FabSwingers.com forum: Mid Sussex Social. Saturday 30th April

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The next Mid Sussex Social will be on Saturday 30th April (pesky half term and kids!).

Open to all, please pop a message down below to say you are interested.

The new venue we are using is the forever home of The Mid Sussex Social.

Details will be sent out nearer the time.

Social only, what you get up to after is up to you!

Doughnut and Danish x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Easter holidays this time

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Next one already being booked.... can i be top of the list !

I'll see you both saturday

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Next one already being booked.... can i be top of the list !

I'll see you both saturday"

No problem! Added

See you Saturday

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you pencil me in again please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you pencil me in again please

Absolutely we can x

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By *entleman of GirthMan
over a year ago

Forest Row

Couldnt make last months due to the pestilence (thank you for your understanding), but would love an invite to this one, and hopefully show off my tan!

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By *antisMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

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By *antisMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

Count me in! Look forward to seeing you all again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Count me in! Look forward to seeing you all again

You gonna take your coat of this time? Lol x

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By *antisMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Count me in! Look forward to seeing you all again

You gonna take your coat of this time? Lol x"

Haha, hopefully the weather will be much better! So yes

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By *ajesticunicorn69Woman
over a year ago

croydon

Please add me to the list

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By *l MurrayMan
over a year ago

Heathfield

Can I be added to the list please.

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By *pirited SubWoman
over a year ago

mid sussex

Please could you add me to the next one?

Gutted I had to pull out of last night

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everyone who's commented has been added

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By *sexploringCouple
over a year ago

east grinstead

Please add us to the list

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Damn, I have a wedding to go to otherwise I'd be there like a shit. Have a great time xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Damn, I have a wedding to go to otherwise I'd be there like a shit. Have a great time xx"

Awe we shall miss you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Please add us to the list"

Added xx

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By *ggplantMan
over a year ago

reigate

Please count me in

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By *itygamesMan
over a year ago

Could i be added to the list please

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Please count me in "

Of course!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could i be added to the list please

Thankyou "

Will do

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By *ussexypairCouple
over a year ago

Littlehampton

We would Love to come along please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We would Love to come along please

Will add you to the lost

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By *plusyouforfunCouple
over a year ago

Peacehaven

Are we allowed back ?

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By *ussexypairCouple
over a year ago

Littlehampton

"We would Love to come along please

Will add you to the lost

Be even better if you could add us to the list or maybe even the lust

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are we allowed back ?

Of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We would Love to come along please

Will add you to the lost

Be even better if you could add us to the list or maybe even the lust

List/last interchangeable right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We would Love to come along please

Will add you to the lost

Be even better if you could add us to the list or maybe even the lust

List/last interchangeable right?"

Lust I've decided auto correct hates me

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By *plusyouforfunCouple
over a year ago

Peacehaven

"Are we allowed back ?

Of course "

Lovely see you soon x

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By *eplusmoreMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Hello! I would like to attend please.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello! I would like to attend please. "

You're added to the list

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By *exysingh72Man
over a year ago

Isleworth

Can you add me to the list with a plus 1

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you add me to the list with a plus 1"

Does your plus 1 have an account on fab? If so can you share their name

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Would love to come again x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would love to come again x"

Of course! Xx

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Would love to come again x

Of course! Xx"

cool ty x

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By *ussexCplCouple
over a year ago

Gatwick ish

Yes please! No thanks to the karaoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I come????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Of course x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As an idea for this one rather than the shit raffle which we've been doing, if everyone coming buys a cheap (max £5) gift wrapped preferably everyone gets a ticket and everyone gets a prize,

NO GIFT NO TICKET

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"As an idea for this one rather than the shit raffle which we've been doing, if everyone coming buys a cheap (max £5) gift wrapped preferably everyone gets a ticket and everyone gets a prize,

NO GIFT NO TICKET"

Sounds a good idea x

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By *nnCeeWoman
over a year ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

Please may I be pencilled in? I shall be alone though, sadly...

Kthxbai x

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By *irates and PenguinsCouple
over a year ago

Wonder Lust

Hi you naughty couple, is this social going to be karaoke themed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi you naughty couple, is this social going to be karaoke themed?

