FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey! I am rather new to the lifestyle and I was wondering if someone could possibly pm me some advice, such as how to word the first message and so on! Thanks!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try in the swingers chat /lounge forums. Not gonna get much advice from the meets section hun

By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"Hey! I am rather new to the lifestyle and I was wondering if someone could possibly pm me some advice, such as how to word the first message and so on! Thanks!"
You've had a meet and been on here seven months and you've not sent a first message op?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read their profile then tailor a message to that person.

One message doesn't fit all.

Things like fancy a fuck, hru, xx, hi, tend to not work with most people though.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have, but never know how to phrase them or how to approach them.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, not sure what else to advise really, i don't have a problem talking to people and finding things to talk about, no idea why though.

Compliments go down well but if that's the only thing you say then there's nothing to start a conversation with.

Suppose the best thing i can think of really is just go for it, practice sending mails because the more you do that the better it will get and easier too. Everyone has to learn some time and somehow.

Worst that can happen on here is your message gets deleted, some people might be rude or reply with an offensive message but report them and put it down to they have a problem and not you.