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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

Im looking for a submissive. If anyone is interested or can help please message me so we can speak more first.

Im a beginner dom and this is something ive always wanted to do and turns me on so much.

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather than subjecting a submissive to an inexperienced Dominant can I suggest speaking to other Dominants and seeking their advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks.

Like i say any advice please message me as i would like to know where to begin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rather than subjecting a submissive to an inexperienced Dominant can I suggest speaking to other Dominants and seeking their advice."

Or an experienced sub who is willing to top from the bottom so to speak, just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck son

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Rather than subjecting a submissive to an inexperienced Dominant can I suggest speaking to other Dominants and seeking their advice.

Or an experienced sub who is willing to top from the bottom so to speak, just a thought"

Either of those! Don't go find and inexperienced submissive... learn from someone in the know. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rather than subjecting a submissive to an inexperienced Dominant can I suggest speaking to other Dominants and seeking their advice.

Or an experienced sub who is willing to top from the bottom so to speak, just a thought"
a lot of subs do this when the so called doms are not as experienced as they sometimes think be a sub first that way you know what your sub experiences but like this reply says talk to other doms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just out of curiosity, why do you want to become a Dom OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rather than subjecting a submissive to an inexperienced Dominant can I suggest speaking to other Dominants and seeking their advice.

Or an experienced sub who is willing to top from the bottom so to speak, just a thought a lot of subs do this when the so called doms are not as experienced as they sometimes think be a sub first that way you know what your sub experiences but like this reply says talk to other doms "

I wouldn't go so far as to say be a sub first, I'm all for experiencing domination once, but to be a sub before being a Dom, it's a bit like saying be in a gay relationship before having anal sex with a woman, being a Dom is part of you, you just know when you first stumble upon it, that this is you, and there's no going back from that for many people.

Talk to Dom's, not just one Dom but as many as will drop the "I'm a serious Dom, don't trouble me with your petty newbie shit" attitude I'll talk to you, and give you the wealth of my experience (sorry if I come across pretentious but I am so that's how I come across lol) so when you are ready to talk about it just let me know, I'm happy to help OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just out of curiosity, why do you want to become a Dom OP?"

Maybe i do maybe i dont. Normal sex just doesnt do it for me anymore i need that little bit extra or something different.

I may just require someone whos generally submissive and likes to be dominated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd probably be best off looking for communities suited to kinks. There's better websites for it.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Just out of curiosity, why do you want to become a Dom OP?

Maybe i do maybe i dont. Normal sex just doesnt do it for me anymore i need that little bit extra or something different.

I may just require someone whos generally submissive and likes to be dominated."

Given the serious offers of help and advice you appear to be ignoring, I'd put my trainers on and run a mile before submitting to you.

It takes a massive amount of trust. It's not something I'd play at and I think if its role play you're after then you should go with that. Don't claim to be something you're not just cause it tickles your fancy to be a bit dominant. There's a massive difference between the two.

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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago

denton

sub women are not plentyful, you may find one but as another member stated in this forum some other sites cater more for that scene

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all. And im not ignoring advice, im already speaking to helpful people on here.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Thanks all. And im not ignoring advice, im already speaking to helpful people on here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to give my two pence worth. You need to be patient, read up on becomming the dominant, take advice, talk to Dom and subs. Feed yourself with as much information as you can. Take it slow don't just go asking for a sub on here yet as your not ready and that can be seen as wasting time for genuine submissive people. Enjoy your next step in life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sub women are not plentyful, you may find one but as another member stated in this forum some other sites cater more for that scene"

Wrong. There are lots of submissive ladies on here. Site caters for all. No need to go elsewear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rather than subjecting a submissive to an inexperienced Dominant can I suggest speaking to other Dominants and seeking their advice.

Or an experienced sub who is willing to top from the bottom so to speak, just a thought"

Or this.

The main point is speak to someone experienced. Alot will be willing to share their knowledge if you have the right attitude and reasons. Because you're bored with 'normal' sex isn't reassuring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just out of curiosity, why do you want to become a Dom OP?

Maybe i do maybe i dont. Normal sex just doesnt do it for me anymore i need that little bit extra or something different.

I may just require someone whos generally submissive and likes to be dominated."

If you're not 100% sure about what you want you should also consider the possibility of experiencing a Domme lady who knows what she's doing.

That would certainly spice things up and you wouldn't need to subjugate anyone.

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