FabSwingers.com forum: Advice please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been chatting with a lady on and off since Christmas and we have met a few times.

It's always just been a friendship and nothing sexual. I enjoy her company and I don't know what she sees in boring me but we get on well.

Tonight she text and it turned a bit sexual. Now she is asking me if I would like to visit her at her house to "chill and watch a movie" I think this is code for sex.

I don't want to go down that road because when we first started chatting she told me that she was disappointed with her exs because they were not big enough.

She then told me that she was "very particular about size" and that her next partner "better be big"

I fancy her a lot but I'm not vwe so I would only be another disappointment for her and I don't want to do that.

What can I say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak to her about it and let her make the decision.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Just go for it. Enjoy the moment and consider anything else a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck her anyway

Its not your cock thats small, its her fanny thats big

Remember that

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Chill and watch a movie = sex? Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find out if its definitely only a movie shes after, if she says theres a possibility of more tell her that her previous comments about vwe men have you a little worried and you dont want to disappoint. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chill and watch a movie = sex? Really? "

Yea, really

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fuck her anyway

Its not your cock thats small, its her fanny thats big

Remember that

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's an embarrassing situation though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you know for certain it's a woman?

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Find out if its definitely only a movie shes after, if she says theres a possibility of more tell her that her previous comments about vwe men have you a little worried and you dont want to disappoint. X

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Meeting atm?

Or is this fantasy?

I'd leave it a while lovely

Jo x

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Chill and watch a movie = sex? Really?

Yea, really"

You guys! So hilarious!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And you know for certain it's a woman?

Well I've met with her so I'm fairly certain she is a woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Meeting atm?

Or is this fantasy?

I'd leave it a while lovely

Jo x"

It's not fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Caught in a landslide no escape from reality

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chill and watch a movie = sex? Really?

Yea, really

You guys! So hilarious!

What do you think it means?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Caught in a landslide no escape from reality

And no shame either mate

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

Slip her a length when lockdown ends and you’ll know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck her anyway

Its not your cock thats small, its her fanny thats big

Remember that

laughing out loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck her anyway

Its not your cock thats small, its her fanny thats big

Remember that

Are you still hung up on that? Look we talked about it, I thought you were OK, you said you'd gone to the clinic and booked an appointment for surgery, and was going to change your username to BigBoy, or Trunkasorus or something like that

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

"I have been chatting with a lady on and off since Christmas and we have met a few times.

It's always just been a friendship and nothing sexual. I enjoy her company and I don't know what she sees in boring me but we get on well. Well fella stay friends.if you go forth and the Lady rejects you because your cock ain't big enough I mean come on if that is what lady seek your better of being in that situation..be friends will mean more too the lady specially a shoulder too cry on when man big cock cheats...friends ...on the flip side let her find a guy big cock lady wont like it can be unpleasant for her....

Tonight she text and it turned a bit sexual. Now she is asking me if I would like to visit her at her house to "chill and watch a movie" I think this is code for sex.

I don't want to go down that road because when we first started chatting she told me that she was disappointed with her exs because they were not big enough.

She then told me that she was "very particular about size" and that her next partner "better be big"

I fancy her a lot but I'm not vwe so I would only be another disappointment for her and I don't want to do that.

What can I say?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't think it would be nice to tell her that her fanny is to big

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Tell her your size. It’s best she knows if she is a size queen......

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

But it's possible lady could have a big foo foo....hope lady been doing her pelvic muscles that seems to help tighten why lady wants it right up the canal straight ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell her your size. It’s best she knows if she is a size queen......"

Mr average doesn't cut it anymore

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

If she is so particular about size then i am surprised she has not asked for a cock pic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If she is so particular about size then i am surprised she has not asked for a cock pic.

We've hardly talked about sex before

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"If she is so particular about size then i am surprised she has not asked for a cock pic.

We've hardly talked about sex before "

But she has talked about her ex partners cock size. Does not sound good to me.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"If she is so particular about size then i am surprised she has not asked for a cock pic.

We've hardly talked about sex before "

So, it seems to me that she must like you regardless of what you're packing..if she was THAT concerned, I'd have thought she would have asked you about your size by now!

Maybe just go with the flow..it does sound like she's after some action..if you think she'll be disappointed, just make sure your tongue is ready for action!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If she is so particular about size then i am surprised she has not asked for a cock pic.

We've hardly talked about sex before

So, it seems to me that she must like you regardless of what you're packing..if she was THAT concerned, I'd have thought she would have asked you about your size by now!

Maybe just go with the flow..it does sound like she's after some action..if you think she'll be disappointed, just make sure your tongue is ready for action!!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Has she verified you after any of these chat meets you say you have had?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has she verified you after any of these chat meets you say you have had?"

We didn't meet on here

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Just shag her up the arse instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just shag her up the arse instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, it seems from your lead post here that your self-confidence is at a low ebb. The power balance in this new friendship seems very weighted in this lady's favor. The facts seem to be :-

* She's had you in the 'friends zone' up until now.

