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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

So I’m relatively new here but I feel that on some of the threads here tensions are building the longer we get in to the lockdown period and cabin fever sets in and people are missing meets and clubs.

It’s going to be a difficult time for a while yet and there’s no end date in sight and may not be for some time. Maybe it’s time to properly support each other and pull together rather than pushing each other away??? It’s ok to challenge people’s views but challenge the view not attacking the person.

If anyone is struggling with lockdown message me I’d be happy to chat and offer support if and when I can.

#BeKind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely thread Martin

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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Lovely thread Martin "

It is right though don’t you think?

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Tension everywhere, fab, Facebook, Insta and Twitter. Everyone wants to air their opinions. Hopefully all will find hobbies or something constructive to do with their time in the next few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a reoccurring pattern. People will snap periodically umbrella of anonymity helps with that too. You stay you and keep sailing and admiring views

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"So I’m relatively new here but I feel that on some of the threads here tensions are building the longer we get in to the lockdown period and cabin fever sets in and people are missing meets and clubs.

It’s going to be a difficult time for a while yet and there’s no end date in sight and may not be for some time. Maybe it’s time to properly support each other and pull together rather than pushing each other away??? It’s ok to challenge people’s views but challenge the view not attacking the person.

If anyone is struggling with lockdown message me I’d be happy to chat and offer support if and when I can.

#BeKind "

Tensions will build but they will pass this is a strange time and we must stick together well not literally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tension everywhere, fab, Facebook, Insta and Twitter. Everyone wants to air their opinions. Hopefully all will find hobbies or something constructive to do with their time in the next few weeks "

What people did before social media.. hmm.

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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Tension everywhere, fab, Facebook, Insta and Twitter. Everyone wants to air their opinions. Hopefully all will find hobbies or something constructive to do with their time in the next few weeks "

True it feels like things are going to boil over everywhere at the moment. Let’s hope people find better ways to cope so we can be nice to each other

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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Tension everywhere, fab, Facebook, Insta and Twitter. Everyone wants to air their opinions. Hopefully all will find hobbies or something constructive to do with their time in the next few weeks

What people did before social media.. hmm."

Get back to racing pigeons and greyhounds haha

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I got told off today by a rude bloke said stay away from me and queue up I don't want your germs he said I said you look as if you need a bath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And it's only been 2 days

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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"So I’m relatively new here but I feel that on some of the threads here tensions are building the longer we get in to the lockdown period and cabin fever sets in and people are missing meets and clubs.

It’s going to be a difficult time for a while yet and there’s no end date in sight and may not be for some time. Maybe it’s time to properly support each other and pull together rather than pushing each other away??? It’s ok to challenge people’s views but challenge the view not attacking the person.

If anyone is struggling with lockdown message me I’d be happy to chat and offer support if and when I can.

#BeKind

Tensions will build but they will pass this is a strange time and we must stick together well not literally."

Sticking together sounds fun. But I know what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the nature of the Internet, some are real and don't put a act on, and some are themselves.. It's a mixed bag, as the majority of forum users are lovely, but there are a minority that act and enjoy whining, whinging and moaning.. It is what it is to me, I knowww who's a laugh and who isn't

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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I got told off today by a rude bloke said stay away from me and queue up I don't want your germs he said I said you look as if you need a bath."

Good how scruffy folk judge clean folk for germs. A trans girl I know told me yesterday how she’d had a go at someone who coughed on her in the supermarket. What’s wrong with people

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Tension everywhere, fab, Facebook, Insta and Twitter. Everyone wants to air their opinions. Hopefully all will find hobbies or something constructive to do with their time in the next few weeks

What people did before social media.. hmm."

I dont think it was used as much... there are a fair whack of people working from home or lost their jobs.

Before social media.... we went out we are kinda fucked huh

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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"It's the nature of the Internet, some are real and don't put a act on, and some are themselves.. It's a mixed bag, as the majority of forum users are lovely, but there are a minority that act and enjoy whining, whinging and moaning.. It is what it is to me, I knowww who's a laugh and who isn't "

I’ll learn from you and stick close to who you get on with

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I got told off today by a rude bloke said stay away from me and queue up I don't want your germs he said I said you look as if you need a bath.

