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Basingstoke - Sunday 14th April - 12.30 till 6pm

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Welcome to the first Xciting Encounters social. Hopefully, the first of many.

Our venue is a bar, close to town centre that serves beer, wine, cocktails and bar snacks, with plenty of local parking.

This is a social meet up, in a vanilla bar, open to the general public, on a Sunday afternoon, so please dress accordingly.

Numbers may be limited due to the bar limits but we aim to have a good mix of people, men, women and couples.

If you're interested or would like any more details please use the "contact us" email button on the webpage, details of the social page on my profile.

The full address of the bar will released to everyone the day before. We ask you not to share these for obvious reasons.

Looking forward to a great afternoon and making lots of new friends.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
36 weeks ago

Southampton

Ooh , something nearer my neck of the woods!

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Ooh , something nearer my neck of the woods!"

Not quite so far oooop North and we all speak the same language.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
36 weeks ago

Southampton


"Ooh , something nearer my neck of the woods!

Not quite so far oooop North and we all speak the same language. "

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

A gentle bump......

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By *ympha LuxuriaWoman
36 weeks ago

La La Land

Yippeeeee!

I've put it in my diary in permanent marker pen

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Yippeeeee!

I've put it in my diary in permanent marker pen "

You're in. I.N.

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

For clarification, the bar closes at 6, but we can move on elsewhere if anyone wants to.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
36 weeks ago

Southampton


"For clarification, the bar closes at 6, but we can move on elsewhere if anyone wants to. "

That's a very strange time for a bar to close lol

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"For clarification, the bar closes at 6, but we can move on elsewhere if anyone wants to.

That's a very strange time for a bar to close lol"

It's Basingstoke, what can I say........

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
36 weeks ago

Southampton


"For clarification, the bar closes at 6, but we can move on elsewhere if anyone wants to.

That's a very strange time for a bar to close lol

It's Basingstoke, what can I say........ "

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"For clarification, the bar closes at 6, but we can move on elsewhere if anyone wants to.

That's a very strange time for a bar to close lol

It's Basingstoke, what can I say........

"

Get your blimmin name down. It's the start of an MLS reunion.

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By *ympha LuxuriaWoman
36 weeks ago

La La Land


"Yippeeeee!

I've put it in my diary in permanent marker pen

You're in. I.N. "

YES!!!!!!!!!!

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
36 weeks ago

Southampton


"For clarification, the bar closes at 6, but we can move on elsewhere if anyone wants to.

That's a very strange time for a bar to close lol

It's Basingstoke, what can I say........

Get your blimmin name down. It's the start of an MLS reunion. "

Can you pop me down as a maybe.... It's the day after my other half's big session...i.may need to be doing the aftercare x

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"For clarification, the bar closes at 6, but we can move on elsewhere if anyone wants to.

That's a very strange time for a bar to close lol

It's Basingstoke, what can I say........

Get your blimmin name down. It's the start of an MLS reunion.

Can you pop me down as a maybe.... It's the day after my other half's big session...i.may need to be doing the aftercare x"

I should start a maybe list.

You're on it.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
36 weeks ago

Southampton


"For clarification, the bar closes at 6, but we can move on elsewhere if anyone wants to.

That's a very strange time for a bar to close lol

It's Basingstoke, what can I say........

Get your blimmin name down. It's the start of an MLS reunion.

Can you pop me down as a maybe.... It's the day after my other half's big session...i.may need to be doing the aftercare x

I should start a maybe list.

You're on it. "

Xx

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By *hirts HeelsCouple
36 weeks ago

dummer nr bstoke

Were very interested and only a 5 min walk to town. Please may i ask why a sunday tho saturday would of been great xx mark sue

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By *didasmanukMan
36 weeks ago

Staines

If that pub closes at 6 are we moving onto reading or where ?

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Afternoon all.

Couple of technical challenges with the social Web page, if you've already put you name down can I kindly ask you to revisit the page and register your interest again please. Use the option on the right side of the page and use your Fab name so I know who's who.

Thank you muchly.

I hate technology. *official.....

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
35 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Sunday morning bump.

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
35 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Were very interested and only a 5 min walk to town. Please may i ask why a sunday tho saturday would of been great xx mark sue "

The bar is very busy on the Saturday, they have their own events on, so not ideal for a social.

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
35 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"If that pub closes at 6 are we moving onto reading or where ?"

What people do after the bar closes is up to them. If people want to carry on there's other places we can go.

Not sure I'd want to go as far as Reading though, ideally find somewhere else nearby.

Entirely up to everyone on the day though.

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By *ympha LuxuriaWoman
35 weeks ago

La La Land


"Afternoon all.

Couple of technical challenges with the social Web page, if you've already put you name down can I kindly ask you to revisit the page and register your interest again please. Use the option on the right side of the page and use your Fab name so I know who's who.

Thank you muchly.

