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By *imnher123452000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Couple here looking for that elusive single female.

We can travel to a hotel and accommodate.

Details of specifics on profile.

Message privately if u are interested.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

*sigh*

Google ‘ethical unicorn hunting’. Do a bit of reading and look into why the largest demographic for women on here isn’t meeting you.

Single bisexual women aren’t rare, they’re not mythical, I can’t move for tripping over one! So why are they considered elusive?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Those looking for 'unicorns' (hate the term personally) fall into two general categories.

Those where she will be as important an element of any interaction and they're looking as much to ensure she has a good time as they do.

And those looking for a performing seal to entertain and turn on the husband.

The former often have less problems finding company than the latter.......

A

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Something I've noticed and this is just an observation nothing more, is that single men are often required to jump through any number of hoops to join a couple and fit exactly with their dynamic rather than it being a three way thing but with single women it's the other way around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something I've noticed and this is just an observation nothing more, is that single men are often required to jump through any number of hoops to join a couple and fit exactly with their dynamic rather than it being a three way thing but with single women it's the other way around "

We know why that is. They might not like the answer, but we know

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Something I've noticed and this is just an observation nothing more, is that single men are often required to jump through any number of hoops to join a couple and fit exactly with their dynamic rather than it being a three way thing but with single women it's the other way around

We know why that is. They might not like the answer, but we know "

Lol I don't think it's *just* that

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

No luck finding them unicorns then?

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"Something I've noticed and this is just an observation nothing more, is that single men are often required to jump through any number of hoops to join a couple and fit exactly with their dynamic rather than it being a three way thing but with single women it's the other way around "

I think that's an accurate observation: from years of experience on here as a couple. Not that we made guys jump through hoops, they were just accustomed to it. And with single women it would be as you say at times.

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By *iss_FickleWoman
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

What's the betting you want someone who will put on a show and perform as per your script & for your satisfaction...

Oh joy

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Those looking for 'unicorns' (hate the term personally) fall into two general categories.

Those where she will be as important an element of any interaction and they're looking as much to ensure she has a good time as they do.

And those looking for a performing seal to entertain and turn on the husband.

The former often have less problems finding company than the latter.......

A"

I've been approached mostly by the latter and also had a bad experience with a jealous female so I've given up exploring that side of me.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Something I've noticed and this is just an observation nothing more, is that single men are often required to jump through any number of hoops to join a couple and fit exactly with their dynamic rather than it being a three way thing but with single women it's the other way around

We know why that is. They might not like the answer, but we know

Lol I don't think it's *just* that "

I'm going to throw a hand grenade in here and just say that I think that's down two two things.

Women knowing their worth more and not being so desperate to get a meet that they'll bend to every whim a potential meet has.

Certainly my/our experience over the last 15 years.

A

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think what the op is looking for is rare but there are women who like to put on a show. They're often in couples though and if you're happy to have another guy just watching they're easier to find

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Something I've noticed and this is just an observation nothing more, is that single men are often required to jump through any number of hoops to join a couple and fit exactly with their dynamic rather than it being a three way thing but with single women it's the other way around

We know why that is. They might not like the answer, but we know

Lol I don't think it's *just* that

I'm going to throw a hand grenade in here and just say that I think that's down two two things.

Women knowing their worth more and not being so desperate to get a meet that they'll bend to every whim a potential meet has.

Certainly my/our experience over the last 15 years.

A"

I don't think that's a hand grenade I think it's probably one of the reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couple here looking for that elusive single female.

We can travel to a hotel and accommodate.

Details of specifics on profile.

Message privately if u are interested. "

Specifics on your profile sound entirely like a fantasy designed to give enjoyment to predominantly the pair of you... Fair enough! But I doubt you'll find many women snapping up the offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I've met plenty of couples in my time on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do unicorns exist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something I've noticed and this is just an observation nothing more, is that single men are often required to jump through any number of hoops to join a couple and fit exactly with their dynamic rather than it being a three way thing but with single women it's the other way around

We know why that is. They might not like the answer, but we know

Lol I don't think it's *just* that

I'm going to throw a hand grenade in here and just say that I think that's down two two things.

Women knowing their worth more and not being so desperate to get a meet that they'll bend to every whim a potential meet has.

Certainly my/our experience over the last 15 years.

A"

I think that's true, but it also shows that couples can be no less than men when it comes to their approach to women on here. A hole's a hole and they're not fussed about which woman joins them because they're grateful regardless.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Something I've noticed and this is just an observation nothing more, is that single men are often required to jump through any number of hoops to join a couple and fit exactly with their dynamic rather than it being a three way thing but with single women it's the other way around

We know why that is. They might not like the answer, but we know

Lol I don't think it's *just* that

I'm going to throw a hand grenade in here and just say that I think that's down two two things.

