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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so now my ex wants us to get another bloke involved and I am happy with that as long as you are straight,sorry Just our preference

We cannot accommodate and are willing to travel a 30 mile radius of London and herts and it has to be done like this as it's both of ours first time,,

She wants it to be in a hotel that you have already booked and then we come there and knock on your door and you let us in but you have to be fully clothed at first,then from there she wants to just go with the flow,now I am happy to do this and she is so excited but it will have to be on the 18th or 19th of July,please only contact if you are verified and have pics as she will not just meet anyone and she has to approve you

Hopefully we can arrange this and start our swinging life off from here

Thanks

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

You might want to put something in the meets section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so now my ex wants us to get another bloke involved and I am happy with that as long as you are straight,sorry Just our preference

We cannot accommodate and are willing to travel a 30 mile radius of London and herts and it has to be done like this as it's both of ours first time,,

She wants it to be in a hotel that you have already booked and then we come there and knock on your door and you let us in but you have to be fully clothed at first,then from there she wants to just go with the flow,now I am happy to do this and she is so excited but it will have to be on the 18th or 19th of July,please only contact if you are verified and have pics as she will not just meet anyone and she has to approve you

Hopefully we can arrange this and start our swinging life off from here

Thanks"

good luck with that who would. book a room not knowing. if you would. turn. up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just so you know...it's generally considered safer if you've met the person before hand for drinks or something...just to make sure they're not gonna mug you lol We would definitely need to do this before any kind of play scenario...and, as such, things would probably take a little longer for us to organise than the time frame you're looking at. I think what you're suggesting has a big element of risk about it...the main risk being that you simply don't find them sexy. Quite a few people on here have been known to put up photos of themselves which are 10+ years old so you could have a bit of a shock when that hotel door opens

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It will not let me for some reason post in the meet section and we will confirm over the phone and you can speak to both of us first,we will 100% turn up that's why she wants to do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so now my ex wants us to get another bloke involved and I am happy with that as long as you are straight,sorry Just our preference

We cannot accommodate and are willing to travel a 30 mile radius of London and herts and it has to be done like this as it's both of ours first time,,

She wants it to be in a hotel that you have already booked and then we come there and knock on your door and you let us in but you have to be fully clothed at first,then from there she wants to just go with the flow,now I am happy to do this and she is so excited but it will have to be on the 18th or 19th of July,please only contact if you are verified and have pics as she will not just meet anyone and she has to approve you

Hopefully we can arrange this and start our swinging life off from here

Thanks

good luck with that who would. book a room not knowing. if you would. turn. up"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and why are you on here as a single guy and not a couple? Has your wife seen your profile? Oh and your profile says you're only looking for couples and women...you'll probably need to set that to include men now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see what your saying but she said she wants to go for a drink with me first then just go and do it,crazy woman but she now knows I have put this on here and has not shut up about it now ...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol I know what you mean but this is my ex and she can only do this once a month so think it's best that when she is available I just arrange a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your really going to struggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has got fail written all over, what if your 'ex' doesn't fancy him. What if he doesn't fancy her.

Do you really think a man will book a hotel to randomly meet up with a man and his ex, she's your ex for a reason and that possible baggage would not be conducive to a good evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are seriously hopeful this will happen.????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like the bit in your profile where you threaten to break fingers nice touch very welcoming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she can confirm via phone and will definitely turn up, why isn't she on a couples profile with you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She is my ex because I went and worked away for 2 years and we split up on good terms but I have to respect her wishes and if it happens she will be more open and easier to do this then hopefully the next step will be clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see what your saying but she said she wants to go for a drink with me first then just go and do it,crazy woman but she now knows I have put this on here and has not shut up about it now ...lol

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Unless you're cruising for a bad experience I'd arrange to meet the guy before hand yourself...either that or do a video Skype or a video chat on the chat rooms here. As long as you've vetted him then you can be more sure you're all gonna enjoy the experience. Without that the only guy your likely to get to pay for a hotel room to meet two people who don't even have a profile on fab with pics is a pretty desperate guy imo. I've got a mental picture of John Prescott for some reason lol

Oh and sorry...I should've reread your OP...forgot it's your ex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do like the bit in your profile where you threaten to break fingers nice touch very welcoming "

Yeah not sure any bloke is gonna meet where it's quite obvious you can get violent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's is what I said and she said because it can only be once a month so not worth it,she just then said because she was hoping to get a better responce in the forum for meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's is what I said and she said because it can only be once a month so not worth it,she just then said because she was hoping to get a better responce in the forum for meets lol

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A single male profile, No pics and unverified is seriously going to limit positive responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I smell a rat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's is what I said and she said because it can only be once a month so not worth it,she just then said because she was hoping to get a better responce in the forum for meets lol

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Would you as a single male, turn up to meet from another unverified single males profile who says they are a couple ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know,I know,I know

I told her this was the responce and now she is saying god I thought I would get a guy to meet,it's not looking good is it babe...lol

No it's not as this lot want more proof than my profile...sorry you lot and I know it sound suspect but this is proving a lot harder than we thought and now she just said maybe we need to meet them in a pub first then....eeeerrrr yes dear that's the way forward

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's is what I said and she said because it can only be once a month so not worth it,she just then said because she was hoping to get a better responce in the forum for meets lol

Would you as a single male, turn up to meet from another unverified single males profile who says they are a couple ?"

No way,not a chance but she asked me to try this way and now she is willing to let me take some pics to put up but no face ones,,,,a step forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just the scenario, your overly aggressive profile won't help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if you pay for the hotel, get verified, and make it a couple's profile you may get a much better response?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's is what I said and she said because it can only be once a month so not worth it,she just then said because she was hoping to get a better responce in the forum for meets lol

Would you as a single male, turn up to meet from another unverified single males profile who says they are a couple ?

No way,not a chance but she asked me to try this way and now she is willing to let me take some pics to put up but no face ones,,,,a step forward"
no step forward there. Let's be honest, you could put any woman's picture up and say it's your ex.

You've got to build up trust before any guy will agree to what you want to happen.

If I was a single fella, I'd want 3 things to happen before anything. A picture swap to confirm we both fancied each other, a phone call to confirm she really exists and a meet at a neutral venue before we moved to a hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much easier solution there is a club in London open called ourplace4fun you can turn up tonight meet real people have fun if you want to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe if you pay for the hotel, get verified, and make it a couple's profile you may get a much better response?

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over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

oh dear lol.

It's worth a try I suppose

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