Good how scruffy folk judge clean folk for germs. A trans girl I know told me yesterday how she’d had a go at someone who coughed on her in the supermarket. What’s wrong with people "

He barked at me saying he had a bad chest yet was smoking and stay away from him I said hun don't flatter your self this was outside a chemist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree mentally this is very difficult, along with the financial fallout, and loss of liberty, I wander how many people will find it to much to handle?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I agree mentally this is very difficult, along with the financial fallout, and loss of liberty, I wander how many people will find it to much to handle? "

Plenty

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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I got told off today by a rude bloke said stay away from me and queue up I don't want your germs he said I said you look as if you need a bath.

Good how scruffy folk judge clean folk for germs. A trans girl I know told me yesterday how she’d had a go at someone who coughed on her in the supermarket. What’s wrong with people

He barked at me saying he had a bad chest yet was smoking and stay away from him I said hun don't flatter your self this was outside a chemist"

Remind me at all points not to cross you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the nature of the Internet, some are real and don't put a act on, and some are themselves.. It's a mixed bag, as the majority of forum users are lovely, but there are a minority that act and enjoy whining, whinging and moaning.. It is what it is to me, I knowww who's a laugh and who isn't

I’ll learn from you and stick close to who you get on with "

That thread the other night with that married man and everyone was investigating him was hilarious There's some lovely people on this thread, it's your decision who you like

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I got told off today by a rude bloke said stay away from me and queue up I don't want your germs he said I said you look as if you need a bath.

Good how scruffy folk judge clean folk for germs. A trans girl I know told me yesterday how she’d had a go at someone who coughed on her in the supermarket. What’s wrong with people

He barked at me saying he had a bad chest yet was smoking and stay away from him I said hun don't flatter your self this was outside a chemist

Remind me at all points not to cross you "

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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I agree mentally this is very difficult, along with the financial fallout, and loss of liberty, I wander how many people will find it to much to handle? "

I work in mental health and can see a spike in suicide rates but those won’t get shown as the death toll of corona will out shadow it unfortunately. If any is feeling that way and reads this message me

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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"It's the nature of the Internet, some are real and don't put a act on, and some are themselves.. It's a mixed bag, as the majority of forum users are lovely, but there are a minority that act and enjoy whining, whinging and moaning.. It is what it is to me, I knowww who's a laugh and who isn't

I’ll learn from you and stick close to who you get on with

That thread the other night with that married man and everyone was investigating him was hilarious There's some lovely people on this thread, it's your decision who you like "

Oh I’m capable of making the ultimate decision but I guiding light does help. The other nights thread is a prime example of what I was thinking as nobody was actually nasty despite what he was saying and had done. Proper adulting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree mentally this is very difficult, along with the financial fallout, and loss of liberty, I wander how many people will find it to much to handle? "

Some might be cracking already. Aftermath will be very challenging for mental health services.

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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I agree mentally this is very difficult, along with the financial fallout, and loss of liberty, I wander how many people will find it to much to handle?

Some might be cracking already. Aftermath will be very challenging for mental health services. "

We are already full to bursting in MHS stretched to the max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the nature of the Internet, some are real and don't put a act on, and some are themselves.. It's a mixed bag, as the majority of forum users are lovely, but there are a minority that act and enjoy whining, whinging and moaning.. It is what it is to me, I knowww who's a laugh and who isn't

I’ll learn from you and stick close to who you get on with

That thread the other night with that married man and everyone was investigating him was hilarious There's some lovely people on this thread, it's your decision who you like

Oh I’m capable of making the ultimate decision but I guiding light does help. The other nights thread is a prime example of what I was thinking as nobody was actually nasty despite what he was saying and had done. Proper adulting "

Feel free join in with the threads I'm involve with At the end of the day, it's his choice what he does, but the Sherlock Holmes investigations and quizzing was hilarious

