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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Was talking with a friend, and I just happened to mention that on meets with couples from the start of play I'm there for around two hours (stop start two hours).

She said why so long, she said that if I was with a single woman, then all day isn't a problem

So the question goes out to couples or people who were part of a couple.

How long is too long?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Too long for a man but a woman can take longer?

Your friend is sexist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 hours hardly seems worth shaving my legs for

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Too long for a man but a woman can take longer?

Your friend is sexist"

Fab is a sexist world mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 hours hardly seems worth shaving my legs for "

I like stubble, feels good on my tongue

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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago

N Peterborough.

We'd say 2 hours is a minimum. Had a guy meet us who was in and out in an hour, we were both left wondering what we said or did.

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"2 hours hardly seems worth shaving my legs for "

Theres no time limit re a single woman I get that. With a single woman it's do I stay over or not.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"Too long for a man but a woman can take longer?

Your friend is sexist

Fab is a sexist world mate.

"

Too true geezer.

I hope you are keeping well

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not sure why there should be a difference between a man and a woman. I wouldnt like it if my meet disappeared after two hrs hardly seems worth going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was talking with a friend, and I just happened to mention that on meets with couples from the start of play I'm there for around two hours (stop start two hours).

She said why so long, she said that if I was with a single woman, then all day isn't a problem

So the question goes out to couples or people who were part of a couple.

How long is too long?"

How can u even try and think of what is too long ?

It all depends on the people

The arrangements u have

How well u get along etc there are too many factors to be thinking how long is too long, it all depends on the situation and the meet ?

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"2 hours hardly seems worth shaving my legs for "

D.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Two hours minimum.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on the type of experience wanted, if it's a play and go session then 1-2 hours is plenty of time to accomplish that. If longer is wanted by all then that can be agreed before the meet.

Usually we would make our availability known through the chat when planning the meet.

We play with a couple a few times a year and when we get together we love to have a full weekend with them as much as possible.

It would be nice to have a single guy or female join us for an overnight stay but that would need to be worked towards through a few shorter meets first. To build up the comfort levels more than anything.

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Too long for a man but a woman can take longer?

Your friend is sexist

Fab is a sexist world mate.

Too true geezer.

I hope you are keeping well"

I'm good, just waiting for this bubble to burst to get going again

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

If it's in a club then it takes however long or short it takes to play but outside of a club I much prefer a longer thing as I want to social side of things too.

I've not had many meets at all from here but the shortest one was over 24 hours, the longer one was 2 days and both were so much better because it wasnt all about sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in a club it takes one minute tops no names no eye contact no sanitiser just straight in

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"It all depends on the type of experience wanted, if it's a play and go session then 1-2 hours is plenty of time to accomplish that. If longer is wanted by all then that can be agreed before the meet.

Usually we would make our availability known through the chat when planning the meet.

We play with a couple a few times a year and when we get together we love to have a full weekend with them as much as possible.

It would be nice to have a single guy or female join us for an overnight stay but that would need to be worked towards through a few shorter meets first. To build up the comfort levels more than anything. "

I hear you, but if the meet is not a f.c.u.k and go meet, then giving me a time limit (with which I've never had before) your saying that she has a point

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity


"We'd say 2 hours is a minimum. Had a guy meet us who was in and out in an hour, we were both left wondering what we said or did."

Probably had to get back to his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It all depends on the type of experience wanted, if it's a play and go session then 1-2 hours is plenty of time to accomplish that. If longer is wanted by all then that can be agreed before the meet.

Usually we would make our availability known through the chat when planning the meet.

We play with a couple a few times a year and when we get together we love to have a full weekend with them as much as possible.

It would be nice to have a single guy or female join us for an overnight stay but that would need to be worked towards through a few shorter meets first. To build up the comfort levels more than anything.

I hear you, but if the meet is not a f.c.u.k and go meet, then giving me a time limit (with which I've never had before) your saying that she has a point"
yes but i find it annoying when the guy keeps looking at his watch while hes filming

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Min 4 hours or I dont bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Min 4 hours or I dont bother."
me too

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Min 4 hours or I dont bother.me too "

However, I find some people like to say "all night long" but in reality they mean 3-4 hours and complain when I'm not ready to Cum.

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London


"We'd say 2 hours is a minimum. Had a guy meet us who was in and out in an hour, we were both left wondering what we said or did.

Probably had to get back to his wife. "

Nice pair of bog rolls there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Min 4 hours or I dont bother.me too

However, I find some people like to say "all night long" but in reality they mean 3-4 hours and complain when I'm not ready to Cum. "
well yes why would they want to let you hear them snoring

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"Too long for a man but a woman can take longer?

Your friend is sexist

Fab is a sexist world mate.

Too true geezer.

I hope you are keeping well

I'm good, just waiting for this bubble to burst to get going again "

Top man, stay safe

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Min 4 hours or I dont bother.me too

However, I find some people like to say "all night long" but in reality they mean 3-4 hours and complain when I'm not ready to Cum. "

It's when Mr Husband says

"Where do you want to cum, face or belly"

And like a woman, I never cum on demand

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I set aside the entire day for a meet - time flies so fast 2 hrs would be whoosh - what just happened- i love taking time - no point rushing something you want to remember.

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I set aside the entire day for a meet - time flies so fast 2 hrs would be whoosh - what just happened- i love taking time - no point rushing something you want to remember. "

I'm talking min 2hrs play time, that's excluding getting to know you chat

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"It all depends on the type of experience wanted, if it's a play and go session then 1-2 hours is plenty of time to accomplish that. If longer is wanted by all then that can be agreed before the meet.

Usually we would make our availability known through the chat when planning the meet.

We play with a couple a few times a year and when we get together we love to have a full weekend with them as much as possible.

It would be nice to have a single guy or female join us for an overnight stay but that would need to be worked towards through a few shorter meets first. To build up the comfort levels more than anything. "

Agree completely! - if someone stayed with you overnight would you

Be upset if they farted in their sleep... asking for a friend obviously!!

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By *edonistic CPLCouple
over a year ago

Love


"2 hours hardly seems worth shaving my legs for "

Love this!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

As for staying overnight no way thats for extra special people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was talking with a friend, and I just happened to mention that on meets with couples from the start of play I'm there for around two hours (stop start two hours).

She said why so long, she said that if I was with a single woman, then all day isn't a problem

So the question goes out to couples or people who were part of a couple.

How long is too long?"
17 hours thats far to long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It all depends on the type of experience wanted, if it's a play and go session then 1-2 hours is plenty of time to accomplish that. If longer is wanted by all then that can be agreed before the meet.

Usually we would make our availability known through the chat when planning the meet.

We play with a couple a few times a year and when we get together we love to have a full weekend with them as much as possible.

It would be nice to have a single guy or female join us for an overnight stay but that would need to be worked towards through a few shorter meets first. To build up the comfort levels more than anything.

Agree completely! - if someone stayed with you overnight would you

Be upset if they farted in their sleep... asking for a friend obviously!! "

Omg that would be so funny but not if it was done by me... I would be sooo embarrassed

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