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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been asked by a nice submissive female to be her dom

i have never done this before.

i would like genuine ideas and suggestions on how being a dom works,

again, only genuine answers please

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Talk to your friend and asks what she expects from a Dom.

Many new Dom/mes make the mistake of thinking all that it takes is shouting, calling others names and dishing out a beating. It is a far reality from that.

You need to talk, talk and talk some more. It takes a lot to be someones Dominant, and also to submit to someone. Just because she likes being told what to do in bed does not make her a submissive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with redangel. To be honest you won't really find the answers you want on here. Either you are Dominant or your not, it really is that simple. I would suggest you ask yourself that question because if you get it wrong then you could be heading into a world of issues. As redangel said, ask her what she wants from it, just a bit of play or something more serious? Good luck and dont read that god awful 50 shades book looking for tips. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to you both for the time in answering

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There is a great book called "spare the roses send me the thorns" that explains it all x

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