to myself!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Totally understand. Reason for 6 months is to get to know someone. Meet a few times to see connection on both parties etc etc.

No, there really is no expectation other than someone to enjoy the experience with. And the person would understand that through any meetings!!!

Each to their own. And if nobody is interested, then other avenues will be explored!!!!!

It’s an opportunity if anybody would like to see. If not, nobody is any worse off!!!

But why mention the holiday? Do you really want people only interested in you because you can offer them a free holiday? "

Open and honest from the start. I’m looking for someone to come away with me! Its my choice if I’d like to take that risk surely!!!!! And I’d meet them a number o times before first!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Six months is a good amount of time to get to know someone and if a woman is happy to go on holiday with you under those circumstances I can't see a problem. After all many women are prepared to go to a guy's house and have sex with them after chatting briefly with them on Fab.

I can see a couple of flies in the ointment. You'd be left high and dry if the woman changed her mind the week before, it could be a really awkward holiday if you fell out on day 2, what happens if either of you want to have sex with someone you meet on holiday, what happens after the holiday if the lady feels it's a relationship?

Of course you might have thought all this through already.

I hope you find someone and you both have a great time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Six months is a good amount of time to get to know someone and if a woman is happy to go on holiday with you under those circumstances I can't see a problem. After all many women are prepared to go to a guy's house and have sex with them after chatting briefly with them on Fab.

Of course you might have thought all this through already.

I hope you find someone and you both have a great time."

I’d like to think I’m an easy going, open honest person, and all of those things are fair points. Hopefully meeting beforehand would prevent some of it happening!! But I guess it’s the risk you take.

As said, somebody fun, good company, likes a cocktail by the pool and good food. I’m sure we could overcome some of the barriers!!!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Of course you might have thought all this through already.

I hope you find someone and you both have a great time.

As said, somebody fun, good company, likes a cocktail by the pool and good food. I’m sure we could overcome some of the barriers!!!!!

Yeah. Speaking as a woman I'm not sure men fully understand the leap of trust required to travel to a foreign country with a man where they know no one but him.

I'm not saying that to put you off, more to explain why you might be short on responses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Of course you might have thought all this through already.

I hope you find someone and you both have a great time.

As said, somebody fun, good company, likes a cocktail by the pool and good food. I’m sure we could overcome some of the barriers!!!!!

Yeah. Speaking as a woman I'm not sure men fully understand the leap of trust required to travel to a foreign country with a man where they know no one but him.

I'm not saying that to put you off, more to explain why you might be short on responses."

And I totally understand that too! But if someone is out there and willing to give it a whirl and get to know me over the next 6 months then it may just work for both parties

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Totally understand. Reason for 6 months is to get to know someone. Meet a few times to see connection on both parties etc etc.

No, there really is no expectation other than someone to enjoy the experience with. And the person would understand that through any meetings!!!

Each to their own. And if nobody is interested, then other avenues will be explored!!!!!

It’s an opportunity if anybody would like to see. If not, nobody is any worse off!!!

But why mention the holiday? Do you really want people only interested in you because you can offer them a free holiday?

Open and honest from the start. I’m looking for someone to come away with me! Its my choice if I’d like to take that risk surely!!!!! And I’d meet them a number o times before first!!! "

Yes, it's obviously your choice entirely, but I just find it a bit strange.

Presumably you don't want to meet anyone who is only interested because you will pay for a holiday for them, but anyone who does contact you because of the holiday freebie is exactly that person.

What's wrong with just meeting someone in the normal way and if you get on, telling them about the holiday and asking if they want to come?

It seems to me you lose both ways doing it your way. As.

1. Lots of women will be put off as it looks like you are trying to buy sex with a holiday

2. Those that are attracted by the offer are those who, by definition, are more attracted to the holiday than to you.

Obviously, it's completely your choice what you do, but I think this is a very bad move.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I absolutely love Paphos - it's one of my favourite places, know it like the back of my hand, feel safe and relaxed there etc. I would seize almost any opportunity to go there but even if I was in your age range I still wouldn't be tempted by your offer. You might think you're coming at this from a place of generosity but most women would feel a huge sense of obligation were they to accept - more or less as if they'd been 'bought' (and I surely don't need to spell out what that implies?).

You really should just have concentrated on getting to know people and maybe raised the holiday issue after you'd built up some rapport and trust with someone. Failing that, whenever I've been in Paphos there seemed to be a fair number of expats and holidaymakers popping up on 'who's near' though admittedly these were mostly men and couples ....

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Op why not advertise for a person to share the cost of the holiday..?

Pretty sure there are groups in your area for people who may want to go on such a holiday but not alone and may be happier with companionship..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op why not advertise for a person to share the cost of the holiday..?

Pretty sure there are groups in your area for people who may want to go on such a holiday but not alone and may be happier with companionship.. "

The holiday is already booked and paid for. It was donecometely out of looking for somebody to share the experience with.

I am genuinely hoping to find someone to share the experience with and just thought this may be an avenue to look into that!

Clearly from what people are saying, I’m coming across as a very different person to what I am and so regret ever thinking it may have been a good idea!!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How did you book an aeroplane seat without the passenger's name and passport number?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How did you book an aeroplane seat without the passenger's name and passport number?"

All booked under a previous name. That would all just need changing with the agent

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe your ex will turn up at the airport, still wanting to go.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It is a long shot, and if people are not interested then they don’t need to worry. If anyone would like to get to know more, they can.

Nobody is being harmed in any way!!!!"

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

If you want to start another thread OP in the meet section I will make sure it stays to people who are interested

Can the people who are not interested in the offer please leave the thread to the people who are

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