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By *iganlad484 OP   Man
8 weeks ago

wigan

Setting up a group for couples as me and the wife are always the only couple out dogging every time we go out

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

We feel your pain.

We was prolific active doggers over a spell of about 4 years round Rivington, in that time we bumped into maybe 5/6 couples that played!!!

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By *iganlad484 OP   Man
8 weeks ago

wigan

I know it’s gone bad up rivington as well with lots more rube men that don’t respect couples they think we are just there to satisfy them they have no boundaries

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By *ing cock nwMan
8 weeks ago

blackburn

Id be up for joining

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By *oolblue12Man
8 weeks ago

Tarporley near Chester

Well it is not dogging but I host gangbangs at my place if anyone is interested .

John

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By *immeyyyMan
8 weeks ago

burnley


"Setting up a group for couples as me and the wife are always the only couple out dogging every time we go out "
add me to group

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By *hilleddevilMan
8 weeks ago

north Manchester

Interested and respectful.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
8 weeks ago

manchester

Yes was up there a couple of weeks ago not many I say not many I mean one lad would love to meet couples up there

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By *iganlad484 OP   Man
8 weeks ago

wigan


"Well it is not dogging but I host gangbangs at my place if anyone is interested .

John "

It maybe dogging but guys trying to open your car door and being rude and aggressive if you say no isn’t dogging

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By *herealyorkscplCouple
8 weeks ago

keighley

Looking to try a decent dogging spot lancahsire area. Any recommendations and best times to go?x

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By *iganlad484 OP   Man
8 weeks ago

wigan


"Looking to try a decent dogging spot lancahsire area. Any recommendations and best times to go?x"

Not sure where up that way only go as far as rivington and tockholes

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By *obbiehMan
8 weeks ago

chester

Interesting, tell me a bit more, have a 50's blonde lady friend who enjoys group action.

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By *ushroom321Man
8 weeks ago

Chester

I am interested

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I would like to join the group

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By *andaCoolMan
7 weeks ago

Liverpool

would like to join

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By *ick-meMan
7 weeks ago

high peak

Can I join the fun

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By *ames2602Man
7 weeks ago

chorley

Is this still a thing

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By *ax_VeridiusMan
7 weeks ago

Liverpool

I wrote this a few weeks ago, in reply to a question in another forum. Might help some.

Written from a single straight male perspective, looking for couples, so others may want to add to it.

1) Timing - Usually after dark works best. Well known spots can be busy with people who just cruise about endlessly so I tend to head for spots that are quieter or have potential. Even well known spots quieten down after 10:30 (I assume as married fellas run out of excuses to be out)

2) Good single males will be patient. They will usually signal interest by a quick flash of the headlights or interior light. In addition, I tend to get out of the car, stand by it so I am fully visible and then a couple can check me out fully.

3) I won't approach unless I get an indication. This is often the male partner getting out and saying hello, but could be a reciprocal flash of a light.

4) If I see a signal, I will cautiously approach. I say cautiously because there are knobheads around who want to cause trouble.

From there it's 'play it by ear', but here is my understanding of the 'rules'.

Keep the interior light out and I will loiter and watch. It's obviously harder to see but I appreciate that some people don't like to be too lit up and obvious. I will usually take a lead from the couple, so if playing stops or there is a hand gesture I will back off or go further depending on the gesture.

Interior lights on means you definitely want to be watched. I will approach closer and if it's quiet / safe I would usually take this as a sign to touch myself whilst watching. Again a polite but firm gesture tells me what to do next.

Window down at any point is taken as an invitation to touch or be touched. I'd usually put my hands through the window or the couple indicate if they want to touch me. We go from there.

Door open is usually an invitation to go further. Going down on the female becomes an option here as does penetration.

Generally, I find talking helpful, once initial nervousness is gone. Just say what you want to happen - for both parties.

I'm cautious of movement in and out of the spot. Cars may come and go and I tend to return to my car or walk around. No one needs to stumble across something unexpected.

As I say, I'm obviously writing this from a single male heterosexual perspective assuming I am looking for couples. Couples or gay / bi people may have a different perspective or approach.

If I'm a car park late at night I'm probably there in hope. It's definitely a game of patience. Patience in waiting for a couple who want to play; and patience in watching the merry-go-round.

Some "don'ts" for me include

1) Parking too close the the car you are interested in. Give it time.

2) Full beam headlights, even if its dark. Give it time.

3) Approaching without signal. Give it time.

4) Did I mention - just give it time!

I've seen all sorts over the years, so feel free to ask any other questions. I'm not discussing locations on the forum.

Hope that's helpful, and here's to many more years of fun.

