FabSwingers.com forum: What do you enjoy the most about being alive?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As I am going through a bit of an existential crisis right now I thought I would use you lot to cheer me up with the positive things life brings.

Forget about the lockdown for a minute. What is it you like the most about being alive? Spending time with family, work achievements, travelling or something completely different?

Thanks

K x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

So much

Family

Friends

Shopping

Laughing

Eating

Walking

Reading xx

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By *ich HardMan
over a year ago

Saffron Walden

Experiences.. not the norm.. be it extensive travel, food.. or even new and interesting 'acts' due to this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hilarious threads and comments on here, they would brighten up anyone's day

Personally appreciating the little things in the world makes me happy, like water, warmth, food, family, friends, sounds so basic, but.. Without them we would be doomed.. And self reflecting, where you started to where you are now, can be a satisfying thing

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Being alive ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I am going through a bit of an existential crisis right now I thought I would use you lot to cheer me up with the positive things life brings.

Forget about the lockdown for a minute. What is it you like the most about being alive? Spending time with family, work achievements, travelling or something completely different?

Thanks

K x"
travelling, meeting people talking the sun working interacting and eating good food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ability to perceive beauty from so many sources.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My freedom..but also being able to see beyond surface with everything..so I see a person..don't see male or female..I don't just see how a simple leaf may look..I feel it's textures..is it smooth or hairy..is it ribbed, veined...I work with nature constantly so instead of hearing dawn chorus I hear individual song..the blackbird, wren, Robin etc..I know alarm calls and courting..that sort of thing

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Breif Moments of humour and friendliness with random strangers you meet as you go about life...

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Brief ..

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Being alive & being able to see my kids grow up. I was told I had breast cancer at 40....fit, healthy, non smoker, no family history. HUGE shock.

Game changer

MsD x

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

Nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching my boys grow up into kind sensitive men. I do not want to miss a second of their lives.

Little things like sunshine and rain, listening to the birds.

People around who love me. And the people I love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Motorbikes and girls that take it up the bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making Caffeine Dusk randy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Riding on the back of motorbikes and taking it up the bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowing I am needed and loved by my little ones. And then all fine standards of course. I do embrace little things in life.. birds singing, stranger smiling on the road, good deeds, exploring world around me, etc.

Hope you can fight off those feelings in no time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently I’m enjoying there being no football

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

coffee, a freezing hotel room and quiche

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bump

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By *oodoodMan
over a year ago

Suffolk / Essex borders

Greggs Sausage Rolls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, not much. So this thread has been helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That d*unk sex feeling.

That and looking at pictures of pretty girls boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly, not much. So this thread has been helpful."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laughing with people.

And that feeling when you're drifting off to sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly, not much. So this thread has been helpful."

Hold onto that. We all need little reminders occasionally x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I hope your crisis is over soon for you but also that it brings with it clarity and determination to do what makes you happy K, x

So for me - I like the people in my life. A lot. All the daft conversations, the caring ones, the supportive, the work based ones. I love being alive and being able to feel all the joy people can bring me. Other people are fascinating and incredible and strange but an endless source of delight and happiness for me - my family, loved ones and friends keep me going and motivate me and inspire me to be a better one.

And I like being able to feel; whether that's the sun gently warming my skin as it gently streams through the window on a bright morning, the delight I feel in hearing the birds chirping and laughing until I am crying from bad jokes. Even the rumble in my tummy when I smell delicious baked goods that I seem to be making too often right now.

I love being alive and every day brings me another reminder of how lucky I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching my girls grow. I was poorly a couple of years ago, emergency surgery and my markers were showing I was developing sepsis, so lucky to have not been more seriously ill, so I don’t take my health for granted xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waking up early to see the sun rise as the birds sing.

Seeing a old couple enjoying a park bench together.

Being extremely proud of how well my two sons are doing.

How excited my dog is to see me when I get back from work even if he only does it cause hes going to get fed haha.

A clear night sky with all those beautiful stars shining.

The list is endless, life is absolutely amazing and beautiful even with its shitty parts but I always live for the positives x

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Good BBQ, making my kids laugh, morning coffee, dogs and simply being this side of the dirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing a old couple enjoying a park bench together.

Or watching one holding hands after decades together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing a old couple enjoying a park bench together.

Or watching one holding hands after decades together

Definitely its amazing to see

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Lou) apart from the obvious which is my kids and grandkids, I love being with such an amazing man, ray let's me be me and explore things that I have never been allowed to before, he is very supportive in anything I want do both sexual and non-sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trees and photosynthesis

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Lie ins

Days out

Starting a new book

That feeling you get when you fall in love

Listening to your fave music in the car

Getting a smile from a sexy woman in the steet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing my sons growing up and slowly becoming men. Its my happiest thing in the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope your crisis is over soon for you but also that it brings with it clarity and determination to do what makes you happy K, x

I love being alive and every day brings me another reminder of how lucky I am."

Beautiful post..a zest for life at its simplest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The oppurtunities it offers if we are brave enough to take them. Or even not, just being able to sit as I am and not do anything at all. Simple fact I am alive I think, soppy as it sounds. Hope you are ok. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

isolation love it

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I love living. Especially when I can spend time with my fab friends naked.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Going skiing or road tripping through Europe in a car with epic soundtrack (v8/v10/v12)

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

I’d miss a really good fart if I died

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ATM I’m missing my freedom

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