FabSwingers.com forum: Genuine single guys! Lol

By *andC2013 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

Nearly 3 years now on the site and only met a handful of genuine single guys !

The site is full of wanna be's , picture collectors and married men wanking over a few sexy pictures . If you agree to meet them the excuse book usually comes out - I can only meet during the day ! I'm working 7 days a week , I have got the kids, I don't drive - fuck me we have heard em all !

The site should put up the membership fees to discourage timewasters and picture collectors - does anyone agree?

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By *ndymorecambeMan
over a year ago

morecambe

im a real genuine single fela realy I am lol

its such a shame tnheres so many timewasters about ive had a few girls whove been already to meet.

ive had a shower clean sexy pants on aftershave on Viagra ta\ken wine chilling and then they don't show leaving me with a face red as a monkeys arse a massive boner and frustrated as hell

I wish people would be braver or at least phone up if they cant make it

andy x

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By *luffy_bunniesCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Sorry Op, don't agree at all. We can find guys no problem, but have far more issues with fake/no show couples, than with guys.

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By *andC2013 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

Wow that's interesting ? Perhaps is us then ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There are single men on here who are just here for a wank, and have no intention of meeting, but that's the case with couples and single women too.

I sometimes struggle to get a meet when I am free, but that's as much my fault as anything. When I get a meet with a lovely single man (or men!) then it makes the searching and message ing all worthwhile.

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By *andC2013 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

You must be keeping them all secret to yourself fluffy , was going to pinch some off your verifucations but you dont display them - sharing is caring lol

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By *andC2013 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

There are definately some hidden gems and ur right that's what makes the site such great fun sometimes and it makes up for all the timewasters !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im willing to meet you cloe im single and genuine x

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By *ony 69 funMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Hi...

ive had exactly the same problem with girls and couples.. just seems to go with the territory. I did just stick to clubs and that worked well for me for a few years. Didn't arange meets just went for a good night out and found everything fell into place most of the time. I also made some really good friends. Now due to work family and everything else playtime is limited so I hate being messed around x x

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

Food for thought.

I'm married, I look at pictures, i work long hours and hard, i have kids, I also wank.

But that aside I'm genuine.

I've found fake couples, fake single women or high expectations cause me most problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find couples the worst, a lot of them are so pushy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto

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By *ontinentalCockMan
over a year ago

London

I understand why veris are important but it can be really damaging.

I only use fab from time to time and mostly to look for people who are into the same kinks as I am. But because I'm not on it all the time and people can't meet at the drop of a hat I don't actually have veris.

Catch 22

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

"ive had a shower clean sexy pants on aftershave on Viagra ta\ken wine chilling and then they don't show leaving me with a face red as a monkeys arse a massive boner and frustrated as hell"

Steady on tiger.... think you could be too rock n roll for most couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half the ones who aren't single have managed to turn up for me, on more than one occasion, so i changed my profile to not interested in attached guys.

I don't think forcing people to pay for this site will help. I've met a fair amount of non-upgraded members and chat to some also. The ones i chat to i'm pretty sure are single, i've been talking tot hem for a long time already.

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By *andC2013 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

A few mixed views , my understanding of the site is that it is for swingers to meet like minded people not for married guys to wank over a few pictures - surely there is enough porn on the net for the wankers ?

If the membership was more expensive everyone would think about spending money if they are not going to use the site - a bit like gym membership most people cancel after a few months because they don't use it lol - maybe this would remove a lot of the timewasters from the site - couples and singles included.

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By *andC2013 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

"I understand why veris are important but it can be really damaging.

Catch 22"

Verifications are really easy if you actually meet people - everyone we have met have been more than happy to do a verification - the only catch is if you don't meet anyone - then no one will verify you !

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By *iggersbounceMan
over a year ago

Loganlea

"A few mixed views , my understanding of the site is that it is for swingers to meet like minded people not for married guys to wank over a few pictures - surely there is enough porn on the net for the wankers ?

As Kentkev said, I'm married and I wank and I also work too. I'm in the very fortunate position that my wife is happy for me to play solo. There are plenty of genuine married men, although I will admit we are a minority. Maybe you're chatting to the wrong men or letting it get to far before ruling them out? This is not a critisism just a thought. As for putting the price up, I have just left a very expensive site that won't allow you to do anything unless you're a fully paid member (including reading messages and looking at profiles). There are just as many photo hunters and time wasters as on this site, maybe more as it has a international customer base. They just have more money and no sense of the value of it.