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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"It's the nature of the Internet, some are real and don't put a act on, and some are themselves.. It's a mixed bag, as the majority of forum users are lovely, but there are a minority that act and enjoy whining, whinging and moaning.. It is what it is to me, I knowww who's a laugh and who isn't

I’ll learn from you and stick close to who you get on with

That thread the other night with that married man and everyone was investigating him was hilarious There's some lovely people on this thread, it's your decision who you like

Oh I’m capable of making the ultimate decision but I guiding light does help. The other nights thread is a prime example of what I was thinking as nobody was actually nasty despite what he was saying and had done. Proper adulting

Feel free join in with the threads I'm involve with At the end of the day, it's his choice what he does, but the Sherlock Holmes investigations and quizzing was hilarious "

Will do hun and yes it’s personal choice but least understand where you go wrong haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are going to be very busy, and the financial fallout for a lot of people is massive, why could we not just have a universal income level, like what Labour wanted now, I don't trust the tories with the nhs at all, I certainly did not vote for them, they are a bunch of self serving hypocrites, when after years of austerity and penny pinching we face a crisis and the cracks show. How many people now wish they had voted for real change with Labour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the nature of the Internet, some are real and don't put a act on, and some are themselves.. It's a mixed bag, as the majority of forum users are lovely, but there are a minority that act and enjoy whining, whinging and moaning.. It is what it is to me, I knowww who's a laugh and who isn't

I’ll learn from you and stick close to who you get on with

That thread the other night with that married man and everyone was investigating him was hilarious There's some lovely people on this thread, it's your decision who you like

Oh I’m capable of making the ultimate decision but I guiding light does help. The other nights thread is a prime example of what I was thinking as nobody was actually nasty despite what he was saying and had done. Proper adulting

Feel free join in with the threads I'm involve with At the end of the day, it's his choice what he does, but the Sherlock Holmes investigations and quizzing was hilarious

Will do hun and yes it’s personal choice but least understand where you go wrong haha "

If you press the arrow next to someone's username, you can check out all the posts their invoked with He was in delusion about his mishappenings

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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"It's the nature of the Internet, some are real and don't put a act on, and some are themselves.. It's a mixed bag, as the majority of forum users are lovely, but there are a minority that act and enjoy whining, whinging and moaning.. It is what it is to me, I knowww who's a laugh and who isn't

I’ll learn from you and stick close to who you get on with

That thread the other night with that married man and everyone was investigating him was hilarious There's some lovely people on this thread, it's your decision who you like

Oh I’m capable of making the ultimate decision but I guiding light does help. The other nights thread is a prime example of what I was thinking as nobody was actually nasty despite what he was saying and had done. Proper adulting

Feel free join in with the threads I'm involve with At the end of the day, it's his choice what he does, but the Sherlock Holmes investigations and quizzing was hilarious

Will do hun and yes it’s personal choice but least understand where you go wrong haha

If you press the arrow next to someone's username, you can check out all the posts their invoked with He was in delusion about his mishappenings "

Excellent tip. Love it everyday is a school day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the nature of the Internet, some are real and don't put a act on, and some are themselves.. It's a mixed bag, as the majority of forum users are lovely, but there are a minority that act and enjoy whining, whinging and moaning.. It is what it is to me, I knowww who's a laugh and who isn't

I’ll learn from you and stick close to who you get on with

That thread the other night with that married man and everyone was investigating him was hilarious There's some lovely people on this thread, it's your decision who you like

Oh I’m capable of making the ultimate decision but I guiding light does help. The other nights thread is a prime example of what I was thinking as nobody was actually nasty despite what he was saying and had done. Proper adulting

Feel free join in with the threads I'm involve with At the end of the day, it's his choice what he does, but the Sherlock Holmes investigations and quizzing was hilarious

Will do hun and yes it’s personal choice but least understand where you go wrong haha

If you press the arrow next to someone's username, you can check out all the posts their invoked with He was in delusion about his mishappenings

Excellent tip. Love it everyday is a school day lol "

Awwwww, you're welcome It certainly is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tis a great thread..I ve quit on fb as my few friends seem to think the apocalypse has arrived..lighten the load..accept, overcome, improvise and adapt but most of all stay strong and remember to smile, sing and dance for at least some time each day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tension everywhere, fab, Facebook, Insta and Twitter. Everyone wants to air their opinions. Hopefully all will find hobbies or something constructive to do with their time in the next few weeks

What people did before social media.. hmm.

