FabSwingers.com forum: Private (Relaxed) Party Scene in West Hampshire/East Wiltshire

By *achiavellian_adventures OP Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke/Andover

Hey Guys and Gals,

Since we've relocated to between Basingstoke and Andover we've fallen off the radar slightly as we've moved away from our preferred clique of alternative life-style friends. We're not a huge fan of the nearby (well, an hour away) clubs as they are all a bit too in your face with too much showboating for our liking. We have also tried the local munches but they were a little too unconventional for us and the people were a bit too "interesting"... We prefer things to be all a bit more relaxed, hedonistic and bohemian. After all, it's not just about sticking things in one another.

Is there any local appetite for some far more relaxed small gatherings? Perhaps a few carefully-vetted couples and very trusted singles? A few bottles of good quality merlot, some good conversation about something other than sex and we take it from there? No crap tribal tattoos etc, no leather hotpants, only lace and silk, perhaps in a small relaxed venue that isn't a front-room which is straight from an early 90s episode of changing rooms? Keen to hear people's thoughts who are local to us - yes we're snobs but it's our thing!

Flick and Cam xx

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By *ustyfunforuCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

This part of Hampshire is diabolical!!

We have not managed to meet anyone within a 30 mile radius, but have found some fun nearer to the south coast.

We may be on the edge of a few of your limits but would love to chat some more.

Maybe we should turn one of our outbuildings into a club!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally understand this thread OP. Yet to find anywhere for my own personal tastes...

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By *achiavellian_adventures OP Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke/Andover

"This part of Hampshire is diabolical!!

We have not managed to meet anyone within a 30 mile radius, but have found some fun nearer to the south coast.

We may be on the edge of a few of your limits but would love to chat some more.

Maybe we should turn one of our outbuildings into a club!!!!

Xx"

We were toying with the idea of renting of a big posh house for the night and hosting our own evening, providing some simple refreshments and splitting the cost between the very carefully selected attendees. The only problem is that Cam (our male) is off on a 4 month business trip from mid-July, so we may have lett it a bit late to organise.

Although outbuildings could work, especially if it is a nice private rural location. Perhaps a small informal summer festival-themed night? Or a village fete theme? Very easy to resource and decorate... Any other ideas? Kind of like an alternative anti-Swingfields for a very select bunch?

Flick and Cam xx

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By *ll about uMan
over a year ago

near you

I quite often get keys to empty property's over a weekend if this would be of any interest to you? They would be on the south coast though? Some are furnished, some aren't

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By *achiavellian_adventures OP Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke/Andover

"I quite often get keys to empty property's over a weekend if this would be of any interest to you? They would be on the south coast though? Some are furnished, some aren't "

Thanks for the offer but we would really want somewhere local to fill the void in our area. So really somewhere graphically between Salisbury and Basingstoke... Maybe Winchester - although probably not as far as Reading as that is a bit close to Ab Fabs. Perhaps just split the bill between those attending with those staying overnight Paying more? We're certainly not interested in turning a profit. A quick Google suggests there are some nice places available for around £500 a night.

Flick and Cam xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey Guys and Gals,

Flick and Cam xx"

Sounds a really nice idea. I'm outside your area in East Sussex but I'd love to be involved in something like that! I might even provide the Merlot for everyone myself!

Joe x

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By *achiavellian_adventures OP Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke/Andover

Sorry Joe. We were thinking of keeping it for local people so a clique can be established locally.

We were thinking only couples and single fems, under 45 and good looking. We would want to keep each session very small and exclusive for people with the right mindset. So essentially what Heaven Circle could be if it wasn't so commercial.

Flick and Cam xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep sure! Well, if you ever move to East Sussex then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im game. I love the nawtyness lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like your sentiments. it is nice to appreciate the finer things in life and also enjoy the company of like minded people...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi MA

Did you take this forward? Would be interested in joining if you did, I think I fit your Target audience.

Jamie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would very much like this. As in the Basingstoke area there is nothing

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