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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
17 weeks ago

London

Hi All,

I've noticed a lot of you pervs around the Reading and surrounding areas, wondering if any of you would be interested in arranging a social get together in a pub, i.e. non playing social. With a balance of guys and gals.

Let me know below if interested.

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By *arcstudMan
17 weeks ago

reading

I'm a single guy from Reading and I would definitely like to join in

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By *onnynclaireCouple
17 weeks ago

Reading

Good luck with that.

It seems nothing happens in Reading

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

There does seem to be a lack of things happening around Oxford too. I guess it’s up to us to make it happen. Anyone else feel the same?

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By *arcstudMan
16 weeks ago

reading

Why don't we make it happen everyone

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
16 weeks ago

La La Land

Bookmarking

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
16 weeks ago

London

We need more women and couples, ask any nearby friends to join.

It's just a drink at a local bar.

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By *eeshellsCouple
16 weeks ago

Reading

We'd be interested if the ratios were right

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By *arcstudMan
16 weeks ago

reading

I'm sure that we could get the right ratio of men , women and couples to make something happen guys a I love renting out an apartment for a Friday or Saturday night

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By *onnynclaireCouple
16 weeks ago

Reading

We’d be interested in a social. Tap water for us though

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
16 weeks ago

Reading

If there are more women joining, I'd be interested.

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By * and ECouple
16 weeks ago

basingstoke

We’d love to come, we thought purple turtle had some private parties ?

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By *udda316Man
16 weeks ago

Stroud

I'm frequently in the oxford area visiting family id be happy to attend

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By *ogandher1962Couple
16 weeks ago

Reading

Could be interested depending on venue and mix

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By *iss Blondie XxWoman
16 weeks ago

bracknell

If the venue and mix of people is right then I could be interested x

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By *elloWoman
16 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Interested, reading isn't too far

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By *infullyObedientWoman
16 weeks ago

Woodley

Interested, depending on mix

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By *arcstudMan
16 weeks ago

reading

OK cool so already we are getting a good response from people who are from around this area and you are all right there isn't or hasn't been anything good for us around here so let's change that and plan something amazing and fingers crossed it hopefully will be something that will continue

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By *arcstudMan
16 weeks ago

reading

Hiya guys and how many people interested in our social before we start looking for a venue ?

Like I said it's not looking to bad already

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By *cottyboy100Man
16 weeks ago

Ashread

I’d be interested.

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By *onnynclaireCouple
16 weeks ago

Reading

If location is good and we can make it then we’d be interested

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By *ogandher1962Couple
16 weeks ago

Reading


"Hiya guys and how many people interested in our social before we start looking for a venue ?

Like I said it's not looking to bad already "

Depending on the date / mix we’d be interested

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
16 weeks ago

London

I have the venue, book the evening of Friday 24th April into your diaries for the Reading social. It will be in the town centre, I will control the number of single guys.

DM me for any questions.

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By *ogandher1962Couple
16 weeks ago

Reading


"I have the venue, book the evening of Friday 24th April into your diaries for the Reading social. It will be in the town centre, I will control the number of single guys.

DM me for any questions."

Where is the venue?

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
16 weeks ago

London


"I have the venue, book the evening of Friday 24th April into your diaries for the Reading social. It will be in the town centre, I will control the number of single guys.

DM me for any questions.

Where is the venue?"

The venue will be a pub/bar in Reading town centre, I will provide venue details to those interested in attending just before the event.

DM me if you want to attend and I'll start compiling a list of attendees.

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By *ogandher1962Couple
16 weeks ago

Reading


"I have the venue, book the evening of Friday 24th April into your diaries for the Reading social. It will be in the town centre, I will control the number of single guys.

DM me for any questions.

Where is the venue?

The venue will be a pub/bar in Reading town centre, I will provide venue details to those interested in attending just before the event.

DM me if you want to attend and I'll start compiling a list of attendees."

Fair enough. We’ll see if we’re free.

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By *ogandher1962Couple
16 weeks ago

Reading


"I have the venue, book the evening of Friday 24th April into your diaries for the Reading social. It will be in the town centre, I will control the number of single guys.

DM me for any questions.

Where is the venue?

We can't message you as we're outside your agre ranges. Oh well.

The venue will be a pub/bar in Reading town centre, I will provide venue details to those interested in attending just before the event.

DM me if you want to attend and I'll start compiling a list of attendees."

