FabSwingers.com forum: Ok let's try again...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm new to the scene. I've met women 1:1 through other sites, but joined Fab because a friend met a guy on POF who took her to Cupids and when I heard about it I was intrigued enough to want to try it.

However, I would rather not walk into a club on my own for my very first visit, so I'm looking for a "club buddy" - maybe a lady who's also a newbie, so we can give eachother moral support, but I'd also be ok with an experienced swinger.

It would need to be someone with whom there's a mutual attraction, so that we can play together, but if she decides to go and play with someone else or we get involved with others I'd be ok with that also. I certainly wouldn't dessert her and go off with someone else, unless it was by mutual consent.

I will pay for our entry and drinks (I'm a gentleman), but that doesn't mean I'm treating the lady like a "Groupon Voucher" as was suggested previously!

Cupids or Adam & Eve's in Manchester, or open to suggestions...

Please get in touch if you're interested and we can swap pics etc, see if there's enough attraction to make this happen!

Thanks for reading, and please be nice!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a social at Partners in July posted in this section that you might want to have a look at.

I have been to a few different socials and everyone has always been very friendly. It's a great way to go to a club with no pressure and it's likely there will be lots of other newbies too.

I think anyone going to a club (male or female) on their own for the first time is very brave. But at least at a social it's not so daunting.

Good luck.