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By *pfortheswapCouple
7 weeks ago

Lancashire

We used to go a few different places but it was always single men we did see the odd couple but not often

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By *rivateshooter2Man
7 weeks ago

Stoke


"I wrote this a few weeks ago, in reply to a question in another forum. Might help some.

Written from a single straight male perspective, looking for couples, so others may want to add to it.

1) Timing - Usually after dark works best. Well known spots can be busy with people who just cruise about endlessly so I tend to head for spots that are quieter or have potential. Even well known spots quieten down after 10:30 (I assume as married fellas run out of excuses to be out)

2) Good single males will be patient. They will usually signal interest by a quick flash of the headlights or interior light. In addition, I tend to get out of the car, stand by it so I am fully visible and then a couple can check me out fully.

3) I won't approach unless I get an indication. This is often the male partner getting out and saying hello, but could be a reciprocal flash of a light.

4) If I see a signal, I will cautiously approach. I say cautiously because there are knobheads around who want to cause trouble.

From there it's 'play it by ear', but here is my understanding of the 'rules'.

Keep the interior light out and I will loiter and watch. It's obviously harder to see but I appreciate that some people don't like to be too lit up and obvious. I will usually take a lead from the couple, so if playing stops or there is a hand gesture I will back off or go further depending on the gesture.

Interior lights on means you definitely want to be watched. I will approach closer and if it's quiet / safe I would usually take this as a sign to touch myself whilst watching. Again a polite but firm gesture tells me what to do next.

Window down at any point is taken as an invitation to touch or be touched. I'd usually put my hands through the window or the couple indicate if they want to touch me. We go from there.

Door open is usually an invitation to go further. Going down on the female becomes an option here as does penetration.

Generally, I find talking helpful, once initial nervousness is gone. Just say what you want to happen - for both parties.

I'm cautious of movement in and out of the spot. Cars may come and go and I tend to return to my car or walk around. No one needs to stumble across something unexpected.

As I say, I'm obviously writing this from a single male heterosexual perspective assuming I am looking for couples. Couples or gay / bi people may have a different perspective or approach.

If I'm a car park late at night I'm probably there in hope. It's definitely a game of patience. Patience in waiting for a couple who want to play; and patience in watching the merry-go-round.

Some "don'ts" for me include

1) Parking too close the the car you are interested in. Give it time.

2) Full beam headlights, even if its dark. Give it time.

3) Approaching without signal. Give it time.

4) Did I mention - just give it time!

I've seen all sorts over the years, so feel free to ask any other questions. I'm not discussing locations on the forum.

Hope that's helpful, and here's to many more years of fun."

Some really good suggestions here, clearly from experience.

What I find confusing is the cars that keep headlights/ side lights on when obviously NOT playing.

Any guidance??

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By *escreetladforfun7Man
7 weeks ago

chester

Id be interested in that

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By *ina777Woman
7 weeks ago

Cumbria

Invite me to group love to do lots more dogging

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By *ot wifey coupleCouple
7 weeks ago

lancs/yorks

Happy to be invited to group

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By *adamm7406Man
7 weeks ago

leeds

Wed love to join

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By *pl 4 3rdCouple
7 weeks ago

warrington

It seems we missed the boat on dogging, as wife didn’t want to do it, but when she decided to try it, we go some advice of here but only ever found the places we were told had been overtaken by gents wanking with each other as all the couples had been scared off

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By *ancsguy1975Man
7 weeks ago

Leyland

I’d love to join. I know a few good spots off the usual beaten track.

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By *ax_VeridiusMan
7 weeks ago

Liverpool


"

Some really good suggestions here, clearly from experience.

What I find confusing is the cars that keep headlights/ side lights on when obviously NOT playing.

Any guidance?? "

Yep, happens all the time. I would suggest you can't make assumptions that people want attention.

You can make it clear that you are interested (go for a walk, stand by your car, flash your own lights as per post) but safer for the first move to come from the the couple.

I know it's tempting to assume that a couple sat in their car in a known spot must be there for only one reason but that's not necessarily true. They could just be keeping warm, having a drink or chat.

Most places are public places and all that goes with that.

My best advice is be patient. Often couples will leave it quite a while before letting on. I think this is to flush out the people who just pull up and pull off.

Hope that helps

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By *ax_VeridiusMan
7 weeks ago

Liverpool


"It seems we missed the boat on dogging, as wife didn’t want to do it, but when she decided to try it, we go some advice of here but only ever found the places we were told had been overtaken by gents wanking with each other as all the couples had been scared off "

I'd suggest organising something specific for a first couple of times. There are lots of secluded places that aren't always full of fellas.

