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By *ab and Milfy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Farnborough

Hi, we organise all girl parties

So far all feedback has been great and there is defiantly got a niche to fill

Please let us know your questions and opinions on this kind of event a what you would expect from such an event.

Better still pop along our social and ask us face to face!

We have lots of sexy ladies coming along we are sure it's going to be a giggle

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By *earlyNipsCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

This is literally what we've been looking for! Could we get more details please? Mrs would love to come along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to know some details and like would their be some arrangements for overnight stays?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

So no male half of the couple can attend and your hubby is the only male there security wise but will play if the woman/women in question want to? Not being mischievous just wanting to be clear. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, we organise all girl parties

So far all feedback has been great and there is defiantly got a niche to fill

Please let us know your questions and opinions on this kind of event a what you would expect from such an event.

Better still pop along our social and ask us face to face!

We have lots of sexy ladies coming along we are sure it's going to be a giggle

X

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Sounds great - as long as no guys are present in the venue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the same thing! what security would be needed if it's only women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought the same thing! what security would be needed if it's only women?"

I can see why security would be preferred.

But there are plenty of licensed security who are women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly, it seems a bit odd to have 1 guy there. Other than that I think the concept of the party is fantastic

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

This is something I'd very much be interested in but without male present.

Sounds like a super girlie fuck fest is servicing his fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it could be an amazing party, some music, loads of drink, chats, giggles, maybe then games like telling of erotic stories/fantasies and then see what happens!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"This is something I'd very much be interested in but without male present.

Sounds like a super girlie fuck fest is servicing his fantasy."

Exactly it's a single guy fantasy set up there!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I would be interested but too far away for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need a northern party!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

If a male is required to be present for 'security'

Are there any vacancies for males to attend in case of 'medical emergencies', 'legal advice' etc

I'm sure there's plenty of men who would happily volunteer their services as this kind gentleman has to ensure the party goes well?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"We need a northern party!"

Oooh, I've never been to Newcastle

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"If a male is required to be present for 'security'

Are there any vacancies for males to attend in case of 'medical emergencies', 'legal advice' etc

I'm sure there's plenty of men who would happily volunteer their services as this kind gentleman has to ensure the party goes well?"

So thoughtful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need a northern party!

Oooh, I've never been to Newcastle "

I think it's still a long way from Dundee! Newcastle is well worth a visit though

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By *ab and Milfy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Farnborough

Hi all thank you for your feedback, we will respond directly to the messages sent privately.

To be clear there is no expectation for the male present to play at all. As with all events no means no and that goes for ladies as much as men. For those querying why security is needed please let us explain.

We have attended and hosted many parties of this nature. We have first hand experience of uninvited guests, guests who have indulged a little bit too much etc. Also this is for the security of the female part of the hosting couple, this is not negotiable. Also because there's only women attending does not make this gathering any less likely for issues to occur that need sorting out in some way.

Overnight accommodation is not specifically catered for but not impossible. Personally we would prefer not to offer this as it can get complicated.

If you have any more questions please let us know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone know of anything like this but without the insistence of a male being present? If so I'm in!!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"We need a northern party!

Oooh, I've never been to Newcastle

I think it's still a long way from Dundee! Newcastle is well worth a visit though"

About 3 hours I think, but not bad. I do keep meaning to visit but not got around to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come for a night out, I'll show you around. Anyone else fancy a girlie night out for drinks, laughs and FAB chats?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Come for a night out, I'll show you around. Anyone else fancy a girlie night out for drinks, laughs and FAB chats?"

Sounds like a plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all thank you for your feedback, we will respond directly to the messages sent privately.

To be clear there is no expectation for the male present to play at all. As with all events no means no and that goes for ladies as much as men. For those querying why security is needed please let us explain.

We have attended and hosted many parties of this nature. We have first hand experience of uninvited guests, guests who have indulged a little bit too much etc. Also this is for the security of the female part of the hosting couple, this is not negotiable. Also because there's only women attending does not make this gathering any less likely for issues to occur that need sorting out in some way.