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By *elloWoman
16 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"I have the venue, book the evening of Friday 24th April into your diaries for the Reading social. It will be in the town centre, I will control the number of single guys.

DM me for any questions."

Isn't the 24th a Thursday

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By *ogandher1962Couple
16 weeks ago

Reading

We can’t DM as we’re out of your age preferences

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By *ogandher1962Couple
16 weeks ago

Reading


"I have the venue, book the evening of Friday 24th April into your diaries for the Reading social. It will be in the town centre, I will control the number of single guys.

DM me for any questions.

Isn't the 24th a Thursday "

Yes, it’s a Thursday

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
16 weeks ago

London

Oops I meant of course the Friday 25th April.

Well spotted _ello

I'll open up my filters too

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By *arcstudMan
16 weeks ago

reading

Hopefully I will be I invited to join you guys

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
16 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Ooh could be interesting if I'm free then

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16 weeks ago


"I have the venue, book the evening of Friday 24th April into your diaries for the Reading social. It will be in the town centre, I will control the number of single guys.

DM me for any questions."

Well done for getting this going. I don’t think can make it sadly, but it’s really awesome to see a social being put together in the area. I really want to come along!

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By *onnynclaireCouple
16 weeks ago

Reading


"Oops I meant of course the Friday 25th April.

Well spotted _ello

I'll open up my filters too

"

We will see what we can do. Need a sitter and would only be able to stay a short while.

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By *s_macWoman
16 weeks ago

Traffic land

I’d be interested another time, can’t make 25th though, it’s my birthday

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
16 weeks ago

La La Land


"I’d be interested another time, can’t make 25th though, it’s my birthday "

Welcome back Ms mac!

And have an early bday wish from moi

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By *ourFriendsWithBenefitsCouple
16 weeks ago

Farnborough

We'd be interested in a Reading social, but can't do 25th April.

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By *rancisdrakeMan
16 weeks ago

Plymouth

I will be in Basingstoke from 6 of April for a week I don't think is far from reading right? I would be happy to meet with new people/friends

Ps I will have an hotel room

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By *ogandher1962Couple
16 weeks ago

Reading


"I will be in Basingstoke from 6 of April for a week I don't think is far from reading right? I would be happy to meet with new people/friends

Ps I will have an hotel room"

It's about 20 / 30 minutes from Reading, but the social is on 25/4

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By *rancisdrakeMan
16 weeks ago

Plymouth

Oh shame I would love to meet new people maybe someone is interested in meet up with me the week I'm there ? We never know

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By *eeshellsCouple
16 weeks ago

Reading

We're keen on 25th in town.

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By *eeshellsCouple
16 weeks ago

Reading

If everyone posts this event as their status, then lots of local people will see it.

Maybe use this:

"Reading Social on Fri 25th April, see Meet Requests and Parties forum"

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
16 weeks ago

London


"If everyone posts this event as their status, then lots of local people will see it.

Maybe use this:

"Reading Social on Fri 25th April, see Meet Requests and Parties forum" "

Great idea

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By *eeshellsCouple
15 weeks ago

Reading

Bump

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By *arcstudMan
15 weeks ago

reading

I'm really hoping that we can arrange this social as some really great couples and singles seem really interested in meeting up

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By *onnynclaireCouple
15 weeks ago

Reading

Anymore updates on this? Location, time a list of attendees?

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By *ogandher1962Couple
15 weeks ago

Reading


"Anymore updates on this? Location, time a list of attendees?"

OP is trying to keep the venue secret until closer to the date. Supposedly to keep uninvited single men away.

However the choice of venue could well determine whether we attend.

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By *onnynclaireCouple
15 weeks ago

Reading

Totally understand keeping location secret until closer or on the day.

Would be good to go to a social but how the hell do they work? How do you not give the game away with the chatter?

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By *ogandher1962Couple
15 weeks ago

Reading


"Totally understand keeping location secret until closer or on the day.

Would be good to go to a social but how the hell do they work? How do you not give the game away with the chatter? "

Again, depends largely on the venue. There’s some places that have private / hireable rooms. We went to one in B’stoke a few years back that was fun. Just chatting with like minded folks. The mix was good, only five or six single men so it didn’t feel threatening in any way.

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By *anetandjohn666Man
15 weeks ago

wallingford

There’s a vibrant active social group in Oxford. - Oxford socials

Regular meets , parties, club outings, even coffee mornings

It’s mainly Cpl’s but some events open to all

Lively WhatsApp group too

Next event is Good Friday with us joining up with Ignite socials

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

London


"Anymore updates on this? Location, time a list of attendees?"

