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"mm... maybe not banned but a switch off rule unless your on year obreak " teachers are saying they are a nightmare, kids are far too interested in phones and they disrupt lessons | |||
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"I thought they already were " nope,lots of schools tell pupils they will get their phones confiscated if they get caught using them,but they are allowed to have them | |||
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"my sons school run a policy of they are allowed to take them to school but hand them in after assembly on silent mode then get them back break times " That sound a good idea | |||
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"No,as my day starts knowing my daughters at school safe,plus the fact school couldnt find her the other day and rang me saying why isnt she in school.....to which i replied unless aliens have kidnapped her i think you will find shes there....so i rang her in lesson and proceded to tell her the stoopid woman with the patronising attitude assumes your bunking...please go tell her your there with the deputy head doing interviews....so good job she had her phone in school or id have been one mum in panic mode.....i mean those poor aliens wouldnt stand a chance with her " but is she was in the building they would have found her by checking registers etc...i still dont think they are a necessity | |||
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"my sons school run a policy of they are allowed to take them to school but hand them in after assembly on silent mode then get them back break times " Makes sense | |||
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"No,as my day starts knowing my daughters at school safe,plus the fact school couldnt find her the other day and rang me saying why isnt she in school.....to which i replied unless aliens have kidnapped her i think you will find shes there....so i rang her in lesson and proceded to tell her the stoopid woman with the patronising attitude assumes your bunking...please go tell her your there with the deputy head doing interviews....so good job she had her phone in school or id have been one mum in panic mode.....i mean those poor aliens wouldnt stand a chance with her but is she was in the building they would have found her by checking registers etc...i still dont think they are a necessity " we had the same thing with our son we got a call from the school saying he wasnt there so we rang him and he went straight to the school recepstion and he was there at registration but the stupid idiot teacher hadnt marked him as in school | |||
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"We recently brought our daughter one as she has starting walking to and from school on her own ( I don't like her doing it but know that I can't wrap her up in cotton wool forever ) She has to ring me when she gets to school so I know she has arrived safe and sound. She also has to ring me if she is going to be late on the way home. If mobiles were banned from schools then she wouldn't be able to do this and I would worry even more. But do think that they should have to be handed in or locked away during lesson times." now that i agree with | |||
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"I think it is a brilliant idea. If a parent needs to get hold of a child in emergency or vise versa then can always go through the school. I also think they should be banned from restarants. If a babysitter has a problem they can ring the restaurant." i mean ... ffs.. we managed quite well without them in the past | |||
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"I think it is a brilliant idea. If a parent needs to get hold of a child in emergency or vise versa then can always go through the school. I also think they should be banned from restarants. If a babysitter has a problem they can ring the restaurant." theres a local pub that has them banned | |||
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"The world wasnt as evil back then....i for one am glad my daughter as her mobile phone at school,shes very responsible and respectful and knows not to use it in class..butu i know if i need to get in contact asap i can and vice versa" The world wasn't evil? Your taking the piss surely? Ian Brady.(1960s)Fred West (1970s) Peter Suttcliffe (1980s), Jon Venables & Robert Thompson (1990's) Ian Huntley (2002). Kids don't need phones within the school full stop locker as they arrive and collect when they leave and off at all times. A child who has it switched on in lessons should be punished. | |||
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"Dont take the piss at all ...theres always been evil and as i said wasnt as evil....kids only ha e to step outside they get shot/ stabbed etc....and if having a mobile phone gives being a parent peace of mind knowing where ya kids are then im all for it....maybe we should punish the adults who should be working but are on phones" Well I have never heard of a mobile phone stopping a bullet, preventing a mugging (although kids are mugged for them) or saving a child from being abducted. It worries me that some parents think a phone will keep a child safe as its not the case. The reference to adults and punishing them makes no sense at all in context to phones in schools though what made you say that in the context of the thread? | |||
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"Thanks for pointing out a phone canny stop a bullet.....im a single parent and like to know my daughters is safe at school and on the way home if i dont get a txt i would worry.....not apolgising for being a caring parent and if you read all of the thread adults have been mentioned ..ie teachers txting etc" Then take her there yourself, and collect her. That's the only way to be absolutely sure and worry-free. | |||