Overnight accommodation is not specifically catered for but not impossible. Personally we would prefer not to offer this as it can get complicated.

If you have any more questions please let us know

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Could the bloke doing security not stay outside of the room where the action was happening? I'm sure that would put peoples minds at rest that he isn't just there to watch what's going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm suspecting the bloke wants to be INSIDE the room!!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I'm suspecting the bloke wants to be INSIDE the room!!"

Not just watching he's allowed to play isn't he!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All girl party apart from a man. So not strictly all girl then. Why not have female security?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about I act as security at an all male party, yum yum

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By *ab and Milfy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Farnborough


"I'm suspecting the bloke wants to be INSIDE the room!!"

Yes because his partner wants him to be, if you don't like this then it's your perogative to not be involved. It's not hidden and is displayed and pointed out to all invitees.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"How about I act as security at an all male party, yum yum "

Could you cope with acting as 'security' for 10s of naked horny men?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I'm suspecting the bloke wants to be INSIDE the room!!

Not just watching he's allowed to play isn't he!"

That's how I read it, so not an all girl party

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I'm suspecting the bloke wants to be INSIDE the room!!

Yes because his partner wants him to be, if you don't like this then it's your perogative to not be involved. It's not hidden and is displayed and pointed out to all invitees. "

I can understand that.

I can also understand why women would feel uncomfortable with only one woman in attendance getting to have their guy there.

All female on the tin - but not in it.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I'm suspecting the bloke wants to be INSIDE the room!!

Yes because his partner wants him to be, if you don't like this then it's your perogative to not be involved. It's not hidden and is displayed and pointed out to all invitees. "

No one is saying anything is hidden, but you're advertising all girl parties where a man will be present and possibly playing, but definitely watching.

Therefore not an all girl party, more MFFFFFFFF whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm suspecting the bloke wants to be INSIDE the room!!

Yes because his partner wants him to be, if you don't like this then it's your perogative to not be involved. It's not hidden and is displayed and pointed out to all invitees.

No one is saying anything is hidden, but you're advertising all girl parties where a man will be present and possibly playing, but definitely watching.

Therefore not an all girl party, more MFFFFFFFF whatever "

Exactly. It's not 'all girl'. It's 'all girl plus the organisers male partner'.

OP asked for feedback. OP got feedback. OP now unhappy that feedback has been given. *Shrugs*

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By *oasted cheese sandwichMan
over a year ago

Nearby

At the end of the day it's just a party, aimed at women to fulfill an obvious fantasy for many , if it's this guys place he has every right to be there to keep an eye on things, 2 simple solutions if it bothers people so much

1 don't go

2 one of u girls organise ur own one

At least the op has had a go

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By *ab and Milfy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Farnborough


"I'm suspecting the bloke wants to be INSIDE the room!!

Yes because his partner wants him to be, if you don't like this then it's your perogative to not be involved. It's not hidden and is displayed and pointed out to all invitees.

No one is saying anything is hidden, but you're advertising all girl parties where a man will be present and possibly playing, but definitely watching.

Therefore not an all girl party, more MFFFFFFFF whatever

Exactly. It's not 'all girl'. It's 'all girl plus the organisers male partner'.

OP asked for feedback. OP got feedback. OP now unhappy that feedback has been given. *Shrugs*"

The OP Is not unhappy at all everyone has an opinion and all comments have been appreciated. We will make sure that all that attend are completely happy with the situation.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I'm suspecting the bloke wants to be INSIDE the room!!

Yes because his partner wants him to be, if you don't like this then it's your perogative to not be involved. It's not hidden and is displayed and pointed out to all invitees.

No one is saying anything is hidden, but you're advertising all girl parties where a man will be present and possibly playing, but definitely watching.

Therefore not an all girl party, more MFFFFFFFF whatever

Exactly. It's not 'all girl'. It's 'all girl plus the organisers male partner'.

OP asked for feedback. OP got feedback. OP now unhappy that feedback has been given. *Shrugs*"

I've seen plenty of all female parties/events advertised over the years.

