FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive been on this site for 8 weeks now.

I have had no offers of any meets so far

Am I really that bad ? Im just a normal bloke, laid back, looking for a nice woman for fun and friendship. I was told this is the place to be ! So far no luck !

By *appyprivateMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

Ok - this isn't an escort site. You need to approch this site as if it was a nightclub.

Be charming and witty, talk to people and get yourself seen/known in the forums and work at it - don't create a profile, have a quick browse, mass-spam messages to people and expect a reply/meet. Women on here get hundreds of messages and if your message and profile isn't that interesting, they'll just delete the message and look at the next one in the inbox.

Also - people look at your profile and make a decision. Yours says your laid back and focuses on where your happy to meet - except you can't accommodate, and doesn't really tell people about you.

That tells people that your either happy to meet all over the London/South East but not at yours, or that your either married/engaged/taken and don't want to risk doing it at home.

Newbie - no meets