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"Good luck with your search. No doubt there are some voyeurs who will take you up on that offer, but seems a bit random for a first meet." Can I ask why it’s random for a first meet? | |||
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"Sounds like a bad idea to me. Whenever I’ve introduced a make to a partner we’ve always met them first , get to know them socially and then decided together. Inviting a random male to your room to watch, so many things could go wrong. He’ll be on you like a slobbering dog within 5 mins " I’d like to pick someone better than that. I think some males could actually still be gentlemen | |||
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"Have you not had lots of offers off the back of this post ?" An awful lot of people with no pictures | |||
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"You will rule alot of 'honest, genuine' (whatever you want to call them) men out on this one.. which may leave you with some desperate ones. I for one wouldn't go to a hotel meet to watch 2 people and maybe pull my penis in the corner of the room, can do that at home "Exactly. I wouldn’t travel to a hotel to meet 2 strangers for sex let alone the “possibility” of a wank. | |||
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"Good luck with your search. No doubt there are some voyeurs who will take you up on that offer, but seems a bit random for a first meet. Can I ask why it’s random for a first meet? " I think the replies from others below indicate why it is somewhat random. You wont have met the bloke first. Who knows if his profile pic is who he really is. Goodness knows if you actually like him when you meet him in a hotel to take him up to your room. Even worse, can you guarantee that you will have him remain in a corner just watching and not wanting to get involved. Personal view is if this is your thing - but you say it is your first time - get someone involved who you have met socially first, or if you have no problem with a stranger watching, go to a club where it is managed and you will be safer. But really not my idea of a good time. | |||
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"Good luck with your search. No doubt there are some voyeurs who will take you up on that offer, but seems a bit random for a first meet. Can I ask why it’s random for a first meet? I think the replies from others below *** indicate why it is somewhat random. You wont have met the bloke first. Who knows if his profile pic is who he really is. Goodness knows if you actually like him when you meet him in a hotel to take him up to your room. Even worse, can you guarantee that you will have him remain in a corner just watching and not wanting to get involved. Personal view is if this is your thing - but you say it is your first time - get someone involved who you have met socially first, or if you have no problem with a stranger watching, go to a club where it is managed and you will be safer. But really not my idea of a good time." *** others above ^^^ (forgot that although others comments were below my original, they are above my reply) | |||
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"Good luck with your search. No doubt there are some voyeurs who will take you up on that offer, but seems a bit random for a first meet. Can I ask why it’s random for a first meet? I think the replies from others below *** indicate why it is somewhat random. You wont have met the bloke first. Who knows if his profile pic is who he really is. Goodness knows if you actually like him when you meet him in a hotel to take him up to your room. Even worse, can you guarantee that you will have him remain in a corner just watching and not wanting to get involved. Personal view is if this is your thing - but you say it is your first time - get someone involved who you have met socially first, or if you have no problem with a stranger watching, go to a club where it is managed and you will be safer. But really not my idea of a good time. *** others above ^^^ (forgot that although others comments were below my original, they are above my reply)" I’m all up for a social, I’m not expecting someone to turn up in silence, sit in the corner like a plant pot and watch. I’d like to think we could have a good laugh too. Maybe this isn’t the site for this type of meet, I have had plenty of offers but genuine people seem to be hard to find. Also, I thought this was a pretty sane idea considering the offers I’ve had from people on here x | |||
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"I don't understand why they are not genuine, having offered to come? I also don't understand why this post doesn't get the popcorn treatment " I will look to organise and they are now having to work. I’m not pretending I’m getting no offers, i feel I may be asking to much and this post kind of confirms that for me lol | |||
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"Ultimately it’s your fantasy or the way you want to meet and that’s fine. It doesn’t mean it works for anyone or everyone else. " Indeed, very true! | |||
