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By *lexV16 OP   Man
over a year ago

Welling

Hi Fab ladies

I wondering if any single lady would be interested to accompany me for a party or club this Friday or weekend.

And generally, what single ladies are looking into when checking single guys to go out from this site?

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I personally wouldn’t go with someone I didn’t know well.

Nothing worse than getting stuck all night/evening with someone you don’t click with, even if that’s the only issue .

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Same as poster above. Done it in the past, took someone to the club who I didn't know very well, and it got too much for him. Best you go on your own, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally wouldn’t go with someone I didn’t know well.

Nothing worse than getting stuck all night/evening with someone you don’t click with, even if that’s the only issue ."

I just bump em off to someone else, yeah, you go do that, knock yourself out

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By *lexV16 OP   Man
over a year ago

Welling

Thanks for your replies. It does make sense of course.

Would it be any good if you have decent amount of chat and maybe video call or even one social meet let’s say for a coffee to get a flavour of the guy?

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Thanks for your replies. It does make sense of course.

Would it be any good if you have decent amount of chat and maybe video call or even one social meet let’s say for a coffee to get a flavour of the guy?"
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I’ve only made that mistake once , I did have a social a few days prior to going . Still on the day we didn’t click , I found the whole experience boring .

A friend of mine, recently, brought a guy along to a girlie evening at a club, she’d been chatting to him for weeks, including video calls . Anyway he was a total bore, despite being 4 of us girls we just couldn’t get any conversation going with him, he didn’t speak to anyone else either and wasn’t interested in playing, even with the friend that invited him. He sat at the bar then eventually went to bed early… we were all staying at the club.

So my recommendation is go alone or with someone you know well .

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By *lexV16 OP   Man
over a year ago

Welling


"

I’ve only made that mistake once , I did have a social a few days prior to going . Still on the day we didn’t click , I found the whole experience boring .

A friend of mine, recently, brought a guy along to a girlie evening at a club, she’d been chatting to him for weeks, including video calls . Anyway he was a total bore, despite being 4 of us girls we just couldn’t get any conversation going with him, he didn’t speak to anyone else either and wasn’t interested in playing, even with the friend that invited him. He sat at the bar then eventually went to bed early… we were all staying at the club.

So my recommendation is go alone or with someone you know well ."

Oh, I feel really sorry for such an experience. He must have been gay or total introvert not even engaging socially

I use to trust my fillings and intuition and there is no connection in first 15 min of social or call it’s just not my person

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I would go to a club again with someone I didn’t know

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By *ancashire7Man
over a year ago

preston

Would love to know how you get on as I’m in the same boat of you dieing to go but scared to lump alone even tho I know from the comments of these mint people it’s the right way to go #iwannagomunchpussy lol all the best

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

In our experience, single guys are MUCH better off going to clubs alone.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

I met a girl at a festival once and typical of the festival trope, we became best friends instantly and we vowed to go on adventures together. For our third meet we decided Torture Garden would be an ideal experience. I think she enjoyed it at first until things heated up and it became too intense for her and she ditched me. I Was stood there like a lemon. But luckily a girl decided to approach me and asked if she could give me a blowjob.

I think most men would take the risk in going with someone they didn't know too well. I met a girl from Fab for a social and she had plans to head To Pleasures the week after and invited me. Even though she invited me, the risks are still there in that she could have ditched me but fortunately she didn't.

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By *lexV16 OP   Man
over a year ago

Welling

I am not afraid to go on my own to be honest. But as I haven’t been to such club before I thought it would be easier to get there with someone. Anyway, seems like I need to do a bit of research and go solo

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"In our experience, single guys are MUCH better off going to clubs alone."

Absolutely……

No offence… what’s the difference between going to a club not knowing people, and going to a club not knowing the person you are going with AND not knowing people!!!

Also… as a single, I would not risk my reputation going with someone I had no clue what they are like

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By *leanor1717Woman
over a year ago

Gillingham


"I am not afraid to go on my own to be honest. But as I haven’t been to such club before I thought it would be easier to get there with someone. Anyway, seems like I need to do a bit of research and go solo "

Absolutely! I made the mistake of going to a club with a guy from Fab that I'd just met, and within an hour he'd literally done a runner without a word to me! Was so embarrassing, I should've just gone on my own and I will do next time

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I am not afraid to go on my own to be honest. But as I haven’t been to such club before I thought it would be easier to get there with someone. Anyway, seems like I need to do a bit of research and go solo

Absolutely! I made the mistake of going to a club with a guy from Fab that I'd just met, and within an hour he'd literally done a runner without a word to me! Was so embarrassing, I should've just gone on my own and I will do next time"

That's a bit rude...

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By *nvisible_manMan
over a year ago

TWICKENHAM

Why do guys always look for women to accompany them? It smacks of laziness.

Why not look to go with a guy who has already been and who knows the ropes?

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By *leanor1717Woman
over a year ago

Gillingham


"That's a bit rude..."

I thought so too. Ah well young and chicken shit scared I guess, glad I've been blocked tbh.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I'd say go alone and make the experience by chatting like minded people and see how you get on. Look into memberships as you often need that to attend

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I am not afraid to go on my own to be honest. But as I haven’t been to such club before I thought it would be easier to get there with someone. Anyway, seems like I need to do a bit of research and go solo

Absolutely! I made the mistake of going to a club with a guy from Fab that I'd just met, and within an hour he'd literally done a runner without a word to me! Was so embarrassing, I should've just gone on my own and I will do next time"

I’ve seen this happen at a club too. Poor lady was left there with no lift home

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By *nclePMan
over a year ago

Mitcham

As a single guy I attend a few clubs on my own. You wont be on your own for long if you are friendly and approachable, there are always people who will chat with you. However I also take single ladies to couples only parties

Pick a great club and go for it!

Go with no expectations or agenda other than to explore the club scene.

Have a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your replies. It does make sense of course.

Would it be any good if you have decent amount of chat and maybe video call or even one social meet let’s say for a coffee to get a flavour of the guy?"

Yes I've met for a social drink, clicked with that person enough, to then visit a club the same evening ..

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

Watching to see how you get on, bored of playing as a single male now. Love a social anyway

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You need to review the membership requirements of each club, as well as the admissions policy for each night.

They may want applications in advance. They may also limit single men to specific nights.

If you can visit a night club alone, you can do the same at a swinging venue. Some men try to go with us as a way to save money.

You'll need single membership anyway OP.

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