I hate technology. *official..... "

I've re-registered

But as I've used my phone to register, FYI it's not the right hand side it's the boxes at the bottom of the page that needs completing

OP, can you confirm I've been added to the guest list please

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
35 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Afternoon all.

Couple of technical challenges with the social Web page, if you've already put you name down can I kindly ask you to revisit the page and register your interest again please. Use the option on the right side of the page and use your Fab name so I know who's who.

Thank you muchly.

I hate technology. *official.....

I've re-registered

But as I've used my phone to register, FYI it's not the right hand side it's the boxes at the bottom of the page that needs completing

OP, can you confirm I've been added to the guest list please "

Wait, what... You can get the Internet on your phone?

Just checked, message received, you're on the list.

And quite right about the contact box being at the bottom of the screen on a phone.

I do so much work on a PC, I just default to what I view. I'm definitely too old for all this new phone technology malarkey.

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
35 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Bumping for the morning shift.

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
35 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Countdown has begun.......

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By *ympha LuxuriaWoman
34 weeks ago

La La Land


"Countdown has begun......."

Is it just me or does time drag when you want something to hurry the fuck up?

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
34 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Countdown has begun.......

Is it just me or does time drag when you want something to hurry the fuck up? "

Yes.

On the flipside, gives me more time to organise cake.

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By *ympha LuxuriaWoman
34 weeks ago

La La Land


"Countdown has begun.......

Is it just me or does time drag when you want something to hurry the fuck up?

Yes.

On the flipside, gives me more time to organise cake. "

Did you say CAKE?!?!

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
34 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Countdown has begun.......

Is it just me or does time drag when you want something to hurry the fuck up?

Yes.

On the flipside, gives me more time to organise cake.

Did you say CAKE?!?!

"

Hell yes.

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
34 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

I've had a couple of questions about the social, I'll answer them here.

Can you tell me who's on the list and how many people are coming?

First part, I'm afraid not. Second part, I can't guarantee numbers as people could pull out between now and Sunday and others may add their names. I won't know numbers for sure until we're all in the bar.

Can I get a verification?

Yes. Assuming you turn up, look like your pictures, of course. I appreciate new members getting verified can be tough, group socials are often touted as a good way to get verified, my first veris were through a social, seems right to pay that back.

When will you share the location?

I'm aiming for Saturday morning, so check your inboxes.

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By *rTongue4uMan
34 weeks ago

Sussex

Someone attempted to start a Basingstoke social last year but it didn't last very long. My partner went once. She said that the choice of venue wasn't great and that they were too exclusive about who could go. We find that the best socials are the ones where they publish the place and time and then anyone can turn up like Hampshire's Most Wanted or Amateur Jenga Society. We are busy this Sunday but will keep an eye out for future ones!

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By *rTongue4uMan
34 weeks ago

Sussex

Also to add... my partner mentioned it to her girlfriends and one said "I hate the secrecy and that you have to register on a page outside of fab. Like just say the time and place already, it's not like is a collective of MI6 agents". They are also a bit concerned that the pictures used on the website and Instagram have been taken from other sites or are AI.

Could you explain what the situation is?

Are you opening a club as well as doing the socials?

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
34 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Recent question - "what's the latest we can register?"

I'd like to get the invites/details out early Saturday morning if I can, so probably around 9 o'clock Friday night.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
34 weeks ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

If you weren't so far away I'd be there in a heart beat!

Fabulous people gathered and eventually a club that I know will be something special too

Sending love

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By *hirts HeelsCouple
34 weeks ago

dummer nr bstoke

We would love to of attended the social as were only a 10 min walk away from town would appreciate a message on fab, time and place not interested in logging on to anything else dont understand the big secret xx

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
34 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Doors close at 9.

I'm away now until tomorrow mid morning, I'll catch up with admin when I get back.

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By *rTongue4uMan
34 weeks ago

Sussex

A little disappointing to have my feedback/questions ignored - and I don't know if the OP has single guys blocked, or just blocked me???

Hope this goes well and there are more than the four of you on this thread, it would be great to have some more local meet ups!!!

Way may be out in town tonight and/or tomorrow night, so if anyone sees us, feel free to say hi!!!

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By *illan-Killash OP   Man
34 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Just mailed out the relevant info, I know there's a couple of people who haven't checked their messages yet, the guestlist is still open for those people until around 10pm tonight.

After that the guestlist is closed.

Big thanks to everyone who's put their name down, see you all tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

How was the social on Sunday?

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By *ympha LuxuriaWoman
33 weeks ago

La La Land


"How was the social on Sunday? "

Bloody brilliant!

Thank you again OP for organising it. Looking forward to the next one already

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By *rTongue4uMan
33 weeks ago

Sussex

Glad it was a success - how many people (roughly) got out for it???

Any idea if this will become a regular thing???

We'll keep an eye out for the next one and hopefully I'm not just ignored, or invisible on here!!!

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