Hiya, the karaoke was a huge success last time so yes, we will most likely have karaoke once again.

D&D x

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By *lexander2022Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Hey!

Please add me.

Very interested to join all the amazing people

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By *exyTMrPCouple
over a year ago

east grinstead

Can I be added please? The Mr of this pair x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I be added please? The Mr of this pair x "

It appears you have us blocked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please add us to your list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you pop us down as a maybe! Childcare pending! X

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By *lurredLinesCouple
over a year ago

edenbridge

Please may we come

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All those commented are on the list x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Less than 3 weeks left

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By *rownsug4rMan
over a year ago

Whyteleafe

Hey, I live on the A22, could you please add me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey, I live on the A22, could you please add me

Watch put for the cars that's a busy road,

You're on the list

Doughnut

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By *ussexypairCouple
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Sorry but we are going to have to bail out.

Some family stuff has come up which we can’t get out of.

Next time for sure.

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By *rownsug4rMan
over a year ago

Whyteleafe

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there! We are interested, where is it please?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi there! We are interested, where is it please? "

In East Grinstead

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By *pirited SubWoman
over a year ago

mid sussex

Is it ok for my female friend to come with me? The one who I met you at pleasures with ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello guys,

Please may I attend please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it ok for my female friend to come with me? The one who I met you at pleasures with ? Xx"

Of course she doesn't have an account on here yet does she?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello guys,

Please may I attend please "

I'll add you to the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please add me

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By *riflePaulMan
over a year ago

crawley, west sussex

Will there be a trifle?

Hello you two, long time no see. I’ll message you both later this evening to say hi properly, but can I be a pencil in for this event. It feels like I might want to dip my toe back into the murky world of …… alcohol and karaoke.

And we need a good catch up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Will there be a trifle?

And we need a good catch up "

Yes!! Absofuckinglutley!! It's been way to long!!

Danish x

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By *r ChillMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath

I'd love to be invited please!

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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere sweet and sour

Can i ask where this takes place please?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can i ask where this takes place please?"

East Grinstead, if you would like to come we send out details via pm very soon, we don't post the venue publicly.

Danish x

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By *r ChillMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath

Hiya,could I be added to the list pls?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hiya,could I be added to the list pls?

You are x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Details will be sent out Monday, sorry for the delay as one half of us is away this weekend.

All the regulars though, same place as usual lol.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry, you can't send private mail to this user. Why? User has blocked everyone of your sex."

Not the welcome I was expecting so in light of the above is anyone likely to be offended by my presence? The original two questions I had were what are the hours of the meet please and is there an admission charge? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

""Sorry, you can't send private mail to this user. Why? User has blocked everyone of your sex."

This is just our preference it's not the socials, social starts 8-11.30ish no admission charge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the reply. I'd be interested to get feedback on the following whilst here which hopefully site admin will respond to:

Having thoroughly searched my Personal Details, and Account Details pages, I see no evidence of me ever entering an answer to a question of "your sex." Stating one is a CD/TV does not determine "your sex," thus based on these criteria and being a genetic male, I find the following "Sorry, you can't send private mail to this user. Why? User has blocked everyone of your sex," to have no validity whatsoever.

Out of curiosity I ran a test on the 32 members to date who had shown an interest in the event, by simply clicking on the private reply link on their postings. 23 provided a "User has blocked everyone of your sex" response, an alarming 72%. That doesn't feel "sociable" to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the reply. I'd be interested to get feedback on the following whilst here which hopefully site admin will respond to:

I have all message filters on, so if you’d tried me it would have said that, not because I wouldn’t be sociable, but because I don’t want messages at the moment.

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By *xhibitionGuy35Man
over a year ago

South East

Would be interested to know more about this if you’re open to new faces, thanks

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

""Sorry, you can't send private mail to this user. Why? User has blocked everyone of your sex."

I personelly would not in anyway be offended by you attending. Genuinely not sure if i have a filter to prohibit TV/CD's from messaging me, however, i have no interest in receiving messages from you as you are not what i am looking for. Many people that attend socials are not what i am looking for. It is a social, not a speed date night.

