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Trying here again but same old story

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

While ive had a long break from this site, but once again its same stories no replies, fems dont even bother reading my mails, so I guess I'm never gonna get a meet on here as nobody bothers.

Sorry to rant but its annoying to say the least. Considering I try my hardest on here.

yes my spelling/english my be bad. Blame my dyslexia

Anyway if any fem actually does want to meet, I will check msgs for a few weeks before i take another site break

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

are you doing anything different from the last time you were here to see if a new approach can help?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep I've changed the message, tried to get active within chat too but nothing seems to work. I am not sure what it is, maybe its my profile, maybe people dont want it, But I see loads of new veris so I'm fairly certain people are meeting.

Guess im just not anyones cup of tea and no one wants to meet. Its the same with dating sites so I think I'll just give up on all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep I've changed the message, tried to get active within chat too but nothing seems to work. I am not sure what it is, maybe its my profile, maybe people dont want it, But I see loads of new veris so I'm fairly certain people are meeting.

Guess im just not anyones cup of tea and no one wants to meet. Its the same with dating sites so I think I'll just give up on all"

Join the 95% of other males on here my friend. Surely reading these Forums would make you realise you're not alone?

Supply and demand. Simple as that. Loads and loads of guys after a limited supply of couples / females seeking single males. By definition then most males will be left disappointed.

You, me and hundreds of others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so wh do people advertise if their really not looking to meet?

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By *mmalou85Woman
over a year ago

Amlwch

Seriously for all the men on here a girl could never reply to even half her posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do meet on here, but only meet the types of people they want to.

As a single guy, you aren't going to be in high demand on this site.

Whether you like that or not, it is just the way it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People do meet on here, but only meet the types of people they want to.

As a single guy, you aren't going to be in high demand on this site.

Whether you like that or not, it is just the way it is."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People do meet on here, but only meet the types of people they want to.

As a single guy, you aren't going to be in high demand on this site.

Whether you like that or not, it is just the way it is.

"

exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People do meet on here, but only meet the types of people they want to.

As a single guy, you aren't going to be in high demand on this site.

Whether you like that or not, it is just the way it is.

exactly "

this from a single man who has met others well thats a great advert no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did fine on here as a single bloke, and trust me I am no George Clooney.

If you want to take an honest bit of advice, that isn't meant as a dig, whingeing type posts bemoaning your lack of success aren't going to appeal to many (if any) women.

Just be normal, affable and friendly (and patient) and you will get meets.

Good luck, don't try too hard.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"While ive had a long break from this site, but once again its same stories no replies, fems dont even bother reading my mails, so I guess I'm never gonna get a meet on here as nobody bothers.

Sorry to rant but its annoying to say the least. Considering I try my hardest on here.

yes my spelling/english my be bad. Blame my dyslexia

Anyway if any fem actually does want to meet, I will check msgs for a few weeks before i take another site break

"
. Might help if your profile listed a few non sexual interests . What are you hobbies . ? As most people are looking for a meet profile needs to elaborate a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to clubs and socials, there isn't a reasonable excuse for most people, if you compare it to actual meets as well.

It's an easy way to meet people, no guarantee of fun but that's part of the beauty, for me at least - no expectation from any parties.

There are plenty of blokes on here who wouldn't deem themselves as special, but they have success, sure you can too. Good luck anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on here just over 18months now hence why I getting a bit frustrated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would but im autisc so this is quite a difficult thing for me to do sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with most of the posts here it is v hard to get meets as you get older and gray even more so.

This is why i took the gbang route to get a few veris and they help.

Just keep plugging away.

Mick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would but im autisc so this is quite a difficult thing for me to do sadly "

If you're upfront with people, generally, and yourself, then that's all you can be really. Not gonna lie, you're probably up against it as a single male, but like the rest of us, you'll have to just test the water.

I'd say that socials are far less pressure, as there's no expectation or pressure to perform. I'd suggest that as a first port of call.

Good luck, don't worry if you don't get meets, it may not be your fault.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks Duke,

I can only cross my fingers and hope for the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No probs man!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its funny how most of the replies on here, the guys are verified and have meet yet still i'm unsucessful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To appeal to others you need to know what they are looking for and tailor your strengths and personal qualities accordingly... Do some homework in your immediate area. It's not unlike applying for a job and employers sifting your cv and not getting a reply. You need to be naturally yourself yet have a deliberate process behind you. Fishing is another useful analogy. The less specific you are about tackle bait conditions locations times etc... The less chance you have for success. Good Luck anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

and after yet more unsuccess on this site, I think its time to leave

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