The majority involved no testicles being present.

They seemed to have no need for security.

As has been said - if people don't want to go they won't. The OP is hiding nothing and is being clear that a male will be present at an all female event.

I suspect the interest levels would be greater with no male involvement though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the OP had titled the post all girl party (+ 1 man) then that would have been a fairer description. I'm pretty sure that the OP is actually the male half hoping to get some wanking material. I loved the initial idea until I read the small print. What a shame.

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By *ab and Milfy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Farnborough


"If the OP had titled the post all girl party (+ 1 man) then that would have been a fairer description. I'm pretty sure that the OP is actually the male half hoping to get some wanking material. I loved the initial idea until I read the small print. What a shame."

You could not be further from the truth, this is a joint venture with both parties. Believe me I (male half) have more than enough wanking material before i even leave the house in the morning every day!

Please attend our social (where males and females are included) you will find out exactly what we are about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day it's just a party, aimed at women to fulfill an obvious fantasy for many , if it's this guys place he has every right to be there to keep an eye on things, 2 simple solutions if it bothers people so much

1 don't go

2 one of u girls organise ur own one

At least the op has had a go "

Well, quite.

It's just frustrating when your sexuality is objectified over and over and over and over again. I am primarily into women, not men, and am actively looking for an all women party that is just all women. They are very few and far between (and no, I don't have the skills to organise one).

I'd pay good money to go to one, as long as it was only women present in the play areas. And the guy didn't watch. Or utter a word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the OP had titled the post all girl party (+ 1 man) then that would have been a fairer description. I'm pretty sure that the OP is actually the male half hoping to get some wanking material. I loved the initial idea until I read the small print. What a shame.

You could not be further from the truth, this is a joint venture with both parties. Believe me I (male half) have more than enough wanking material before i even leave the house in the morning every day!

Please attend our social (where males and females are included) you will find out exactly what we are about. "

I would rather attend the all girl party (minus the fucking bloke)

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By *oasted cheese sandwichMan
over a year ago

Nearby


"At the end of the day it's just a party, aimed at women to fulfill an obvious fantasy for many , if it's this guys place he has every right to be there to keep an eye on things, 2 simple solutions if it bothers people so much

1 don't go

2 one of u girls organise ur own one

At least the op has had a go

Well, quite.

It's just frustrating when your sexuality is objectified over and over and over and over again. I am primarily into women, not men, and am actively looking for an all women party that is just all women. They are very few and far between (and no, I don't have the skills to organise one).

I'd pay good money to go to one, as long as it was only women present in the play areas. And the guy didn't watch. Or utter a word."

Have a go at organising one then , what's the worst that could happen ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Already working on it! I'm now planning a Newcastle ALL GIRL night out with party afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day it's just a party, aimed at women to fulfill an obvious fantasy for many , if it's this guys place he has every right to be there to keep an eye on things, 2 simple solutions if it bothers people so much

1 don't go

2 one of u girls organise ur own one

At least the op has had a go

Well, quite.

It's just frustrating when your sexuality is objectified over and over and over and over again. I am primarily into women, not men, and am actively looking for an all women party that is just all women. They are very few and far between (and no, I don't have the skills to organise one).

I'd pay good money to go to one, as long as it was only women present in the play areas. And the guy didn't watch. Or utter a word.

Have a go at organising one then , what's the worst that could happen ? "

I could end up a small fortune out of pocket resulting in not be able to finish my degree?

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By *oasted cheese sandwichMan
over a year ago

Nearby


"At the end of the day it's just a party, aimed at women to fulfill an obvious fantasy for many , if it's this guys place he has every right to be there to keep an eye on things, 2 simple solutions if it bothers people so much

1 don't go

2 one of u girls organise ur own one

At least the op has had a go

Well, quite.

It's just frustrating when your sexuality is objectified over and over and over and over again. I am primarily into women, not men, and am actively looking for an all women party that is just all women. They are very few and far between (and no, I don't have the skills to organise one).

