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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How long before you know it is right to take the step into marriage?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How long with a person*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it’s all down to the individual isn’t it

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I don't think that there is a specific timescale. However, I do think that you should live together before committing to marriage. You never truly know a person until you live with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

difficult to say.

my experience is that I fucked it up.

I had it made. everything was in place and I just didn't have the guts to seal the deal.

I still regret it, not for myself. but the damage my decisions did to her.

they say you don't know what you have till its gone.

its so true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How long before you know it is right to take the step into marriage?"
4days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don’t truly know until you’ve been married a couple of years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"difficult to say.

my experience is that I fucked it up.

I had it made. everything was in place and I just didn't have the guts to seal the deal.

I still regret it, not for myself. but the damage my decisions did to her.

they say you don't know what you have till its gone.

its so true."

What happened bud?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say give it 10 years then if you still feel like it just throw caution to the wind.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

My sister and her husband tried not to rush into it, they waited 27 years

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

65 years. Just to make sure

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"difficult to say.

my experience is that I fucked it up.

I had it made. everything was in place and I just didn't have the guts to seal the deal.

I still regret it, not for myself. but the damage my decisions did to her.

they say you don't know what you have till its gone.

its so true."

But then maybe it wasnt right for u x

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

There is no length of time down to each one of us x

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Never. Neither of us have ever been married and never will.

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By *lap.n.tickleCouple
over a year ago

sunny Manchester :)

Think I was with my ex about 7 years before we married. It lasted about 8 years after we married. Best thing that ever happened to me but by fuck I couldn't see that at the time. God only knows how miserable my life would be now if we stayed together. Lifes a funny old thing.

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By *logger and Rainbow-AliceCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

I knew within a few months, we been married 12 years this Sunday xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think that there is a specific timescale. However, I do think that you should live together before committing to marriage. You never truly know a person until you live with them. "

I'd agree with this. It's different for everyone in terms of time.

My husband proposed after 2 years, then we were engaged another 3 years before we married.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I knew within a few months, we been married 12 years this Sunday xx

Lovely - congrats!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think that there is a specific timescale. However, I do think that you should live together before committing to marriage. You never truly know a person until you live with them.

I'd agree with this. It's different for everyone in terms of time.

My husband proposed after 2 years, then we were engaged another 3 years before we married."

People make a big deal about living together - did you live together before marriage?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"How long before you know it is right to take the step into marriage?"

I have never seen the point in marriage. Just live together.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it depends on your attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to get married

So be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t believe in it. So never.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"I think it depends on your attitude"
very true some people instantly know for others can be years ..

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Lou's only just got divorced

Think we need to let the ink dry on the paperwork first

Ray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The saying 'how long is a piece of string' comes to mind.

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