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"Thanks for pointing out a phone canny stop a bullet.....im a single parent and like to know my daughters is safe at school and on the way home if i dont get a txt i would worry.....not apolgising for being a caring parent and if you read all of the thread adults have been mentioned ..ie teachers txting etc" The thread is about phones IN schools not to and from so you really don't have a point there. It really sounds as though you are trying to justify your child having its phone on in a classroom so you can contact them during lessons. You might find your child learns more with one less distraction. | |||
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"Thanks for pointing out a phone canny stop a bullet.....im a single parent and like to know my daughters is safe at school and on the way home if i dont get a txt i would worry.....not apolgising for being a caring parent and if you read all of the thread adults have been mentioned ..ie teachers txting etc Then take her there yourself, and collect her. That's the only way to be absolutely sure and worry-free." I am in total agreement with that if you are unsure your child is going to school or isn't safe going to school the simple answer is to make sure they are accompanied by you or someone you trust. | |||
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"Thanks for pointing out a phone canny stop a bullet.....im a single parent and like to know my daughters is safe at school and on the way home if i dont get a txt i would worry.....not apolgising for being a caring parent and if you read all of the thread adults have been mentioned ..ie teachers txting etc The thread is about phones IN schools not to and from so you really don't have a point there. It really sounds as though you are trying to justify your child having its phone on in a classroom so you can contact them during lessons. You might find your child learns more with one less distraction. " As said earlier my daughter as respect and is responsible so wouldnt be on her phone...its on silent as atm we have a very ill relative and if i need to get incontact with her..ohh and btw my daughter is a straight A student and the only time id contact her is if there was a emergency. | |||
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"Would your 16 want you to take them to school??? Doubt it." Drop them off nearby, that's what I'd do. My 14y/o lives with her mum down south so I have no control of how she gets to and from school, but as it's only an 800 metre walk and she crosses no roads at all to get there we don't worry about her. She meets friends along the way too. And yes, she's used her mobile in class and been daft enough to post a photo on FB, to which she was told that once more and she loses it. She's at school to learn. | |||
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"Would your 16 want you to take them to school??? Doubt it." At 16 a child can leave home, have a baby and should be self reliant! Are you an over protective parent that doesn't encourage independence? The way you were talking I thought your child was under 11. | |||
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"maybe schools can get some sort of signal suppressor that kills the signals ??? im not tech enuff but if possible they cud simply switch it off during breaks and lunch." Difficult one that as adults in the school grounds aren't subject to the same rules as children, plus it is diffult to supress a signal right up to the school's boundaries and no further, so nearby houses would be affected as well as businesses that rely on being contactable whilst mobile. | |||
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"maybe schools can get some sort of signal suppressor that kills the signals ??? im not tech enuff but if possible they cud simply switch it off during breaks and lunch. Difficult one that as adults in the school grounds aren't subject to the same rules as children, plus it is diffult to supress a signal right up to the school's boundaries and no further, so nearby houses would be affected as well as businesses that rely on being contactable whilst mobile." No, commercially available jammers have been around for years and with careful antenna sighting can keep the signal blockage just to within the premises. The cell system signals are that strong that the impact of such a device is usually very localised anyway. Wolf | |||
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"Do i take it your not a parent....you know nothing how i raise my child and im not going to explain anything to you." You take it wrong I am a parent but a responsible one who doesn't encourage my child to break rules. How you attempt to raise your child is your affair but as you brought her up in the thread and mentioned you contacted her in the middle of a lesson means people can reply. | |||
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"The school boundary and affecting others a valid point...but surely any adult deemed at work in the play area shud not be using a fone and there for a reson....like child safty ?" Groundsmen. Cleaners. Maintenance men. Ok, they could use walkie talkies and many do so maybe that's not a good argument for a signal suppressor. | |||
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"Do i take it your not a parent....you know nothing how i raise my child and im not going to explain anything to you. You take it wrong I am a parent but a responsible one who doesn't encourage my child to break rules. How you attempt to raise your child is your affair but as you brought her up in the thread and mentioned you contacted her in the middle of a lesson means people can reply. " He does have a point. She shouldn't have even answered her phone. | |||
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"The school boundary and affecting others a valid point...but surely any adult deemed at work in the play area shud not be using a fone and there for a reson....like child safty ? Groundsmen. Cleaners. Maintenance men. Ok, they could use walkie talkies and many do so maybe that's not a good argument for a signal suppressor. " normal handheld radios and the like wouldn't be affected. It's a very targetted jammer. Wolf | |||
