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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ? ![]() You're already verified, don't steal his thunder ![]() | |||
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ? ![]() ![]() He is as well, and if we can help each other ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck ![]() See you at saturday my ![]() | |||
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"I'm in Leeds it's raining, so I'd appreciate someone bringing me some sunshine, ![]() ![]() Sorry mate your not having my sunshine, we only just got it ![]() | |||
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck ![]() ![]() Im not gay pal sorry | |||
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading " Haha but seriously if you want a drink and chin wag, just let me know...so I can decline ![]() | |||
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck ![]() ![]() Haha me neither but it is so good to pul your leg ![]() | |||
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck ![]() Awww I wanna go swimming now!! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading " It's not a competition Don't listen to the hype | |||
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading It's not a competition Don't listen to the hype " Seems like a competition to me too be honest ...end of the day it does come down to looks intially and there is always someone better looking. ..just the way it is i suppose...but perseverance pays off lol... (i hope) | |||
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"Good luck OP. Why not put up a meet.. ![]() ![]() Thanks sexyspecs...I've put one up but pretty short notice...if i don't get any joy I'll just go on cams later Ps..wish you was closer x | |||
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading It's not a competition Don't listen to the hype Seems like a competition to me too be honest ...end of the day it does come down to looks intially and there is always someone better looking. ..just the way it is i suppose...but perseverance pays off lol... (i hope) " Nonsense I am a fat short arse in my 40's I'm bald, I'm hairy, I wear specs I have met both males and females from this site. I have met MF couples and MM couples too. I only meet those I find attractive - some would argue I punch above my weight (I don't buy into that approach either btw) I never blow smoke up other peoples arses and I certainly don't chase anyone 'to make them feel special or wanted' Going by your thoughts, I'd never get a meet. The thing is, I have never struggled to get meets. I don't get to meet everyone I would like to by any means, but that said the site has thrown several meets my way from people I would have never thought were interested in me. But meet I have. I've never viewed it as a competition. I have been largely respectful to all users - male and female (apart from maybe a bit of light hearted mickey taking) and I have pretty much always approached the site in a non sexual way. All I have been is myself. You will find that most people don't expect any more than that. Good luck. I hope you get your meet veri soon. In the mean time, don't turn it into a frantic chase. It shows and it is rarely attractive. | |||
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading It's not a competition Don't listen to the hype Seems like a competition to me too be honest ...end of the day it does come down to looks intially and there is always someone better looking. ..just the way it is i suppose...but perseverance pays off lol... (i hope) Nonsense I am a fat short arse in my 40's I'm bald, I'm hairy, I wear specs I have met both males and females from this site. I have met MF couples and MM couples too. I only meet those I find attractive - some would argue I punch above my weight (I don't buy into that approach either btw) I never blow smoke up other peoples arses and I certainly don't chase anyone 'to make them feel special or wanted' Going by your thoughts, I'd never get a meet. The thing is, I have never struggled to get meets. I don't get to meet everyone I would like to by any means, but that said the site has thrown several meets my way from people I would have never thought were interested in me. But meet I have. I've never viewed it as a competition. I have been largely respectful to all users - male and female (apart from maybe a bit of light hearted mickey taking) and I have pretty much always approached the site in a non sexual way. All I have been is myself. You will find that most people don't expect any more than that. Good luck. I hope you get your meet veri soon. In the mean time, don't turn it into a frantic chase. It shows and it is rarely attractive. " Fair enough. ...i get were your coming from and thanks for the advice... | |||
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading It's not a competition Don't listen to the hype Seems like a competition to me too be honest ...end of the day it does come down to looks intially and there is always someone better looking. ..just the way it is i suppose...but perseverance pays off lol... (i hope) " Nah it's not a competition, if it is its only with yourself. As you say there are always better looking, more successful, fitter guys. All you can be is the best 'you' you can be. After that you'll get meets. I'm average joe but I do ok. Get to socials, make some fab friends | |||
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading It's not a competition Don't listen to the hype Seems like a competition to me too be honest ...end of the day it does come down to looks intially and there is always someone better looking. ..just the way it is i suppose...but perseverance pays off lol... (i hope) Nah it's not a competition, if it is its only with yourself. As you say there are always better looking, more successful, fitter guys. All you can be is the best 'you' you can be. After that you'll get meets. I'm average joe but I do ok. Get to socials, make some fab friends" I must admit the club scene sounds pretty intimidating haha..plus if you recognised someone there that would be pretty awkward lol | |||
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"I'm in Leeds it's raining, so I'd appreciate someone bringing me some sunshine, ![]() ![]() I have a torch-light. Will that do? ![]() | |||
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading It's not a competition Don't listen to the hype Seems like a competition to me too be honest ...end of the day it does come down to looks intially and there is always someone better looking. ..just the way it is i suppose...but perseverance pays off lol... (i hope) " I fuck ugly men. Some may think I'm not fussy but I really am. Not everyone needs a handsome face or body to be turned on and you may think someone is better looking than you,whereas I may think you're better looking than him. | |||
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" I must admit the club scene sounds pretty intimidating haha..plus if you recognised someone there that would be pretty awkward lol" It only feels intimidating the first time you go. The most difficult part of all is ringing the bell or opening the door. After that it all drops into place. As for being awkward if you met somebody you knew... it would surely be just as awkward for them. What are they going to do? Tell someone, "Hey, guess what? I saw Whassiname in the swingers club I go to yesterday." I don't think that will happen. If you want a recommendation for a club to go to I could point you in the right direction of one that's not too frightening. | |||