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By *andC2013 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

"Ditto "

Probably explains why you have been on the site over a year and never met anyone ?

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By *ony 69 funMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

I do agree with the view over site fee's. I think if it was more expensive it would remove alot of the time wasters. Im a member of several sites so im talking from experience. As for pushy couples and girls... ive experianced it in messages but never with anyone ive met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true, I've been here over a year and chatted to a few by email but not met anyone from here as yet (work work work) I've a 10 days off from this weekend coming so maybe I'll get a meet and a verification ... maybe..

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

Nearly 3 years now on the site and only met a handful of genuine single guys !

The site should put up the membership fees to discourage timewasters and picture collectors - does anyone agree?

If you asked me to meet I would definitely be saying yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a very genuine single male that can accom or travel if I arrange a meet 99.9% of the time i meet like most I have a life away frm fab and things can crop up !!! The thing that really gets me is I take time on my messages to people I read profiles and include things they/I like only for them to be deleted a simple Ty but no thanks would be nice I don't spit my dummy out I jst say no probs my veris speak for themselves on those who I have met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am genuine I am clean safe and all over the country working so look out for me.??? Am I close to u now.if so inbox me thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 3 years now on the site and only met a handful of genuine single guys !

The site should put up the membership fees to discourage timewasters and picture collectors - does anyone agree?

You have a lovely profile so I cannot how you would struggle, the site as a problem with men joining as fake couples and single women but then don't you find the popular something becomes the less attractive it seems, just like the smiths before they became mainstream

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By *andC2013 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

1 good meet makes up for 10 timewasyers lol that's why people stay on the site cod when its good it amazing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 3 years now on the site and only met a handful of genuine single guys !

The site should put up the membership fees to discourage timewasters and picture collectors - does anyone agree?

Read my post in the Scotish forum ( got to laugh )

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I'm a figment of the collective imagination of Fabs.

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By *andC2013 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

Certainly created some interest , the genuine single guys are attacking us now lol

Faith restored lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lead up the garden path by my fair share of alleged couples and elusive single females, but I guess any site like this will have its fair share of time wasters

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

Nearly 3 years now on the site and only met a handful of genuine single guys !

The site should put up the membership fees to discourage timewasters and picture collectors - does anyone agree?

"
. Maybe do some more analysis on members profiles . If there is very little information or if it is less than fifteen lines and with no photos then they are probably not worth following up..

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By *iggersbounceMan
over a year ago

Loganlea

Maybe do some more analysis on members profiles . If there is very little information or if it is less than fifteen lines and with no photos then they are probably not worth following up.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it difficult to find couples too ,but we arranged 16 meets with so called genuine guys for only 1 to turn up so 15 no shows does make it difficult for the few good guys on here

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"We find it difficult to find couples too ,but we arranged 16 meets with so called genuine guys for only 1 to turn up so 15 no shows does make it difficult for the few good guys on here "
. Would no shoes make any difference to other members?. Surely members sell themselves on here by having a good profile and would not be bothered by what others do or whether they turn up or not.

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By *iggersbounceMan
over a year ago

Loganlea

"We find it difficult to find couples too ,but we arranged 16 meets with so called genuine guys for only 1 to turn up so 15 no shows does make it difficult for the few good guys on here "

I would definitely turn up for you two!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am def a real and genuine guy...

And if I organise something I stick to it!!

It's hard enough to convince some people to step down from their high horse... To even speak to a single guy!!

After all that effort I will not be cancelling!!

haha

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

I'm 100% a genuine single guy who is fed up of timewasters. Had many meets planned with couples and single ladies only to be cancelled last minute. Thinking of changing my name on here to the King of Cancellations. The ladies I chat to and meet keep my faith in the site. I would have to leave the site if subscriptions went up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I am def a real and genuine guy...

And if I organise something I stick to it!!

It's hard enough to convince some people to step down from their high horse... To even speak to a single guy!!

After all that effort I will not be cancelling!!

haha"
I absolutely agree

! as a single genuine guy myself i think after all that effort i wouldn't cancell either.

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I always go with the veris.

If they are recent and good, then check who's left them out are also genuine I can't see where it can go wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have more problems with women if an honest :/ alot of them seem to be time wasters saying they will meet n never do :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 3 years now on the site and only met a handful of genuine single guys !

The site should put up the membership fees to discourage timewasters and picture collectors - does anyone agree?

