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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you become a cougar?

I think my tastes are changing, I used to prefer older men but I keep looking at younger men and thinking about teaching them a thing or two

Have your tastes changed as you've got older? Has fab influenced any changes, maybe made you think about what you're looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

37

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

From my 40s onwards....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I must just be a cub then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"37"

I disagree as I think it’s 37 and four months.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say a cougar is 40+

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Twelvety ten.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’m just going to change my age settings on here. I’m now partial to an older woman who’s experienced in the baking department

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23

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By *iercedlotsCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

My tastes have changed since I started going to clubs. Its opened my eyes now I realise that everyone has there own body issues. Not only am I less fussy with the girls, I love to suck girls with big labia.This is something I would never have thought endearing before I started to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally say 35-36, but you need to be going after men more than 15 years younger. A 40 year old going after a 30 year old man isn't a cougar.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Twelvety ten."

I was gonna say twentyteen

I tried bring a cougar at 42 but it was the worst decision ever for me

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

My tastes change daily, never mind as I get older. I'm feeling a bit cougary today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I got called a cougar once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twelvety ten.

I was gonna say twentyteen

I tried bring a cougar at 42 but it was the worst decision ever for me "

Tought me a thing or two

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"[Removed by poster at 29/03/20 14:51:18]"

I ?? that pic of you Patrick

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Twelvety ten.

I was gonna say twentyteen

I tried bring a cougar at 42 but it was the worst decision ever for me

Tought me a thing or two "

Grrrrrr cougar claws

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you become a cougar?

I think my tastes are changing, I used to prefer older men but I keep looking at younger men and thinking about teaching them a thing or two

Have your tastes changed as you've got older? Has fab influenced any changes, maybe made you think about what you're looking for?

"

My tastes are based on personality rather than an age! But I have been known to enjoy a younger guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twelvety ten.

I was gonna say twentyteen

I tried bring a cougar at 42 but it was the worst decision ever for me

Tought me a thing or two

Grrrrrr cougar claws "

I still have the drag marks on my

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at the ladies on this post I'm wishing I was a young man again

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Twelvety ten.

I was gonna say twentyteen

I tried bring a cougar at 42 but it was the worst decision ever for me

Tought me a thing or two

Grrrrrr cougar claws

I still have the drag marks on my "

Perky little ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twelvety ten.

I was gonna say twentyteen

I tried bring a cougar at 42 but it was the worst decision ever for me

Tought me a thing or two

Grrrrrr cougar claws

I still have the drag marks on my

Perky little ass "

That little ass had a plank strapped to it or into deepest space I went never to return lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I think you're just getting old Rubi hun xo

Actually I've always gone older (men anyway), like at least a decade but men around my own age (who act like they are 50 sometimes) are kind of sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m conscientiously ignoring this post.

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By *em_mberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

I’ve recently been talking to a lady I called her a cougar and we had this exact conversation when do you enter the cougar cub ages

I love woman of all ages for different reasons I find the ladies that are older than myself hold better conversations just in my experience and if you’re lucky enough to go out on a date for drinks or food they’re less likely to spend that time looking at their phones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older women are dangerous.

You need to be Indiana Jones to survive that adventure

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"I would say a cougar is 40+"

I would add 5 years to that and say 45 is the ideal age for a cougar

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Twelvety ten.

I was gonna say twentyteen

I tried bring a cougar at 42 but it was the worst decision ever for me

Tought me a thing or two

Grrrrrr cougar claws

I still have the drag marks on my

Perky little ass

That little ass had a plank strapped to it or into deepest space I went never to return lol"

Cheeky boy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m conscientiously ignoring this post."

I still fancy you Sam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say a cougar is 40+"

Really. I don't want to be a cougar. I'm still so young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm definitely at the age to be called a couger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still into older but I see a day coming when I'll have to look for younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you become a cougar?

I think my tastes are changing, I used to prefer older men but I keep looking at younger men and thinking about teaching them a thing or two

Have your tastes changed as you've got older? Has fab influenced any changes, maybe made you think about what you're looking for?

"

My parter is 16 years my senior (she really doesn't look it) we met when I was 24, but we both really hate the terms "cougar" and "cubs"..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to be a cub but at 43, probably a bit old now myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love me a cougar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often get messages from 25/26 year olds that refer to me as a ‘much older woman’ or cougar.

Fucking hell i’m not that old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called a cougar since my 30s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m conscientiously ignoring this post.

I still fancy you Sam "

Pheww!

*mops brow*

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Mine haven't,

I have always preferred round about my own age or older.

Just feel I get on better with them

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By *rian2425Man
over a year ago

liverpool

I’ve always liked an older woman. Much more experience and way more fun to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cant be old at 31 its so unfair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you become a cougar?

I think my tastes are changing, I used to prefer older men but I keep looking at younger men and thinking about teaching them a thing or two

Have your tastes changed as you've got older? Has fab influenced any changes, maybe made you think about what you're looking for?

"
cougars are generally 46 upward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twelvety ten."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 40s

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

Is it your age or the age of the partners you seek?

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Do you become a cougar?

I think my tastes are changing, I used to prefer older men but I keep looking at younger men and thinking about teaching them a thing or two

Have your tastes changed as you've got older? Has fab influenced any changes, maybe made you think about what you're looking for?

"

I’m considering it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always preferred younger men (no preference with women!) but being called a cougar in my 30s felt ridiculous! Something did change in my early to mid 40s and it was this: I realised I was old enough to have birthed some of these younger men I was seeing so for me that was the definitive moment.

Fabs yeah has been an big enabler. I'd never ever dream of hitting on someone half my age IRL but here those keen identify themselves

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Older women are dangerous.

You need to be Indiana Jones to survive that adventure "

I laughed at this more than I probably should have

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Don’t worry about labels, just enjoy the fact that you’re feeling empowered enough to follow what you want instead of what some societies expect.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I don't think necessarily the age of the woman, but more the age difference between the woman and the guy(s) she's into. A 30-year-old who likes 18-year-old would be a cougar but not if she likes 26-year-olds, whereas a 40-year-old who likes 26-year-olds would be. That's my opinion anyway. Luke

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Around the 40's I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think necessarily the age of the woman, but more the age difference between the woman and the guy(s) she's into. A 30-year-old who likes 18-year-old would be a cougar but not if she likes 26-year-olds, whereas a 40-year-old who likes 26-year-olds would be. That's my opinion anyway. Luke "

I agree that it’s the difference not the age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More like at what age does it feel wrong

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Think i am too old now to be a cougar. Think i am classed as a jaguar these days. Correct me if i am wrong

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Think i am too old now to be a cougar. Think i am classed as a jaguar these days. Correct me if i am wrong

"

Looking at your photos I'd say your more like a Rolls Royce.

(creep creep)

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

About now!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About now!

Jo.Xx "

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bradford

What age gap or age range makes the definition between cougar and not

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"About now!

Jo.Xx

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I'd eat you for breakfast!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a cougar as I never do the hunting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think i am too old now to be a cougar. Think i am classed as a jaguar these days. Correct me if i am wrong

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Me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think i am too old now to be a cougar. Think i am classed as a jaguar these days. Correct me if i am wrong

"

Don't believe you are 55 for a minute you look amazing

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I just like who I like, but they're often younger than me. (Not always)

But I don't want to be called "older" or "cougar" I think it's a bit like someone likes you for your age rather than for who you are and I don't want that, it feels like they're ticking a box.

I don't think I am one, I don't actively chase young men. Therefore I am innocent

*disclaimer* some of this may not be quite true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you start tilting ya head when you see 16yo surfer boys probably.

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Does it go on a specific age or more on the age gap??

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