FabSwingers.com forum: Best Reply Not To Meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I'm wandering the best replies given by women when they try to say no to a meet politely..

I'll start off these are genuine ones I've had :

"Sorry I'm a hair puller"

"Your too hot for me I'd feel inferior"

"My mouth can't handle you "

I mean just a polite No would suffice hehe

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

How about “I’m following Fab’s new terms and conditions implemented due to the covid19 crisis and not meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about I wouldnt touch you, with someone else's?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

COVID 19 response is no joke defo no meets..just curious of different replies when a simple no would do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry, I think you're too amazing and I'd catch the feels.

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By *ulahlollipopWoman
over a year ago

Reading/London

I’ve learned there is no way that you can politely decline some men without them initiating a bargaining process- when you’ve got this going on with a hundred people a day it’s easier just to not reply in the end and come across as a heartless bitch

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How about I wouldnt touch you, with someone else's?"

brilliant as if you would lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve learned there is no way that you can politely decline some men without them initiating a bargaining process- when you’ve got this going on with a hundred people a day it’s easier just to not reply in the end and come across as a heartless bitch

Yeah for you popular ladies I can understand

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

"COVID 19 response is no joke defo no meets..just curious of different replies when a simple no would do"

Phew! I thought for a moment you had been asking for meets and these were the responses you were getting, hence the sarcasm from me. Sorry op

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sorry, I think you're too amazing and I'd catch the feels. "

Yeah that's one to savour

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"COVID 19 response is no joke defo no meets..just curious of different replies when a simple no would do

Phew! I thought for a moment you had been asking for meets and these were the responses you were getting, hence the sarcasm from me. Sorry op "

No worries thought so lol X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get to told to fuck off.

It definitely works

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By *uscularLoveMan
over a year ago

london

Ive been saying;

I think we should wait until this is over. And also I think it would make it more exciting if we build up some anticipation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just get to told to fuck off.

It definitely works "

Never had that before. Are your messages quite aggressive then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive been saying;

I think we should wait until this is over. And also I think it would make it more exciting if we build up some anticipation."

Defo agree best reply with some subtle feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told “my kids are older than you” which is 110% ok that I’m not their preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been told its mostly down to my hairy body.

I dont mind though it's not for everyone

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By *ulahlollipopWoman
over a year ago

Reading/London

"I just get to told to fuck off.

It definitely works "

I didn’t

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Not really what you were wanting but, my go to response to men asking to meet, is along the lines of:

Thanks for your message. Unfortunately, you appear to have been so distracted by my photos you forgot to read the text

I am only looking to meet ladies...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not really what you were wanting but, my go to response to men asking to meet, is along the lines of:

Thanks for your message. Unfortunately, you appear to have been so distracted by my photos you forgot to read the text

I am only looking to meet ladies...

Hehe brilliant x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Not really what you were wanting but, my go to response to men asking to meet, is along the lines of:

Thanks for your message. Unfortunately, you appear to have been so distracted by my photos you forgot to read the text

I am only looking to meet ladies...

I only reply to say no when people are persistent.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Not really what you were wanting but, my go to response to men asking to meet, is along the lines of:

Thanks for your message. Unfortunately, you appear to have been so distracted by my photos you forgot to read the text

I am only looking to meet ladies...

Hehe brilliant x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have been told its mostly down to my hairy body.

I dont mind though it's not for everyone

You probably get that response as standard no doubt

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Not really what you were wanting but, my go to response to men asking to meet, is along the lines of:

Thanks for your message. Unfortunately, you appear to have been so distracted by my photos you forgot to read the text

I am only looking to meet ladies...

I only reply to say no when people are persistent."

I don't get many messages so really to them all, unless they're rude or getting pushy.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

* reply ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just get to told to fuck off.

It definitely works

I didn’t

You messaged me first and I haven't asked to meet yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been told its mostly down to my hairy body.

I dont mind though it's not for everyone

You probably get that response as standard no doubt"

Some like it some dont I'm not sure sorry the hairy body isnt for me answer isnt a standard message to send anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd welcome some advice on how to respond to countless messages I receive from ladies wanting to meet ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree! I can’t keep up with my inbox sometimes.

