FabSwingers.com forum: Messaging first

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do women ever message first? I’ve very rarely if ever had a woman message me first usually I have to drop the first message just wondering if any of you ladies message a guy first lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't but some might

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, but not often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been messaged a few times first but can’t think of any that led to anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than a few of my adventures have been as a result of me messaging first

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Most of the men I've met off here I've messaged first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women ever message first? I’ve very rarely if ever had a woman message me first usually I have to drop the first message just wondering if any of you ladies message a guy first lol"

I occasionally receive first messages from Women, Mainly through curiosity as I have both male and female attributes

But predominantly inviting me to please their man

Either way I don't mind as I can/will please them both

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I use the wink function quite a lot to show sexual interest, rather than messaging first

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meesage first. Normally as a DM from a forum post, and I don't mean a FPF or the like.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

I have....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women ever message first? I’ve very rarely if ever had a woman message me first usually I have to drop the first message just wondering if any of you ladies message a guy first lol"

They do and I had such a nice surprise when she did

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire

It happens and it's a wonderful occasion when it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Yeah women first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged few first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a first message from a couple, but not a single woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been messaged first a few times now. Some have been very appealing....some not so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea if I find someone interesting and like their profile. But guys on here don't seem to make an effort and their pic are out dated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women ever message first? I’ve very rarely if ever had a woman message me first usually I have to drop the first message just wondering if any of you ladies message a guy first lol"

Maybe once or twice i get a message first but it's a very rare occurrence of I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea if I find someone interesting and like their profile. But guys on here don't seem to make an effort and their pic are out dated."

I definitely want you to give my profile a rating now

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

ive had a cple of ladies send me messages first but it’s very very rare.

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

Only received one once and it did lead to meeting. Wish it would happen more often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been messaged first a few times now. Some have been very appealing....some not so much

Soz for being a disappointment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been messaged first a few times now. Some have been very appealing....some not so much

Soz for being a disappointment "

You're never a disappointment!

Besides, I actually messaged you first a long time ago. You did reply at the time but it was obvious you didnt even want to chat so I left ya be!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Women often message first I find....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use the wink function quite a lot to show sexual interest, rather than messaging first "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been messaged first a few times now. Some have been very appealing....some not so much

Soz for being a disappointment

You're never a disappointment!

Besides, I actually messaged you first a long time ago. You did reply at the time but it was obvious you didnt even want to chat so I left ya be!

Whoops. Don’t remember that

soz pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been messaged first a few times now. Some have been very appealing....some not so much

Soz for being a disappointment

You're never a disappointment!

Besides, I actually messaged you first a long time ago. You did reply at the time but it was obvious you didnt even want to chat so I left ya be!

Whoops. Don’t remember that

soz pal"

I'll let ya off! Clearly you fancy me loads now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite often send the first message!! In fact I’m sure I sent you a first message OP!!

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Couples yes

Single women none yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, yes, if I see a profile that catches my eye, no problem with messaging first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve messaged first

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Statistically it's less likely, but yeah it happens once in a while.

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yup

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