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By *rian4u OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I would like to hear from the ladies if they enjoy pegging, either each other or their man.

Does it change the dynamic between patners ?

Is it empowering?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to hear from the ladies if they enjoy pegging, either each other or their man.

Does it change the dynamic between patners ?

Is it empowering?

"

its mind blowing experience... very sensual...obviously has to be connection between both partners.

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

I like using it on a guy. I enjoy doing all the lubing up beforehand and then seeing the pleasure it gives.

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By *rian4u OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Ladies, thank you for replying. You cant get much stimulation from the strap on, so is it really the psychological trip you enjoy?

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Sounds so hot. Still looking to experience this

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By *rian4u OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I find the idea very horny too.

Interested to know if it changes a relationship.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I like using it on a guy. I enjoy doing all the lubing up beforehand and then seeing the pleasure it gives.

"

Is it hard work? Using one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah for me it changed our relationship massively.

He loved it, couldn’t get enough to the point I started resenting him for not wanting to fuck me as much.

At first it felt empowering but after a while it changed and he had the power because he was getting more sex than me.

It got to a point that every time we had sex he suggested it.

When I’ve done it on fab meets they have become obsessed with that and nothing else.

So yeah it affected my relationships both loving ones and nsa ones

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By *ubmissive bi coupleCouple
over a year ago

crawley

The only penetration sex we have is with a strap on. Me fucking him.

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By *rian4u OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"The only penetration sex we have is with a strap on. Me fucking him."

It looks like you have your dynamic sorted out!

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By *rian4u OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Yeah for me it changed our relationship massively.

He loved it, couldn’t get enough to the point I started resenting him for not wanting to fuck me as much.

At first it felt empowering but after a while it changed and he had the power because he was getting more sex than me.

It got to a point that every time we had sex he suggested it.

When I’ve done it on fab meets they have become obsessed with that and nothing else.

So yeah it affected my relationships both loving ones and nsa ones "

Interesting point. I have come across this where the man wants it and takes it but does not take into consideration the lady's needs. Consequently she is less inclined to do it and he becomes frustrated.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We tried it, she loved it but me not so much. It felt good but just wasn’t really my thing. Ok as a ticked the box tried it type deal.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Everything is a balance.

We do it when we both feel like it.

There’s a huge transfer of power and B tells me she feels in control.

There is still some stimulation, not just mental and B has come before while using a strap on.

B&J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah for me it changed our relationship massively.

He loved it, couldn’t get enough to the point I started resenting him for not wanting to fuck me as much.

At first it felt empowering but after a while it changed and he had the power because he was getting more sex than me.

It got to a point that every time we had sex he suggested it.

When I’ve done it on fab meets they have become obsessed with that and nothing else.

So yeah it affected my relationships both loving ones and nsa ones "

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By *rian4u OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Yeah for me it changed our relationship massively.

He loved it, couldn’t get enough to the point I started resenting him for not wanting to fuck me as much.

At first it felt empowering but after a while it changed and he had the power because he was getting more sex than me.

It got to a point that every time we had sex he suggested it.

When I’ve done it on fab meets they have become obsessed with that and nothing else.

So yeah it affected my relationships both loving ones and nsa ones

"

You must have been very good at it to have your husband and nsa wanting it over anything else.

All you have to do is tell him , I want this then if you do it well I will fuck you if not no play.

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By *rian4u OP   Man
over a year ago

London

How does J feel when B is in control? Does she hand back the reins after or still holds them?

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By *rian4u OP   Man
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep my eye on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, thank you for replying. You cant get much stimulation from the strap on, so is it really the psychological trip you enjoy? "

M has reached orgasm from pegging me quite a few times even without vibration!

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I love seeing the pleasure it gives. I think it is a power and control thing x

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By *rian4u OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"The only penetration sex we have is with a strap on. Me fucking him."

So are you always in charge in your relationship? I see in your profile you encourage him to have sissy/ sub sex. How does that affect your relationship? Do you like to see him humiliated?

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By *rian4u OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Ladies, thank you for replying. You cant get much stimulation from the strap on, so is it really the psychological trip you enjoy?

M has reached orgasm from pegging me quite a few times even without vibration! "

Good for M a fulfilled lady! Does she use a Feeldoe or a usual strap on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is one thing I'm determined to try.

I love my anal toys but like masturbating I'd prefer a woman to be involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, thank you for replying. You cant get much stimulation from the strap on, so is it really the psychological trip you enjoy?

M has reached orgasm from pegging me quite a few times even without vibration!

Good for M a fulfilled lady! Does she use a Feeldoe or a usual strap on? "

Has a strapless and harness type

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By *rian4u OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Ladies, thank you for replying. You cant get much stimulation from the strap on, so is it really the psychological trip you enjoy?

M has reached orgasm from pegging me quite a few times even without vibration!

Good for M a fulfilled lady! Does she use a Feeldoe or a usual strap on?

Has a strapless and harness type"

Which one is preferred to give her the orgasm??.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, thank you for replying. You cant get much stimulation from the strap on, so is it really the psychological trip you enjoy?

M has reached orgasm from pegging me quite a few times even without vibration!

Good for M a fulfilled lady! Does she use a Feeldoe or a usual strap on?

Has a strapless and harness type

Which one is preferred to give her the orgasm??."

She has had successful finishes with both but the vibration from the strapless is a sure thing

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By *h86Man
over a year ago

Glos

One of the most amazing experiences ever, giving everything to a woman and having her in control. Strapless strapons help her experience too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our relationship started out as Dominatrix/ submissive and it was stated quite clearly from the beginning that i would be fucked , so it never changed the dynamic it kinda reinforces it ..

I never fuck her ever , and never do i suggest it and i am happy with that .

And yes she does get off on it , she does enjoy it very much its very much part of her sexuality , she is a sadist . Thats not to say she is a horror , in fact she is caring , its just that hearing me scream turns her on . Thats the way it is ..

The way we are is set in stone and should it ever arise that i was to penetrate her ( which i dont think will ever happen ) Then yes it would change our dynamic completely i would suspect

It works for us ..

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By *rian4u OP   Man
over a year ago

London

It sounds as though you have the perfect match. Thank you for sharing your experience and enjoying your role.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm big fan of it just wish more women where into it

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By *rian4u OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"One of the most amazing experiences ever, giving everything to a woman and having her in control. Strapless strapons help her experience too "

I am sure you are right a tantalising thought and a brave man to give up control for the moment and thereafter as the dynamic of the relationship gets reset.

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By *rian4u OP   Man
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only you ladies were closer

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

no comment

I've been pegged a couple of times. Love it so did she

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it the power is such a turn on for me. I love to see his face whilst I do it too!

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By *rian4u OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I love it the power is such a turn on for me. I love to see his face whilst I do it too! "

Lucky man to have you in charge. Who decides when and where?

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