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"Thanks for the replies. .wasn't expecting any to be honest. .cheers for the compliments as well...i know were all competing against each other but i appreciate the replys and im getting used to the sarcasm finally....patience is the key as i keep reading It's not a competition Don't listen to the hype Seems like a competition to me too be honest ...end of the day it does come down to looks intially and there is always someone better looking. ..just the way it is i suppose...but perseverance pays off lol... (i hope) I fuck ugly men. Some may think I'm not fussy but I really am. Not everyone needs a handsome face or body to be turned on and you may think someone is better looking than you,whereas I may think you're better looking than him. " Yeah i suppose it's all about opinions..just wish someones.opinion about me would be positive and get me a meet of some kind lol | |||
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"Get off to a club.Its much easier to meet and chat to people. ![]() You took the words out of my mouth ![]() | |||
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"Get off to a club.Its much easier to meet and chat to people. ![]() ![]() Yes i keep seeing this 'get to a club' but everyone is different and i don't think i could do this personally | |||
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck ![]() ![]() ![]() Just been and done a mile now im starving!!! | |||
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"Get off to a club.Its much easier to meet and chat to people. ![]() ![]() See my previous post. Also, if you go to this one you could also get them to verify you. I'd send you their details but you've blocked all singles! If you want to talk off forum I'm prepared to listen. | |||
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"Get off to a club.Its much easier to meet and chat to people. ![]() ![]() Thanks for the offer but i just couldn't go to a club | |||
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck ![]() ![]() ![]() That's fast..!! swimming or bath? ![]() | |||
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"It's not looking good is it people lol ![]() It is looking good People are giving you helpful advice Stop looking to the end game | |||
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"It's not looking good is it people lol ![]() It was a joke!! | |||
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"Let me run a scenario past you Every time you go to the pub, are you looking to pull ? Of course you may be, but most people go to the pub to hang out, socialise, make friends, get pissed or generally just have a good time. Not every time are they on the prowl, looking for an opportunity to be sexual with someone. A pub is a micro community, we know some others in passing, to say 'hi' to. Others we might have a pint with and get to know a bit better. Others you know intimately. They know you in and out. You know them in and out. That's how I treat the site. I don't go looking. Some people you get to know better than others. Some are attracted to you cos you're a good guy, a laugh. Others just want to get down and dirty with you. Others might just think you're a dick. It takes time to develop these relationships, just as it takes time to walk in a pub and everyone in there knows you to at least say 'hi' to. Fab is no different. Engage people. Talk to them. Make them laugh. Stagger them with your smile. Give some a cheeky wink. See what happens. Don't walk in and say 'hey, who wants a pint with me' because most will be thinking 'who is this guy ?' I hope all that makes sense ![]() Absolutely just that. ![]() | |||
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck ![]() ![]() ![]() I've just been and broke 1 km for the first time! Chuffed | |||
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"Let me run a scenario past you Every time you go to the pub, are you looking to pull ? Of course you may be, but most people go to the pub to hang out, socialise, make friends, get pissed or generally just have a good time. Not every time are they on the prowl, looking for an opportunity to be sexual with someone. A pub is a micro community, we know some others in passing, to say 'hi' to. Others we might have a pint with and get to know a bit better. Others you know intimately. They know you in and out. You know them in and out. That's how I treat the site. I don't go looking. Some people you get to know better than others. Some are attracted to you cos you're a good guy, a laugh. Others just want to get down and dirty with you. Others might just think you're a dick. It takes time to develop these relationships, just as it takes time to walk in a pub and everyone in there knows you to at least say 'hi' to. Fab is no different. Engage people. Talk to them. Make them laugh. Stagger them with your smile. Give some a cheeky wink. See what happens. Don't walk in and say 'hey, who wants a pint with me' because most will be thinking 'who is this guy ?' I hope all that makes sense ![]() This is perfect! I find that this site works best when it's used in addition to the swinging lifestyle, use it to keep in contact with those you've met or as a tool to possibly meet in the future. As a sole way of meeting people it's very difficult unless you're a single lady or a hot couple | |||
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck ![]() ![]() ![]() Thats 40 lengths..well done | |||
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck ![]() ![]() ![]() Still wanna go swimming!! Mean boys showing off like that!! ![]() | |||
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ahhh but ariel you have that gorgeous body and tattoos to show off | |||
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Mrs: swap the pint for a cider and you've got yourself a date ![]() | |||
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Im glad i could help you get a date lol so much for me haha | |||
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yeahh I got a date ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Mrs: hahahaha I'll bring a friend ![]() | |||
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Happy ending for all ![]() | |||
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Pity you are miles away. I'd buy you a cake ![]() | |||
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes please ![]() | |||
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh i lol..what sort of cake? ![]() | |||
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() This thread has been moved to another forum | |||
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Why has it been moved? | |||
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Lol tattoos I have...and have shorts on so most are being shown off today lol...not sure about the other bit tho ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It's got moved by admin to meet requests. The lounge is for chatting about random shit....not about meets ![]() | |||
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"Well im the opposite i cant be arsed meeting so im going for a swim...good luck ![]() ![]() ![]() I did 1050 metres, so just over. Thanks! It's a long way from a mile though! | |||
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"I am looking for the same so if anyone can help us both ? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ...and that is why i put in the subject box "am i ok to post this in the lounge?" ![]() | |||
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