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"Just to add Saturday 9th April is also party night at tease 2 Lady in red theme Dress code is for the ladies sexy dress so ladies dress to impress and the guys it is smart casual smart jeans and trainers are allower. Entrance to the club is £30 per couples £35 for single guys and £5 for the single ladies I have just checked the website and it looks amazing. Plenty of rooms to play in and a new round table has just been fitted. " Hadnt seen that so will check that out x | |||
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"Recon I have mailed about 40 lots of people so far,,,,sore fingers..... good social tho hopefully xxxxxxx Bump too" I have emailed all those on my hotlist Bump and pass the word on bump lets get this to be a regular thing. | |||
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" sounds like lots of fun and can't wait to see you again Fruit. xxx " been about 4 years i recon. Think the swing has our name on it lol. | |||
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"Was it something i said" Not at all _ruit, sorry if I gave that impression, just really not that well. Sex has to take a back burner till I'm well again. I didn't realise people only had to pay if they wanted to go into club. That's sounds great then a good chance for everyone to check our a club if they want. And tease is. great | |||
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" sounds like lots of fun and can't wait to see you again Fruit. xxx been about 4 years i recon. Think the swing has our name on it lol. " omg, how can i forget the giggling on the swing.. hehe | |||
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"So far we have a good amount interested in coming on saturday. Be good to see.some.new people and get a look around the new club for thise that have always wondered what a club is like." Will I get thumped if I try and sneak in on the tour lol Are we going to receive a message on where to go once we arrive for the social or will it become apparent? xx | |||
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"The function room is within tease." Thanks Shaz xx | |||
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"As the single guys are in jeans etc, in the club is it similar dress code to Chams? " No its nothing like Chams, men wear smart casual and women as sexy as they like I guess men could wear something different if they wanted, but its not a sauna based club. | |||
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"so there is gonna be single guys in a club when the club states couples and fems only sat night think a lot of people that normally go will not be attending this weekend they choose to go on saturday nights because single males can't attend and buddie up does not make you a couple and everyone knows that they will split up inside i fear for the backlash this could bring !" Cant everyone stop worrying about wether people are single or not and just have fun?? For one night only!! | |||
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"its smart casual" and for once my smart casual trousers are already washed and ironed so no last minute panics here then lol. See you at 8. | |||
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"its smart casual and for once my smart casual trousers are already washed and ironed so no last minute panics here then lol. See you at 8. " If the ladies wish to bring a little something to change into then feel free to do soo. | |||
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"As the single guys are in jeans etc, in the club is it similar dress code to Chams? No its nothing like Chams, men wear smart casual and women as sexy as they like I guess men could wear something different if they wanted, but its not a sauna based club." Sorry it was late and I was being dumb - for women, what sort of dress code is it? I usually wear a babydoll for Chams, would this be out of place at Tease or is that still ok? I'm being blonde today.. . | |||
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"your missing the point people are not being given a informed choice!" I would imagine anyone who pairs up will be wanting to play together. Just like you will get every weekend with people who aren't a couple but have decided to go together for whatever reasons. There is no one checking on the door that people are married or partners in real life after all. If you're not into single men don't play with them then, i can't imagine anyone would be so stupid as to make as to make a nuisance of themselves they will be too busy having fun with the people they have gone in with... | |||
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" Yes we should be there all being well xxx The people who run this club make everyone feel very welcome and be lovely to be part of the fab party the two lovely ladys are putting together x love to meet lots off fab there be fun night xx" Cant now go family birday party xx or i would be there xx hope you all have a sexy fun time xxxxx | |||
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"yes thats what i mean no one had put in this thread that single men would not be allowed into the club to play it reads like they will be if you read the first couple of posts it says go for a look round and stay and play if you like it which they clearly won't be allowed to do" I havent been much on this past week with both children at home ill this week. PLEASE NOTE. Let me clear things up. When this was originally arranged well over a month ago the owners wer happy for this one night to allow the single men to enter the club(with the owners discretion) it is after all their club and they had decided for this night they would be ok with this regardless what the website says(ps they wrote the website so they know what it says) I have been in touch with the owners and they have now decided that single men CAN enter the club BUT they now have to "pair up" with a single lady to make a couple. YES I know (before you may start screaming) that this is different from the oprginal plan but after all it is the owners decision afterall. It is different from the original plan BUT as they own the club it is their right to alter plans. Shaz and I have spent many hours mailing people to encourage people to attend the social which is free with the added benefit of being to have a tour around and the club can also meet new single men that dont have membership and get themselves know to the club as nice guys. Now I hope that clears the question up. I will quickly will read whatelse has been written and then reply as fast as I can but do have a child off school again today ill so am also trying to be mum at the same time. | |||