Location is central Reading within a 5 min walk of the station, we're still building a list, if anyone wants to attend, DM me. There's a waiting list for single guys.

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By *hirts HeelsCouple
15 weeks ago

Hampshire

Surely a saturday afternoon would be good for a social if so were be interested xx

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

London


"Surely a saturday afternoon would be good for a social if so were be interested xx"

Unfortunately it's a Friday evening, 🤷🏽‍♂️ which is when most other socials are also held.

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
15 weeks ago

Reading

Depending on the mix, I could be interested.

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By *ogandher1962Couple
15 weeks ago

Reading


"Depending on the mix, I could be interested. "

We think this is the key, along with the venue. If it's just a normal bar / pub open to all then we don't think it'll work. OP - when will you be releasing the venue and mix of people?

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

London


"Depending on the mix, I could be interested.

We think this is the key, along with the venue. If it's just a normal bar / pub open to all then we don't think it'll work. OP - when will you be releasing the venue and mix of people?

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It will work as I've been to similar socials before, no one else in the bar will know what we're gathered for. I will give the location out to those on the list on the week before the event. But assume it's close to reading station.

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By *ogandher1962Couple
15 weeks ago

Reading


"Depending on the mix, I could be interested.

We think this is the key, along with the venue. If it's just a normal bar / pub open to all then we don't think it'll work. OP - when will you be releasing the venue and mix of people?

It will work as I've been to similar socials before, no one else in the bar will know what we're gathered for. I will give the location out to those on the list on the week before the event. But assume it's close to reading station."

Fair enough. We'll wait for the info. before making a final decision. Cheers.

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By *eeshellsCouple
15 weeks ago

Reading

Well done McLovin2 - we all need to advertise this to help make it a success.

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By *onnynclaireCouple
15 weeks ago

Reading

We’ve made it onto the list

How do we not give away the game when in location then?

This will be our first group social. How is it not blatant what we are there for. I get it’s nothing sexual but the chat might be.

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By *eeshellsCouple
15 weeks ago

Reading

Same for us. I guess we'll learn...

The key is not to act like swingers, more important that not talking like them.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
15 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

We would be interested.

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By *ogandher1962Couple
15 weeks ago

Reading


"We’ve made it onto the list

How do we not give away the game when in location then?

This will be our first group social. How is it not blatant what we are there for. I get it’s nothing sexual but the chat might be."

How do you know you're on the list?

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By *eeshellsCouple
15 weeks ago

Reading


"We’ve made it onto the list

How do we not give away the game when in location then?

This will be our first group social. How is it not blatant what we are there for. I get it’s nothing sexual but the chat might be.

How do you know you're on the list?

"

Message McLovin and he'll add you and confirm

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By *onnynclaireCouple
15 weeks ago

Reading


"Same for us. I guess we'll learn...

The key is not to act like swingers, more important that not talking like them. "

Oh god! Now you’ve got me wondering if we talk and act like swingers.

We are too shy to be that brazen.

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By *eeshellsCouple
15 weeks ago

Reading


"Same for us. I guess we'll learn...

The key is not to act like swingers, more important that not talking like them.

Oh god! Now you’ve got me wondering if we talk and act like swingers.

We are too shy to be that brazen.

"

Don't have sex in the pub/bar

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By *onnynclaireCouple
15 weeks ago

Reading


"Same for us. I guess we'll learn...

The key is not to act like swingers, more important that not talking like them.

Oh god! Now you’ve got me wondering if we talk and act like swingers.

We are too shy to be that brazen.

Don't have sex in the pub/bar "

Is that not acceptable?

This is us we’re talking about. There’d barely be any physical contact apart from claire and myself.

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By *eeshellsCouple
15 weeks ago

Reading

Yeah, we thought we were innocent too. Then we went to Hellfire and undressed in public

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By *ogandher1962Couple
15 weeks ago

Reading


"Yeah, we thought we were innocent too. Then we went to Hellfire and undressed in public "

Remember our first time naked on the beach, seems so natural now. And our first trip to the old Kestrels..... miss that place

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By *ovetoedgeMan
15 weeks ago

Dunstable


"Good luck with that.

It seems nothing happens in Reading "

I lived there for donkeys years, never been much going on in Reading, apart from meets in houses.

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By *oodiesCouple
15 weeks ago

reading

Sounds fun!

