FabSwingers.com forum: How worthy are you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or how worthy do you feel?

They can be two very different things.

My worth came from my job but being off sick for so long has changed that.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

How worthy I am is not something for me to decide necessarily - I leave others to decide that about me for themselves

How worthy I feel varies - I know I'm a decent bloke who tries to be respectful and considerate to others, even if I sometimes fail, but generally my self-worth is intact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could pick up mjolnir with no issue

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

I'm worthless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or how worthy do you feel?

They can be two very different things.

My worth came from my job but being off sick for so long has changed that. "

I hope you find another source of wort_iness boost asap.. and get well x

I feel I might just ramble if I attempt answering your questions now. Will give it a think when not tired..

bottom line for me is worth is an inner thing and I dont want it to be something reliant on others or being wobbled by absence of certain actions/words/things not in my control.. shit I'm rambling. I stop it there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm worthless "

You say that or someone did?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel quite worthless most of the time. But I can make certain people smile so I guess I would be worth something for them.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I am worth whatever value someone puts on me, and I don't mean a financial value.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time I feel worthless

But then again I don't actually like me

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

I just accept I am and live my life the best way I can

Others decide my worth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just accept I am and live my life the best way I can

Others decide my worth..."

Do they really? I mean they can decide how much they need you or find you useful or productive to the world to them specifically. Is it wort_iness though.. and why would we hand its judgement to others who are as fragile and in some ways broken humans as we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly have no idea, I'm not sure how to judge it either.

I know there are people in my life who love me for who I am so to them I'm worthy and that's all that matters.

In a societal sense I'm not so sure, I try to be a good person and do my bit but I'm nothing special, I don't bring anything extraordinary to those I'm not close to.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm alright and would work on it, if it was an issue. I've not ascribed my worth from career, assets or anything that's not me, that's fools gold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I’m worthy and now don’t base my sense of self worth on the opinion of others to validate it. I know what I’m worth, and strive to do all I can not to allow myself to be made to feel worthless in any way again xx

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