Women knowing their worth more and not being so desperate to get a meet that they'll bend to every whim a potential meet has.

Certainly my/our experience over the last 15 years.

A

I don't think that's a hand grenade I think it's probably one of the reasons. "

I classed as such because generally whenever I've posted that view I've been decryed by some men saying I'm putting them down.

Which, given we onky meet single guys is ironic. We've always looked for men who place as much importance in what we can offer them as they us. Any encounter is for mutual benefit, not to satisfy some urge we have, fulfill our wishes and for them to be used as a means to an end.

Hence we're choosy and hope that anyone that would meet us is too. We have boundaries and limits and there are certain dynamics we enjoy, but would never expect anyone to bend their own boundaries or lower their standards just to meet. It's not just about 'us'and what we want. It's about them too. They're a person, not a tool or a plaything.

This is generally the difference I/we see between how some approach things and how they 'advertise' what they're looking for in a meet. And often explains why they struggle.

A

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Something I've noticed and this is just an observation nothing more, is that single men are often required to jump through any number of hoops to join a couple and fit exactly with their dynamic rather than it being a three way thing but with single women it's the other way around

We know why that is. They might not like the answer, but we know

Lol I don't think it's *just* that

I'm going to throw a hand grenade in here and just say that I think that's down two two things.

Women knowing their worth more and not being so desperate to get a meet that they'll bend to every whim a potential meet has.

Certainly my/our experience over the last 15 years.

A

I don't think that's a hand grenade I think it's probably one of the reasons.

I classed as such because generally whenever I've posted that view I've been decryed by some men saying I'm putting them down.

Which, given we onky meet single guys is ironic. We've always looked for men who place as much importance in what we can offer them as they us. Any encounter is for mutual benefit, not to satisfy some urge we have, fulfill our wishes and for them to be used as a means to an end.

Hence we're choosy and hope that anyone that would meet us is too. We have boundaries and limits and there are certain dynamics we enjoy, but would never expect anyone to bend their own boundaries or lower their standards just to meet. It's not just about 'us'and what we want. It's about them too. They're a person, not a tool or a plaything.

This is generally the difference I/we see between how some approach things and how they 'advertise' what they're looking for in a meet. And often explains why they struggle.

A"

That's very much our attitude.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I’m not your target but hope you don’t mind me commenting.

Having just read your profile, I would assume you’ll have better luck in clubs, especially on couples and single women nights.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

What's in it for the woman?

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"What's in it for the woman? "

Not much I’d say

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"What's in it for the woman? "

A KFC with a Milkybar Krushems.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"What's in it for the woman?

A KFC with a Milkybar Krushems.

"

That’s after she finished her performance.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"What's in it for the woman?

A KFC with a Milkybar Krushems.

"

Damn, if you’d said oreo krushems I’d have been all in!

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"What's in it for the woman?

A KFC with a Milkybar Krushems.

Damn, if you’d said oreo krushems I’d have been all in! "

I mean

oreo krushems

oreo krushems

oreo krushems!!!

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By *ainbowSonicCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'm not a performing seal for those who seek unicorns.. The amount of times I've been asked can my man watch if I play alone with a female.

Honestly some people cannot fathom the word *alone*.

I'm more poly than unicorn. It's more freeing that way.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"Something I've noticed and this is just an observation nothing more, is that single men are often required to jump through any number of hoops to join a couple and fit exactly with their dynamic rather than it being a three way thing but with single women it's the other way around

We know why that is. They might not like the answer, but we know

Lol I don't think it's *just* that

I'm going to throw a hand grenade in here and just say that I think that's down two two things.

Women knowing their worth more and not being so desperate to get a meet that they'll bend to every whim a potential meet has.

Certainly my/our experience over the last 15 years.

A

I think that's true, but it also shows that couples can be no less than men when it comes to their approach to women on here. A hole's a hole and they're not fussed about which woman joins them because they're grateful regardless."

I think that’s a huge generalisation for men and women, not to mention couples.

Being an man doesn’t mean that being derogatory towards other men will elevate your status.

If you think about a couple then they add people into an already formed relationship not having to start one in the first place. I would argue that a couple can actually be more selective of who they choose to enter that relationship

Marc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something I've noticed and this is just an observation nothing more, is that single men are often required to jump through any number of hoops to join a couple and fit exactly with their dynamic rather than it being a three way thing but with single women it's the other way around

We know why that is. They might not like the answer, but we know

Lol I don't think it's *just* that

I'm going to throw a hand grenade in here and just say that I think that's down two two things.

