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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A bit different but I have some nice big dildos ordered and I'm looking for advice on how to start using them on myself.

I've ordered 2 that are different textures but they are both big and girthy, I've not done anything like this before so seeing if any of you know the best way to start

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Start small and probably in the shower so you can use plenty of lube or shower gel and use your fingers first to get used to it....you won't be putting anything girthy up there for a while till you get used to it lol

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By *obbly2000Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

Slowly for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get anal butt plugs. You get a beginners set, which come in different sizes and start off small. Lube up, start with the smallest, when that’s comfortable, try the text size up. Etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Start small and probably in the shower so you can use plenty of lube or shower gel and use your fingers first to get used to it....you won't be putting anything girthy up there for a while till you get used to it lol "

I think I'll be alright with the size

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Start small and probably in the shower so you can use plenty of lube or shower gel and use your fingers first to get used to it....you won't be putting anything girthy up there for a while till you get used to it lol

I think I'll be alright with the size "

This is one time where the saying no pain no gain doesnt work very well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like pain though

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I wdnt use shower gel either lube all the way n girthy first time isnt a good idea u need to start small

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like the idea of strengthening straight away though

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Get the biggest one you can find, poke it up through the trampoline and then bounce as high as you can before sticking your legs out in front of you and landing on your arse, on the dildo.

Dry

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Lube. Lots of it. I'd say get something small but you seem set on using girthy. Well its your ass thats going to hurt. So lube it up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like pain though "

Yeah there’s pain and then there’s tearing your arsehole open and needing it stitched back together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the idea of strengthening straight away though"

It doesn’t work like that, but by all means, go ahead. Let us know how it goes when you end up in a&e and you aren’t a priority. You won’t need to push to shit anymore anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like pain though "

Oh, well, just ram it in dry, then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big and girthy and anal in the same sentence does make my eyes water. All the lube, start with your fingers if you're flexible enough then stretch a bit to the dildo tip, relax and slide back on and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the idea of strengthening straight away though

It doesn’t work like that, but by all means, go ahead. Let us know how it goes when you end up in a&e and you aren’t a priority. You won’t need to push to shit anymore anyway "

“ I fell on it honestly doctor, it was an accident “

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Get the biggest one you can find, poke it up through the trampoline and then bounce as high as you can before sticking your legs out in front of you and landing on your arse, on the dildo.

Dry "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I might order some line too then, looking forward to it and seeing how it feels to have something so big in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might order some line too then, looking forward to it and seeing how it feels to have something so big in me "

Just use some cooking oil, you'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I might order some line too then, looking forward to it and seeing how it feels to have something so big in me

Just use some cooking oil, you'll be fine. "

Nah I wont need to, I'm sure i can take a bit of burn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might order some line too then, looking forward to it and seeing how it feels to have something so big in me

Just use some cooking oil, you'll be fine. "

Spry Crisp and Dry should work a treat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might order some line too then, looking forward to it and seeing how it feels to have something so big in me

Just use some cooking oil, you'll be fine.

Nah I wont need to, I'm sure i can take a bit of burn"

I've seen your bumhole, I think you probably can too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick it to the floor, climb wardrobe, triple somersault to the chandelier and drop in dry. Be rite!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stick it to the floor, climb wardrobe, triple somersault to the chandelier and drop in dry. Be rite! "

Now that's hardcore!!

Thanks for the idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I might order some line too then, looking forward to it and seeing how it feels to have something so big in me

Just use some cooking oil, you'll be fine.

Nah I wont need to, I'm sure i can take a bit of burn

I've seen your bumhole, I think you probably can too. "

And I'm yet to see yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick it to the floor, climb wardrobe, triple somersault to the chandelier and drop in dry. Be rite!

Now that's hardcore!!

Thanks for the idea"

Here to help!

Or you could go with the graduated butt plugs and lube and work your way up to it like a person with sense!

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Start small and probably in the shower so you can use plenty of lube or shower gel and use your fingers first to get used to it....you won't be putting anything girthy up there for a while till you get used to it lol

I think I'll be alright with the size "

It's your assholes funeral mate. Start small and slow unless you want tears

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stick it to the floor, climb wardrobe, triple somersault to the chandelier and drop in dry. Be rite!

Now that's hardcore!!

Thanks for the idea

Here to help!

Or you could go with the graduated butt plugs and lube and work your way up to it like a person with sense!"

I was not blessed with sense, just charm and looks

So I'll try your first idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Start small and probably in the shower so you can use plenty of lube or shower gel and use your fingers first to get used to it....you won't be putting anything girthy up there for a while till you get used to it lol

I think I'll be alright with the size

It's your assholes funeral mate. Start small and slow unless you want tears"

I can get it stitched back up then do it again

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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