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"I don't understand why they are not genuine, having offered to come? I also don't understand why this post doesn't get the popcorn treatment I will look to organise and they are now having to work. I’m not pretending I’m getting no offers, i feel I may be asking to much and this post kind of confirms that for me lol " Lol, sorry. | |||
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"Never have I agree with so many posters on a thread in so little time. Dear OP, you are looking for Shangri-la. You won't find it, or at least you may have to settle for the next 'best' thing." What do you call the next best thing lol? | |||
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"If we can have a spit roast then you’re on "I’m not ruling this out, I’d just prefer not to promise this and me get nervous and let someone down. | |||
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"If I still lived in Rugby it's certainly something I would do. " Careful, I might think it’s a normal thing to want lol | |||
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"If I still lived in Rugby it's certainly something I would do. Careful, I might think it’s a normal thing to want lol " What, live in Rugby ?  | |||
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"I agree with the majority of the above. You are asking a lot with precious little in return." She promises nothing...but doesn't say it won't happen. Like a social or a first meet. She is just more specific about it so people don't feel entitled. You are allowed to want what makes you comfortable and feeling obliged is not good for many people. | |||
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"I agree with the majority of the above. You are asking a lot with precious little in return. She promises nothing...but doesn't say it won't happen. Like a social or a first meet. She is just more specific about it so people don't feel entitled. You are allowed to want what makes you comfortable and feeling obliged is not good for many people. " I didnt mean it like that, I guess, what I am getting at is that its all a bit vague, for that 3rd person. | |||
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"I agree with the majority of the above. You are asking a lot with precious little in return. She promises nothing...but doesn't say it won't happen. Like a social or a first meet. She is just more specific about it so people don't feel entitled. You are allowed to want what makes you comfortable and feeling obliged is not good for many people. I didnt mean it like that, I guess, what I am getting at is that its all a bit vague, for that 3rd person. " Yes it is. I have suggested she advertise for a social and see how it goes. | |||
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"Never have I agree with so many posters on a thread in so little time. Dear OP, you are looking for Shangri-la. You won't find it, or at least you may have to settle for the next 'best' thing. · What do you call the next best thing lol? " • El Dorado.  | |||
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"Any genuine guy would jump at the chance to just watch. I know I would. " Would they? Op. Good luck. This is just my honest opinion,( because of this was a guy, I’d give a complete different style answer…  )
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"Any genuine guy would jump at the chance to just watch. I know I would. " Same here! No quite sure why people find it strange. I’d suggest choose ver’d guys relatively nearby who you find attractive. Talk on the phone, maybe arrange to meet in the bar and if comfortable (all 3 of you), go to thecroom after spelling out what is, and what is not on offer. Watching a couple have sex is incredibly erotic  | |||
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"Any genuine guy would jump at the chance to just watch. I know I would. Same here! No quite sure why people find it strange. I’d suggest choose ver’d guys relatively nearby who you find attractive. Talk on the phone, maybe arrange to meet in the bar and if comfortable (all 3 of you), go to thecroom after spelling out what is, and what is not on offer. Watching a couple have sex is incredibly erotic "some comments have left me speechless, I’m determined not to lower myself lol! Im glad you agree, I have spoke to few people on private message and we discuss it a lot more, It would definitely be a meet in the bar or something first, I wouldn’t want a random just coming to the door lol | |||
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"Any genuine guy would jump at the chance to just watch. I know I would. Same here! No quite sure why people find it strange. I’d suggest choose ver’d guys relatively nearby who you find attractive. Talk on the phone, maybe arrange to meet in the bar and if comfortable (all 3 of you), go to thecroom after spelling out what is, and what is not on offer. Watching a couple have sex is incredibly erotic
some comments have left me speechless, I’m determined not to lower myself lol!
Im glad you agree, I have spoke to few people on private message and we discuss it a lot more, It would definitely be a meet in the bar or something first, I wouldn’t want a random just coming to the door lol"Enjoy yourself, sounds like fun | |||
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