I'd pay good money to go to one, as long as it was only women present in the play areas. And the guy didn't watch. Or utter a word.

Have a go at organising one then , what's the worst that could happen ?

I could end up a small fortune out of pocket resulting in not be able to finish my degree?"

How a small fortune?

Ok few quid for rent a nice apartment for a night , have few socials before hand, everyone brings drinks and food , and u would be a hero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day it's just a party, aimed at women to fulfill an obvious fantasy for many , if it's this guys place he has every right to be there to keep an eye on things, 2 simple solutions if it bothers people so much

1 don't go

2 one of u girls organise ur own one

At least the op has had a go

Well, quite.

It's just frustrating when your sexuality is objectified over and over and over and over again. I am primarily into women, not men, and am actively looking for an all women party that is just all women. They are very few and far between (and no, I don't have the skills to organise one).

I'd pay good money to go to one, as long as it was only women present in the play areas. And the guy didn't watch. Or utter a word.

Have a go at organising one then , what's the worst that could happen ?

I could end up a small fortune out of pocket resulting in not be able to finish my degree?

How a small fortune?

Ok few quid for rent a nice apartment for a night , have few socials before hand, everyone brings drinks and food , and u would be a hero "

I can't afford to rent a nice apartment for the night... they cost alot of money... I'm a student and I can't risk not getting enough people through the door...

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By *oasted cheese sandwichMan
over a year ago

Nearby


"At the end of the day it's just a party, aimed at women to fulfill an obvious fantasy for many , if it's this guys place he has every right to be there to keep an eye on things, 2 simple solutions if it bothers people so much

1 don't go

2 one of u girls organise ur own one

At least the op has had a go

Well, quite.

It's just frustrating when your sexuality is objectified over and over and over and over again. I am primarily into women, not men, and am actively looking for an all women party that is just all women. They are very few and far between (and no, I don't have the skills to organise one).

I'd pay good money to go to one, as long as it was only women present in the play areas. And the guy didn't watch. Or utter a word.

Have a go at organising one then , what's the worst that could happen ?

I could end up a small fortune out of pocket resulting in not be able to finish my degree?

How a small fortune?

Ok few quid for rent a nice apartment for a night , have few socials before hand, everyone brings drinks and food , and u would be a hero

I can't afford to rent a nice apartment for the night... they cost alot of money... I'm a student and I can't risk not getting enough people through the door..."

I think if u posted a thread like this, people would be willing to chip in ,

Like I said earlier it can't be an easy thing to do else I'm sure there would be one every week, that's why I was originally backing up the op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need a northern party!"

Amour is hosting another all female party. I believe the last ones were very popular.

Having just one make there changes the dynamic totally. Not all female at all. Avoid like the plague!!

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By *llenMilfCouple
over a year ago

farnborough

I am the female half of Pussy Parties, I have enjoyed the scene for a few years now, and attend Abfabs club.

It was my idea originally to try to put something together, for the females of Fabs, and this wonderful sexy world we are all part of.

I totally enjoy the company of beautiful females and love the passion and excitement you get from girl on girl fun.

We try to hold socials prior to a party, to eliminate the "time wasters, fakes and photo collectors" that are everywhere on Fabs, also it's been proven in the past, that socials prior to a party, work, so by building up a connection with potential party guests and putting some females and couples minds at rest.

Now most of the females attending, are Bisexual, meaning I'm sure you all know, we love pussy and passion and cock, but want to be relaxed in knowledge that a guy or group of guys aren't going to just 'assume' they can touch and wank in your ear, as I have unfortunately experienced while playing girly at parties before.

This is different, this is about the girls and what the girls require, fun, music, giggles, passion, quality time with each other and exchanging stories.

But as the host, I would be more comfortable with my partner there, he isn't there to just stand and stare and wank, far from that to be honest.

I have requested he is present, he may not join in at all, he is however very good at keeping things running smoothly, and makes a great sandwich, we all need to 'carb up' after many hours of fun and fucking.