Come along, i'll buy you a pint (or whatever you fancy)

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Oh and its free and pub hours so after 7.30 ish i think?.

Pastries.....

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Just so i know... Danish, what colour lingerie you wearing so i can co ordinate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh and its free and pub hours so after 7.30 ish i think?.

Pastries....."

pub is ours after 8pm

But they do have happy hour between 6-8

Full details will be sent out today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks to Hippychick and Josey for replying.

Tested Hippy,' she has the "not replying to your sex" block, which is clearly not an accurate representation of her wishes as it suggests segregation, when as stated she simply doesn't want messages from anyone. Site admin please revise.

As for Josey, he has the perfect statement on his, he's not looking to meet CD/TV but will still accept messages from such.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks to Hippychick and Josey for replying.

As for Josey, he has the perfect statement on his, he's not looking to meet CD/TV but will still accept messages from such."

Everyone is welcome at the social, we love meeting new people and while our filters may be a little tighter, it's just our preference but we are more about the social side as a couple at present.

Josey....I will probably be wearing the red number you have seen before

Please do come along, it will be a great night with a great mix of people.

Doughnut and Danish x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sent info out send a PM so we can confirm you on the list and send details

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By *hocopopsMan
over a year ago

south

Room for one more?

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Red...

Noted

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Am I to late to be added to this please?

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By *emwerMan
over a year ago

new cross

Hiya can u add me to the list please xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Unfortunately single male slots are now full

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By *antisMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

Not long to go!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not long to go!

I thought you were off to a fetish night lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You couldn't make it up could you? Further to my earlier posting, I noticed a local couple to me were attending and decided I'd drop them a line, until that was they have a different block set up which I'd seen a copy of before: "we only accept messages from site supporters." FFS, it can't get any worse can it? Oh you bet it can.

Next one, a CD, I clicked on their profile only to be presented with "user has hidden their profile." Is this some sort of fking set up?

Thanks for the invite but I won't be attending. Virtually no one seems willing to talk prior to the event so why expect any different in person?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You couldn't make it up could you? Further to my earlier posting, I noticed a local couple to me were attending and decided I'd drop them a line, until that was they have a different block set up which I'd seen a copy of before: "we only accept messages from site supporters." FFS, it can't get any worse can it? Oh you bet it can.

Next one, a CD, I clicked on their profile only to be presented with "user has hidden their profile." Is this some sort of fking set up?

Thanks for the invite but I won't be attending. Virtually no one seems willing to talk prior to the event so why expect any different in person? "

We understand your frustration but meeting in the flesh can be so much better but we respect your decision and we are sorry you felt that way.

Doughnut and Danish x

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By *plusyouforfunCouple
over a year ago

Peacehaven

Looking forward to seeing you all tomorrow night x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looking forward to seeing you all later!

Don't forget if you want to take part in the raffle, buy a prize up to the value of £5 (maximum), wrap it and get a ticket from either of us when you arrive, no prize/ticket no play! We mean for the raffle you dirty lot!

D&D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will be arriving there shortly, any sign I should look out for, or just say hello to people and hope for the best? :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, I’m literally wearing the outfit in my profile photo, I’ve just realised. I’ll be easy to spot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that was really rather good fun! Had to leave a little early due to bus shenanigans, but what a lovely group of awesome people! A pleasure to meet you all and hopefully see you again soon!

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By *riflePaulMan
over a year ago

crawley, west sussex

Doughnut and Danish!

Thank you so much for the invite and organising a group a fun people to meet up and socialise with. You were both superstars as usual, and I look forward to the next one. I may have to break out the Tenacious D again

And to anyone at the event? Was a genuine pleasure meeting you all. Until next time xxx

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By *nnCeeWoman
over a year ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

Thanks for another good evening!! Looking forward to next time.

Who won the karaoke comp, by the way?? Sorry we disappeared before the end of the night, we'd both been out on various things on Friday, so we're pooped, but wanted to come say hi for a bit!! xx

Hi to those I didn't get to say hello to x

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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere sweet and sour

Was gutted to miss it but was still getting over the last bits of my cold and felt bit too rubbish to attend so sorry. Was looking forward to meeting you all too grrrr

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