A careful selection of reliable people with specific instructions on the type of night you want would be a good introduction.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

We would love to join x

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By *ClookingCouple
7 weeks ago

manchester

We would like to join x

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By *rBakerMan
7 weeks ago

Liverpool

its not just dogging you get disrespectful single men clubs are full of them to

it annoys me as a respectful single guy they spoil it for all sign of the times unfortunately

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By *P1232025Man
6 weeks ago

glossop

This is great info - thanks

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By *P1232025Man
6 weeks ago

glossop

And if you’re happy for a single male in the group I’d love to be added

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By *lamgirl1TV/TS
6 weeks ago

cheshire

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By *lamgirl1TV/TS
6 weeks ago

cheshire


"Well it is not dogging but I host gangbangs at my place if anyone is interested .

John "

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By *ischiefManaged69Couple
6 weeks ago

Preston

We'll be keeping an eye on this thread! Always hard finding good locations and couples who enjoy some outdoor mischief! 😈😈

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By *ndy38Man
6 weeks ago

bolton

hi you free tommorow night for dogging meet with another couple / let me know

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By *omhardlyMan
6 weeks ago

Chester

Can I follow 😁

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By *atchuswatchyouCouple
6 weeks ago

Manchester

We would like to join

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By *BA8891Man
6 weeks ago

Manchester

I’m interested in joining

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By *BA8891Man
6 weeks ago

Manchester

What are the best spots around Manchester?

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By *stromMan
6 weeks ago

Preston

May I join please? I've been a few times in the past. I never take it for granted that something will happen, and I have the utmost of respect

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By *tokieLad24Man
6 weeks ago

Stoke on Trent


"I wrote this a few weeks ago, in reply to a question in another forum. Might help some.

Written from a single straight male perspective, looking for couples, so others may want to add to it.

1) Timing - Usually after dark works best. Well known spots can be busy with people who just cruise about endlessly so I tend to head for spots that are quieter or have potential. Even well known spots quieten down after 10:30 (I assume as married fellas run out of excuses to be out)

2) Good single males will be patient. They will usually signal interest by a quick flash of the headlights or interior light. In addition, I tend to get out of the car, stand by it so I am fully visible and then a couple can check me out fully.

3) I won't approach unless I get an indication. This is often the male partner getting out and saying hello, but could be a reciprocal flash of a light.

4) If I see a signal, I will cautiously approach. I say cautiously because there are knobheads around who want to cause trouble.

From there it's 'play it by ear', but here is my understanding of the 'rules'.

Keep the interior light out and I will loiter and watch. It's obviously harder to see but I appreciate that some people don't like to be too lit up and obvious. I will usually take a lead from the couple, so if playing stops or there is a hand gesture I will back off or go further depending on the gesture.

Interior lights on means you definitely want to be watched. I will approach closer and if it's quiet / safe I would usually take this as a sign to touch myself whilst watching. Again a polite but firm gesture tells me what to do next.

Window down at any point is taken as an invitation to touch or be touched. I'd usually put my hands through the window or the couple indicate if they want to touch me. We go from there.

Door open is usually an invitation to go further. Going down on the female becomes an option here as does penetration.

Generally, I find talking helpful, once initial nervousness is gone. Just say what you want to happen - for both parties.

I'm cautious of movement in and out of the spot. Cars may come and go and I tend to return to my car or walk around. No one needs to stumble across something unexpected.

As I say, I'm obviously writing this from a single male heterosexual perspective assuming I am looking for couples. Couples or gay / bi people may have a different perspective or approach.

If I'm a car park late at night I'm probably there in hope. It's definitely a game of patience. Patience in waiting for a couple who want to play; and patience in watching the merry-go-round.

Some "don'ts" for me include

1) Parking too close the the car you are interested in. Give it time.

2) Full beam headlights, even if its dark. Give it time.

3) Approaching without signal. Give it time.

4) Did I mention - just give it time!

I've seen all sorts over the years, so feel free to ask any other questions. I'm not discussing locations on the forum.

Hope that's helpful, and here's to many more years of fun."

As someone who has only recently shown an interest in dogging, this is very useful to know. I wasn't sure on what was considered "normal" or acceptable behaviour re parking distance, lights on/off, etc.

If there is a group, I'd be very interested in joining if single blokes are welcome

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By *jc89Man
5 weeks ago

Preston

Keen to get invovlved in this

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By *oyandJulieMan
5 weeks ago

blackburn

I'd love to join. I quite often go dogging daytime

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By *ored in cheshireMan
5 weeks ago

nantwich

Could I also be considered please cheshire area

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By *ediness2Couple
5 weeks ago

Merseyside

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By *ediness2Couple
5 weeks ago

Merseyside

Would love to join Xx

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By *lcherasDreamTimeCouple
5 weeks ago

Manchester

Can we be added to the group please?

