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Leeds social - 8th December

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would anyone be interested in a social in Leeds, Sunday 8th December. This would be the first time I put anything together which will explain my choices in the information below. If anyone has any ideas or suggestions, please feel free to throw them in.

Ideally _ooking at a mixture of newbies and those with a little experience, so people can learn a little more about the scene while padding out their little black contact books and not running the risk of being scared off.

I'd personally like to hold it in a bar in the city centre, which is within easy access of about 4 different hotels. I'm aware this isn't ideal for everyone, although I thought it would be easier for those who do wish to play to move on there while the others can stay for chat or go home for work the next day. No play on site unless you want to risk the toilets, which isn't advisable.

Limiting the amount of single men would probably be for the better as I don't want anyone making a fool of themselves or putting anyone off the lifestyle. Keeping the numbers reasonably low to actually encourage conversation rather than little cliques forming.

All that said, who fancies it?

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By *dventurerousgeoffMan
over a year ago

York

Ill be in leeds sat 7th an cud poss make ur social. So plz add me. Hope more willwant to come. Ideal place prob hedleys verity opp morrisons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's a couple of places I have in mind that are reasonably priced, have enough room for a good group of us and close enough for the train, bus and hotels so hopefully we get some interest.

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

I think another Leeds social would be great although a Sunday night may not be the best choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did think that but as it's aimed at having a mix of newbies and the more experienced I figured having it on a day that Isis is closed might help figures and people to stay for longer to get to know each other. Otherwise I thought people might show for a few then toddle off to Isis heh

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

I wouldn't worry about that too much and I think you'd more likely to put people off coming if they have to get up for work the next day. Isn't Isis open on a Sunday now anyway?

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By *attykitWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Clashes a bit with the York one on the 6 th. Won't be able to make it. Sorry. Xx

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By *attykitWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Clashes a bit with the York one on the 6 th. Won't be able to make it. Sorry. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that _attykit, maybe next time then hun.

According to Isis website it isn't but whether or not that's up to date is another thing.

Hopefully it doesn't put people off, it is just a social after all and not a late night party with expectation to play

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

I know they started opening on Sunday but it's been about a year since I've been so it might not have taken off and they stopped it, I'm sure someone on here will be able to enlighten us.

I get that it's just a social but if I were to go to one on a Sunday I'd probably leave by 10pm and that's just too early! The last one in Leeds we were all out til about 3am, it was a great night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

3am bloody hell hah, party animals

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm in London that weekend. Shame.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aww that sucks wyrd, hopefully see you next time

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

Its hard enough to get a meet on a sunday night let alone get people to a social as most have work or the school runs on the monday and generally people end up getting a bit merry. Plus public transport is a dick on a sunday and the last trains are often around 10-10:30pm.

Like another poster said, most go to the york social which is only a day or two before.

At a damn good social people dont feel the need to go elsewhere so dont let that put you off. Some may go later in the night but with enough people there it wouldnt be noticable. We organised a couple of small socials in blackpool at a pub near the hotel and they were having such a good time the furthest they went was to the door for a cig.

Whatever you decide to do though I hope you get a good turnout

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the info, much appreciated. Hopefully we still get a respectable turn out even with the shortcomings that have been pointed out.

Just on a side note, your profile is bloody hilarious, kinda gutted about your preferences but they are yours after all heh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just to clarify...Isis doesnt open on a sunday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Sirius, I didn't think it did but wasn't sure after a few conflicting messages. Fingers crossed then!

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford


"Thanks for the info, much appreciated. Hopefully we still get a respectable turn out even with the shortcomings that have been pointed out.

Just on a side note, your profile is bloody hilarious, kinda gutted about your preferences but they are yours after all heh."

No drama's. Just something to be mindful of. I think Liz is working until 6 that night so by the time we get there we would probably only have an hour or so and then have to head home. Good luck with it, we look forward to reading how it goes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll definitely be keeping the thread updated and will write a little review when it's finished, providing enough people want to come to make it worthwhile heh. There's a couple of people on the list so far but would love to make it a lot longer.

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By *dventurerousgeoffMan
over a year ago

York

Add me plz. Keep me posted of where to meet. Best of pms details an not post on forum.

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By *ooking atMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Im up for some social fun add me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i'll be keeping the post up to date every few days, or as often as I can.

i'll let everyone who's said yes what is happening for 100% on around the 4th or 5th, including the chosen destination. it will all be done via private message, so it's not passed around. although at this point, we could really use a few more!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One couple, one single female and 2 single males.

we need a couple more and keep it a cosy one.

get in touch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only a week to go!

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By *opboyterryMan
over a year ago

manchester.

Went to the manchester one on friday but would love to try leeds and compare notes.haha.can you put my name down and recommend a hotel?.thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

send me a private message dude and we can have a chat re local hotels

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By *dventurerousgeoffMan
over a year ago

York

Discovery inn. Next door to scarbough inn an opposite train st. Cheap an cheerfull. I stay there all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else want in? Preferably no more single males as i dont want anyone being hassled or making a fool of themselves

Will be contacting those who wish to come in the next couple of days with further info

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can you please PM me Bobinlaw and Adventurerousgeoff as your filters have stopped me from contacting you re the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not goin to plan by the looks of things for the leeds social it lol not very sociable are we now ...What!!! no more single men ...how rude!! oh well i was gona bring my adorable fem frend ...looks like

il keep to her to myself then

av fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Id put that down as a couple on the figures so if you change your mind

There's a few people who have contacted me via pm so its not a total bust. Expected a few more but its the first one i've organised and the York one a couple of days prior.

We will still have a blast!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also just to note, it says preferable :p

I'd be more than happy to let you come with those veri's, as its highly unlikely you'd waste our time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

List as of this afternoon:

Space and time

cansometimes

_dventurerousgeoff

bobinlaw

Fem1979

Topboyterry65

Yorkiz

Fergsuk

10 of us should be cosy enough but still a good laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well a few people turned up and laughs, cheap hotels and a verbal tour of Amsterdams nightlife ensued.

Maybe a little disappointed in the turn out but ah well, c'est la vie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to jump on this thread.

Is anyone about Monday the 16th in Leeds who fancies a social drink in Leeds that evening??

Drop me an email if you are

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

How was the Leeds social? We would definitely be interested in attending if you organise another one.

Annie & Phil

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