Women knowing their worth more and not being so desperate to get a meet that they'll bend to every whim a potential meet has.

Certainly my/our experience over the last 15 years.

A

I think that's true, but it also shows that couples can be no less than men when it comes to their approach to women on here. A hole's a hole and they're not fussed about which woman joins them because they're grateful regardless.

I think that’s a huge generalisation for men and women, not to mention couples.

Being an man doesn’t mean that being derogatory towards other men will elevate your status.

If you think about a couple then they add people into an already formed relationship not having to start one in the first place. I would argue that a couple can actually be more selective of who they choose to enter that relationship

Marc "

Sorry, some couples, some men. Does that clear up the generalisation?

In addition to that, I wasn't being derogatory towards all other other, just some and sure as shit don't need it to "elevate my status" as I couldn't give a single rat's arse about my status on a swinger's website of all things.

And finally, we aren't talking about the couple in relation to who they let in, but the different requirements for men and women.

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

I think it's hard for all sides when finding a "unicorn" (single bi woman). When I first started, my focus was on making sure the couple was comfortable as they have the relationship together and my ps5 has never not wanted me back.

I found though that it becomes more like a "performing monkey" act. I think if couples were more clear, it would be easier. Not everyone is looking for the same thing with a single woman. And some women will want different dynamics. I personally loved the initial wham bam with a couple and that was that. Some couples treated me like royalty. I've changed now for more of a mutual friendship thing.

I've had the best luck in clubs. Found some amazing couples where it is a mutual passionate meet and it's great. I'd highly recommend going to clubs. It's easier than over message to convey what everyone wants and to form that connection.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"No luck finding them unicorns then? "

It's just the one unicorn actually.

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By *imnher123452000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Sigh..

So many judgemental negative comments

We are on a swinger site

I want another female to have fun with

I want my partner to watch

If that offends people then so be it

If the word unicorn offends ,so be it.

We are here for fun not to be judged .

Not forcing ourselves on anyone

Not wanting a performing monkey

You either are interested or not.

Blimey so many overthinkers who drain the joy out of everything.

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By *imnher123452000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"What's the betting you want someone who will put on a show and perform as per your script & for your satisfaction...

Oh joy

"

It you bet money on it you would lose.

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By *imnher123452000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

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By *imnher123452000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"What's in it for the woman?

Not much I’d say "

Me..

And I get her.

Pretty easy response.

And my partner gets to watch.

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

Not rare at all. I don't mind the term unicorn. I have played that role many times and had a wonderful time. I wouldn't do it on a private meet. Have you tried clubs ? Most of them have single lady and couple nights.

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By *imnher123452000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Not rare at all. I don't mind the term unicorn. I have played that role many times and had a wonderful time. I wouldn't do it on a private meet. Have you tried clubs ? Most of them have single lady and couple nights."

Yes we have several times at the attic but wanted something outside of a club now

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's in it for the woman?

Not much I’d say

Me..

And I get her.

Pretty easy response.

And my partner gets to watch."

Not having a dig, but I think you may need to rethink your approach OP. If a single guy said that a woman should meet them because they get him out of it, he'd get pelters! If a woman were to join you, why should they join you over the numerous other couples looking for a single woman to join them? What's your selling point and what can you offer them that would entice them to join you? Just some food for thought

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

Proud straight unicorn...

I only play with the husband if he can't satisfy and stay hard and please one woman fully before thinking he deserves two women he's not for me.. I prefer us to have fun utilizing him and not each other... I'm not there for his lesbian fantasy or for his bi gf/partner to fulfill her freebie lesbian cheat session..

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By *riladeCouple
over a year ago

North West

Polyamorous couple here... I wouldn't use the term 'unicorn'. It means single, so an outsider in your relationship with no aftercare. Also I wouldn't try to find a girl online. There are many all-out bisexual or curious girls in clubs and pubs who are keen to try new things. Girls on fab and other dating platforms think of themselves as some sort of a reward as they get hundreds of messages a day....

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By *omething4theweekend2023Couple
over a year ago

newcastle


"Polyamorous couple here... I wouldn't use the term 'unicorn'. It means single, so an outsider in your relationship with no aftercare. Also I wouldn't try to find a girl online. There are many all-out bisexual or curious girls in clubs and pubs who are keen to try new things. Girls on fab and other dating platforms think of themselves as some sort of a reward as they get hundreds of messages a day...."

Have to agree with this. We actually find dating apps better to approach people than on here.

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By *imnher123452000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

We've had 51messages privately

So I think we are doing ok

Those Messages out number those on here.

So I think we doing ok.

Nothing more to add to this forum chat now.

Take it easy.

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