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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So we are a married couple and mrs is bi curious never tried it but wants to obviously I'm nervous so want the hubby to be around to watch but not join in which seem to put people off any takers?

By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think you will find it very difficult to get what you are looking for.

Most ladies who meet couples will want to play with both of you. Ladies who only want to play with a lady will do so one on one with no partners there to watch.

It is not popular for ladies to put on a live porn show to titillate your partner.

You may find a lady who is up for this in a club but it is highly unlikely to happen otherwise

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah a few people have said go to clubs but we are a bit nervous about that might do eventually but gonna stick with it for now.

By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

It might happen, you never know. Just don't get too disheartened if it doesn't

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks had a fair bit of interest but a lot if it turns out to be people unwilling to prove they are genuine or keen on pic swapping but quiet when a meet is brought up lol.

By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

If they are keen on pic swapping there is a distinct possibility that it is a man pretending to be a woman.

It happens a lot on here.

If people are asking for more pics just refuse. You have body pics already on your profile, just send a face pic and that's it.

Don't give the sad bloke sat at home wanking any more material!

As for proving they are genuine I'm not sure what to suggest.

I don't give my phone number out to people on here. Only 3 or 4 people have it and one of them is my sister

I don't use messaging apps as I prefer to do all messaging on here, that way if anyone gets abusive I can report them to fab and the evidence is on here to prove it.

Just about the only thing I would do to prove myself is take a new picture, maybe holding something you suggest, and send it via direct photo. Even then the recipient might have to wait a little while because I'm usually busy looking after my mum.

Maybe you could try asking to meet up for a cuppa and a chat. I prefer a social first and many other genuine ladies on here do too.