But also I want him there, as some females have asked to,( if they want abit of extra on the night,) interact with him, usually soft play only, his choice not theirs, but not essential to him to get his kicks, this is about me, my pussys and other ladies fun.

I also may want him to fuck me after i have eaten all that pussy, this most likely will occur in a private area.

As we are hosting, paying for the accommodation, food etc, we can suggest these options.

Also I'm pretty sure most of you leaving negative comments, wouldn't want to travel this far anyway, and not quite sure why you would want to try to start an issue, over something that has been made clear.

It's a fun way of life and has lots of positive people in it, but I guess there is always going to be the ones that just love the drama.

Stay happy pussy girls, negativity just causes stress and ages you. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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But also I want him there, as some females have asked to,( if they want abit of extra on the night,) interact with him, usually soft play only, his choice not theirs, but not essential to him to get his kicks, this is about me, my pussys and other ladies fun.

I also may want him to fuck me after i have eaten all that pussy, this most likely will occur in a private area.

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Soooooo...

Not an all girl orgy then.

'Lots of girls plus my partner playing with them.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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But also I want him there, as some females have asked to,( if they want abit of extra on the night,) interact with him, usually soft play only, his choice not theirs, but not essential to him to get his kicks, this is about me, my pussys and other ladies fun.

I also may want him to fuck me after i have eaten all that pussy, this most likely will occur in a private area.

Soooooo...

Not an all girl orgy then.

'Lots of girls plus my partner playing with them.'"

I mean, it's a bit like a vegetarian restaurant that claims to be *entirely* vegetarian with no cross-contamination then saying 'but if you want, we have some black pudding in the fridge and we'll fry it in the same oil as everything else because the chef likes it that way'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if another woman attending wanted her husband to come along, is that OK too? Where does it end?

No wonder this OP keeps advertising these parties?

It's crap like this that makes this site even harder than it needs to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive attended all girls parties - 2 quite small events - first time one bloke as they were couple that organised it - we were unsure for all the reasons mentioned but he stayed behind the bar all afternoon - 2nd one he wasnt even there - the larger event had 2 or 3 men there but were club staff and again stayed behind bar and reception only - totally respectable and professional - we would be happier without them if totally honest as all girls should really be just that - i had a blast at all 3 -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with the party op seeing as your clear with what happens and there will be a male present then no drama.

Now if someone can direct me to a true all female party as quite liking that concept!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck with the party op seeing as your clear with what happens and there will be a male present then no drama.

Now if someone can direct me to a true all female party as quite liking that concept!! "

I'm planning a north east party. A night out in Newcastle then to a hotel. I'm working on dates so if anyone has any interest please let me know. I'm hoping to make it your typical girls night out but with a difference. No men will be involved. I know of a lovely quiet country hotel with a large suite than I can book.

I'm initially thinking Saturday 18th July. We have great rail links to Newcastle and we could maybe arrange something so girls paying to get to Newcastle don't need to chip in for the hotel/drinks etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is she ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I attended the last all girl orgy at amour in Manchester when thetwistedkink hosted it and it was great... Only women throughout the day and then could stay on for greedy girls event after.... Adding a man to the mix defeats the purpose of it being all girls in my opinion... False advertising really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I attended the last all girl orgy at amour in Manchester when thetwistedkink hosted it and it was great... Only women throughout the day and then could stay on for greedy girls event after.... Adding a man to the mix defeats the purpose of it being all girls in my opinion... False advertising really"

i went to both of those and they were great fun - also been to a townhouse one that had so much going on it was a fantastic night out - next one end of july - amour putting on their own mid july - - nope not on commission

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By *ab and Milfy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Farnborough


"What if another woman attending wanted her husband to come along, is that OK too? Where does it end?

No wonder this OP keeps advertising these parties?

It's crap like this that makes this site even harder than it needs to be."

No that is by OK and that's where that ends. We really are confused by why you are so offended. Anyway we hope your event goes well. We will keep an eye on your verifications to see what people say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's "all girl" I'd prefer it just exactly that, so not for me.

I'm sure some women would love it though. Good luck OP.

