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By *ands on worker OP   Man
over a year ago

wellingborough

Anyone else missing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep... I was sent home from work today until further notice, everyone was so sad and all we wanted was to hug, it is just so alien and I never felt so disconnected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That and intelligent adult conversation too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, people are idiots. I'm kind of glad to be away from some for a while

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

No but then I'm not a very tactile person,more visually stimulated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I walk to work and people no longer even make eye contact or smile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course we are, we are a social animals, we can’t live individually, it’s distressing but we have to go through it as it doesn’t seem any other way..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a squirt of hand sanitiser and a lovely smile from my cashier at the co op today. Was rather lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else missing that "

Yes. Desperately

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By *ings66Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I walk to work and people no longer even make eye contact or smile! "

Very true people do not tend to be friendly nowadays it is hard to get a smile from a person but some do smile back and can make the day go better.

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By *ands on worker OP   Man
over a year ago

wellingborough


"I got a squirt of hand sanitiser and a lovely smile from my cashier at the co op today. Was rather lovely "

I love a coop .

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Do this mean that people might be able to go outside one day, not holding on to their phone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Fuck sakes!

Ok you can't hug (or shag randoms )but we can Skype, text, ring, email or even write (whatever next !!)to the people you know and love.

Stop whinging and one way or another contact everyone you know to let them know you're thinking of them and you're there for them.

Me and the child sent a whole load of cards out through the post on Saturday and we've been getting thankyou messages today saying we've brightened peoples day.

So get your finger out and get on with it.

It ain't all about you.

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Yes feeling very lost and lonely.

So tomorrow I'm going to sit down with the kids and write letters to folks in a nursing home. Bet they're lonely too with no visitors.

Maybe will make someone smile a little

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Yes feeling very lost and lonely.

So tomorrow I'm going to sit down with the kids and write letters to folks in a nursing home. Bet they're lonely too with no visitors.

Maybe will make someone smile a little "

What a great idea! We will do this too. Excellent idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes feeling very lost and lonely.

So tomorrow I'm going to sit down with the kids and write letters to folks in a nursing home. Bet they're lonely too with no visitors.

Maybe will make someone smile a little "

Love this x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Yes I'm really suffering.. but I will confess to having lots of hugs at home x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes feeling very lost and lonely.

So tomorrow I'm going to sit down with the kids and write letters to folks in a nursing home. Bet they're lonely too with no visitors.

Maybe will make someone smile a little "

What a amazing thing to do. I’m frontline and know this will be very much appreciate

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yes feeling very lost and lonely.

So tomorrow I'm going to sit down with the kids and write letters to folks in a nursing home. Bet they're lonely too with no visitors.

Maybe will make someone smile a little "

I'm doing phone calls for the isolated. It lifts my spirits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else missing that "

It's ok to be missing it, but just think how great it will be when you first get to hug someone.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"That and intelligent adult conversation too"

Well you've come to the wrong site if you expect that on here

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Yes feeling very lost and lonely.

So tomorrow I'm going to sit down with the kids and write letters to folks in a nursing home. Bet they're lonely too with no visitors.

Maybe will make someone smile a little "

So nice to see something like this outside of the trivial "oh I'm bored" and "I miss this thing" whining with no attempt to do something constructive or positive. It's a trying time for everyone but digital contact goes a long way towards negating isolation. We live in an amazing time with technology that can keep us in contact with anyone in the world (provided connection both ends!).

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"That and intelligent adult conversation too

Well you've come to the wrong site if you expect that on here "

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

It's only uncomfortable if your uncomfortable in your own company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That and intelligent adult conversation too

Well you've come to the wrong site if you expect that on here

"

You'd be surprised what pops into my inbox

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Fuck sakes!

Ok you can't hug (or shag randoms )but we can Skype, text, ring, email or even write (whatever next !!)to the people you know and love.

Stop whinging and one way or another contact everyone you know to let them know you're thinking of them and you're there for them.

Me and the child sent a whole load of cards out through the post on Saturday and we've been getting thankyou messages today saying we've brightened peoples day.

So get your finger out and get on with it.

It ain't all about you.

"

You realise this can be transferred by touching the cards right?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I'm checking on friends that live alone to make sure they are OK. I will message them daily to just check in.

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By *oneypot40Woman
over a year ago

Taunton

God Yes! I'm very tactile and although I still see people at work ( I'm a key worker in social care) not being able to see or hug my grandaughter and friends, or put a reassuring arm around people at work feels so strange. Looking forward to squeezing everyone skinny when this is over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I walk to work and people no longer even make eye contact or smile! "

It's like we've all moved to london

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Anyone else missing that "

I'm very tactile, missing touch so much right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is virus related ... Ppl should get a grip. It's been only a day that the lockdown is official and ppl talk like if it has been years they haven't been in touch with another human !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want human contact the NHS is looking for volunteers !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ..

I think it’s a bit premature to be saying we miss contact.

Let’s put it into perspective shall we ...

It’s dangerous

It’s life threatening

Right now, I think not hugging someone or seeing family is something we have to suck up.

I get it , I really do but there are some out there without enough food to eat, let alone not being able to see anyone.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I'm classed as a critical worker (factory). so I'm still going to work.

I live on my own and the self isolating thing is something I've got a blackbelt in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That and intelligent adult conversation too"

My experience also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

, ‘ , ‘ , ‘ , ‘ , ‘ , ‘ , ‘ ,

, ‘ , ‘ , ‘ , ‘ , ‘, ‘ , ‘ ,

,_,_,_,__,

/_,_,_/__\ .;’;';.

l____l_[]_l ,)(,

Stay at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easier for me to overdose human contact rather than opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us have already been in isolation for a week

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By *oneypot40Woman
over a year ago

Taunton

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By *oneypot40Woman
over a year ago

Taunton


", ‘ , ‘ , ‘ , ‘ , ‘ , ‘ , ‘ ,

, ‘ , ‘ , ‘ , ‘ , ‘, ‘ , ‘ ,

,_,_,_,__,

/_,_,_/__\ .;’;';.

l____l_[]_l ,)(,

Stay at home"

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