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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just realised with all this stuff going on I'm burying my head in the sand. I'm avoiding that forum section, not really engaging with social media and just occasionally watching the news.

It got me thinking about how we deal with a crisis.

What do you do? Hide and wait for things to blow over? Actively seek information? Go out of your way to help yourself and others?

Is the way you're reacting what you'd have expected? I am normally one for learning about things, I want to understand the world and the things that happen, I'm a bit shocked at how I've been

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'm avoiding the statistics until they're meaningful.

Which they'll never be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just realised with all this stuff going on I'm burying my head in the sand. I'm avoiding that forum section, not really engaging with social media and just occasionally watching the news.

It got me thinking about how we deal with a crisis.

What do you do? Hide and wait for things to blow over? Actively seek information? Go out of your way to help yourself and others?

Is the way you're reacting what you'd have expected? I am normally one for learning about things, I want to understand the world and the things that happen, I'm a bit shocked at how I've been "

It’s all to distressing I know exactly where your coming from we just have to get through this anyway we can so you deal with it your way

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Better for mental health to avoid information overload.

People quacking and flapping isn't going to make anything better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Better for mental health to avoid information overload.

People quacking and flapping isn't going to make anything better.

"

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m reacting how I would expect

I’m watching BBC news to keep updated

I’m taking it seriously

I’m happy to help others if and where I can

As we need to!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I determine reliable sources and binge on them. It's not healthy. My anxiety is a mess.

I'm finding my voluntary work calming and grounding. Purpose, doing something to bring some good into the world.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I’m ignoring the news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am Groot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am trying to be practical and level headed.

My thought process wants to know everything there is to know about the situation and it's impact.

At the moment I am just trying to do what is being asked and taking each day as it comes now

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I found out two days ago that I'm more vulnerable than I thought, given what we know. I'm glad I know so I'm extra careful.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm currently open and learning about it but I may disconnect at some point, when there's little to learn other than health damage staristics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found out two days ago that I'm more vulnerable than I thought, given what we know. I'm glad I know so I'm extra careful."

Take care, it is crazy times.

I am vulnerable too and thought I was invincible. My boss thinks differently so now observing social distancing, which is good she did because I would never would of made that choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I avoid, then deny, get a little bit cross, then just do whatever it takes, then find a way to help out. My disbelief at the weirdness if it all is out weighing my panic currently, I will get my organised head on soon which calms all the wobbles and be back positive and a little bit darkly humouros (how is that spelt?)

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral


"I’m reacting how I would expect

I’m watching BBC news to keep updated

I’m taking it seriously

I’m happy to help others if and where I can

As we need to! "

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral


"I am trying to be practical and level headed.

My thought process wants to know everything there is to know about the situation and it's impact.

At the moment I am just trying to do what is being asked and taking each day as it comes now

"

Best way same here

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Think I'm paying too much attention to the news and online media.

Got to get the right level of information and facts to keep informed.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I found out two days ago that I'm more vulnerable than I thought, given what we know. I'm glad I know so I'm extra careful.

Take care, it is crazy times.

I am vulnerable too and thought I was invincible. My boss thinks differently so now observing social distancing, which is good she did because I would never would of made that choice"

I'm probably still low risk, but apparently autoimmune disease might mean more severe illness. I'm being really careful. Thank you.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"I just realised with all this stuff going on I'm burying my head in the sand. I'm avoiding that forum section, not really engaging with social media and just occasionally watching the news.

It got me thinking about how we deal with a crisis.

What do you do? Hide and wait for things to blow over? Actively seek information? Go out of your way to help yourself and others?

Is the way you're reacting what you'd have expected? I am normally one for learning about things, I want to understand the world and the things that happen, I'm a bit shocked at how I've been "

I’m exactly the same only I’m not shocked it’s just the way I’ve always been ..

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It fills my days, I have to keep a close watch on global developments for my job, it all impacts my supply chain.

My anxiety is through the roof, so I try very hard to avoid it of an evening and weekend - it can consume my 8-5 but it's not getting the rest.

I miss being able to destress by swimming or by having sex, physical tension isn't helping.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Do not put tv or radio on til daily updates.

Taking it a day at a time. Im still working.

Cant imagine the stress some people have if they cant.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

For some time now (pre virus) I have avoided the news and such as it is full of sadness and other negativity. And there is nothing I can do to change things!

As for the virus, I feel I need to know enough to make good decisions but not to dwell on statistics and scare myself more than I already am.

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