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"maybe schools can get some sort of signal suppressor that kills the signals ??? im not tech enuff but if possible they cud simply switch it off during breaks and lunch. Difficult one that as adults in the school grounds aren't subject to the same rules as children, plus it is diffult to supress a signal right up to the school's boundaries and no further, so nearby houses would be affected as well as businesses that rely on being contactable whilst mobile. No, commercially available jammers have been around for years and with careful antenna sighting can keep the signal blockage just to within the premises. The cell system signals are that strong that the impact of such a device is usually very localised anyway. Wolf " I stand corrected. The technology has moved on somewhat lol | |||
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" ps. if a parent is that worried about their child arriving at school safely they'd take the kid there themselves cos if someone decides to abduct your child her mobile phone isn't going to be an effective weapon to fend her attacker off." (See my earlier post) Our daughter is due to start senior school in september so has very recently started walking to school and back on her own. Do I like her doing it, No! Do I worry, Yes! Deep down I know that a mobile isn't a magic wand or an effective weapon but it just makes me (and her) feel that little bit better. It's not always just about being concerned about abductors, it's so if she is concerned or worried about anything she can ring and ask. | |||
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" ps. if a parent is that worried about their child arriving at school safely they'd take the kid there themselves cos if someone decides to abduct your child her mobile phone isn't going to be an effective weapon to fend her attacker off. (See my earlier post) Our daughter is due to start senior school in september so has very recently started walking to school and back on her own. Do I like her doing it, No! Do I worry, Yes! Deep down I know that a mobile isn't a magic wand or an effective weapon but it just makes me (and her) feel that little bit better. It's not always just about being concerned about abductors, it's so if she is concerned or worried about anything she can ring and ask." I understand that. My daughter takes her phone too even though she knows if the school catch her using it in the school grounds she loses it until the next half term. They even have on their website that they categorically refuse to get involved with irate parents demanding their child's phone is returned. I've also told her that if it ever happens I'll cancel the contract that I'm paying even after she's got the phone back. | |||
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"maybe schools can get some sort of signal suppressor that kills the signals ??? im not tech enuff but if possible they cud simply switch it off during breaks and lunch. Difficult one that as adults in the school grounds aren't subject to the same rules as children, plus it is diffult to supress a signal right up to the school's boundaries and no further, so nearby houses would be affected as well as businesses that rely on being contactable whilst mobile. No, commercially available jammers have been around for years and with careful antenna sighting can keep the signal blockage just to within the premises. The cell system signals are that strong that the impact of such a device is usually very localised anyway. Wolf I stand corrected. The technology has moved on somewhat lol " Well yeah... when you've got GSM, DCS/PCN, 3G and now potentially 4G signals to block it's getting to be a fairly involved device now, but not non-doable. The alternative is a spoof cell that all the phones log onto, and it offers no connection out, unless it's a recognised identity - like staff phones. As it's the closest, they'll all log onto it... that'd be peaceful... lol Wolf | |||
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"Do i take it your not a parent....you know nothing how i raise my child and im not going to explain anything to you. You take it wrong I am a parent but a responsible one who doesn't encourage my child to break rules. How you attempt to raise your child is your affair but as you brought her up in the thread and mentioned you contacted her in the middle of a lesson means people can reply. " So i take it im an irresponsible parent for contacting my daughter to inform her school seems to have misplaced her ..and school also asked if i could contact her...and previously said above we have a very ill family member so her and school know she can answer her phone wenever. | |||
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" ps. if a parent is that worried about their child arriving at school safely they'd take the kid there themselves cos if someone decides to abduct your child her mobile phone isn't going to be an effective weapon to fend her attacker off. (See my earlier post) Our daughter is due to start senior school in september so has very recently started walking to school and back on her own. Do I like her doing it, No! Do I worry, Yes! Deep down I know that a mobile isn't a magic wand or an effective weapon but it just makes me (and her) feel that little bit better. It's not always just about being concerned about abductors, it's so if she is concerned or worried about anything she can ring and ask." the bone of contention here tho is not about using them going to or coming from school ... it is about them being allowed to use them whilst in the classroom... and the answer from me is a definite no | |||