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By *innersh WillMan
15 weeks ago

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I might be free that night, a little too early to definitely commit, assuming that there is also space for the dreaded single male of course!?

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By *onnynclaireCouple
15 weeks ago

Reading

Can we get a good balance of couples too? I hope so.

We hope to be able to make it

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By *antasy does come trueCouple
15 weeks ago

devon

We are interested

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

London


"We are interested "

If you're interested in attending please DM me a confirmation & I'll add you to the list.

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By *adeoliver3Couple
15 weeks ago

Reading

We'd be interested if there were plenty of couples and females attending

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By *ealplayers4uCouple
15 weeks ago

Reading

What a good idea, very interested

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By *eeshellsCouple
14 weeks ago

Reading

Bump - let's make this social work...

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By *TinRedCouple
14 weeks ago

Reading

We'll be in Reading next weekend on the Saturday, so feel free to message us if any other couples are about 🙌

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By *ondgirl 1000Woman
14 weeks ago

crowthorne

Maybe if I can find someone to come with me who I know already.

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By *untimefella4uMan
14 weeks ago

reading

Oh go on then xx

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By *untimefella4uMan
14 weeks ago

reading


"Maybe if I can find someone to come with me who I know already. "

Oh go on then I'll come with you lol x

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By *ondgirl 1000Woman
14 weeks ago

crowthorne


"Maybe if I can find someone to come with me who I know already.

Oh go on then I'll come with you lol x"

Yay thanks. Get our names down

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
14 weeks ago

London

guestlist so far;

Couples:

_ogandher1962

seashells

_onnynclaire

bondgirl1000 + fwb

_oodies

oxford socials

_ealplayers4u

Mclovin & fwb

Single men

Marcstud

plus one more on the waitlist

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By *onnynclaireCouple
14 weeks ago

Reading

Hoping that we can get a sitter so we can come along.

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By *arcstudMan
14 weeks ago

reading

I'm so excited and can't wait

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By *arrykahnMan
14 weeks ago

Maidenhead

I’m interested and would like to be added to the list

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By *arcstudMan
14 weeks ago

reading

Pleased to see couples that I've liked for ages but couldn't message attending

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By *aul0069Man
14 weeks ago

Reading

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By *aul0069Man
14 weeks ago

Reading

Hi I would like to be added as I'm free and who don't like a good social.

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
14 weeks ago

London

Paul & harry, you have been added to the waiting list.

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By *obin444Man
14 weeks ago

Windsor

Apologies. Coming to this quite late.

Is there a date?. Couldn’t find it, when scrolling through.

I see there’s a waiting list, so will keep an eye out for any future events.

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By *lackben2000Man
14 weeks ago

reading

I live locally to Reading, very interested. Please add me to the waiting list cheers.

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By *herry.bombWoman
14 weeks ago

basingstoke

Bump!

Unfortunately can’t make that date (10 year anniversary) but hopefully it goes well for you all and I’ll keep my eyes out for the next one.

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By *i FWB filthy fun coupleCouple
14 weeks ago

South East

We would definitely be interested in a social, but weekday daytimes work for us. Could this work for other couples ? Xx

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By *eroLondonMan
14 weeks ago

Mayfair

Bookmarking this for future events. I would be interested in attending this, courtesy of the Elizabeth Line from Central London. 🩶

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By *illan-KillashMan
14 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Hi All,

I've noticed a lot of you pervs around the Reading and surrounding areas, wondering if any of you would be interested in arranging a social get together in a pub, i.e. non playing social. With a balance of guys and gals.

Let me know below if interested.

"

A stones throw from home, so I'd definitely be interested, date depending.

I've made great friends at group socials I've attended over the years.

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By *oolblkMan
14 weeks ago

Reading

Definitely would be interested, it's dead in reading for socials

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By *ungFunJackMan
14 weeks ago

Reading

Sign me up

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By *p4fun60Couple
14 weeks ago

Hampshire

Our diary is free, quite fancy a fairly local social add us to the list

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By *aughtymcnaughtyMan
14 weeks ago

Reading


"Paul & harry, you have been added to the waiting list."

Can I be added too please?

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By *eeshellsCouple
14 weeks ago

Reading


"Our diary is free, quite fancy a fairly local social add us to the list "

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
14 weeks ago

London

latest update on the attendance list still growing;

Couples

_ogandher1962

seashells

_onnynclaire

bondgirl1000 + fwb

_oodies

oxford socials

_ealplayers4u

Mclovin+ gf

_p4fun60

Single ladies

_lyingsolo1000

Single guys

Marcstud

+ 7 more on the waitlist

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By *ogandher1962Couple
13 weeks ago

Reading

When will the venue be announced?