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By *earlyNipsCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

I think the issue here is that people feel this is less about the fun and benefit of all the attendees being a priority, and more about the host and her partner fulfilling their fantasy to the detriment of those attending.

If Mr was only by the door, or stayed outside, then I'm sure it'll be fine. As the male half of the couple I'd love to watch this sort of thing go down, but I understand that defeats the point and it's not supposed to be for my enjoyment, but theirs. I also get that a place billed as all-female benefits from the feeling of ease of there being no guys, so unfortunately by having Mr actively there (rather than in another room or out front or otherwise out of the action) is a huge put off.

If you're actively looking out for the best night for *all* guests, please reconsider this position. I'm not happy with Mrs going to an orgy on her own with a guy actively there, I'm sure she'll be the same, and it's pretty clear that a lot of people in this thread feel the same.

Plus, it's hard for him to play security if he's playing with the host or anyone else.

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By *ab and Milfy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Farnborough


"If it's "all girl" I'd prefer it just exactly that, so not for me.

I'm sure some women would love it though. Good luck OP. "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the issue here is that people feel this is less about the fun and benefit of all the attendees being a priority, and more about the host and her partner fulfilling their fantasy to the detriment of those attending.

If Mr was only by the door, or stayed outside, then I'm sure it'll be fine. As the male half of the couple I'd love to watch this sort of thing go down, but I understand that defeats the point and it's not supposed to be for my enjoyment, but theirs. I also get that a place billed as all-female benefits from the feeling of ease of there being no guys, so unfortunately by having Mr actively there (rather than in another room or out front or otherwise out of the action) is a huge put off.

If you're actively looking out for the best night for *all* guests, please reconsider this position. I'm not happy with Mrs going to an orgy on her own with a guy actively there, I'm sure she'll be the same, and it's pretty clear that a lot of people in this thread feel the same.

Plus, it's hard for him to play security if he's playing with the host or anyone else. "

W felt like this exactly and was concerned about involvement by males there - but at all ive been to can honestly say forgot the guys were in the building as they were just on door/bar/reception - i think too much of a hoo-har would be caused if they got 'involved' -there are enough female staff at clubs to deal with anything that might occur that may need intervention - might add no trouble at any ive attended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus, it's hard for him to play security if he's playing with the host or anyone else. "

Good point.

If he's got his head in someones muff, who's doing security?

Seems mighty unprofessional to me - not the behaviour of someone who is SIA qualified.

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By *earlyNipsCouple
over a year ago

St Neots


"Seems mighty unprofessional to me - not the behaviour of someone who is SIA qualified."

Exactly. I mean, I think the need for security is a bit much but I can totally understand that the host might be concerned with one or two troublemakers wrecking the night, so better safe than sorry. I can understand that.

But if he's playing too, then he's not security. He's going to be too preoccupied to notice any potential problems. Either he's actually security (in which case he works the night and isn't involved in any way with playing) or he's a participant and the "security" claim is actually an underhand way of (what appears to be) a way of fulfilling a fantasy of his at the expense of your guests.

So if it's the latter, then people feel somewhat aggrieved that they're being sold an "all-female orgy" that isn't one. It feels very underhand and deceptive. Guests need to feel like they can trust the host to look out for their interests, and if the host wants to surreptitiously bring her fella into what is sold as an all-female space under the slightly less-than-truthful guise of being "security", then they've got no reason to believe they can trust the host.

So host, please clarify: Is Mr going to *actually* be there for security (in which case he's out the way and is on duty as security for the entirety of the party), or is he going to be playing? Because if people want to go to an MFFFFFFFFFFFF, then great they'll have a fab night, but if people want to go to an orgy that's girls-ONLY and a guy is also there, you're going to have a group of very pissed off guests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least the OP has been up front about everything - although I still think it's false advertising to call it an 'all girl' party.

I'd be more than happy to attend an all girl get together, but it would need to be a women only event.

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By *ab and Milfy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Farnborough


"Seems mighty unprofessional to me - not the behaviour of someone who is SIA qualified.

