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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Look im not being funny or anything but ive messaged loads of people (mostly women and couples) being as nice as I possibly could but literally only 2 of those messages were replied to, now I know that the women have all the power on these sites and I don't want to be rude but It seems that with that power they've lost their manners even if you don't want to meet me you could at least tell me instead of just ignoring or deleting the message because this is actually starting to really annoy me, we are all adults here and all looking for the same thing, ok rant over I apologise for any offence it was not intended just getting it off my chest

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow

From the FAQ:


"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look im not being funny or anything but ive messaged loads of people (mostly women and couples) being as nice as I possibly could but literally only 2 of those messages were replied to, now I know that the women have all the power on these sites and I don't want to be rude but It seems that with that power they've lost their manners even if you don't want to meet me you could at least tell me instead of just ignoring or deleting the message because this is actually starting to really annoy me, we are all adults ghere and all looking for the same thing, ok rant over I apologise for any offence it was not intended just getting it off my chest"

Ok, i get that it's nice to at least be acknowledged but I always ask people this...would you really prefer an inbox full of messages telling you that they're not interested in you? And secondly, what are you going to do with that message? If you then resoond, are you not just wasting your time entering into dialogue with people who aren't interested in you and that you're never going to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not power, but if you received dozens of messages every day could you find the time to reply?

Your 19 far too young for most here also your at least BiCur not straight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accept the nil response as a polite 'thanks but no thanks' .....it's part and parcel of this and other similar sites and shouldn't be taken as a negative......you have to be able to shrug off rejection as you will be rejected more often than not due to you being a singleton in a sea of thousands of singletons...if your unable to do this....you will struggle...

Keep sending polite messages and by the law of averages...and the fact you will be appealing to some...you will succeed...

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep on trying

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