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
13 weeks ago

London

Details for the event have been sent to those on the guest list. Check your messages. DM for queries.

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By *onnynclaireCouple
13 weeks ago

Reading

Still working on a sitter.

I wonder if anyone we know are going.

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By *rincessandthebearCouple
13 weeks ago

Alton

Can you send us the details. We’re possibly free that evening.

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
13 weeks ago

London

Those still looking to join are welcome DM me, we have a waiting list for single men. But plenty of couples and some single ladies coming.

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By *illan-KillashMan
13 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Those still looking to join are welcome DM me, we have a waiting list for single men. But plenty of couples and some single ladies coming."

I think a lot of people wont be able to PM you......

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By *obin444Man
13 weeks ago

Windsor

Will try and get in earlier next time

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
13 weeks ago

London


"Those still looking to join are welcome DM me, we have a waiting list for single men. But plenty of couples and some single ladies coming.

I think a lot of people wont be able to PM you......"

Sorry guys I had to block men in the end due to some unwanted sexual messages from guys. Latest is that the waiting list for guys is full tbh.

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By *p4fun60Couple
13 weeks ago

Hampshire


"Can you send us the details. We’re possibly free that evening."

Hopefully see you therex

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By *rincessandthebearCouple
13 weeks ago

Alton


"Can you send us the details. We’re possibly free that evening.

Hopefully see you therex"

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By *onnynclaireCouple
13 weeks ago

Reading

Sitter booked

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"I’d be interested another time, can’t make 25th though, it’s my birthday "

Have an amazing birthday gorgeous lady

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Will jeep an eye for the next one, love reading as a place to go. Best of luck with the social and the new connections that will be made

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By *onnynclaireCouple
12 weeks ago

Reading

Any update on the guest list

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By *ogandher1962Couple
12 weeks ago

Reading

Tog is up in London on business next Friday so all will depend on what time he gets back.

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By *amesxjonesMan
12 weeks ago

Guildford

I know there is a waiting list for guys.I would love to be on it. Im free Friday night and would love to come along and meet some new people.

Can you drop me a PM if you have added me and I will keep an eye out.

James

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
12 weeks ago

London

this is the latest attendance list;

Couples

Fab

_ogandher1962

seashells

_onnynclaire

bondgirl1000 + fwb

_oodies

oxford socials

_ealplayers4u

Mclovin+ gf

_p4fun60

princessandthe bear

bothofuss-66

_etermary

Ladies

_lyingsolo1000

subslut36F

hunniebee1970

Single men

Marcstud

The waiting list for single guys is closed.

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By *eeshellsCouple
12 weeks ago

Reading

Looking forward to it - sadly we won't be staying late (or drinking!) as we have to be up very early on Sat.

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

Enjoy!

Will certainly consider any future events with gusto! ✨

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By *onnynclaireCouple
12 weeks ago

Reading

Really looking forward to Friday.

Even to just have a kid free night and meet new people.

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
12 weeks ago

Reading

Looking forward to meeting people and putting faces to profile names.

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By *etermaryCouple
12 weeks ago

croydon

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By *akbearMan
12 weeks ago

Newbury

Darn should have checked here earlier, will just have to make the next one

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By *lex.ryderMan
12 weeks ago

Close by

Add me to the list for the next event please.

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By *ndySEMan
12 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I seem to be a little late to this but I would be very interested in any further Reading social meets, not about on Friday.

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By *ogueDesire23Man
12 weeks ago

Oxford

I am interested in this social meetup,blocal to reading ,it's sad that the list is closed, let me know if any places available

Thanks

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By *ondonchinteMan
12 weeks ago

Reading

Hope it goes well tonight! If you are thinking of making this a regular thing it may be worth talking to the organisers of Reading Munch to see if you can advertise on there as well?

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By *ogandher1962Couple
12 weeks ago

Reading


"Hope it goes well tonight! If you are thinking of making this a regular thing it may be worth talking to the organisers of Reading Munch to see if you can advertise on there as well?"

What is Reading Munch?

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By *r DiverseMan
12 weeks ago

Binfield

If you run another social or reopen the list for guys please let me know or add me

Thanks

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By *eeshellsCouple
12 weeks ago

Reading


"Hope it goes well tonight! If you are thinking of making this a regular thing it may be worth talking to the organisers of Reading Munch to see if you can advertise on there as well?

