FabSwingers.com forum: Is it Cheating

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it cheating if you come on here for sexy chats nothing more but your married

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Would it hurt your partner if they knew?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is.

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

If you have to ask then you already know the answer

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Is it cheating if you come on here for sexy chats nothing more but your married "

Yes if you are chatting sex with a different person other than your spouse it is! I’m sure they would think that too. Or tell them and see what they think of it...

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

No. But don’t tell my missus I said that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I like this answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. But don’t tell my missus I said that."

She's too busy flirting with me, so don't worry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My rule of thumb is, if you do something, but keep it from your other half, its cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you feel if your wife was doing what your doing ?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

It's certainly deceitful

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I wouldn't class it as cheating, but it isn't something that should be happening in a happy marriage.

People should try talking things through with their spouse instead and tell them how they are feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its nit cheating, tell her what you're doing

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

"Is it cheating if you come on here for sexy chats nothing more but your married "

Which friend are you asking on behalf of?

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

What about if you meet someone here - take them home and fuck them in front of the TV when your wife is trying to watch Songs Of Praise?? Or is this s great area?

For clarity i’m not married but I’m guessing it might be a great area for some.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"No. But don’t tell my missus I said that.

She's too busy flirting with me, so don't worry "

I can think of 2 very good reasons why she’d flirt with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lmao"
why you asking now youve been here 8 months lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Is it cheating if you come on here for sexy chats nothing more but your married "

No but would you be able to say truthfully that you would not give into temptation if a lovely lady offered to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask your wife what her opinion of it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was throwing a question out there I love how everyone assumed I'm doing it I was just interested in people's opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you didn't think it was cheating, you wouldn't hide it from her.

If it would hurt her to find out and it's something you're being deceitful about then yes, it's cheating.

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bradford

How would you react if you found out your wife was on here without your knowledge...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. But don’t tell my missus I said that.

She's too busy flirting with me, so don't worry

I can think of 2 very good reasons why she’d flirt with you

My shoes and sparkly eyes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have to ask then you already know the answer "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask the question, how would you feel if you care on here and saw her on here just looking for sexy chat without you knowing?

For me it’s cheating. If there’s a problem in your relationship where you want more then tell them, if they can’t or won’t change then live with it or leave them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it hurt your partner if they knew? "

Good answer

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

If you are doing something with another person that you can't tell your partner about, something that would hurt them and risk your relationship, then yes it is cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s just say it would count as grounds for a divorce. Good bye pension pot.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"No. But don’t tell my missus I said that.

She's too busy flirting with me, so don't worry

I can think of 2 very good reasons why she’d flirt with you

My shoes and sparkly eyes? "

Yes, the shoes round her neck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree with this one the most as I said I was just putti g the question out there I am neither married or in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. But don’t tell my missus I said that.

She's too busy flirting with me, so don't worry

I can think of 2 very good reasons why she’d flirt with you

My shoes and sparkly eyes?

Yes, the shoes round her neck

She's got her mouth full at the moment, so she's just nodded.... Just so you know she's ok and really loves my shoes....

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it cheating if you come on here for sexy chats nothing more but your married "

I think so, as there is intent there. Cheating starts in the mind. But that's just my opinion.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"No. But don’t tell my missus I said that.

She's too busy flirting with me, so don't worry

I can think of 2 very good reasons why she’d flirt with you

My shoes and sparkly eyes?

Yes, the shoes round her neck

She's got her mouth full at the moment, so she's just nodded.... Just so you know she's ok and really loves my shoes.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely!!! How wouid you feel if it was your wife in chatting without your knowledge

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I would have asked her but she currently can't pop round for her weekly shag!

Are you asking for approval coz honestly if you have to ask then yes it's cheating you already know this.

And I'm guessing because you may have been tempted by the fruits of another?

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"Most definitely!!! How wouid you feel if it was your wife in chatting without your knowledge

Exactly well put x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it cheating if you come on here for sexy chats nothing more but your married "

No, I don't think it is. I think "cheating" is a subjective term based on individual perception of a scale of events.

In my opinion sexy chat on a website, an exchange of words is NOTHING compared to being physically, emotionally and mentally betrayed by someone you love, trust and share your day to day life with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would have asked her but she currently can't pop round for her weekly shag!

Are you asking for approval coz honestly if you have to ask then yes it's cheating you already know this.

And I'm guessing because you may have been tempted by the fruits of another?"

In all honesty I'm single just thought I'd ask a provoking question

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire

Depends on your interpretation of the word cheating. You certainly couldn't file for divorce for it but it could hurt someone none the less.

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By *r Rubba LoverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Cheating..

Doing something for your own gratification without knowledge AND consent of your partner...

Yup.

They will be crushed that they don't excite you like your internet chats.

To be fair.. If you have to ask the question...you already know the answer.

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

london

"Is it cheating if you come on here for sexy chats nothing more but your married "

Not physically cheating no, but emotionally you are not being faithful are you. Basically if your hiding what your doing from your significant other then you know it’s not really right.

That being said we don’t know the circumstances and I am not perfect so cannot judge

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

london

"Yep. "

I’ve just realised your are ACTIVE ON HERE HAHAHAH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it cheating if you come on here for sexy chats nothing more but your married "

Pop your face picture up and we'll tell you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy chats/ messaging behind your other half back is cheating in my eyes.

Alone with a single profile on here or a dating app.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Was you married when you were last on here?

I'm not judging...I'm just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was you married when you were last on here?

I'm not judging...I'm just curious."
bi-curious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It only becomes cheating if the other person finds out though.

All you appealing to OP's conscience - never done anything wrong or made a poor choice in your lives, right?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Was you married when you were last on here?

I'm not judging...I'm just curious.bi-curious?

That too

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Ask her...lockdown would be the perfect time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was you married when you were last on here?

I'm not judging...I'm just curious.bi-curious?

That too

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cmon you're not curious you've done the dirty deed

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