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"Well yeah... when you've got GSM, DCS/PCN, 3G and now potentially 4G signals to block it's getting to be a fairly involved device now, but not non-doable. The alternative is a spoof cell that all the phones log onto, and it offers no connection out, unless it's a recognised identity - like staff phones. As it's the closest, they'll all log onto it... that'd be peaceful... lol Wolf" Seems a no-brainer to me then. I wonder if anyone has had a word with the EA about this (spots business opportunity in the offing) | |||
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"Do i take it your not a parent....you know nothing how i raise my child and im not going to explain anything to you. You take it wrong I am a parent but a responsible one who doesn't encourage my child to break rules. How you attempt to raise your child is your affair but as you brought her up in the thread and mentioned you contacted her in the middle of a lesson means people can reply. So i take it im an irresponsible parent for contacting my daughter to inform her school seems to have misplaced her ..and school also asked if i could contact her...and previously said above we have a very ill family member so her and school know she can answer her phone wenever. " Is it your responsibility to check she is actually in the classroom she is supposed to be? NO that's the job of the school and they could have checked. Were you right to call her mid way through a lesson? Well you don't really need me to answer that do you. Most would have told the administrator in the school to do their job, check timetables and go and visuals look. Relying that someone is where they say they are is hopeful at best. What astounds me is that you assumed your teenager would have their phone on in the middle of a lesson and says oh so much about teaching teenagers to respect school rules. | |||
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" ps. if a parent is that worried about their child arriving at school safely they'd take the kid there themselves cos if someone decides to abduct your child her mobile phone isn't going to be an effective weapon to fend her attacker off. (See my earlier post) Our daughter is due to start senior school in september so has very recently started walking to school and back on her own. Do I like her doing it, No! Do I worry, Yes! Deep down I know that a mobile isn't a magic wand or an effective weapon but it just makes me (and her) feel that little bit better. It's not always just about being concerned about abductors, it's so if she is concerned or worried about anything she can ring and ask. the bone of contention here tho is not about using them going to or coming from school ... it is about them being allowed to use them whilst in the classroom... and the answer from me is a definite no" I also agree that they shouldn't be used in school. Like I mentioned in the first post. Was just replying to part of Wishy's post about taking your children to school if you are that worried. | |||
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" ps. if a parent is that worried about their child arriving at school safely they'd take the kid there themselves cos if someone decides to abduct your child her mobile phone isn't going to be an effective weapon to fend her attacker off. (See my earlier post) Our daughter is due to start senior school in september so has very recently started walking to school and back on her own. Do I like her doing it, No! Do I worry, Yes! Deep down I know that a mobile isn't a magic wand or an effective weapon but it just makes me (and her) feel that little bit better. It's not always just about being concerned about abductors, it's so if she is concerned or worried about anything she can ring and ask. I understand that. My daughter takes her phone too even though she knows if the school catch her using it in the school grounds she loses it until the next half term. They even have on their website that they categorically refuse to get involved with irate parents demanding their child's phone is returned. I've also told her that if it ever happens I'll cancel the contract that I'm paying even after she's got the phone back." Her school also has a similar thing on their website. She would also be in bother with us if she was found using it in school hours. | |||
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"I did tell them to go look,but she was taken out of class to go along to a interview with ofsted by the deputy head as they are wanting feedback from the children.And once more FOR THE RECORD her phone is on silent as we have a very sick family member so yes i assume her phones on cos she was.told to leave it on.And also said previously she doesnt txt or ring in class its there for emergencies but you cleay seem to have taken it upon yourself to assume i have a disrespectful daughter and im a irresponsible parent for contacting her EVEN THOUGH SCHOOL TOLD ME TO...." My child is told to have the phone off in class as its respectful to do so and complies with the rules. If I need to contact them I contact the school and do not disturb the classroom. My farther is terminally ill but even so I would not be so presumptuous to think that we are a special case and exempt from the school rules. As for contacting well the teacher who was supposed to be teaching her would have known where a child was if taken out of class. You seem intent on justifying that children should have phones on in classrooms for some reason, its a shame you do not give the teachers who are teaching your child the full respect they deserve. | |||
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" My kids school they are allowed to carry them with no responsibility taken for their loss or damage from the school and they must be off during class. " Are they allowed to have them switched on in the classroom then? | |||
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"Listening to Radio and they are discussing whether they should be banned in schools, i dont think thats a bad idea. What do you think? Do you think there are places they should be banned? " in our house | |||
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