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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

Why do some people take offence with a polite 'thanks but no thanks' they seriously need to take a chill pill!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is this a repeat

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

yeah - more than likely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people are just nobs lol always polite when i get no thanks because not many people say that, normally just get ignored. at least they took the time to reply

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

probably for the same reason kids throw a paddy when you take away their favorite toy or their bag of sweeties

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"some people are just nobs lol always polite when i get no thanks because not many people say that, normally just get ignored. at least they took the time to reply "

lol- they took the time to reply alright - wish they hadn't, they obviously can handle rejection - boo hoo!!

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

lol - that should read 'can't' handle.....

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By *ricky_DickyMan
over a year ago

Mirfield

Some people just can't take being knocked back, me I'm delighted if I get a reply even if it's a no thanks.

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Some people just can't take being knocked back, me I'm delighted if I get a reply even if it's a no thanks."

bless you, thats really sweet - we do try to be polite but i suppose the printed word can look a bit stark sometimes

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea


"Some people just can't take being knocked back, me I'm delighted if I get a reply even if it's a no thanks.

bless you, thats really sweet - we do try to be polite but i suppose the printed word can look a bit stark sometimes"

hmmmmm you just told me to fook off lol ( only kidding lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people take offence with a polite 'thanks but no thanks' they seriously need to take a chill pill!!!"

I get that too, and have to block a number of gents as they do not get the hint I am really not interested in them

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Why do some people take offence with a polite 'thanks but no thanks' they seriously need to take a chill pill!!!

I get that too, and have to block a number of gents as they do not get the hint I am really not interested in them "

It's a shame really, we don't take it personally if we get a knock back, just move on!

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

its a lottery sometimes your number comes up sometimes it don't, but you still play the next week, swinging is much the same, you win sometimes and sometimes you loose, you just throw the dise and hope you get a winner

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"its a lottery sometimes your number comes up sometimes it don't, but you still play the next week, swinging is much the same, you win sometimes and sometimes you loose, you just throw the dise and hope you get a winner "

That is soooo patronising - sorry to say that as I am totaly non controversial - but couldn't help myself! We've been swinging for about 4 years now, had lots and lots of fun and the thread was really just a throwaway comment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people take offence with a polite 'thanks but no thanks' they seriously need to take a chill pill!!!"

As horrible as it sounds, if someone sends us a message that just isn't what we are looking for, we will send a polite message back then block the person.

we are on the site for fun like others... not to get grief because we don't want to meet them.

we have been rejected before, but didn't go mardy about it, not everyone is for everyone

Tony

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea


"its a lottery sometimes your number comes up sometimes it don't, but you still play the next week, swinging is much the same, you win sometimes and sometimes you loose, you just throw the dise and hope you get a winner

That is soooo patronising - sorry to say that as I am totaly non controversial - but couldn't help myself! We've been swinging for about 4 years now, had lots and lots of fun and the thread was really just a throwaway comment!"

well my comment was a throw away comment just thrown into the mix to see what raction it would achive ( sorry if it caused offence)

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Why do some people take offence with a polite 'thanks but no thanks' they seriously need to take a chill pill!!!

As horrible as it sounds, if someone sends us a message that just isn't what we are looking for, we will send a polite message back then block the person.

we are on the site for fun like others... not to get grief because we don't want to meet them.

we have been rejected before, but didn't go mardy about it, not everyone is for everyone

Tony"

Totally agree - well bath then more fun for me!!!

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Why do some people take offence with a polite 'thanks but no thanks' they seriously need to take a chill pill!!!"

I have only had two that wrote something nasty when I said a very polite no thanks. One was really stroppy and continued bombarding me. My profile states quite clearly that I won't reply without seeing a pic and also if people are way under 40, he was 30 and had no pic but I still relpied to say no thanks. Had to block eventually. Most people however do say thanks for replying even though its to say no.

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea


"Why do some people take offence with a polite 'thanks but no thanks' they seriously need to take a chill pill!!!

I have only had two that wrote something nasty when I said a very polite no thanks. One was really stroppy and continued bombarding me. My profile states quite clearly that I won't reply without seeing a pic and also if people are way under 40, he was 30 and had no pic but I still relpied to say no thanks. Had to block eventually. Most people however do say thanks for replying even though its to say no. "

it's only right to say thank you even if the reply was a no thank you

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