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"yes thats what i mean no one had put in this thread that single men would not be allowed into the club to play it reads like they will be if you read the first couple of posts it says go for a look round and stay and play if you like it which they clearly won't be allowed to do" As you clearly not a single male you wont have received the information about single males for that evening,we have answered many questions as to if they will be allowed into the club for that night with information given by the club. | |||
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"so there is gonna be single guys in a club when the club states couples and fems only sat night think a lot of people that normally go will not be attending this weekend they choose to go on saturday nights because single males can't attend and buddie up does not make you a couple and everyone knows that they will split up inside i fear for the backlash this could bring !" Your really not happy are you? I am a single fem I am not a couple, I am teaming up with a male friend that I havent seen for over 4 years now and we will play as a couple that evening. Should I not be allowed to go to the club on a couples night as not a real couple? Fuck buddies arent real couples as in not the commited marriage relationship kind. So should they not be allowed? Your assuming that I will split up and leave my partner in crime for the night.....I wont and have never done that. Please do not speak for other people and what they will do. The only people up in arms about this seems to be you. | |||
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"shock horror 2 single women that only meet men dont have a problem them being in saturday night!! couples choose to go on a saturday night because they have no interest in single males but as the social is being held in the function room single males will be mingling with the paying guests you posted on here this has been arranged with the club for some time but is NOT mentioned on the club web site, the club web site clearly states sdc.com party nite(lady in red theme) couples and fems only NOT that single males will be sat in the bar therefore NOT giving people that are planning going to tease this saturday evening a full informed explanation of the changed RULES of this saturday night." And it goes on. The owners decide if they put something about the social on their website. They didnt. It is their choice. The function room is SEPERATE to the club, the bar in the function room is seperate from the club. The club is upstairs and the rooms for the night and the function room is downstairs. IT was down to the owners if they put the social on their site but they didnt. That has nothing to do with myself or shaz. Has that cleared that up...? | |||
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"Thats the point single males should not be in the club saturday nite so u dont have to avoid or not play with them !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! " .....am I assuming your not wanting to come then.....? Now off to read the post on club section I heard about. Can everyone put their toys back in the pram and calm down. We are trying to put togther a social that gives people chance to chat,chill, meet new people and then they have the option of a tour and then can enter the club(now paired up) with the right membership costs and entrance costs. This hasnt been designed to annoy people but to have fun and encourage some maybe none club goers to the club. | |||
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"No the argument has been about single males being in a club on a saturday night when they should not be.yes we all know fbs etc got to clubs but you are not going as couples or fb u are purely buddying up to gain entry to the club and as for the comment the swinging world may not be for us well we have been doing this years and very happily thanks.and we now know 10 couples that will not be attending the club this Saturday due to this situation " mmm very interesting so i guess those cpls that you say were going to attend will instead go to another club that has fb cpls and ppl coupling up for the evening attending them.how do you know the ppl you chat,flirt or play with are not fb cpls ????? do you ask them .on a seperate note why are you so interested in this social when infact you are going to another event in nottingham | |||
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" We will ensure people entering the building(for the social) get taken in the right direction and those only there for the club will follow the normal signs." Good work Fruit - nowt worse than arriving at a social feeling nervous anyway and thinking where do we go - I am already chatting to a few females coming to let them know I will be about to look after them and if anyone needs bringing in from outside as it were you know my credentials on this and am happy to help out. Harry | |||
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"We are going to a event in nottingham now yes but there was a group of us coming down to the club we regularly visit but this has made us all choose to go elsewhere" Well thank you that just makes more room for us to play in | |||
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"Thats the point single males should not be in the club saturday nite so u dont have to avoid or not play with them !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! " I am a Reg at tease and very good freinds with the owners. I have to say ppl couple up all the time to enter clubs be it tease or any other, are the owners surposed to check each couples marrage papers? As it is a couples night them from the social who have paired up will only be allowed to play as a couple, the single guys will NOT be allowed to wonder around playing alone. Im sure this will be fine to the paying couples that are there as the ppl from the social who want to play will be in paired couples anyway. The owners of this club are great and will deffinatly not be letting slingle men walk around the club playing without the lady they entered the club with. Just have fun sheeeshhhhhh enjoy meeting new ppl. | |||
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"Good to see that your happy that the club that is letting you have your social there for free is losing paying customers " well as you are regular visiters to this club and now shock horror fb cpls are allowed in on saturday nite will you no longer be attending this club but going to other clubs that you hope will not have fb cpls in attendence.good luck with finding one | |||