What is Reading Munch?

"

It's tomorrow night also!

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By *oyahandrussCouple
12 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

We are staying in Newbury.Please could we be added to the list for the social tomorrow 25th

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By *TRADIVARIUS69xxxMan
12 weeks ago

reading

I was wondering if there was any room for the social for myself and a lady friend or if not may I apply for the next one please.

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By *oodiesCouple
12 weeks ago

reading

See you lot this evening

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By *eeshellsCouple
12 weeks ago

Reading

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By *onnynclaireCouple
12 weeks ago

Reading

Looking forward to it but nervous too.

We will be the blatantly shy couple

Will be there early as won’t be able to stay too long

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By *ogandher1962Couple
12 weeks ago

Reading

Oh brilliant! Tog is up in London!!

From GWR Twitter feed - "Due to a points failure between Reading and London Paddington, trains have to run at reduced speed on some lines.

Train services running to and from these stations will be cancelled or delayed by up to 40 minutes.

Disruption is expected until the end of the day."

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By *eeshellsCouple
12 weeks ago

Reading


"Looking forward to it but nervous too.

We will be the blatantly shy couple

Will be there early as won’t be able to stay too long "

We're all in the same boat and we're all there for the same reason.

Hope you enjoy yourselves

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By *onnynclaireCouple
12 weeks ago

Reading


"Looking forward to it but nervous too.

We will be the blatantly shy couple

Will be there early as won’t be able to stay too long We're all in the same boat and we're all there for the same reason.

Hope you enjoy yourselves "

Thank you. Hoping you do too.

We look forward to making some contacts.

Someone said to me. It’s about networking. I’m not into his business talk but guess it means getting out there.

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By *wing.Man
12 weeks ago

Thatcham

I only just saw about this just now. Having been to other group socials before (fleet and basingstoke) I will say the idea of a waiting list for single guys feels extremely exclusionary. If it was a private play event I'd understand, keep a ratio or invite who you want but the entire point of a group social is to make new connections and friendships in a no pressure environment. Swingers in general tend to be good at policing the bullshit if anyone acts like a twat

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I only just saw about this just now. Having been to other group socials before (fleet and basingstoke) I will say the idea of a waiting list for single guys feels extremely exclusionary."

It's a waiting list for a very compelling reason – to balance out the numbers. Perish the thought of women drowning in a sea of testosterone whilst they imbibe.


"...but the entire point of a group social is to make new connections and friendships in a no pressure environment."

Which is exactly what this is.


"Swingers in general tend to be good at policing the bullshit if anyone acts like a twat"

And?

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By *p4fun60Couple
12 weeks ago

Hampshire

Seem to be spread all over the venue, we're to the right of the doors when you walk in

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By *ogandher1962Couple
12 weeks ago

Reading

Tog is still in London, his jog as a Freelancer outweighs this. Sorry, perhaps next time do it on a Saturday.

We hope you all have fun.

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By *r DiverseMan
12 weeks ago

Binfield


"I only just saw about this just now. Having been to other group socials before (fleet and basingstoke) I will say the idea of a waiting list for single guys feels extremely exclusionary.

It's a waiting list for a very compelling reason – to balance out the numbers. Perish the thought of women drowning in a sea of testosterone whilst they imbibe.

...but the entire point of a group social is to make new connections and friendships in a no pressure environment.

Which is exactly what this is.

Swingers in general tend to be good at policing the bullshit if anyone acts like a twat

And? "

The differing opinion is interesting, having been to a number of socials munches clubs and parties I get the reason behind it more so in a play environment

Everyone has differing opinions and interests and most swingers I know can politely say no thanks or not interested

1 single male on that list seems a tad extreme but each to their own

I know the former reading socials were a lot more inclusive

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By *ogandher1962Couple
12 weeks ago

Reading


"I only just saw about this just now. Having been to other group socials before (fleet and basingstoke) I will say the idea of a waiting list for single guys feels extremely exclusionary.

It's a waiting list for a very compelling reason – to balance out the numbers. Perish the thought of women drowning in a sea of testosterone whilst they imbibe.

...but the entire point of a group social is to make new connections and friendships in a no pressure environment.

Which is exactly what this is.

Swingers in general tend to be good at policing the bullshit if anyone acts like a twat

And?

