FabSwingers.com forum: Going to clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Never been to club ,really want to go, not on my own tho ,?????? can anybody help ? Have to go with a woman tho

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going with a woman isn't going on your own,now is it ?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can’t you go on your own?. Lots of single guys go on there own

By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP why does it have to be a woman?

Just because you go to a club with someone doesn't mean you are going to fuck them.

You could meet up with a couple or another single male who can be your wingman just to start with so you don't feel quite so nervous.

Or (radical idea here) you could go by yourself. I went on my own the first time and most occasions since.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know just never been to one before ,so I bit nervous

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if your nervous/anxious then going on your own for the first time could have some benefits though. You can come and go as you wish and only spend as much time there as you wish. If you go on your own you wouldn't feel tied to anyone else while there so a bit more freedom. Or perhaps some friendly people might realize that your on your own so might make more of an effort to talk to you make you feel welcome.

Natural to be a bit nervous if you've never been to one before but if you can't find someone to go with you don't necessarily let that hold you back from trying these things. Also the more often you go to these places the more likely you are to get to know people to go with/meet there in future.