FabSwingers.com forum: Verification meet, leicester

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi ive been on the site a little while and havent managed a meet yet, i know im a single guy and its difficult but was wondering if theres any ladies or couples out there in the leicester/coventry/derby area who fancies a drink to prove im real or maybe more,let me know x x

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why. Would a gal want to meet you simply to serve the purpose of proving to your future meets that you are real when she can meet those that actually want to meet her for who she is and who are already verified. Not all gals insist on verification but any gal who meets a guy just so he can be has far to much time on her hands. I would not meet a man for that purpose I would feel used and I worth more than feeling like that for a man to get his green tick

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why. Would a gal want to meet you simply to serve the purpose of proving to your future meets that you are real when she can meet those that actually want to meet her for who she is and who are already verified. Not all gals insist on verification but any gal who meets a guy just so he can be has far to much time on her hands. I would not meet a man for that purpose I would feel used and I worth more than feeling like that for a man to get his green tick"

Because the scene depends on new blood coming into it, otherwise things get stuffy and samey, and just plain boring. If others had thought along those lines when you came into the scene, you would not be here now, nor I.

Wolf

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to verify off the back of a social meet and do on plenty of occasions...after all the verification isn't gonna kill me and if I can prove someone turns up when they say they r going to...be pleasant and look like their pics then I'm doing others a favour not just the meet....and social meets count better than cam in my opinion...and I'm glad to see the poster actually has a verification now...

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also glad he has now been verified but I stand by my preference not to meet those not verified alone. True if everyone felt like I do no one would get a meet but its not something I would want to do. I did not always think like this but after the influx of messages from newbies that would give the most hardened women nightmare I am weary now. I agree its very difficult for guys on here and that not helped by those on here who make it even harder for genuine ones such as the OP to get meets when gals are drown in messages from those who put women of even meeting for a social and I wish to one day go back to my original thinkin of its only a drink what harm can it do but for now I weary and though no wish to offend men I make my safety decisions on the cautious side for now at least.