The differing opinion is interesting, having been to a number of socials munches clubs and parties I get the reason behind it more so in a play environment

Everyone has differing opinions and interests and most swingers I know can politely say no thanks or not interested

1 single male on that list seems a tad extreme but each to their own

I know the former reading socials were a lot more inclusive "

Second time of asking, what is munches?

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By *wing.Man
12 weeks ago

Thatcham


"I only just saw about this just now. Having been to other group socials before (fleet and basingstoke) I will say the idea of a waiting list for single guys feels extremely exclusionary.

It's a waiting list for a very compelling reason – to balance out the numbers. Perish the thought of women drowning in a sea of testosterone whilst they imbibe.

...but the entire point of a group social is to make new connections and friendships in a no pressure environment.

Which is exactly what this is.

Swingers in general tend to be good at policing the bullshit if anyone acts like a twat

And?

The differing opinion is interesting, having been to a number of socials munches clubs and parties I get the reason behind it more so in a play environment

Everyone has differing opinions and interests and most swingers I know can politely say no thanks or not interested

1 single male on that list seems a tad extreme but each to their own

I know the former reading socials were a lot more inclusive

Second time of asking, what is munches? "

As far as I know, a munch is just a social for kinksters, different name for the same thing

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By *r DiverseMan
12 weeks ago

Binfield


"I only just saw about this just now. Having been to other group socials before (fleet and basingstoke) I will say the idea of a waiting list for single guys feels extremely exclusionary.

It's a waiting list for a very compelling reason – to balance out the numbers. Perish the thought of women drowning in a sea of testosterone whilst they imbibe.

...but the entire point of a group social is to make new connections and friendships in a no pressure environment.

Which is exactly what this is.

Swingers in general tend to be good at policing the bullshit if anyone acts like a twat

And?

The differing opinion is interesting, having been to a number of socials munches clubs and parties I get the reason behind it more so in a play environment

Everyone has differing opinions and interests and most swingers I know can politely say no thanks or not interested

1 single male on that list seems a tad extreme but each to their own

I know the former reading socials were a lot more inclusive

Second time of asking, what is munches? "

Sorry hadn’t seen you had asked before

Definition of a munch is a casual social gathering for people involved in or interested in BDSM, kink, or fetishes. No BDSM, kink, or fetish activities take place, however.

So pretty much a social but the term used within that scene, there is a community site, which I don’t think you can post the name of on here and that has loads of various munch nights

Purple Turtle was a venue for a few

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By *onnynclaireCouple
12 weeks ago

Reading

Was nice to meet some new people this evening.

We were pretty shy but made to feel welcome.

Thank you all.

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By *xfordSocialsCouple
12 weeks ago

oxford

Lovely to meet you both

Not so easy to chat with the music and it was obvious you were both shy /nervous

But you did it

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By *xfordSocialsCouple
12 weeks ago

oxford

Well as always I found you ?

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By *xfordSocialsCouple
12 weeks ago

oxford


"Seem to be spread all over the venue, we're to the right of the doors when you walk in"

As always like a magnet I found you ;/)

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By *cLovin2 OP   Man
12 weeks ago

London


"Was nice to meet some new people this evening.

We were pretty shy but made to feel welcome.

Thank you all."

No worries, it's ok with practice you'll get better at attending such events, thanks to all who came.

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By *p4fun60Couple
12 weeks ago

Hampshire

Yes it was nice to meet everyone, not the most ideal of venues to have a social tbh & probably the very first one we've been to where the actual organiser buggered off after an hour & left us as a small group to it

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By *rincessandthebearCouple
12 weeks ago

Alton


"Yes it was nice to meet everyone, not the most ideal of venues to have a social tbh & probably the very first one we've been to where the actual organiser buggered off after an hour & left us as a small group to it "

Hilarious! And definitely a novel experience.

Lovely to meet everyone.

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By *ogandher1962Couple
12 weeks ago

Reading


"Yes it was nice to meet everyone, not the most ideal of venues to have a social tbh & probably the very first one we've been to where the actual organiser buggered off after an hour & left us as a small group to it "

That seems a tad rude to do that

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By *illan-KillashMan
12 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Yes it was nice to meet everyone, not the most ideal of venues to have a social tbh & probably the very first one we've been to where the actual organiser buggered off after an hour & left us as a small group to it "

He did what?

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By *akbearMan
12 weeks ago

Newbury

If there was to be another social would certainly be up for meeting and chatting, always good to make connections.

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Yes it was nice to meet everyone, not the most ideal of venues to have a social tbh & probably the very first one we've been to where the actual organiser buggered off after an hour & left us as a small group to it "

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Really??

