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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How difficult is it to get a meet as a single guy!!!!!

I am respectful and get nothing back when attempting to discuss stuff, then couples and females moan how men r rude or fake!!!!!!

Rant over

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By *icksfocusMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

it is difficult as there are loads of fakes on here, go to socials its a good place to prove you are genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do well....as a singl.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How difficult is it to get a meet as a single guy!!!!!

I am respectful and get nothing back when attempting to discuss stuff, then couples and females moan how men r rude or fake!!!!!!

Rant over "

Ok, not sure if you will like the reply but will try and give some constructive help.

You have been here one week. How many meets did you expect in your first week? Remember, its a swinging site, and not an instant shag site. It takes a bit of time to get yourself known.

You have one photo on your profile, ok, so it isn't a bad photo, and you have a nice body, but it is a standard photo and nothing out of the ordinary that makes you stand out from the rest. Remember, most, if not all, guys on here have a cock, so unless yours can do tricks, like the washing up, or make a brew, a picture of a cock will not make you stand out from the crowd.

Profile text is vague, says nothing at all about you, gives no hints to the person behind the one photo and certainly does not invite people to want to know more.

You have to remember, that the number of males on any site like this, way out numbers the females and couples. If you want your profile to stand out from the rest, do something to sell yourself, stand out from the others.

Lastly, a lot of couples/females would like to get to know someone before arranging meets, and that can take longer than a week. Ok, so we all get our horny heads on at some point, and sometimes arrange spur of the moment meets, but these are usually only arranged with people we feel we can rely on, those who have a few verifications nunder their belt.

Dont expect miracles, and if it is an instand shag you are after, you may find this is the wrong place for you

Good luck with it all.

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By *icechap50Man
over a year ago

Dudley

It is hard,whenever I seem to try and make polite conversationI either don't get a reply or am instantly blocked

Quite sad really because I'd never pester or hassle I know it's not a sprint

Underneath could just be someone appealing if given the chance

Still just keep your peckers up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for the honest and frank replies. Much appreciated.

In response to more pics, I can't put a face pic on profile due to my job, but do supply to poss meets. So not sure what else I can put a photo of until a lovely female or couple wud like to pose with me.....

As regards the text, short honest answer is I'm inexperienced and new to this so not sure what to put

Wud luv to have a meet an I'm willing to be patient but most of the time I'm blocked or deleted without been given a chance

David

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

Thing may put people off your profile is you say "will try anything"

Worrying...... do you have no limits about anything then?

J & S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

omg..

ffs

its the basic stuff ...

not rocket science

be nice .......

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By *otwifeguyMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"How difficult is it to get a meet as a single guy!!!!!

I am respectful and get nothing back when attempting to discuss stuff, then couples and females moan how men r rude or fake!!!!!!

Rant over

Ok, not sure if you will like the reply but will try and give some constructive help.

You have been here one week. How many meets did you expect in your first week? Remember, its a swinging site, and not an instant shag site. It takes a bit of time to get yourself known.

You have one photo on your profile, ok, so it isn't a bad photo, and you have a nice body, but it is a standard photo and nothing out of the ordinary that makes you stand out from the rest. Remember, most, if not all, guys on here have a cock, so unless yours can do tricks, like the washing up, or make a brew, a picture of a cock will not make you stand out from the crowd.

Profile text is vague, says nothing at all about you, gives no hints to the person behind the one photo and certainly does not invite people to want to know more.

You have to remember, that the number of males on any site like this, way out numbers the females and couples. If you want your profile to stand out from the rest, do something to sell yourself, stand out from the others.

Lastly, a lot of couples/females would like to get to know someone before arranging meets, and that can take longer than a week. Ok, so we all get our horny heads on at some point, and sometimes arrange spur of the moment meets, but these are usually only arranged with people we feel we can rely on, those who have a few verifications nunder their belt.

Dont expect miracles, and if it is an instand shag you are after, you may find this is the wrong place for you

Good luck with it all."

What a brilliant reply , your spot on . Can you look at my profile and give me some feedback ?

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