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By *knotbullMan
5 weeks ago

Ashton

Could i join, i know a few good local spots

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By *ingle for regular funMan
5 weeks ago

Liverpool

Can I join please

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

Did anything get set up ?

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By *P1232025Man
5 weeks ago

glossop


"Did anything get set up ?"

Not sure. If anybody wants to message me directly I can set up a group on platform that suits us all?

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By *winkledickCouple
5 weeks ago

home

Out Sunday night if any other couples want to join us

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By *randMrsMaybeCouple
5 weeks ago

hyde

Keeping an eye on this thread… Summer might Turn up

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By *rivervaderMan
5 weeks ago

bolton

Would love to join if I may. Been a few times round rivvy but as you say some single blokes always spoil it for the rest of us

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By *weet and Spicy69Couple
5 weeks ago

Northwest

Keep us in mind -

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By *BA8891Man
5 weeks ago

Manchester


"Keep us in mind - "

😋

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Did this group ever get set up?

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By *iganlad484 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

wigan

Out on Sunday night

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By *anylMan
5 weeks ago

heywood

Please DM me I will make a WhatsApp group

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By *anylMan
5 weeks ago

heywood

I will make a WhatsApp group the numbers will be hide and we can plan locations and times

Let’s do this group please send private message to me

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By *anylMan
5 weeks ago

heywood

3 couple and 2 single male ready to signup on WhatsApp group need at least 10 persons

COME ON COUPLES AND SINGLE SEND ME PRIVATE MESSAGE SO I CAN MAKE THIS GROUP

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By *ingnjCouple
4 weeks ago

Fleetwood

Interested

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By *icolerobbieCouple
4 weeks ago

walsall

All those that think an open window, door or anything else is a signal to do something are very mistaken. The couple will invite or ask for your input. Just because a window is open doesn’t mean it’s ok to touch. Either ask or they’ll invite you.

Some couples open a window and door but don’t want touching.

The best thing that guys can do at a dogging spot is 1, don’t park too close and 2, turn your interior light on for a few moments, just to let the couple see who is in the car. That way they know it’s safe to go further.

There are no rules or signals, just make sure that your advances are welcome.

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By *P1232025Man
4 weeks ago

glossop


"3 couple and 2 single male ready to signup on WhatsApp group need at least 10 persons

COME ON COUPLES AND SINGLE SEND ME PRIVATE MESSAGE SO I CAN MAKE THIS GROUP "

Sent a pm fella

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By *orthwestcouple2630Couple
4 weeks ago

Blackburn

We did go out but was always the same just single males out

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By *RONSHAFTMan
4 weeks ago

Norden

Well the days of proper DOGGING are well and truly gone ive been DOGGING for around 45 years and it's gone in a massively downward spiral it's really hit and miss nowadays ive seen it from a single male and as a couple I probably know most of the DOGGING locations all over the country I go out in my motorhome now and park up and wait to hopefully get a couple park up in front of me our at the side like they in the old days REMEMBER the couple are in charge not the single male or groups of guys when there ready they will let you know so if any couples are about soon drop me a PM to hopefully meet up for a night of old school dogging.

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By *omandcuckfunMan
4 weeks ago

Preston

Very interested in joining any group - some great advice on this thread but basically it is all about respect. As a single male attending you should expect nothing, it is about what the couple want, not you, if you are lucky you are there to help them play out their fantasies not yours. If in doubt assume the negative, definitely not an environment where over confidence is welcomed. Hope everyone has fun, it is still out there, some great places and some great people 👍

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By *hellmartCouple
4 weeks ago

wigan

We would be interested in joining a group where couples can join others couples for outdoor fun

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By *ax_VeridiusMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool


"All those that think an open window, door or anything else is a signal to do something are very mistaken. The couple will invite or ask for your input. Just because a window is open doesn’t mean it’s ok to touch. Either ask or they’ll invite you.

Some couples open a window and door but don’t want touching.

The best thing that guys can do at a dogging spot is 1, don’t park too close and 2, turn your interior light on for a few moments, just to let the couple see who is in the car. That way they know it’s safe to go further.

There are no rules or signals, just make sure that your advances are welcome. "

Agreed. Just re-read my original post and you are right, it is a bit ambiguous. In the scenarios in which I have been involved, a window has been wound down and that was a very clear signal.

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By *obmarie1Couple
4 weeks ago

leeds

We would love to meet single men, but the numbers who are time wasters is unbelievable

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