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By *ogandher1962Couple
12 weeks ago

Reading

Sounds like a different venue is required. Suspect last nights was too noisy to make decent conversation.

From our perspective we'd prefer a Saturday as work takes priority in the week.

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By *r DiverseMan
12 weeks ago

Binfield


"Sounds like a different venue is required. Suspect last nights was too noisy to make decent conversation.

From our perspective we'd prefer a Saturday as work takes priority in the week. "

Saturdays worked well with the former Reading socials i attended, was usually an afternoon and often went on to the evening or people moved on to other places

One of the venues had a nice garden space which was lush on a warm sunny day

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By *rincessandthebearCouple
12 weeks ago

Alton


"Sounds like a different venue is required. Suspect last nights was too noisy to make decent conversation.

From our perspective we'd prefer a Saturday as work takes priority in the week. "

Not a great venue from noise perspective but to be fair on a Friday night in a central location you’d struggle to find somewhere (except a Spoons) that doesn’t have loud music.

We all had a good chat regardless!

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By *p4fun60Couple
12 weeks ago

Hampshire

Perhaps it's time to start up the Camberley social once more

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By *eeshellsCouple
12 weeks ago

Reading


"Perhaps it's time to start up the Camberley social once more"
I believe it has already happened!

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By *ondonchinteMan
11 weeks ago

Reading


"I only just saw about this just now. Having been to other group socials before (fleet and basingstoke) I will say the idea of a waiting list for single guys feels extremely exclusionary.

It's a waiting list for a very compelling reason – to balance out the numbers. Perish the thought of women drowning in a sea of testosterone whilst they imbibe.

...but the entire point of a group social is to make new connections and friendships in a no pressure environment.

Which is exactly what this is.

Swingers in general tend to be good at policing the bullshit if anyone acts like a twat

And?

The differing opinion is interesting, having been to a number of socials munches clubs and parties I get the reason behind it more so in a play environment

Everyone has differing opinions and interests and most swingers I know can politely say no thanks or not interested

1 single male on that list seems a tad extreme but each to their own

I know the former reading socials were a lot more inclusive

Second time of asking, what is munches?

Sorry hadn’t seen you had asked before

Definition of a munch is a casual social gathering for people involved in or interested in BDSM, kink, or fetishes. No BDSM, kink, or fetish activities take place, however.

So pretty much a social but the term used within that scene, there is a community site, which I don’t think you can post the name of on here and that has loads of various munch nights

Purple Turtle was a venue for a few"

Sorry I didn't reply earlier, sounds like you had a great night!

As other said, a munch is just a kink social.

I don't think the website is commercial so hopefully won't get in trouble for this

www dot readingmunch dot org dot uk

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By *r DiverseMan
11 weeks ago

Binfield


"Perhaps it's time to start up the Camberley social once moreI believe it has already happened! "

Is already up in the events section, Jenga Social 5th June

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By *loortableMan
4 weeks ago

wokingham

Reviving this. Would anyone be interested in a slightly better venue to meet up. Ideally one that allows chat 😂

If numbers are there, I’ll start asking around.

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By *ogandher1962Couple
4 weeks ago

Reading


"Reviving this. Would anyone be interested in a slightly better venue to meet up. Ideally one that allows chat 😂

If numbers are there, I’ll start asking around. "

Where would the venue be?

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By *onnynclaireCouple
4 weeks ago

Reading

The only way to do it is to find somewhere that has a private function room or something.

We couldn’t hear each other without shouting and pretty sure people heard us from time to time.

Was too packed.

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By *ogandher1962Couple
4 weeks ago

Reading


"The only way to do it is to find somewhere that has a private function room or something.

We couldn’t hear each other without shouting and pretty sure people heard us from time to time.

Was too packed."

Agreed, and preferably a Saturday afternoon / evening. Friday evening can be a challenge work wise.

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By *loortableMan
4 weeks ago

wokingham

Let me phone around tomorrow, and we can see where we get to.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Hiya

Just looked at your profile

I'm.just outside your age range unless you would make an exception

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By *ogandher1962Couple
4 weeks ago

Reading


"Hiya

Just looked at your profile

I'm.just outside your age range unless you would make an exception "

It would probably help if you said who's profile you'd looked at..... Just a thought

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
4 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I've just found this thread. I'd be interested in attending if the date and mix of attendees works.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

I'm interested to hear of any updates to this social happening again.

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