FabSwingers.com forum: What do you need most...

By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Pick one...and tell us why, maybe you’ll find a new friend with similar needs..

Certainty

Variety

Significance

Connection

Growth

Contribution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Self) growth. A continuous one. Then I can find or achieve the rest too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection.

...nothing better than spending some time/getting to know someone you just click with.

Is that what you’re asking?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Connection, if nothing else it’s good for our well being, well mine at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection, being a sub its vital in BDSM play xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting and thought provoking question. She says connection coz she wants to feel connected to me. I'm going with contribution, hate feeling that I'm no use in any situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting and thought provoking question. She says connection coz she wants to feel connected to me. I'm going with contribution, hate feeling that I'm no use in any situation. "

I agree with both answers here

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Connection and contribution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contribution

The more someone contributes to my bank balance, the more I like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to pick certainty. I like to feel secure then all the rest can flourish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pick one...and tell us why, maybe you’ll find a new friend with similar needs..

Certainty

Variety

Significance

Connection

Growth

Contribution

What made you think of this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainty, helps you feel secure and stops nasty surprises rearing their ugly head x

Viv x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biscuits. Any kind will do.

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Pick one...and tell us why, maybe you’ll find a new friend with similar needs..

Certainty

Variety

Significance

Connection

Growth

Contribution

What made you think of this?"

I like to understand what motivates people, to do that you need to understand their needs!

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"wine

The certainty of a full wine rack is very comforting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pick one...and tell us why, maybe you’ll find a new friend with similar needs..

Certainty

Variety

Significance

Connection

Growth

Contribution

I can't pick one, I need certainty past a certain point but I need connection to get there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is hard, I need them all!

I guess connection is most important as it's the starting place, without that the others are pointless.

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Biscuits. Any kind will do."

Typical bloke, the way to your heart is through your stomach !!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Biscuits. Any kind will do."

Are you my (non identical) twin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pick one...and tell us why, maybe you’ll find a new friend with similar needs..

Certainty

Variety

Significance

Connection

Growth

Contribution

Really intriguing question...hard to pick one as they (with possibly exception of variety) are interconnected... to pick one connection I think for me leads to the rest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are all relevant but for different reasons.

As it’s posted on here, connection would be my choice right now.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Pick one...and tell us why, maybe you’ll find a new friend with similar needs..

Certainty

Variety

Significance

Connection

Growth

Contribution

Connection and certainty

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