* You're not her type sexually.

* There's a pandemic and most on here are not meeting.

* Regardless if it's for sex or platonic company, she shows little respect for you or regard for your health or that of others by asking you to her's at this time.

Under such circumstances you still go around to her's just for a potential shag, with someone you seem to regard as out of your league...then there's a high chance this lifestyle is not going to be a good fit for you and could in all likelihood chew you up and spit you out with much less self worth than you convey now.

I wish you all the best OP and hope you start giving yourself the credit you deserve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Caught in a landslide no escape from reality

Open your eeeeyyyes.. Look up to the skies and seeeeeeeeee.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Caught in a landslide no escape from reality

Open your eeeeyyyes.. Look up to the skies and seeeeeeeeee. "

"Keep yourself alive, yeah, keep yourself alive.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Caught in a landslide no escape from reality

Open your eeeeyyyes.. Look up to the skies and seeeeeeeeee.

"Keep yourself alive, yeah, keep yourself alive..""

Not sure that's how this one goes haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jump to the pool, it’s not nice to say no. Go on and unzip her dress

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Caught in a landslide no escape from reality

Open your eeeeyyyes.. Look up to the skies and seeeeeeeeee.

"Keep yourself alive, yeah, keep yourself alive.."

Not sure that's how this one goes haha "

All you people keep yourself alive....

Roger Taylor drum solo...

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Chill and watch a movie = sex? Really? "

Yup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you not told her you cant go round her house to watch a movie because of social distancing and pulled her up on the fact she's not adhering to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only live once... go for it!

And if she thinks you aren’t big enough make sure you use your fingers, tongue and cock to make her cum more times than she ever imagined

That will make her think twice about importance of size

And if she still doesn’t like it, at least you had a great fuck

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Go for it.

If she can't take you as you are move on.

Maybe why she's single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been chatting with a lady on and off since Christmas and we have met a few times.

It's always just been a friendship and nothing sexual. I enjoy her company and I don't know what she sees in boring me but we get on well.

Tonight she text and it turned a bit sexual. Now she is asking me if I would like to visit her at her house to "chill and watch a movie" I think this is code for sex.

I don't want to go down that road because when we first started chatting she told me that she was disappointed with her exs because they were not big enough.

She then told me that she was "very particular about size" and that her next partner "better be big"

I fancy her a lot but I'm not vwe so I would only be another disappointment for her and I don't want to do that.

What can I say?

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you can only work with what you've got, she likes you and you her thats what counts if your small one isn't good enough and its not the size and how you use it then I'm sure you'll be out the door as quick as a rancid kipper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck her anyway

Its not your cock thats small, its her fanny thats big

Remember that

After this epic statement there won't be any threads "Does size really matter" for a while.

On topic..Go for it. See what happens

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

So, the meet wasn't through FAB as you've only been on 2 weeks.

Be careful you don't mix up swinging with online dating.

Nice shoes on your profile picks.

I do like men who have nice shoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, the meet wasn't through FAB as you've only been on 2 weeks.

Be careful you don't mix up swinging with online dating.

Nice shoes on your profile picks.

I do like men who have nice shoes.

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i have nice shoes but never lace ups

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, it seems from your lead post here that your self-confidence is at a low ebb. The power balance in this new friendship seems very weighted in this lady's favor. The facts seem to be :-

* She's had you in the 'friends zone' up until now.

* You're not her type sexually.

* There's a pandemic and most on here are not meeting.

* Regardless if it's for sex or platonic company, she shows little respect for you or regard for your health or that of others by asking you to her's at this time.

I wish you all the best OP and hope you start giving yourself the credit you deserve."

Yeah some good points there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you not told her you cant go round her house to watch a movie because of social distancing and pulled her up on the fact she's not adhering to it?"

I didn't think about that. I won't be going anywhere until this is over though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee is the code word for sex. Watch the movie, bring a massive dildo . You could please her and she could suck your tiny cock

Sorry just for fun. Your enjoy her company. It is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fuck her anyway

Its not your cock thats small, its her fanny thats big

Remember that

After this epic statement there won't be any threads "Does size really matter" for a while.

On topic..Go for it. See what happens

Size obviously does matter. I've noticed this a lot more since reading ladies profiles on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So, the meet wasn't through FAB as you've only been on 2 weeks.

Be careful you don't mix up swinging with online dating.

Nice shoes on your profile picks.

I do like men who have nice shoes.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Coffee is the code word for sex. Watch the movie, bring a massive dildo . You could please her and she could suck your tiny cock

Sorry just for fun. Your enjoy her company. It is what it is. "

Hmm I guess I'm just not confident enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you not told her you cant go round her house to watch a movie because of social distancing and pulled her up on the fact she's not adhering to it?"

I was thinking this too!

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