Exactly. I mean, I think the need for security is a bit much but I can totally understand that the host might be concerned with one or two troublemakers wrecking the night, so better safe than sorry. I can understand that.

But if he's playing too, then he's not security. He's going to be too preoccupied to notice any potential problems. Either he's actually security (in which case he works the night and isn't involved in any way with playing) or he's a participant and the "security" claim is actually an underhand way of (what appears to be) a way of fulfilling a fantasy of his at the expense of your guests.

So if it's the latter, then people feel somewhat aggrieved that they're being sold an "all-female orgy" that isn't one. It feels very underhand and deceptive. Guests need to feel like they can trust the host to look out for their interests, and if the host wants to surreptitiously bring her fella into what is sold as an all-female space under the slightly less-than-truthful guise of being "security", then they've got no reason to believe they can trust the host.

So host, please clarify: Is Mr going to *actually* be there for security (in which case he's out the way and is on duty as security for the entirety of the party), or is he going to be playing? Because if people want to go to an MFFFFFFFFFFFF, then great they'll have a fab night, but if people want to go to an orgy that's girls-ONLY and a guy is also there, you're going to have a group of very pissed off guests."

I think you all need to calm down a little

At no point has anyone suggested that anyone is a qualified security guard!

There has never been any deception everyone invited and reading the profile can clearly see that a man will be there as part of the hosting couple.

Maybe arrange something yourself if your so offended!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems mighty unprofessional to me - not the behaviour of someone who is SIA qualified.

Exactly. I mean, I think the need for security is a bit much but I can totally understand that the host might be concerned with one or two troublemakers wrecking the night, so better safe than sorry. I can understand that.

But if he's playing too, then he's not security. He's going to be too preoccupied to notice any potential problems. Either he's actually security (in which case he works the night and isn't involved in any way with playing) or he's a participant and the "security" claim is actually an underhand way of (what appears to be) a way of fulfilling a fantasy of his at the expense of your guests.

So if it's the latter, then people feel somewhat aggrieved that they're being sold an "all-female orgy" that isn't one. It feels very underhand and deceptive. Guests need to feel like they can trust the host to look out for their interests, and if the host wants to surreptitiously bring her fella into what is sold as an all-female space under the slightly less-than-truthful guise of being "security", then they've got no reason to believe they can trust the host.

So host, please clarify: Is Mr going to *actually* be there for security (in which case he's out the way and is on duty as security for the entirety of the party), or is he going to be playing? Because if people want to go to an MFFFFFFFFFFFF, then great they'll have a fab night, but if people want to go to an orgy that's girls-ONLY and a guy is also there, you're going to have a group of very pissed off guests.

I think you all need to calm down a little

At no point has anyone suggested that anyone is a qualified security guard!

There has never been any deception everyone invited and reading the profile can clearly see that a man will be there as part of the hosting couple.

Maybe arrange something yourself if your so offended!

"

The question wasnt actuslly answered in your reply. For clarity can you answer the actual question she has asked: is he security or a participant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

At no point has anyone suggested that anyone is a qualified security guard!

"

I do believe that there are certain regulations surrounding calling someone 'security' when they are not qualified.

Also, you suggest in your profile that he is there 'purely' for hosting and security. Muffdiving isn't hosting OR security.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, I quote from your profile:


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These events are for Females only even if part of a MF couple, no offence but that's the vibe we want to achieve."

Why does your fella give off a different vibe to everyone elses fella?

Is everyone elses fella just not as good as yours? More creepy? More pervy? More objectifying?

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By *llenMilfCouple
over a year ago

farnborough

as I have already stated, it myself that requires him to be present, this isn't a man that's trying to get his kicks and being underhanded.

It was just pointed out that a couple of the guests have asked for him to be present, and asked if they felt like interacting with him, would that be possible.

As for being "sold" wouldnt we need to be charging a fee to cover the expenses??

Which we are not..

I'm quite aware of how this could come across, but I believe that has been assumed by some folk on here, it's just a matter of 2 professional people holding a party to accommodate some females needs and requests.