Never thought we'd say this - but yes - time to start charging membership. Genuine meets are getting rarer and rarer - and Fab has largely become a) a chat/forum site for lonely women and b) an advertising forum for clubs - just go and do a search on NW meets - massive % are club meets i.e. club owners or their friends pretending (half the time) to be going to clubs just to advertise the places

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I find it rather difficult to meet when people don't believe you accomodate,.. 10 years going and still I get no responses to meet todays.

Its not like I'm not verified or don't attend socials, I do.. and yet I still get all the reasons under the sun.

The more disturbing bit, if I gave any of these reasons as excuses, I'd be blocked, but as a bloke am supposed to accept it without complaint.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Nearly 3 years now on the site and only met a handful of genuine single guys !

The site should put up the membership fees to discourage timewasters and picture collectors - does anyone agree?

Actually, charging membership won't deter timewasters, check out any of the other fee-charging swingsites, (can I name any?) they still get time wasters. Clearly, timewasters will still pay the money to yank others' chains.

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By *andC2013 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

seems time wasters are about in all guises and we are all being messed around.... Cpls, girls as well as single guys.... So other than charging more, which most don't think will help anyway, then what's the answer?

Do we just give up and stick with clubs?

Cloe X (f of cloe2013)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"seems time wasters are about in all guises and we are all being messed around.... Cpls, girls as well as single guys.... So other than charging more, which most don't think will help anyway, then what's the answer?

Do we just give up and stick with clubs?

Cloe X (f of cloe2013)

Up to you. Definitely don't spend more time than your willing to waste.

i'm a paid member and i spend more time chatting now than meeting because i had a bad incident with a random and i wanna get to know guys a bit better now. I preferred spending more time having sex than being on here but i'm willing to do things the way i want to for now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 3 years now on the site and only met a handful of genuine single guys !

The site should put up the membership fees to discourage timewasters and picture collectors - does anyone agree?

You dont even meet single guys! I have found that meets at clubs are more reliable, I guess thats why clubs are so popular to meet up. z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 3 years now on the site and only met a handful of genuine single guys !

The site should put up the membership fees to discourage timewasters and picture collectors - does anyone agree?

You dont even meet single guys! I have found that meets at clubs are more reliable, I guess thats why clubs are so popular to meet up. z"

Beg your pardon?? Did you bother to check our verifications (i.e. including single guys!!) - we open the profile up to single guys when we are looking - that way stops us being inundated with messages from single guys who do not read the profile re. preferences lol - you couldn't make it up !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies, just seen the not looking for singles.

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By *andC2013 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

We always look at single guys and couples profiles is a really good indication if people are genuine , if a guy cannot be arsed to put a few decent pictures on , explain what he is looking for and make an effort to get some verifucations - then in our experience it's very unlikey he will actually meet up - usually because he is either married , a picture collector who just loves wanking , or just bottles out as its a fantasy and they shit themselves when it becomes reality.

We have given so many newbies the opportunity to meet up but you can guarantee without a good profile they will always drop out .

We often suggest they go to the clubs to get a better understanding of the scene, meet people and get verified but few ever bother because they always say ' I'm too scared ' I would feel silly going on my own ' lol. It's so funny because that's exactly to reason why they are not worth meeting because they just lose their bottle and waste everyone's time.

It maybe the price that puts them off going to a club and we understand that - but anything in this life is an investment and if they took the time to go and speak to people they would have a much better time on the scene.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Nearly 3 years now on the site and only met a handful of genuine single guys !

The site should put up the membership fees to discourage timewasters and picture collectors - does anyone agree?

I doubt putting up the membership fee's would stop the real timewasters, they don't have a life to spend there money on apart from this place, might stop a lot of the multiple profiles if they had to pay to join with each one though

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Dont get it - most guys on here are genuine, why would a couple or female pretend to be a single guy?

Or do you mean most guys fail to show up?

Personally we find guys a delight on here, couple give us the problems!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others single genuine guys are easy to find. Its the couples which are fake and time wasters. Wish I had a penny for the amount off male half off couples willing to meet or is that just the north east

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with the above!!! Because single makes can be blocked!!

Most people don't block couples!!

And I have come across single men pretending to be a couple...

And women pretending the be a couple... Mostly to cut down the amount of guys that contact them!!!!

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

Nearly 3 years now on the site and only met a handful of genuine single guys !

The site should put up the membership fees to discourage timewasters and picture collectors - does anyone agree?

I'm sorry, but that is a load of crap.

I've just looked at your photos and I don't think any normal guy would stand you up!

Maybe they got to excited and blow their load in their pants on the way?

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By *andC2013 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

Lol we have thought that a few times !

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