I dont think it was used as much... there are a fair whack of people working from home or lost their jobs.

Before social media.... we went out we are kinda fucked huh"

Social media is as much a curse as a blessing..I thought people would use it to stay strong, to communicate in a lighter way to ease the situation but instead it seems people are just reproducing the fear and ranting at others..so sad..it's like many now see social media as a right to judge others and have their say. This is the only place I hang out now online.

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

Im avoiding going on faceache too much as the virus is all that’s on there most of the time.

Noticed lots of newbies joining here with usernames that are just a random string of letters. Very strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im avoiding going on faceache too much as the virus is all that’s on there most of the time.

Noticed lots of newbies joining here with usernames that are just a random string of letters. Very strange. "

It’s because many are eating tinned food currently.

What’s the best tinned food ever???

Alphabeti spaghetti!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im avoiding going on faceache too much as the virus is all that’s on there most of the time.

Noticed lots of newbies joining here with usernames that are just a random string of letters. Very strange.

It’s because many are eating tinned food currently.

What’s the best tinned food ever???

Alphabeti spaghetti!!!"

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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Tension everywhere, fab, Facebook, Insta and Twitter. Everyone wants to air their opinions. Hopefully all will find hobbies or something constructive to do with their time in the next few weeks

What people did before social media.. hmm.

I dont think it was used as much... there are a fair whack of people working from home or lost their jobs.

Before social media.... we went out we are kinda fucked huh

Social media is as much a curse as a blessing..I thought people would use it to stay strong, to communicate in a lighter way to ease the situation but instead it seems people are just reproducing the fear and ranting at others..so sad..it's like many now see social media as a right to judge others and have their say. This is the only place I hang out now online. "

I do keep deleting FB but then intrigue takes over so I go back and then go through the love hate cycle again

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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Im avoiding going on faceache too much as the virus is all that’s on there most of the time.

Noticed lots of newbies joining here with usernames that are just a random string of letters. Very strange. "

I’m a newbie on 2 weeks in. Don’t suspect us all. Some of us are genuine

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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There are always tensions building. It’s an ebb and flow scenario on here - it’s not Coronavirus related

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By *artinbob OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Im avoiding going on faceache too much as the virus is all that’s on there most of the time.

Noticed lots of newbies joining here with usernames that are just a random string of letters. Very strange.

It’s because many are eating tinned food currently.

What’s the best tinned food ever???

Alphabeti spaghetti!!!"

Funny mate

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity


"Im avoiding going on faceache too much as the virus is all that’s on there most of the time.

Noticed lots of newbies joining here with usernames that are just a random string of letters. Very strange.

It’s because many are eating tinned food currently.

What’s the best tinned food ever???

Alphabeti spaghetti!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tension everywhere, fab, Facebook, Insta and Twitter. Everyone wants to air their opinions. Hopefully all will find hobbies or something constructive to do with their time in the next few weeks

What people did before social media.. hmm.

I dont think it was used as much... there are a fair whack of people working from home or lost their jobs.

Before social media.... we went out we are kinda fucked huh

Social media is as much a curse as a blessing..I thought people would use it to stay strong, to communicate in a lighter way to ease the situation but instead it seems people are just reproducing the fear and ranting at others..so sad..it's like many now see social media as a right to judge others and have their say. This is the only place I hang out now online.

I do keep deleting FB but then intrigue takes over so I go back and then go through the love hate cycle again "

Same here..went back on a few weeks ago but kept friends list very very low. .my total meltdown a few years back followed by living life of a drifter taught me the value of true friends only.

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