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"Good to see that your happy that the club that is letting you have your social there for free is losing paying customers " Oh my lord! What crawled up your ass and died?! | |||
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"Forgot to say Shaz and Fruit, I can definately come now :0) I will be escorted by Jigglebottom. Please stick us on the list. So looking forward to Sat night and having some fun " Yay got a hotel room for the night too, its such good value | |||
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"No the argument has been about single males being in a club on a saturday night when they should not be.yes we all know fbs etc got to clubs but you are not going as couples or fb u are purely buddying up to gain entry to the club and as for the comment the swinging world may not be for us well we have been doing this years and very happily thanks.and we now know 10 couples that will not be attending the club this Saturday due to this situation " But the club were happy with it themselves. So the people prepaired to break their rules for the night were the club owners! They make the rules, they can alter them to fit as they wish. When I meet with a single man and attend the club we are two singles but playing as a couple for the night. If you are regular club goes as you may well be(I havent read your profile so have no idea) then you would have met and possibly played with couples doing the same for the night. They may have even told you they live together or are married. As to the night how it stands, the people need to couple up now but they still need to play as a couple inside as that is what the owners now want. They are happy with it. I must say your amazingly lucky that you were going to be attending the club and then changed your mind due to this but lucky for you you managed to find another evening elselwhere so quick. That is fast! Your very lucky for all your friends planning on meeting you at tease have now got themseleves all sorted out. I find when something is cancelled that i can never find something else to suit me so quick so your one lucky couple and must be very popular for all your friends to follow suit. I hope you have an excellent evening xx | |||
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"Good to see that your happy that the club that is letting you have your social there for free is losing paying customers " Stu was very keen to allow us to do this. The lady who has the function room gets people in her place possibly buying her food and buying her alcohol. The club gets to escort new people to show them round the club without having to pay first and then they can go back down to the social if they wish, OR they can then decide to pay membership and entrance to the club and buy the alcohol in the club. Stu and Nikki get new people in through the door and also booking rooms in their hotel. Pound signs coming to mind and good networking. Also means if this goes down well we will consider arranging another one but certainly wont if people are up in arms. Molly am chuffed your going afterall. See you there xx | |||
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"Forgot to say Shaz and Fruit, I can definately come now :0) I will be escorted by Jigglebottom. Please stick us on the list. So looking forward to Sat night and having some fun " Always good to see you both - see you then | |||
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"What the heck am I gonna wear....sprained my ankle at the last social(hope it isnt an omen lol) but thinking about it I do have a red corset I havent worn in a few years so could wear that but not sure what shoes I can wear due to my ankle. What is everyone else wearing???" Lime mankini and Flat Cap Only kidding. Usual smart buff trousers and a shirt with black shoes. Ought to just check for the ladies I am speaking to tomorrow who are coming, will there be any people in the social area who would be worried about any racy outfits they wear? (I've worded that terribly but am sure you know what I mean lol). Harry xx | |||
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"What the heck am I gonna wear....sprained my ankle at the last social(hope it isnt an omen lol) but thinking about it I do have a red corset I havent worn in a few years so could wear that but not sure what shoes I can wear due to my ankle. What is everyone else wearing??? Lime mankini and Flat Cap Only kidding. Usual smart buff trousers and a shirt with black shoes. Ought to just check for the ladies I am speaking to tomorrow who are coming, will there be any people in the social area who would be worried about any racy outfits they wear? (I've worded that terribly but am sure you know what I mean lol). Harry xx" Haryy honey, please, PLEASE wear your lime mankini and flat cap xxxx | |||
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"I really hate it when Single men are made to feel like they are carrying the plauge.. people are for ever complaining that "there are never socials in my area" and when people go out of the way to try and organise one they get slated.. Fruit and Shaz are not organising this for them selves.. but for others to meet up and get to know each other in a "social" environment. so what if singles may "couple up" to go into the club... this happens all the time in nearly any club around the country so there would be no different.. and you think the club is losing.. surely..... coupling up.. is more financially beneficial to the club then just the single fems being aloud in? if you want to attend put your name down... if you don't just leave the thread alone and let the people organising it get on with doing so, instead of putting a black cloud of it, and making people think twice about attending. " Well said sugar, I agree with you totally. | |||
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"I can't wait. I'm needing some fun after that ill advised dating thing. Mollys back in the saddle!! Yay, lol. " Its like you have never been away | |||
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"ohh _ruit you forgot to mention us nice freindly regs lol. ohhh and the sexy pole dancers who are always there too lol xxxxx" And the not so sexy but just as willing pole dancers - Me | |||
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"I have coloured my hair, washed and hoovered my car, think it was last centuary I last did it myself. Shaved essentials, need to decide what to wear and pack as picking up my friends at 5 in peterborough and need to have a relaxing bath yet and straighten hair and makeup..........PANIC,,,, what time is it now.........ahhhhhhhhh " Relax, breath and enjoy soak | |||
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