It was only pointed out that he MAY soft play with a couple of females, better to point it out beforehand and just Incase that was to happen, then it cause an issue on the night.

Let's face it, a lot if guys would prob have an issue with that, but it doesn't mean he wants to even interact, most guys though on here, would jump at the chance to be involved in a female party, and I feel they are only getting distressed because they are not invited to attend.

So to clarify, security is a word that has been used, in the event that an unwanted person was to turn up, that's all.

No he will not have his face in a muff all night, that's my job.

Also not every female is going to be sexually attracted to every female present, so it may not end in a mass orgy as such, who knows.

But if any of you are uncomfortable with the logistics of the parties, well I can't help that, but it's my choice to have him present, and every party or gathering I have hosted in the past, have been a huge success with repeat guests, who look forward to the evening.!!!

Happy Swinging people and most of all have good clean fun. Xx

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Good luck with the party op seeing as your clear with what happens and there will be a male present then no drama.

Now if someone can direct me to a true all female party as quite liking that concept!!

I'm planning a north east party. A night out in Newcastle then to a hotel. I'm working on dates so if anyone has any interest please let me know. I'm hoping to make it your typical girls night out but with a difference. No men will be involved. I know of a lovely quiet country hotel with a large suite than I can book.

I'm initially thinking Saturday 18th July. We have great rail links to Newcastle and we could maybe arrange something so girls paying to get to Newcastle don't need to chip in for the hotel/drinks etc."

I won't be able to make that date, but if it's a success and you host another I'd be very interested in a weekend away

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"as I have already stated, it myself that requires him to be present, this isn't a man that's trying to get his kicks and being underhanded.

It was just pointed out that a couple of the guests have asked for him to be present, and asked if they felt like interacting with him, would that be possible.

As for being "sold" wouldnt we need to be charging a fee to cover the expenses??

Which we are not..

I'm quite aware of how this could come across, but I believe that has been assumed by some folk on here, it's just a matter of 2 professional people holding a party to accommodate some females needs and requests.

It was only pointed out that he MAY soft play with a couple of females, better to point it out beforehand and just Incase that was to happen, then it cause an issue on the night.

Let's face it, a lot if guys would prob have an issue with that, but it doesn't mean he wants to even interact, most guys though on here, would jump at the chance to be involved in a female party, and I feel they are only getting distressed because they are not invited to attend.

So to clarify, security is a word that has been used, in the event that an unwanted person was to turn up, that's all.

No he will not have his face in a muff all night, that's my job.

Also not every female is going to be sexually attracted to every female present, so it may not end in a mass orgy as such, who knows.

But if any of you are uncomfortable with the logistics of the parties, well I can't help that, but it's my choice to have him present, and every party or gathering I have hosted in the past, have been a huge success with repeat guests, who look forward to the evening.!!!

Happy Swinging people and most of all have good clean fun. Xx

"

I think perhaps it was just a poor choice of heading, OP. I agree that had it been MFFFFFFFFFF etc then people would not be confused as to what exactly his role will be.

My man is a voyeur and it's something he would love to watch, so I do understand where you're coming from to a point, and I personally would enjoy both types of party. An all girl orgy is something we've talked about but it will be far off in the future, I think, if at all possible.

Good luck with your party, I hope it goes well.

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By *earlyNipsCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

So in short; it's an "all-female orgy" in the sense that it's not actually all-female because a guy will be there.

He's there "for security" in the sense that he's there to play with the host and other women.

Nah, me and Mrs Nearly Nips will give it a miss thanks. We'll hold out for an "all-girl orgy" that's *actually* an all-girl orgy.

And OP, you'd do yourself a lot of favours in future by being more upfront about what you're trying to organise. You're organising a MFFFFFFFF, not an all-girl orgy. He's going to be there to play, not as "security". If you'd said that *clearly* from the start rather than dancing around it and dressing it up euphamistically, then I'd have said "not for us, but I'll point others your way". Now I simply don't trust you so I'll steer others away. Who knows what other hidden surprises there will be at the night eh?

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