(That never happened. Ever)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really what you were wanting but, my go to response to men asking to meet, is along the lines of:

Thanks for your message. Unfortunately, you appear to have been so distracted by my photos you forgot to read the text

I am only looking to meet ladies...

I only reply to say no when people are persistent.

I don't get many messages so really to them all, unless they're rude or getting pushy."

You hadn’t said “no” to mine yet. #liveinhope

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have been told its mostly down to my hairy body.

I dont mind though it's not for everyone

You probably get that response as standard no doubt

Some like it some dont I'm not sure sorry the hairy body isnt for me answer isnt a standard message to send anyone

Agree totally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd welcome some advice on how to respond to countless messages I receive from ladies wanting to meet ..."

See the covid 19 post at the beginning might help.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Fuck off I don’t like u ..... chinked my armour

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fuck off I don’t like u ..... chinked my armour

Bit harsh on you as no should be that blunt.

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By *ulahlollipopWoman
over a year ago

Reading/London

"I just get to told to fuck off.

It definitely works

I didn’t

You messaged me first and I haven't asked to meet yet.

Very true xx Yet... haha

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'd welcome some advice on how to respond to countless messages I receive from ladies wanting to meet ..."

And who wouldn't?

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By *ad steMan
over a year ago

Southport

Not for me thanks better that than deleted and blocked and never bother them again there loss not mine

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By *oo and LustCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge & Bucks.

Thank you for your message but you not our type. Hope you find what you looking for. Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too hot for you

You're a bit overweight

They're the more polite ones I've had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about I wouldnt touch you, with someone else's?"

I heard you the first time

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Are u on about now with this cov19 or in general op?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The replies to the replies are often hilarious. They're not very creative. I'm a disease ridden worthless slag who'll never get a man.

Oh bless, did you throw your rattle out of the pram?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If I do reply/tell someone I am not interested I always try and be nice - sometimes self deprecating. In all my years on here I've had less than a handful of abusive messages. Anyway OP, I hope if you do continue to receive no thanks messages, they make you smile at least x

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I don't reply anymore. 'Not even if it was made of cake' doesn't get the applause it deserves.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I don't reply anymore. 'Not even if it was made of cake' doesn't get the applause it deserves."

I get less abuse if I don't reply.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I don't reply anymore. 'Not even if it was made of cake' doesn't get the applause it deserves."

I think I’d turn Fab Straight if it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. I am self isolating. 2. We are in lockdown"

Then calling them a psychopath

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

1. I am self isolating. 2. We are in lockdown"

Then calling them a psychopath "

Oh right now my reply to physical meet requests is block report.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are u on about now with this cov19 or in general op?"

In general x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I do reply/tell someone I am not interested I always try and be nice - sometimes self deprecating. In all my years on here I've had less than a handful of abusive messages. Anyway OP, I hope if you do continue to receive no thanks messages, they make you smile at least x"

They always make me smile as I take time to type my messages so a nice reply is always good even if it's a polite no..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Anything that could exacerbate me disappointment is not needed, so it's better to keep it clear and simple. The clarity is important, so they don't think there's any tiny chance at all.

No thanks, I'm not feeling the vibe

Or something similar. You can express the gratitude for their efforts, as I'd hate to think of someone giving up, feeling they aren't worthwhile. I think it's best to block, to conclude the interaction for good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. I am self isolating. 2. We are in lockdown"

Then calling them a psychopath

Oh right now my reply to physical meet requests is block report."

I block and report as well but people need to know when they're being psychopaths

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

They always make me smile as I take time to type my messages so a nice reply is always good even if it's a polite no.."

Sadly I stopped because of the abuse I got in return. I was never rude to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

They always make me smile as I take time to type my messages so a nice reply is always good even if it's a polite no..

Sadly I stopped because of the abuse I got in return. I was never rude to them."

Yeah a few fabsters have said that after a polite no they get more abuse..proper weirdos

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By *ulahlollipopWoman
over a year ago

Reading/London

They always make me smile as I take time to type my messages so a nice reply is always good even if it's a polite no..

Sadly I stopped because of the abuse I got in return. I was never rude to them."

Same here. One guy yesterday said I bet you’re not as popular in real life as you are here you fat slag. Charmed I’m sure

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