FabSwingers.com forum: Name and Shame Fakes and Timewasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sick to death of lying cheating fakes, both men women, men pretending to be couples and more more bullsh#t.

Genuine men who have single profiles constantly get no responses.

Please use below forum to name and shame any fakes or timewasters.

Please state profile name and why, because everyone has different views and everyone has different requests.

Hopefully this can make a helpful tip.

Verifications are a waste of time. People say oh I won't see you unless ya verified.

Well.... What happens if you have a bad meet? Ya don't verify and nobody gets to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want to get banned? That's what will happen if you go naming and shaming people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sick to death of lying cheating fakes, both men women, men pretending to be couples and more more bullsh#t.

Genuine men who have single profiles constantly get no responses.

Please use below forum to name and shame any fakes or timewasters.

Please state profile name and why, because everyone has different views and everyone has different requests.

Hopefully this can make a helpful tip.

Verifications are a waste of time. People say oh I won't see you unless ya verified.

Well.... What happens if you have a bad meet? Ya don't verify and nobody gets to know.

good for you hun its about time some one said something we dont come on here all that much now so file and photos are all off we have had it this site is so crap full of people all mouth no play timewasters fakes which ones are the worst we get fed up with people when we do meet at parties are shit all they want to do is drink to much fight ect thats notwhat you call swinging

anyway good luck and happy xmas

love lipstick xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have kids and we work full time, occasionally one of our kids are ill or sometimes I will get called into work at last minuite....

So, if we arranged to meet you and we had to cancel our meet because of one of the above reasons does that mean we are timewasters or fakes or liers??

No it doesn't it means other things take priority over swinging as I'm sure is the same for majority of people on here.

So you can see what I'm trying to say too many people on here like throwing timewaster around as they are spitting their dummies out due to lack of meets or rejection or that sometimes people do have to cancel meets due to genuine reasons x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are fake and timewasters as we don't meet everyone who sends us a message. How dare we!

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

"I'm sick to death of lying cheating fakes, both men women, men pretending to be couples and more more bullsh#t.

Genuine men who have single profiles constantly get no responses.

Please use below forum to name and shame any fakes or timewasters.

Please state profile name and why, because everyone has different views and everyone has different requests.

Hopefully this can make a helpful tip.

Verifications are a waste of time. People say oh I won't see you unless ya verified.

Well.... What happens if you have a bad meet? Ya don't verify and nobody gets to know.

But you arranged to meet us last week and never bothered to show up! We booked a hotel, paid babysitters and then had to pay for travel etc!

Now we know this isn't true but it makes you see how easy it is to brand someone a "timewaster"!

At the end of the day, it's between you and the person/couple to sort out details to make sure that everything goes according to plan. Maybe it's time to use your filters and gut instinct?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've done the whole travel and wait thing. The people have said they didn't have kids and are single or no dependants. I've used filters I'm not desperate, but its a royal pain in the arse* especially when ya get a load of grief like this.

If ya telling me ya a clever dick and don't get timewasters or spam, then sell the book, ya can also become rich.

All I'm saying is my point of view, which means on here we can be ourselves, why do people spoil it and lie, when ya don't have to.

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By *hechairman18Man
over a year ago

Salford Quays , Manchester

Yes, there are a good deal of time-wasters, messabouts, and general windup people on here.

But, there are also genuine reasons for people not turning up/meeting etc.

Did you get the time/date right.

Did you get the address/location right.

Annoying, though it may be,to name and shame any/every no-show, is just not on.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Because people can. And will continue to do so whether you name and shame them or not.

People can be labelled a time waster or a fake, close that account and create another.

Shit happens. Move on, learn from your mistakes and get over it.

I''ve had people not turn up, haven't had my time wasted cause I arranged to meet them somewhere I was gonna be anyway.

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

what gets me you complain but have this account and a cpls (fb) acount but verify each other is this a bit misleading

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"We are fake and timewasters as we don't meet everyone who sends us a message. How dare we!"

How dare you indeed.

You need a damn good thrashing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jeesh maybe I didn't write it in English.

Forum = Debate and that allows one to rant and rave if they like.

I know what I'm doing and we all have our way of arranging x y and z.

What makes me laugh is the amount of people sticking up for time wasters.

My point isn't slagging off people who have a life outside of swinging.

Do you really think I sit on this all day everyday.

Enjoy and happy swinging.

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By *ornyindian_male35Man
over a year ago

walsall

"Jeesh maybe I didn't write it in English.

Forum = Debate and that allows one to rant and rave if they like.

I know what I'm doing and we all have our way of arranging x y and z.

What makes me laugh is the amount of people sticking up for time wasters.

My point isn't slagging off people who have a life outside of swinging.

Do you really think I sit on this all day everyday.

Enjoy and happy swinging.

please pleople don't waste others time

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By *hechairman18Man
over a year ago

Salford Quays , Manchester

What makes me laugh is the amount of people sticking up for time wasters.

Nobody is sticking up for 'time wasters'.

But you cannot 'name and shame' people without knowing the full facts.

If you come across those sort of people, block them, and move on.

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By *illynmintCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

There should be some way of reporting the 'wasters' and 'fakers' so at least they are deleted.

But, this is a free site so it's not even a case of , you pays your money and yous take a chance lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"There should be some way of reporting the 'wasters' and 'fakers' so at least they are deleted.

There is, click on the profile and then REPORT.

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